My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[Tracey52]

Great post Des. Eric’s stay had to finish on an epic high. What a great outcome that you could spend the time with Sherry. Lovely description of your time together with her. I’m very grateful that for once you didn’t hold back on your description of your adventure. Actually liked that more than the recounting of Gigi’s night. Making Sherry come 4 times by my count, you legend. I wonder how often that happens to Sherry particularly with Beau. You know what they say if extramarital sex wasn’t better then there would be no point doing it.” That applies when you’re the extramarital partner as well. I think everyone lifts their game in that situation.
I wonder if Eric’s home family will notice any difference in Eric and if they comment to Gigi. Certainly let us know if they do. I expect Gigi may be a little melancholy tonight. Look after her.
Finally, I hope posting directly from your journal becomes the norm. I love the length (pun intended).

[Scotch98]

Just an awesome update Des and I love you copying and pasting entries from your journal w/o a lot of editing. Your description of you and Sherry together was nothing short of phenomenal. I love the detail as you know. Sounds like you will be having more alone time w/ Sherry on the near future. Love that Eric will be fucking Sherry soon. That just opens up all sorts of scenarios in the future. Looks like a stellar year shaping up for you and Gigi.... All the best to you and Gigi....Cheers

[Des 31]

I really enjoy your journal entries when you are fucking another woman and you take the time to describe it in such good detail!!! You will very much enjoy it as well when you are much older and Gigi is still fucking other guys but you are having difficulties performing with women. As you know, every guy reaches that point at some time in his life. I wish I had thought of that years ago when Vixen and I were much more active. But at least I have a good number of pics that I hold dear!!! I never hear of you taking pics of your or Gigi's sexual fun. I would think that is something that would certainly be a part of your journaling.

I think it is so hot that Sherry invited you over and that she and Beau have been talking about the two couples switching and fucking without the spouses there. I'm guessing that will likely lead to Beau and you sleeping over with the other's wife till the next day. Maybe even a weekend sometimes, but that is a bit of a reach, even for me. I can see a possible threesome with Eric and Gigi and Beau and Sherry in some manner, maybe they will end up swapping partners one evening when you're invited over to play with Sam!!! Just kidding but my mind shifts into sexual overdrive sometimes when I can see a full spread (bad word for this I guess) possibilities. Who knows, maybe that same thing will take place with Mr. Boss and his wife. Anyway, I'm glad to hear that you are finally getting the benefits of being a patient and loving hotwife husband for these several years!!!

Rascal

Thanks for the comments, Rascal and all. I hadn't thought about including the remarks about taking photos when Gigi is being fucked or at other times. I may have mentioned in passing here but don't recall doing that. The pics I have taken are almost all at random moments when she doesn't know I am doing that from a doorway or from screen images on our home security cams. Almost all are cropped without her or another's face when I submit avatars here. She doesn't like posing but has done that two to four times in the past. Her boss has taken at least two pics of her but those were with her own camera, so he didn't keep copies. Other guys have asked, but she hasn't felt comfortable with others having those with them. That one today was blurred a bit either because of because of rapid hand motion or the zoom lens.

Gigi has been in threesomes and foursomes in the past as recorded here over time. It isn't a stretch of the imagination for Eric, Beau, and Sherry. She has mentioned that to me as being likely. Samantha asked just this week if Gigi and I - or just Gigi - would be interested in going to dinner with her sometime soon. Gigi asked if she thought Samantha has a hidden reason for that and I responded with a "maybe." She said if Samantha does, Sam would have to make all the first moves or implications before my wife would consider it. She thinks she would go along with it but would wait and see what and how it comes about. I have come to accept anything's possible. Sam has told me privately she has had sex with other women; she says probably 90 percent of nude dancers, as she once was, and other adult entertainers become bi over time if they don't already have a bent toward that.

I'm aware that guys eventually perform less and less over the years as you mentioned, whereas most or many women may not. We have talked about that. Gigi says she can keep me entertained in other ways if and when that happens to me. Other guys can fill in for me. That doesn't sound bad at all...

Des

[rascalnvixen]

Des, I'm very sure you will be taking care of business for a long long time to come!! (or is it appropriate to use the word "cum" in this situation?) hehehe!

Rascal

[Asterix42]

With the exception of three days and nights when either was otherwise occupied, Eric’s cock has been driving through her cunt multiple times each day. His dick rarely deflates after he has ejaculated. Of all her guys I have known, he may be the only one I know who I think could service a harem in a night. Neither seems capable of keeping their hands off the other.

Hey Des. What happened to last month's discussion about Gigi's guys’ extensive demands on her time, and her spending more time with you?

HI Asterix42 . . . I wrote about that above but can understand why it may not have been noticed. Check out the second paragraph above at the bottom of that (long) January 7 post (titled "Catch-up Remarks," .) I had added some updates that have since come about to tell about a few other things that have come about lately. With all I had written, that bit of info is almost buried. That's my problem when I post these long messages, which in this case was a copy-and-paste job from my personal journal, so it wasn't edited down for brevity.

She is winding down on that and by the time Eric moves back in with his host family in a week, things will be calming down in that way. (Not that I think she will suddenly be a monogamous wife - Nothing that drastic is likely.) Thanks for writing, Asterox...

~ Des

Good to hear that all is well Des!

[Tracey52]

I take it that’s Eric in the avatar? Athletic fellow. Gigi is looking like a sweet ride by the way. For a cougar. Just saying.

[Des 31]

A question in postings by some members that comes up now and then is the number of men with who our wives had sex before and/or during the marriage. We also have received similar inquiries here in occasional private messages.

My wife and I are each unsure about the number. During the earlier two - maybe three - years, I hadn't posted every instance in my personal journal. Her first extramarital experience came about when she was 27. Their hookup was on just one night when the two of us met him casually in a lounge and he came back to our apartment with us that evening. They didn't get together again for the reason the man was in the process of transferring away. I had been trying to get her to do that for months, but at that time she told me she didn't think she was ready to have sex with others and probably would never repeat the experience of that first night.

After another year or so of my ongoing encouragement, her libido took over and she began fucking a coworker for about three months. After that, she was eager to continue meeting others. That's a complicated story but, for those who haven't followed our history, it's recorded here in our thread. At the outset, she was seeing most only for one-night-and-done or for relatively short times. I then referred to her preference in ever-changing partners as "variety."

After about two years, she and I lost count of the guys who had fucked her. Most during that time were brief encounters and neither of us thought to keep a list. She is now 35 and has come to prefer being with the same men in ongoing relationships than just one-or-two night dates. The emotional bonding that comes about in longer relationships is more satisfying for her and the men who fuck her.

We learned over time all her extramarital affairs have an expiration date like a warranty on a kitchen appliance. The men move away, get married, become engaged, or drop off the radar for various other reasons. Gigi now dates five regular guys at varying intervals as her and their time allow. I don't know the exact number of men who have fucked her, and my wife's and my separate estimates aren't even close to the other. I think it could be as many as 90. She feels sure it's no more than 50 - "probably far fewer," she claims but cannot recall the names and faces of some during our earlier years.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Nice quick update, Des!!! In my mind Gigi's number of men she's fucked is about 142!!!! Of course that may be skewed a bit due to my strong attraction to her and replaying many fantasies of being with her soooo many times that I just get confused between the fantasy and reality of her experiences!! All kidding aside, I don't really care how many is her "number", I just would LOVE to be able to add myself to the list!!!!!! And I don't mean that in a superficial way. I know she and I share many interests that would allow us to become great FWBs!!!!

Ok, I now return to the reality of my situation and allow you all to enjoy your own thoughts of Gigi!!!

Rascal

[Des 31]

Nice quick update, Des!!! In my mind Gigi's number of men she's fucked is about 142!!!! Of course that may be skewed a bit due to my strong attraction to her and replaying many fantasies of being with her soooo many times that I just get confused between the fantasy and reality of her experiences!! All kidding aside, I don't really care how many is her "number", I just would LOVE to be able to add myself to the list!!!!!! And I don't mean that in a superficial way. I know she and I share many interests that would allow us to become great FWBs!!!!

Ok, I now return to the reality of my situation and allow you all to enjoy your own thoughts of Gigi!!!

Rascal

Thanks.... I'm sure your interests would coincide.

I sometimes suspect she is refusing to remember them all. She refers to her way of life the way it now is as "serial monogamy." And that's okay with me. It sounds right.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

She refers to her way of life the way it now is as "serial monogamy." And that's okay with me. It sounds right.
~ Des

With her description of how invested she is in the man that is fucking her at the moment, such that she loses her sense of time and her surroundings/people, that would seem to be a very accurate viewpoint!

So, I do have a question, as always!! How did you come to be on this website?? What were you looking for and when did Gigi become aware of it and her thoughts about it in the beginning??

Rascal

[ericsacto]

Interesting analogy about the expiration date of a warranty. What is the longest relationship Gigi has had with one of her guys? Do you think the relationship lasts longer if they have more in common than just sex?

[Des 31]

She refers to her way of life the way it now is as "serial monogamy." And that's okay with me. It sounds right.
~ Des

With her description of how invested she is in the man that is fucking her at the moment, such that she loses her sense of time and her surroundings/people, that would seem to be a very accurate viewpoint!

So, I do have a question, as always!! How did you come to be on this website?? What were you looking for and when did Gigi become aware of it and her thoughts about it in the beginning??

Rascal

We were here at OHW about two years before this thread began. Because other members requested we post our updates in one thread to make it easier to find, I started this one.

I don’t recall where I first read about it as probably the best of websites for our interests, but began checking it out on my own. By that time, my wife had been fully on board after about two years experience with dating others. I asked her to read the hotwife section a few nights. She got around to perusing them all the boards here over maybe a week's time and considered our experiences most closely associated with this group. I recall her mentioning some entries in the cuckold board at this website could fit us but most seemed to include humiliation and male impotency as a more central theme.

She opined she and I had learned a lot over the previous couple of years and some of our experiences might be helpful to others considering this way of life or already active. I thought so too and began writing about many of those I thought might be of interest to at least a few. She was, and is, aware but mentioned concerns that we might be identifiable by any we know who might stumble across any contributions offered. Soon, she began recalling others she has met in her field with similar or almost exacting backgrounds and descriptions. At first, I had changed what she and I did for a living and a few other details, but we decided almost everything about us could fit hundreds or more couples. What you read now is us.

There are a few reasons I cannot mention that wouldn’t bother either of us if someone did realize who we are or where we live, but we see no reason to reveal those reasons or certain, very specific things about us anyway. So all that’s contributed here is as accurate as feasible. On occasions she has considered I said too much, I had to change a remark or two now and then. That’s usually why you might notice a change here and there in these writings. And sometimes, I’ll alter a write-up just to state it more clearly than the first time I hastily posted it.

That’s the short version… Thanks for asking. I had considered mentioning that here numerous times but came to think those comments wouldn’t be of interest to others.

Interesting analogy about the expiration date of a warranty. What is the longest relationship Gigi has had with one of her guys? Do you think the relationship lasts longer if they have more in common than just sex?

Hi Eric. Yes I do. Not all know what’s she is like at the core because she doesn’t go out of her way to irritate others. That isn’t just with sex partners. Gigi has acquaintances with different outlooks on life, but she doesn’t consider them to be what most would call “friends.” She doesn’t care to socialize with them when unnecessary and wouldn’t her choices for sexual relationships. Over the past few years, there have been a few guys she misjudged but, when soon after realizing they were not what she thought, she moved on amicably.

The longest of all her relationships - aside from our marriage - is with her boss, now going on four years. But that also will come to an end when he and his wife move back east at the end of this year or the beginning of 2023. Two others have gone on as long as three years (Beau is one, the other moved away almost four years ago.)

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Des,

Thanks so much for filling in the story of you and Gigi!! It really does give a sense of knowing you guys better and makes you feel more complete in my mind when I read your posts, that I can understand your viewpoints better. If there was one thing I could wish for in this thread, it would be that Gigi would, from time to time, maybe once a month or so, jump in here and make a few comments from her thoughts about all of this. All of this meaning the lifestyle and her adventures from her perspective. I think it would be good to know her a bit better from her own comments. Just a wish, not a need or demand. Since a LOT of what we talk about here centers on her, I just sometimes wish I had a better understanding of her in my mind. Not asking for pics here or anything that would be too revealing of identity, just a casual comment on her thoughts. I feel like I'm digging a hole here and can't stop digging!!! I hope you and she can understand my meaning in these comments. Whew!!! I'm gonna stop now!!

Rascal

[6inches]

Des i'm guessing you mean 2023 instead of 2003, for the boss. Always enjoy your writings take care,


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[Tracey52]

I agree with rascal. I really enjoyed it when Gigi posted while Des was overseas.

[afagehi7]

Des - you're saying that you don't care if someone figures out who you are? Did I correctly read that?

If I was boss man, I don't think I'd want to move away and give up the top tier premium pussy. I suspect there will be some travelling involved...

[Des 31]

Des i'm guessing you mean 2023 instead of 2003, for the boss. Always enjoy your writings take care,
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Thanks, 6. I did mean next year and changed it after reading your response. That’s what happens when I’m typing fast and don’t look back at my responses…

Appreciated that.

~ Des

Des - you're saying that you don't care if someone figures out who you are? Did I correctly read that?

If I was boss man, I don't think I'd want to move away and give up the top tier premium pussy. I suspect there will be some travelling involved...

I did mean that, but cautiously. For personal reasons, I can’t post here or tell others our reasons for our security should that come about, but we would rather it not. I'm sure some will wonder about that remark and perhaps I shouldn't have written it, but no one but us knows. It's a personal security matter.

You may be right about her boss, but he has a great opportunity to supplement his retirement when they for semi-retirement in his wife’s hometown. That’s another reason I consider him to have married the right woman…. Thanks for writing.

~ Des

(And to Rascal – I’ll talk to my wife about that…)

[rascalnvixen]

I got pretty busy this afternoon and had to leave quickly before I could ask about another circumstance. So, when Eric departed the house to return to his sponsor's home. How did Gigi feel about his departure after he was gone?? I can only imagine that she was a bit disappointed even though she knew this was coming. How long did it take for her to feel normal again without him there? How about you, Des, how did you feel after his leaving? Any contact with Eric since he moved back?

Rascal

[6inches]

Des,
I agree A little imput from the Hottie would add some spice to the posts, and i think some of the Avatars you post of Gigi, are great!!! Maybe a censored picture of her from time to time would be cool.

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[Des 31]

I got pretty busy this afternoon and had to leave quickly before I could ask about another circumstance. So, when Eric departed the house to return to his sponsor's home. How did Gigi feel about his departure after he was gone?? I can only imagine that she was a bit disappointed even though she knew this was coming. How long did it take for her to feel normal again without him there? How about you, Des, how did you feel after his leaving? Any contact with Eric since he moved back?
Rascal

Hi Rascal…

The results of Eric’s departure surprised me. I suspected she would be emotive about his moving back with his host family, but that didn’t happen. I could answer in one or two sentences but a back-story might make sense about what happened.

As it turned out, Eric was the more emotional. I asked her how their last night went for the two of them. She had a lot to say but essentially her response can be summed up in a few words. Gigi has been through this before. I can recall only once did she indulge for an extended time in recollections about missing a guy. He too was younger and was the second guy she met through her personals ad when we started down this path. After they had been having sex for around three years, he moved to Seattle to accept a software position and finish his last year of school. The two remained in contact by phone and email, which probably was another reason he was often in her thoughts.

We later flew up to attend his graduation and they again had sex at that time. I think I included that in this thread but if not, the story was in a separate posting before beginning this thread. He had matured even more than when he had been attending school here. Gigi had been noticing changes during his time in our area, but he had changed in many ways that past year; and in some ways, so had my wife. After that, the two were fully recovered from their infatuation. They still correspond now and then through email and a couple of times a year by phone but no longer with sexual comments or remembrances.

He’s now married and he and his wife are open to each other about past sexual experiences. He once wrote my wife to inquire if she would object if he told his wife about Gigi and his past. She opined it’s best to be honest with a spouse about everything. He wrote back his wife was fascinated he had a long-term affair with a married woman who had her husband's approval. She reportedly said that was the “coolest” story she had ever heard. Sometime later, his wife asked his opinion about how well that would work for their own marriage. She isn’t yet ready, perhaps for the reason they haven’t yet been married long enough for the marital sex to cool off. But she says she’s willing to date others whenever they mutually agree the time has come.

The most interesting part to me was something I wouldn’t have anticipated. He is almost four inches shorter than my 5’11” wife but often said he had come to like tall women. Gigi thought at the time he was being polite, but the difference in height enhanced a feeling by both as mom-son sort of relationship between them. The woman he ultimately married is an inch and a half taller than him.

That, and other men who have fucked her, seems to have inoculated her against breakups. “It’s all part of life,” she said.

To your point about Eric - Having his dick inside my wife almost daily was a near-addictive thrill for her. But given my wife’s past experience, it wasn’t as difficult for her as I assumed. She said as much as she enjoyed her time while he was here, she knew from the outset he was here temporarily. She kept that in mind during his visit and has often remarked to me that all her extramarital relations relationships have come to an end for a variety of reasons. She responded to my question, “It would have been nice had he stayed with us longer, but fretting over his leaving won’t change the way things are.”

For Eric, it wasn’t that simple. I’m told on their last morning in bed, tears came to his eyes. He said to her he couldn’t recall ever being that sad since his faithful dog, a golden retriever, passed away when Eric was around 14. I thought that to be an odd analogy but understand what he meant. Gigi told him there’s no reason they can’t stay in touch and he was pleased with that.

But there was a follow-up. Last weekend, Gigi phoned Eric to invite him to our home two days ago if he was free. Her bank and the local university he attends were closed Monday for the holiday. My office was not, so I wasn’t home. They were fucking from late morning to mid-afternoon. I didn’t ask for details of their time together but am told he didn’t display his emotions as on his previous night at our home. I’m sure they will be getting together again but not as often has when he was staying with us.

Whenever that may be won’t be this weekend. Beau and Sherry will be here overnight Saturday. As for Gigi’s reaction about Eric, she shrugged and said, “Stuff happens. Regrets are like worry and fear. They’re of no use because any one of those doesn’t change anything.” I've heard that from her before, so I should have expected it. Her often-stated attitude is that the only way to take care of a problem is to actively do something about it. I suppose she did that by inviting him here on their off-day Monday.

~ Des

[Scotch98]

Thanks for the update Des, I am sure Eric will calm down a little but Gigi is such a special lady I can imagine how hard it would be to "get over" her. Sounds like an exciting weekend coming up. I am sure you guys will have an awesome time and can't wait to hear about it. Have a wonderful day...Cheers

[Tracey52]

Why were you working Monday? Good grief Des. They’re going to work you to the grave. Second, what happened to you going to Sherry’s place and Beau coming to yours? Third, great post, I remember the 19 year old who moved to Seattle. Nice follow up. Very intriguing. What women wouldn’t like to fuck others if allowed?

[afagehi7]

What women wouldn’t like to fuck others if allowed?

My wife for one

[6inches]

Des,
Quick question, So I'm I understanding your last post, That Eric is now married but came to your house for a couple days to have sex with Gigi with his wifes approval?

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[Des 31]

Des,
Quick question, So I'm I understanding your last post, That Eric is now married but came to your house for a couple days to have sex with Gigi with his wifes approval?

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Hi 6 . . . Eric isn't married, not even dating other women for now. The married guy mentioned was the second guy my wife met back when she was 28, now living in Washington state. And that guy wasn't married when he and my wife last had sex. Maybe I didn't state that well - It was only included here to make some sense about an attitude my wife has developed over the years about her feelings when longer relationships come to an end. She shrugs it off and doesn't dwell on negative outcomes. I hadn't realized her thoughts about that until Eric moved out the previous week.

~ Des