I do still have a bi-curious side, so if a single woman were to bubble up and want a FMF threesome, we’d be open to that. But otherwise maybe swinging would be the place to invest our energy for a bit.
Fortunately, my wonderful husband had already been chatting with some prospects and had introduced me to them. Rick and Amy (not their real names) are in their early 40’s, fairly new to the lifestyle, and quite attractive in the photos they posted on their profile. I don’t want to assign any motivation to my husband, but I think the prospect of playing with the beautiful redhead may have pushed him to suggest this couple to me.
We chatted a bit on kik but the conversation was a little bit tricky. English is not Rick or Amy’s first language, and while they are fluent English speakers they don’t enjoy writing as much. They wondered if we might want to meet for coffee to get to know each other in person instead.
It seemed weird to meet up with people that we had hardly talked to, but it also seemed like not a huge deal. We were just having coffee. If the fit wasn’t good, we’d know pretty quickly and there would be no harm done. We agreed and set a time and place.
We all arrived in the parking lot around the same time. We hugged hello. Amy was as gorgeous as her pictures promised. She was wearing heels and was almost as tall as me, so I’m guessing she’s 5’6 or 5’7 flat footed. She has red hair and creamy skin. Her body is curvy but slim…with a round ass and full breasts.
Rick was tall. Probably 6’2 or so. He had curly brown hair and nice eyes. His body was quite trim and he had a very charming smile.
Our conversation that first visit lasted 45 minutes or so. It was comfortable and refreshing. They asked if we were married and how strong our marriage was. They didn’t want to play with cheaters or get in the middle of any sort of drama. We asked about their previous experiences and any rules they might have.
We shared that our only real rules are that the men wear condoms, and that no one sneaks around on their spouses. We want everything out in the open. They agreed and said that they require that everyone be healthy. They were also open to non-sex, one-on-one dates for people to get to know each other. We said that would probably be ok with that, although I said I’d want to text a bit more before I went out in public somewhere with just Rick.
We also shared a few stories from our past. Rick said that he had sometimes struggled with jealousy watching Amy with other men. He worried they were bigger or better than he was, but now he just likes watching her have fun. Adventurer shared that he has never had problems with the sex part of my hot wife lifestyle, but he did have to deal with jealousy he felt about the emotional connections I build with people.
Amy and I shared what we enjoyed about being hot wives (she plays solo just like I do). We also talked about our previous swinging experiences.
Amy asked if I was into girls at all. I admitted that I am curious but not very experienced. She said she is in the same spot but thinks it would be very erotic to kiss me for awhile to break the ice before we turned to the men. Our husbands agreed that that would be VERY agreeable to them.
I told them the story about my first hotwife experience and how I ended up giving a blow job to someone on a trail in a park. Rick caught my eye and gestured to a table near us. An older man was listening to our conversation. Rick blushed in embarrassment but I said that I didn’t care. I didn’t know that guy and maybe it would inspire him to have some fun with his wife when he got home
We all had to get home to our kids (theirs are similar in age to ours). We walked back to our cars and I gave Amy a hug goodbye. Then I hugged Rick. He leaned in for a kiss instead. It caught me by surprise…but I like kissing
So when the kiss ended, I kissed him a second time. He’s a very good kisser.Behind me, I heard Amy say “Oh, so we are kissing are we?” and she kissed Adventurer.
We said goodbye for real this time and Adventurer and I debriefed on the way home. We both really liked this couple. The kisses were fun and made us want more. Plus we liked their vibe and the way that they respected their marriage first and foremost. We could picture playing with them.
In our limited swinging experience I’ve learned that swinging is more “fun sexy” than “passionate sexy.” It is entirely different from being a hot wife. With this couple, I think we could have a lot of fun.
We chatted via text a bit more over the coming week and Rick and Amy asked us to come to their house for drinks the following weekend. I was a bit nervous about it being at their house, but we all agreed that there would be no expectations. We could play it by ear and see what happened.
The big day arrived. Adventurer and I drove to their house. On the way, my nerves were getting the best of me. What if they had video cameras secretly set up to record us? What if they wanted to play in separate rooms and Rick wanted to do something I didn’t? What if I changed my mind altogether?
Adventurer held my hand and eased my worries. He reminded me that there was no pressure and no expectations. He would be there. We’d see how the evening went. And if, at any time, we wanted to leave, we would leave.
We arrived and rang the door. Rick let us in. He took our coats and I gave him a hug. He squeezed my ass a bit before he let go. We handed him the bottle of wine we had brought and he showed us around a bit.
Amy came to say hello too. She was sexy! Fishnet stockings, a short black dress with a deep v that showed off her cleavage. I would have felt self conscious in my more chaste outfit (a form fitting sweater dress and stockings…so sexy, but not quite as revealing), except that I was distracted by how excited Adventurer was at the thought of playing with her.
We were surprised to discover that one of Rick and Amy’s kids was still home. We were introduced as “mommy’s colleagues from work.” Amy went to get their son settled in another room, Adventurer asked to use the restroom, and Rick pulled me close for a kiss in the kitchen. He was hard against me and I laughed at his eagerness.
We had drinks in the living room and chatted for 30 minutes or so. I was sitting next to Adventurer on the couch. Rick and Amy were sitting on chairs across from us. Amy told us that their son was going to head to a neighbor’s house for a movie night soon. So we chatted about g-rated things for a while first.
Once their son left, we started to talk more about sex. Amy asked if we would prefer to play in the same room or separately. We said we’d be more comfortable in the same room. She asked if we were nervous. I said that I’m always nervous in situations like this. It isn’t a bad nervous, just an uncertainty about what to expect. They reminded me that there are no expectations.
I decided to take the bull by the horns. I got up and took Rick’s hand and asked if he wanted to sit next to me on the couch for a bit. He smiled and followed me. He put his hand around my shoulders and played with my breast a bit. I put my hand on his thigh.
Adventurer went over to sit by Amy. He told her how gorgeous she was and she got up to sit on his lap.
Rick whispered to me, “She’s not wearing any panties.”
As Amy straddled Adventurer, I saw that was true. I smiled because I knew he was going to have a good time. She straddled his lap and began to kiss him. His hands were touching the creamy white skin of her ass.
I began to kiss Rick. He put my hand on his cock and told me he was hard for me. His hand slid up my dress and rubbed me a bit. I told him that I’d take off my stockings. I decided to take my dress off too and kneeled down in my bra and panties to undo his pants. I took him in my mouth and heard Amy and Adventurer getting up behind me. She was leading him to an upstairs bedroom.
Rick was undoing my bra as I sucked his cock. He asked if I wanted to go to a bedroom. I agreed. I assumed we’d follow our spouses upstairs, but he led me to the downstairs master instead.
I was a bit nervous. This was a family home so I wasn’t too worried about hidden security cameras, and our conversation seemed to indicate that Rick was a decent guy, but I still didn’t really know him well. If he wanted to force something that I didn’t, he was big enough to overpower me. I tried to push those thoughts from my mind.
I asked him if he had condoms in the room, or if he wanted me to grab some from my purse in the hall. He kissed me and said that he had some, but he hadn’t worn a condom in four years. He was clean and I could trust him. I reminded him that this was one of our rules and that we had talked about it the previous week. He said ok. Then he kissed me and tossed me on the bed.
I kind of liked the aggression, although he still hadn’t pulled out any condoms. He kissed my breasts and ran a hand over my body. I reached down to stroke him. He was no longer erect. He apologized and said that my bringing up condoms had gotten in his head.
I told him not to worry. These things happen. I moved down to take him in my mouth. He moaned and seemed to enjoy it, but there wasn’t much of a physical reaction. He got up and suggested that I move my head to the edge of the bed. He stood next to me. I took him in my mouth again and he had more control of how he thrust. He also leaned down to finger my clit a bit.
There was still not much of a reaction from his cock. He said that he was just really stuck in his head because of the whole condom thing. I tried straddling him and grinding against him as we kissed, but he suggested we go upstairs and join our spouses. Maybe that would help. Since I wanted to be there anyway, that seemed like a great idea to me.
We found Adventurer and Amy on the bed in the guest bedroom. She was sucking his cock. Rick led me to a loveseat in the corner and I took him in my mouth again. He called his wife and suggested that she and Adventurer play beside us. Then he suggested that maybe we switch partners for a bit.
I’m not easily offended, and I also know that performance issues are harder for men than women in these situations. If his wife could make him more comfortable, that was fine with me.
I happily kissed my husband and he took me over to the bed. He leaned me back and used his expert tongue on my clit. It didn’t take long for me to cum. Then he slid two fingers inside me. I was so wet that you could hear it across the room. I made eye contact with Rick as Adventurer made me cum again. He was watching me as his wife sucked his cock.
I looked in my husband’s eyes and asked him to fuck me. He said that he would love to, but we should probably get back to our friends.
We went back and first I helped Amy give Rick a blow job. We alternated sucking him deeply as our hands stroked and passed him back and forth. Rick fondled my breasts and told me how much he loved them.
Then we did the same for Adventurer, sharing his cock between us. At one point, Amy climbed on Rick’s cock and I kissed a tattoo on her hip and fondled her breasts.
My girl-on-girl experience is limited, but I really enjoyed playing with Amy’s sexy body.
Rick told me he was ready for me. We swapped partners again. I deep throated his cock for a bit and he groaned as he hit the back of my throat. He asked me to come to the bed with him.
He leaned down to kiss me and his hair flopped forward. I like playful sex, so I ran my fingers through his hair and told him that I liked it. He smiled and said I was supposed to say how much I liked his cock.
“I like that too,” I responded, but felt like he kind of missed my playful point.
In the end, I’ll say that things were a bit awkward. Eventually, Rick suggested that we give our spouses some space. We went down to the kitchen. He brought me a robe and we had a glass of water and talked about our plans for the weekend. He told me that he sometimes struggles with new partners. It takes him a couple of times to get hard and orgasm. I told him it wasn’t a big deal at all. I had enjoyed myself.
He commented on the size of my husband’s penis (which is rather girthy) and I agreed that I’m a lucky woman. I also said that penis size isn’t everything. When Adventurer and I play, he frequently makes me cum with his tongue and his fingers before his cock ever enters me. Rick said that he doesn’t really like to use his fingers. It seems dirty to him. Amy doesn’t like it either. He also isn’t bit on performing oral sex.
Upstairs, we could hear our spouses moaning. At one point it sounded like they broke the bed! They eventually joined us with smiles on their faces.
We had another drink together, then Adventurer and I got dressed and went home. We debriefed in the car. I’m still not sure how I feel about it.
I like Rick and Amy as a couple and I totally understand performance issues. At the same time, I really don’t like how he completely disregarded my request to play in the same room our first time, and that he was so pouty about wearing a condom. If I’m going to play with someone, I need to trust them to listen to me and respect my wishes.
In the car on the way home, Adventurer and I debriefed. We commented on the fact that sex with each other is easy and natural. After 20+ years together, we know each other’s bodies and it just flows seamlessly. Sex with new people takes more work. Plus, we like oral and fingers!
We chalked this up as a fun evening and are trying to decide if we want to try again (with them or another couple). In terms of adventures, this was a good one and we have no regrets.
