Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[tojanman]

I excited to see how it goes tonight. It’d be cool if Ms. R inexplicably couldn’t attend tonight. Imagine if all of Mr. B’s attentions were centered on SW. Would the night end with him and SW alone in a bedroom again. Now that she’s gotten the green light from you, would more than just a boob be popped out?

[54321]

54321... I think those are a bit cucky... Unless SF wants to go cucky?

Bit cucky? Do you think? Mmm. Maybe a tad. Ah well, SF can use, discard or edit to taste, I guess.

Anyway, thanks for your comment.

54321

[superb101]

So excited for updates!

[slenderfish]

Thanks for tagging along in our adventure.

Was a fun party, we kept the guest list very limited this time because of Covid fears, etc. Some people self-limited by graciously declining, some cancelled last minute, and two were complete no-shows (including no text messages or courtesy calls).

The complete no-shows were Mr. B and his sure thing Ms. R.

The last-minute cancellations were this one couple wherein the wife had developed a messy eye infection and (they sent the food and dessert they's prepared, very courteous) and another couple wherein the male is usually doing the music (he was a professional deejay until recent years and now it's a hobby/outlet for him).

The final last=minute cancellation was SW. She wasn't feeling well so I took over her pre-party preparations, while she napped all afternoon. When it became time for her usual pre-prep routine, she kept napping. She never was able to rally to join the group. She stayed in her bedroom, in bed all night.

So I got nothing today, with respect to hotwife developments.

Some side notes:

Ms. K was invited by the guest of honor Ms. M. As such, SW made an exception and embraced the attendance of Ms. K. She is the blonde hottie who ended up on the wrong side of SW when she attended one of these shindigs earlier in the summer, for my birthday. On that night I took her hand to dance with her and she whispered to me "be careful, don't twirl me" and I acknowledged. She then added "and in no case should you dip me, because I'm not wearing any underwear." She had on a short red dress, unusually short. I quickly ended our dancing and returned her to just socializing with everyone. Later, after about half the guests had departed, Ms. K asked me about the new tequila we were tasting that night, which I shared with her and then she noted that she had not been aware all these years that we have a rooftop deck. I of course offered to show it to her, as it was a warm and beautiful summer night. We went up there and it was cooler and more quiet (away from the music) and were talking for about five minutes, when suddenly we became aware of someone coming up the stairs and naturally turned to look, to greet the person. It was SW, asking what we were doing up there.

It turns out that another mutual guest/friend was aware of Ms. K's panty-free status and had told her to ask SW for a lender panties. When that friend asked SW if she had been asked by Ms. K for panties, the answer was "not yet" and then "where is Ms. K anyway?" followed by "I think I saw her go up to the rooftop deck with Slenderfish."

So SW was in a funny position of her friends saying that "they've been up there quite some time" and she came up and, in her mind, "busted" Ms. K. as having exceed normal boundaries of a girlfriend.

Friendship over.

That's how it stood until last night, when Ms. K attended as a requested invitee of Ms. M. and SW agreed to test a re-establishing of the friendship.

My thoughts:

1) SW is not really "over" her disgust with Ms. K and that added to her disinterest in the party;

and/or

2) SW assumed Mr. B would be attending with Ms. R and didn't want to have to deal with it right in her face. Experiencing her own feelings of loss there?

It may be interesting to note that when Mr. B was tardy and even tardier, many in the party were conjecturing whether he and Ms. R got sidetracked with some pre-gaming, with Mr. B getting his "sure thing" card cashed early.

In any case, it was a lot of fun in its own right. Ms. M had a wonderful time, relaxed and was the queen bee, did three or four very sexy and talented pole dances for the group, directed the music when it needed to be sultry, etc.

I go to know a new tequila (extra anejo reserve) which is now my new favorite. There was a fun new couple who attended as invited guests of Ms. M, the girlfriend very cute and charming, and the guy is also a lover of fine sipping tequila. As noted by Ms. M they tend to over-serve themselves, which was confirmed. But they know this, and arranged a hotel in advance, just a minute or two from our house. Will invite them next time.

And I was able to enjoy the group, took more of a lead in "hosting" since SW wasn't there to do it, and was able to spend time safely reacquainting with Ms. K who is (from a man's perspective) always welcome in the sense that she is super attractive, a lot of fun, dresses just a bit too sexy, and has the smoking hot body to pull it off without effort. Men love Ms. K but women may be put off by her.

[coastalkid]

Thanks for tagging along in our adventure...............

......It turns out that another mutual guest/friend was aware of Ms. K's panty-free status and had told her to ask SW for a lender panties. When that friend asked SW if she had been asked by Ms. K for panties, the answer was "not yet" and then "where is Ms. K anyway?" followed by "I think I saw her go up to the rooftop deck with Slenderfish."

So SW was in a funny position of her friends saying that "they've been up there quite some time" and she came up and, in her mind, "busted" Ms. K. as having exceed normal boundaries of a girlfriend.

Friendship over.........

So SW doesn't see any correlation between her sleeping with but not "sleeping with" Mr. B and your rooftop deck meeting with Ms. K? SW sounds hypocritical to me and insecure. If "nothing" happened with her and Mr. B then why does she assume that you did anything?

[DavidnDaria]

We hope SW recovers quickly. These days, any illness can set off alarm bells. All the best to your wife.

Now, you've coaxed me out of my lurk-dome: What's this new tequila, if you don't mind?

[afagehi7]

Thanks for tagging along in our adventure...............

......It turns out that another mutual guest/friend was aware of Ms. K's panty-free status and had told her to ask SW for a lender panties. When that friend asked SW if she had been asked by Ms. K for panties, the answer was "not yet" and then "where is Ms. K anyway?" followed by "I think I saw her go up to the rooftop deck with Slenderfish."

So SW was in a funny position of her friends saying that "they've been up there quite some time" and she came up and, in her mind, "busted" Ms. K. as having exceed normal boundaries of a girlfriend.

Friendship over.........

So SW doesn't see any correlation between her sleeping with but not "sleeping with" Mr. B and your rooftop deck meeting with Ms. K? SW sounds hypocritical to me and insecure. If "nothing" happened with her and Mr. B then why does she assume that you did anything?

Ohhh. Cheaters oftentimes project their behavior onto their spouses... that's been said but I don't know if it's true. I'd think just the opposite.

Hopefully SF caught a good look at Mrs k's pussy. She obviously wanted someone to look.

[slenderfish]

I'm starting to need one of those 'Cast of Characters' lists they put at the beginning of the theatre program for a show!

Yes, I guess we are at that point. Probably a good sign. Here goes:

Slenderfish / SF - (me, husband)

Slenderwife / SW - (hotwife in progress)

Mr. B - Tall 6'6" former ivy league basketball guy, lives about 45 min drive south, a friend of mine and SW and she's been flirting with him for over a year

Mr. S - Dark, handsome man, lives in SW's "hometown" two time zones away, and was her first choice to match up with and check for HW chemistry

Ms. R - Recent entry, Mr. B met her at one of our summer parties, and they are now in a FWB relationship; also known as "sure thing"

Dr.. K - Longtime friend of SW, maids of honor in each others' weddings, etc. lives opposite coast, no time for socializing these days

Ms. M - Girlfriend of SW who is moving out of state, was guest of honor for party of Oct 3. Pole dancer hobby, also lap dancing. Shame she is leaving.

Ms. K - Girlfriend of SW (and Ms. M) who is like a Daisy Duke and got in trouble with SW for what we now call Pantygate.

I'll attempt to add photos to the Hotties section for each of these as may be possible.

[CarstonMathers]

Yes, I guess we are at that point. Probably a good sign. Here goes:

This is great! Thank you.

[slenderfish]

Yes, I guess we are at that point. Probably a good sign. Here goes:

This is great! Thank you.

Added photos introducing Mr. B, Ms. M and Ms. K.

[tojanman]

Thanks slender! Just got done looking at the photos and holy crap... You are surrounded on all sides by beautiful women! I’m curious to see what the “side thing” looks like compared to SW.

[solstice]

Thank you for the cast of characters, sounds a bit like the Old Curiosity Shop

[slenderfish]

Thanks slender! Just got done looking at the photos and holy crap... You are surrounded on all sides by beautiful women! I’m curious to see what the “side thing” looks like compared to SW.

Not sure if I have images of "sure thing" Ms. R. She is more of an acquaintance and is a good couple of notches below SW on the hotness scale.

I'll see what I can find.

[slenderfish]

We hope SW recovers quickly. These days, any illness can set off alarm bells. All the best to your wife.

Now, you've coaxed me out of my lurk-dome: What's this new tequila, if you don't mind?

Adictivo extra anejo. Slight notes of brown sugar/caramel/molasses about 3/4 of the way through the mouth. Reminds a bit of a rum. Smooth with a bit of heat at the end, note of cinnamon spice, a pleasant reminder it's tequila. Not in the least bit harsh, a satisfying dry finish.

Whoa!

[slenderfish]

Thanks for tagging along in our adventure...............

......It turns out that another mutual guest/friend was aware of Ms. K's panty-free status and had told her to ask SW for a lender panties. When that friend asked SW if she had been asked by Ms. K for panties, the answer was "not yet" and then "where is Ms. K anyway?" followed by "I think I saw her go up to the rooftop deck with Slenderfish."

So SW was in a funny position of her friends saying that "they've been up there quite some time" and she came up and, in her mind, "busted" Ms. K. as having exceed normal boundaries of a girlfriend.

Friendship over.........

So SW doesn't see any correlation between her sleeping with but not "sleeping with" Mr. B and your rooftop deck meeting with Ms. K? SW sounds hypocritical to me and insecure. If "nothing" happened with her and Mr. B then why does she assume that you did anything?

These two events ended up being "breakthroughs" for us, in that after SW's sleepover party I was able to finally assert two serious points:

1) If she expects me to believe her that nothing happened overnight with Mr. S despite all evidence to the contrary, then she should never bother me about pantygate again. So now she doesn't mind if I am around Ms. K, but she still remains (remained?) upset with Ms. K.

2) Her behavior in that instance was so over the line and out of bounds for any normal married relationship, that she seems to be heading toward hotwifing in one way or another, and she should finally stop denying it and instead relax and embrace it. Otherwise, it's just plain cheating even without sex.

And voila, we were and are on our way.

[slenderfish]

If you recall, my post from yesterday summarize the party and wondered about the drivers to SW's non-participation.

Was she really sick or was there something other driving it? Was it Mr. B's situation, the transition of his attentions to Ms. R? Or Ms. K's attendance? Something else?

I figured time would reveal some of the above and there was one thing that was quickly revealed in the morning. She was not sick.

She literally jumped my bones after waking up on Sunday morning, whispering in my ear while I was inside her. She breathed that her pussy remains tight right now, but after she''s "been stretched out by her bull" it will be loose and wet and full of cum. I took the bait and told her it will feel all smooth and velvety to me, and that her well-stretched pussy will be tender and will be sensitive even the next day, such that she may wake up on her own from the tingling sensations in areas that had never previously felt pleasure, and she will be driven to use her dildo to satisfy its need for attention and to re-enact her bull's lovemaking yet again.

She had two massive orgasms during this encounter. She was fabulous and chipper all day, even coming in and sitting on my lap last night while I ran through the DVR recording of the NBA game, wearing a light cover-up and nothing underneath. Very unusual for her to not wear panties even when at home, despite my frequent requests for this.

[CarstonMathers]

I know you had talked about some non-fiction books, but having SW read some new, decent hotwife fiction might add some fuel to her imagination. So I'm shamelessly plugging my book review thread: viewtopic.php?f=8&t=59780

[bradisalpha]

If you recall, my post from yesterday summarize the party and wondered about the drivers to SW's non-participation.

She had two massive orgasms during this encounter. She was fabulous and chipper all day, even coming in and sitting on my lap last night while I ran through the DVR recording of the NBA game, wearing a light cover-up and nothing underneath. Very unusual for her to not wear panties even when at home, despite my frequent requests for this.

The sign of a sexually excited.. and sexually satisfied woman with fantasy plans !! She will have a “glow” about her and very congenial.. venturing into “naughty” areas.. such as drawing your attention .. no panties (maybe competing with Ms. K ??).. etc. She is moving toward becoming a hot wife !!!

Brad

[slenderfish]

I should add that during our encounter yesterday morning, during the fantasy talk, I tested the submissive theme that we stumbled onto in a previous session.

I'll note that she has never before used the term "bull" and clearly she has been reading a bit on her own.

That is, I asked her to tell me more about her bull fantasy once she initiated it, and she said that the bull was in charge and that he would decide what to do with her. That was the "bait" I noted above and I took it.

I told her the bull directed her to get naked for him, to put on a striptease show while he remained fully clothed. That he then led her in front of him and had her kneel in front of him, looking up with her eyes and pretty face, and told her to pull his cock from the zipper of his pants, to lick it and to try and fit the head into her mouth while looking up at him. SW said that she might be uncomfortable and why would he put her in an uncomfortable position where the ground hurt her knees? I replied that he would provide a pillow for her knees and that the purpose of her kneeling is to put her into a submissive mode, to let him know he is in charge, that she is for his pleasure. He further instructed her to lick down his shaft and take into her mouth each side of his massive balls.

He then instructed her to get onto the bed, face down and ass up, in another submissive position. He kissed her little heart-shaped ass cheeks one at a time and of course teased her sensitive little pink rose bud with his tongue. When she could take no more because of her excitement, he had her turn onto her back and to open her legs for him. He asked "what do you need?" and she said she needs his cock inside of her. He leaned over her with his strong arms and kissed her mouth deeply with his lips and tongue, and started teasing her clit with the head of his dangling stiff cock while doing so. She got worked up with this teasing and anticipation, and her body so craved that big cock. He started moving the head up and down her pussy lips and once he was centered, she felt the tip of his bulb start penetrating, just barely, not enough for her. She then felt him start to enter a bit more each thrust and the pleasure was deep and intense. I told her that she then came to the realization that he was in actuality not even moving but that her body had taken its natural cue and her hips had been rising to greet his huge manhood, to initiate the penetration. Her sexual desire was now overcoming her and her hips started bucking upward to achieve the full depth of penetration and she was out of control, with her voracious pussy now driving the encounter. Her beautiful and sexy body how reaching the full measure of its creation.

Seems she really responded to this approach!

[solstice]

You have posted some beautiful photos of SW she is certainly a lady of style and has a great body, I am enjoying your reporting the conversations between you, and your fantasy talk, she does seem a handful, but you ably hit the right note with your encouragement.

[KyGrappler80]

Great info. Love seeing the pics. Your wife still the hottest and most elegant to me. The others look like a little more mileage on the tires (which isn't at all a bad thing) but I like the fresh flower about to be picked aspect of your bride. Was curious to know whether these ladies are taking pole dancing classes at a studio, or just at home?

[TheHammer]

Her response to the fantasy talk is excellent. Here are some more ideas to consider to take the fantasy talk to the next step:

The bull calls her his slut.
The bull demands she grow her bush/shave her bush. (Basically the opposite of what she sports now)
A blindfold is introduced with some spanking.
The bull wants her to have really loud orgasms.
Exhibitionism. The bull fucks her against a window or has her suck his cock in the car

You could also add more to the bimbo fantasy to tie the two themes together

The bull wants her to get lip injections
The bull wants her to go platinum blonde or red.
The bull wants her to only think about sex and superficial things around him and she needs to leave the intelligent intellectual talk at home.
The bull gets her to talk real dirty in bed.

You could also but a slightly bigger dildo to play the role of the bull and his big cock.

[slenderfish]

Great info. Love seeing the pics. Your wife still the hottest and most elegant to me. The others look like a little more mileage on the tires (which isn't at all a bad thing) but I like the fresh flower about to be picked aspect of your bride. Was curious to know whether these ladies are taking pole dancing classes at a studio, or just at home?

Hi KyG -

Ms. M became active in the pole dancing exercise rage from about 10 years ago, when living in another state. She was so into it that she became an instructor back in those days (at least that's her story and she's sticking to it).

So it was Ms. M who initiated the lap dances at one of the earlier summer gatherings, and at that time rued that we didn't have a pole. SW said we could get one, and would really push me to do so if Ms. M would agree to provide weekly instruction classes for the girls. We are in the midst of major remodel/construction and so it was no big deal to put up the pole over this summer and use the area of the house that is available but more like a warehouse at this point. And there you have it.

[slenderfish]

Her response to the fantasy talk is excellent. Here are some more ideas to consider to take the fantasy talk to the next step:

The bull calls her his slut.
The bull demands she grow her bush/shave her bush. (Basically the opposite of what she sports now)
A blindfold is introduced with some spanking.
The bull wants her to have really loud orgasms.
Exhibitionism. The bull fucks her against a window or has her suck his cock in the car

You could also add more to the bimbo fantasy to tie the two themes together

The bull wants her to get lip injections
The bull wants her to go platinum blonde or red.
The bull wants her to only think about sex and superficial things around him and she needs to leave the intelligent intellectual talk at home.
The bull gets her to talk real dirty in bed.

You could also but a slightly bigger dildo to play the role of the bull and his big cock.

Excellent list. I'll see what we can do here.

[slenderfish]

More on Ms. K and pantygate. Just because Ms. K is so freakin' hot and sexy. A hot and sexy mess, that is.

So the background is that we met Ms. M and Ms. K a couple of years ago at a wine-tasting event in our area. We'd been looking for girlfriends who live closer to us, for hanging out etc. We moved to where we are about 10 years ago and made some initial friends here, but kept close with my long-time friends from where I lived before SW moved her from NYC and we got married. It is about a 30-40 min drive from where we lived at that time.

Anyway, although Ms. M and Ms. K are longtime besties, Ms. K and SW became immediate friends. Ms. M is fabulous in her personal life, personality, career, super driven, super capable, super talented. Ms. K is more of someone who has relied on her looks and sexiness to get along, and has more free time. SW also has free time. So it worked out.

SW and I hosted a big birthday of Ms. K last year, at a local botique hotel, with about 60 of Ms. K's friends and admirers. Ms. K keeps a few admirers in her orbit, to get favors and nice dinners and spending allowances, etc. She knows how to work it in that respect. She really is like a Daisy Duke, in that she can act and sound coy but underneath she's got an agenda and is usually working an angle.

Anyway, fast forward to my birthday. It was a Saturday earlier this summer and Ms. K had been outside all day, swimming and in the sun with friends. She and Ms. M had agreed to drive to our house for our party, that was starting late in the afternoon. When Ms. M picked up Ms. K she was still in her neon one-piece with the high waist showing a lot of thigh peeking out above her white jeans Daisy Dukes shorts, and no over-shirt on the top of the suit (e.g. showing her cleavage and her breasts on display). Ms. M said there was not enough time to go home, shower, and change, and that she luckily has a dress in her car that Ms. K should wear, etc. So after a bit of squabbling, Ms. M was insistent and Ms. K went along with it. Of course, Ms. M is much shorter vs. Ms. K.

So Ms. K squeezed into the dress and donned some bright red lipstick to match it up and she entered our party with modest fanfare. The rest is in my prior post.

But after the pantygate kerfluffle, we spoke with Ms. M who provided the above pre-story. She got stuck on the part where Ms. K insisted on going without underwear, because Ms. M had clean panties and offered them to Ms. K when she was changing in the car. But Ms. K declined. I think it is this detail that caused SW to reconfirm in her mind that Ms. K had some kind of agenda.

Ergo, the damage to the friendship, basically all summer.

I told SW that I understand and support her conclusion, but that from a man's perspective it just adds to the sexy mystery of Ms. K and that she truly is a "bad girl."

That observation probably should have remained in my mind, and not spoken to SW.