Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

bubbajack · Unread post by **bubbajack** » Mon Feb 27, 2012 3:46 pm

Yes, I agree with the all of the foregoing from my wise and kindly colleagues ... but ooooh!

the image of you fucking Marcus and his friend nearly to death on the boat trip

... omigod! It's permanently in my brain and I love it still

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Mon Feb 27, 2012 6:06 pm

Wow, I dont know what to say?? Thanks everyone! You make me feel so appreciated.
Hornedhubby, I will admit, I was guided by some of you.
It was always my choice and I enjoyed so many of the suggestions over the years.
But this is my time now!
I am excited but patient.
I have been texting D tonight, but last night I ignored his request to answer a particular question he asked.
Hubby wondered why I wouldnt text him later last night!
I told him that D believes that I am cheating on"you" and I will not be available all the time to him.
I told hubby that D has to wonder and not have his way with me all the time.
I told hubby that I needed time with him too/ and that D will ever be allowed to manipulate my thought and actions.
I feel in control for the 1st time ever as a hotwife!!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Mon Feb 27, 2012 6:15 pm

Yipes... Watch out!

Morgan · Unread post by **Morgan** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 1:23 am

BallSpanking wrote:Yipes... Watch out!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 5:13 am

Hubby is so funny!
All night he was curious and sitting near me as I watched the Bachelor!
I know what he was up to; as I was texting D!
Hubby doesn't like not knowing/ Not being in control!
I wonder how this makes him feel?
Not knowing what D and I are talking about!
I'm feeling very sexy again!
Xoxo

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 8:04 am

It makes him feel anxious, horney, and keenly aware he does not own his wife's pussy!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 12:09 pm

You're so right on BS xoxo

Aynsley · Unread post by **Aynsley** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 12:09 pm

I like the 'cheating wife', angle.
I can think of a few scenarios where THAT could be fun.

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 12:14 pm

Aynsley,
Hubby's only request is that I play that angle as a cheating wife!
I love knowing that D thinks I'm cheating!
I told hubby that once things progress w D that I will have hubby run into us at a bar or restaurant!
I plan on introducing hubby as a friend from work or something like that!
I wanna see "that" look on hubby's face as I leave a room with lover in tow!
Knowing that hubby can only watch is wife and wonder what's gonna happen next to me!

Aynsley · Unread post by **Aynsley** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 12:19 pm

Another possibility:
you could introduce (after a while) Mr. R. as your hubby,
and 'tell' Mr. R. (faking it) that D is JUST a friend you know from 'X'...
...thereby playing with D.

If D's Hot now, just imagine after he meets Mr. R., and he thinking that he's
cheating AFTER he's met the hubby.

54321 · Unread post by **54321** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 3:11 pm

Now which scenario is the HOTTER? Ooh, it's a tough one.

I think I prefer Mrs Reese's plan - sorry Aynsley.

But maybe we could have a poll? What does anyone else think?

Ballspanking, JGrahame, Bubbajack, you must take a view on this one!

54321

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 3:21 pm

I think it's entirely Ms Reese's call.
She is calling the shots, and it will be her affair, run her own way.

I don't know D, but I do know Mrs Reese loves particularly the early parts of a seduction where there is the thrill of feeling a new man inside of her. I think she will have these experiences in the way and the manner she decides will most enhance her enjoyment (as should be).

But to the extent she wants to keep Mr Reese out of it, and in the dark about it, until she chooses to share some of these moments with hubby, I think the 'cheating' charade fits like a glove.

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 4:36 pm

Guys.....SHE want to cheat!! Even though Aynsley had some fun scenarios....I think she WILL cheat on me.
We've talked for a while about just "her" and what she wants to do.
She feels pressured when I am with her....and a need to perform!
Cheating right now...that turns her on!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 4:39 pm

I guess you will be getting the occasional 'creampie surprise jubilee' every now and again...

hornedhubby · Unread post by **hornedhubby** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 7:38 pm

Just be a good boy and serve your Queen, friend Reese. Can you even imagine a hotter wife?

bubbajack · Unread post by **bubbajack** » Tue Feb 28, 2012 8:44 pm

Dear Reese,

I think your wife, who is the sexiest woman on Earth, is going to see to it that you are kept in a state of intense sexual desire for her and even more intense sexual enjoyment of her for as long as you can bear it. How do I know this? She has proved it beyond any doubt over a long time and with boundless inventiveness.

The only interruption (other than to let you rest a little now and then

) was for taking care of a complete idiot who was out to do her harm for no good reason.

All I can say is Hang On, friend - you are in the presence (and at the mercy

) of true Hotwifing Genius!!

Unread post by **jane** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 6:43 am

it's good to see you back.

i was worried about you.

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:34 am

Thanks Jane!

Bubbajack, I luv ya!!

So I think that I will be visiting "D" on Friday night at a cozy jazz bar.
I think I want hubby there before I arrive.
But I will have no contact with him.
Hubby understands that once I feel comfortable, I may leave with "D" but hubby has to stay there!

54321 · Unread post by **54321** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 10:11 am

Now JR,

Where's the fun in that?

54321

PS. I think the difference is that Mrs Reese is calling ALL the shots. Hee Hee!

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 12:38 pm

Hey guys.....Please read this!!!! I want you to understand something that I thought was lost within me!!

We do enjoy reading the comments...it feels like we all are connected.
Funny thing is that over the years I always felt that I could rely on our friends here!!
It makes a hotwife husband feel connected and NOT alone!!

I talked to my wife today...and this is what we have brewing:

She is rewarding me more or less on being a good boy..lol!
She knows that this is a huge adjustment for me...NO control!!

It is a helpless feeling!

My wife will give me a token glimpse of her encounter with "D" on Friday night!
We've talked about how lonely it feels...the helplessness...the angst...when she leaves me while I am in the presence of her and her lover.
That is my reward I guess!! WOW!

One more thing that I would like to share......
I am leaving on a business trip soon....and I asked my wife what she plans when I am away.
She told me that it would be as prefect time for her and D to spend time together one on one if things progress like she assumes they will!
She told me that they discussed my upcoming trip and remember that D believes that she is having an affair...so this works perfectly in their plans.

But I have forgotten that gut wrenching feeling....I almost became numb over the years as my wife started slowly as a hotwife and soon became everyones slut.....even mine! I expected more wild and kinky behavior from my wife and that "erotic rush" leading to orgasm required more stimulus...more wildness as I searched for my "sexual nirvana!"

Over the past few months..we changed...I changed....Like a drug addiction and then intervention and "cold turkey" I have not had many hotwife thoughts for a while! I went from sex or orgasming 3 to 5 times a day in my addicted hotwife reality-fantasy world to maybe orgasming once a day...whether is was jacking off to Kate Upton or Jennifer Aniston...lol....but I adjusted...and coped...and changed for my wife!
I had to control my hotwife addiction...and I did!
So maybe this is a reward...allowing me to watch her on her initial date...or maybe it's my wife's way of keeping me near her...but one thing that I know is that she definitely is calling the shots....and she is more passive and reserved...more selective and patient as she moves back into her hotwife lifestyle!

As I close this post...I just want everyone to know....that feeling of helplessness is back..that worried, am I doing the right thing by asking her to be a hotwife feeling is back! That internal burning sensation that starts in your stomach is back.....everytime I think of my wife texting D or thinking about him brings back all those feelings that I thought went away!!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 1:13 pm

I think a better question is, are you willing to deal with that so Mrs Reese will be happy?

But it seems the answer is clearly 'Yes'!

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 6:29 pm

Yes BS, hubby needs me happy!
And that means I get to do what I want whenever I want without his interference!
xoxo

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Feb 29, 2012 7:49 pm

mrs_reese wrote:Yes BS, hubby needs me happy!
And that means I get to do what I want whenever I want without his interference!
xoxo

Can you be more specific, Mrs Reese?

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:17 am

BS,
Good Morning!

When I say that hubby needs me happy; all I am trying to say is that I hit the emotional wall during Christmas!
I was finished with being a hotwife!
But over the break, we compromised!
I admire hubby so much because he is the type of man who can make adjustments so easily!

We agreed to take it slow again; to let me make all the decisions!

I want to be more discreet and play the cheating wife role which makes me feel the naughtiest when I am a hotwife!

xoxo

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:26 am

It's time to talk about "D"
We have texted like forever now!'
I feel really comfortable with him.
We have only kissed a lot over one fascinating weekend/ and real quick in his hotel room, he kissed my beautiful boobies for a few seconds, but I was with many girlfriends who were roaming the hallways of our hotel so it was a quickie!

He is really cute, very funny and i guess I can say that I like him a lot!
That may be trouble for hubby!!
I usually fall in love with my men/ not a husband love feeling but in love with their sex over me!
But with D, I am getting this feeling that I will really like him a lot once we are together.
Tomorrow!!! I am nervously excited!

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