Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[hwc]

Quote: Those of us who long ago followed the Eric saga...

How do I find this, any more info? thanks.

Hwc

[reese]

To all my friends.............We both thank-you whole-heartedly for your thoughts regarding this last episode.
I am to blame.........bottom line!
Not D or my HW.
I love to push buttons........in my quest for that intense jealousy that most HW hubby's enjoy when their wives are living the lifestyle..........I pushed buttons....challenging my hw. I told her that I did not think that she could stay with D for more that a few hours when we came back from our vacation. I told her how hot it would make me knowing that she is being that slutty and cheating ME of her!
We had a long talk last night....she told me that she can not do this anymore with D.
It is becoming too confusing for her.
This was the last straw......I pushed too many buttons the wrong way!
This goes against her idea of marriage and hotwifing.
WE are learning as we go along with this lifestyle.
I love the intensity of every aspect of hotwife play.
My challenge direct to her about staying with D for an extended period of time led my wife to his apt for 3 days.

When my wife came back from vacation she talked to D and she told him that she wants to stay with him for a few days.
Of course he didnt disagree.
In regards to his poker buddy coming over...my wife has complete control over that situation. She told me that she had the final say if she wanted to share a 3 some with D and his friend. She encouraged the situation knowing how much it turns ME on knowing that she is being slutty.

After some intense sex............ironically, we both agreed to let D go!
He is breaking some of our basic rules....NO feelings of love. If that happens, either one of us can tell the other that it must end. She wanted to stop this! I agreed! I am pushing too many buttons and it WILL lead to trouble!
We love each other too much to allow this situation to cause harm to our relationship.

This morning, we read all the posts from our friends that only re-assured our feelings about my wife's relationship with D.

She asked him to come over to our home this afternoon(we both are not working today....her vacation and I am taking some time off to deal with this situation)
WE both will tell D gracefully that it is time to walk away.
I DO know my wife and her strengths................she has decided to walk away from D...there is NO turning back.

My wife and I plan on spending some quality time this weekend.

WE both plan on pursuing another hw encounter soon.
We plan on going to a club soon and having her sit at the bar and have men approach her while I watch.
That is one of our favorite hw activities.
IT is time to go back to that............and it is time to leave D behind.
E is still our friend.
E is still our partner in MFM play.
D is done!

To all of our friends....................THANK-YOU!

talk to you all soon!

[wifedateshubwaits]

Reese,

Good for you both. As much fun as it is exploring fantasies and pushing the envelope, your primary responsibility is to your marriage. NEVER let anything get between you.

[kcpa]

Wow, one part of me that reads this for entertainment is sorry the D thing is ending but the rest of me is sure thats the right move.

E sounds like the right guy and situation.

[reese]

Regarding the entertainment.............We both agreed that WE will pursue this lifestyle but without a fulltime FB......we both are intrigued with the encounter.....SHE is very willing to play along as I plan out a fantasy......of course, she has the final word whether she wants to pursue an idea that I might bring forward.
We both love this lifestyle......WE wont disappoint............there is a lot more fun coming our way!

Next weekend............we are planning a night out where MILFS hang out and where young studs like to visit!
She has never been with a man in his early 20's.......she has expresssed an interest in fucking a stud who has no clue about anything but fucking a MILF!

As for D............I knew deep down that his intentions were more than he led us to believe. HE is going through a divorce....HE is a man...........and he had incredible sex with a woman who is gorgeous. SHE was very submissive to HIM b/c she knew that it turned ME on! Our test was that she didnt fall into his arms and abandon me! I won! Our marriage WON! Our love won! This was our biggest test so far as a married couple..............and our love was stronger than we ever imagined! Thank god for hotwife play.........we endured a challenge to our marriage. Most couples who are not into hotwife play will never go to the level that my wife and I shared with D in out lives.

He was a good guy...........but he was a man who wanted more from my wife.
I would have wanted the same thing!
You all dont know my wife other than in my thread...............her beauty and style is very hypnotic in a manner that will leave you in a mind altering state! NO doubt!
D entered into that state of mind.
I should know..............she has me locked in!
She is dangerous in a manner that leaves you wanting more and more and more from her.
Sex is delicious............it is body shattering............she exhausts a man because HE is never satisfied....he wants as much of her as she can give....and when she is finished with you..............it leaves you more hungrier than before.
SHE IS LIKE A DRUG............addictive!
Every now and then I have to challenge her to bring us both down to earth!

[viking68]

Reese,
I have thought for some time that you were sitting in a wading pool full of gasoline, playing with matches. I was on the verge of pming you and saying the same thing. You were playing with fire and were probably going to get badly burned. In fact I would not have been too surprised to have you post after this last episode that you had lost her. I am very glad everything seems to be working out.
I know I can’t do what you have done! It is just too nerve racking for me. It seems you have pulled it off. I tip my hat to both of you!
I do not have any idea about Mr. D’s reaction. I would watch your back for awhile. I do not think he will let go easy. I hope I’m wrong.
Thank you both for some amazing mental images and striking visuals. I wish you a great deal of love and luck as you proceed.
Thanks again,
Viking68

[voyeur]

Good choice Reeses

[mrsnvr2old]

Glad you guys are on solid ground and looking forward to future fun... Damit, no more Russian Roulette, just kidding,lol.
Hubby and i went through a similiar situation last summer and the ending wasn't pretty. My FB was so pissed off that we ended it. He felt as if my hubby was taking me away from him, go figure...And NVR2old felt the need to watch his back for awhile.
Looking forward to hearing about your future fun times.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Reese,

I'm very happy to hear you and Ms Reese have made some important decisions, I think you were wise to do so, and I congratulate you both on your willingness to confront critical issues early.

I must say I have some sympathy for D, because I can't think of a guy that wouldn't kill to have alone time with, and exclusive attention from your gorgeous HotWife..., she is delicious and tempting.
The poor guy has it offered him on a silver platter,,,m what man wouldn't absolutely 'dive in'??

Moreover, making love to a woman as sensual and hedonistic as Ms Reese must be a truly heady experience, and I can't blame a guy for losing his head...

As to Ms Reese's involvement, I think this early intensely hot fire might of spooked her a little, because she found herself involving feelings that could interfere with her marriage. A wise thing on her part to detect this and take corrective action before it causes permanent damage.

It is precisely this emotional radar a HW must develop to keep from falling in-love with a FB, and out-of-love with her husband. It sounds to me like Ms Reese is now more aware of these emotions, and will avoid them in future when a situation develops that goes too deep.

Better yet, you have both agreed not to 'throw the baby out with the bathwater'. Just because this episode proved to be too intense, doesn't mean you need to discontinue the lifestyle completely, but rather to manage it more closely, remaining attentive to your partner's feelings.

Cheers!

[BallSpanking]

PS-

I'm really curious to see som of the new pics from Ms Reese's recent HW fun..., LOL!

[reese]

I WILL TRY TO GET THE PICS OUT NEXT WEEK...SORRY I HAVE BEEN VERY BUSY...AND I AM NOT AN EXPERT ON DOWNLOADING FROM CELLPHONE TO EMAIL TO BAYIMG.
Please be patient...thanks.

Regarding D.....he called me today and thanked me for allowing him the pleasure of my HW.
I am not naive...I am keeping my eye on him.
I have absolute trust with my HW...and I do know that she will not see him behind my back..and if he attempts to communicate with her....SHE will inform me.
She has full permission to play with him again if she chooses....I am not that type of person to control her....but we do have an agreement that if she wants to be with him....I will be in the room as part of a mfm 3some.

I will keep in touch...again, thanks.

[mrsnvr2old]

Sorry for intruding!

[Softail]

Hey Reese's,

Thank You very much for the ongoing "saga". Looking forward to the next chapter. If you have trouble with "D", I have a castration pliers you can borrow.

[reese]

Mrs nvr2old....what are you sorry about? Thank-you for sharing your insight on having a fb that intruded too much.

[reese]

We had a very hot night last night.
Stayed home and watched some videos in bed..........and of course has some nice sex.
Nothing wild or kinky, just plain old fashioned sex.
How often does that happen to HW cpls?
I realized last night that is has been a long while since we just had vanilla sex!
It was actually quite stimulating...no words spoken.......no need to perform.......I was the animal last night with the sex instinct. While we were laying in bed...my wife's sexy foot began rubbing my leg.....within seconds...I crawled down to her feet and began to kiss them. Summer time foot lovers know that scent....erotic!
She was in her boy panties and bra.........I stripped her naked very soon and exploded in her within 5 minutes.
SHE did not cum!
Sometimes she likes that............raw sex........manly sex........depriving her of an orgasm drives her crazy...she will be very horny tonight........and of course, I will work harder at controlling myself before I orgasm.

Funny thing though, my wife likes that! Not all the time, but once in a while, being ravaged by her husband...animalistic raw sex!
How many of you enjoy that? It is on rare occassions that this happens....but it was HOT!

At breakfast this morning, we talked about going out to a club soon.
We also talked about my wife going to a local male strip club with her girlfriend who openly cheats on her husband.
My wife's plan is as Ballspanking suggests............paying for a male stripper as he dances for her...and bringing him home for the night........I am rock hard at this moment thinking about that possible encounter.
Another plan is for her to join a local STUD gym as soon as her job permits.

More to cum!!

[OneDayAtATime]

Suprised at the turn of events,yet when you have such fluidity about talking things out,its no wonder the best decision was made without hesitation.

Being intimate daily,as ya'll are,not once a week or month like many other couples,brings out what to do thats best.

Mixing things up works out for the most part and that keeps things fresh,vibrant,on edge and fulfilled.

MFM and rotating or one chance encounter F/Bs do keep things formal.While some choose to have a fulltime F/B and many of those couples have played a lot longer than some marriages,next time you know what to watch out for. Experience does help.

Getting E back involved is certainly an option.

The male stripper,gym stud,bar pickup and young'un who is into MILFs are just the tip of the iceberg. Those are things you can take step by step for the next few months.

Its refreshing at ya'lls humility receiving advice,whether critical or not and giving it consideration. Many in the same boat wouldn't acted so graciously.

Despite your schedules,you find the time to enjoy one another first and foremost. That has a lot to do with how much you crave each other.Some couples sometimes can't wait to get away from one another.

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like smooth sailing with the lovely Ms Reese.

I think this lifestyle suits you both. You have a deep mutual affection for each other, allowing you to be altruistic and let her go to places you can't take her, precisely because you love her and want what is best for her.

For her part, she is sensitive to your sincere desire that she really let her hair down and give it her all..., yet monitor her feelings, lest she become too needy of another man, and the ways he makes her orgasm!
And she does that, for you!
(it's also very nice for her, since she gets to try any flavor she wants..., lol!)

[mrs_reese]

I thought it was time for me to write a post.
I have been silent for a while only because I have been very busy with my life and d lately.
I have read some of the thoughts regarding my affair with d and I am happy to report that he gracefully accepted our desire to stop our affair. I do miss his sex, I miss his touch and firmness but I dont miss that confusion that I felt trying to please him all the time and worrying about my marriage. I learned a lot.
This leads me to a question that I have for some of my husbands regular readers:
Last night, after dinner, we went out to a fun martini bar. We had a lot of fun, but while I was walking to the bathroom a hot man sitting with a few of his friends stopped me and asked me if he could speak to me for a minute. Of course I was curious what he had to say, and after telling me how sexy I looked he asked if he could buy me a drink. Playfully, I told him that I wouldnt mind but he would have to ask my husband before I shared a drink with him. He was so brazen and bold that he told me that he would have an answer for me when I was finished in the bathroom. I called my man while I was in the bathroom to prepare him for what I expected to happen. He answered and told me exactly what I thought was going to happen. Thank god that my man is great at handling most situations. He handed the phone to Kevin. Asking me what I wanted to drink, I was somewhat flustered. Coming back to my seat, Kevin was waiting for me with my drink.
My man was smiling at me and made a comment that HE cant take me anywhere without a man hitting on me.
The 3 of us hit it off, Kevin was acting somewhat embarrassed after he realized that I was so into my man. I didnt want to piss off my man by acting slutty to kevin.
As kevin was about to leave, my husband asked him if kevin would like to join us one day for drinks again.
Kevin looked confused but of course didnt decline my husbands offer.
After exchanging phone numbers with my husband, Kevin left and went back to sit with his friends.
My husband told me that if I wanted to meet with kevin, I should call him this week and start my hotwife play with him.
Kevin is gorgeous, 25 yrs old, single, no kids, broad shoulders, brown hair.

My question! Is younger better? He seems like a teen-ager to me. I am only a few years older that Kevin but I prefer older men, not that husband is an old timer but he has a few years on Kevin(11).
I am nervous about calling him.
What would you do?
My husband told me how hot it would be if we started playing again and to get d off our minds.
We fantasized about playing with Kevin last night, and the thought of him really turned me on a lot.
I am just nervous that it is too soon.
Baby when you read this, I will be gone with my friends shopping like planned.
I love you, talk to you this afternoon.
xoxoxo

[roadrunner]

...
Is younger better?
...

That's for you do decide! The word on the street is that younger men tend to have better stamina and quicker recovery time. Older men have more patience and experience with the finer points of pleasing a woman. Which you prefer is a personal prefernce.

...
I am nervous about calling him. What would you do?
...

Well, I wouldn't call him myself - but them I'm a guy. I don't do guys! I'd rather call you. Or better still, you call me!

So if you wanna give it a shot, give 'em a call! There's no commitment at that point.

[viking68]

To the Beautiful Mrs_reese,

I am just nervous that it is too soon.

I think you might do well to listen to your inner self. Kick back for a while and digest all that has happened. Once you have relaxed start again. Ther are a few thousand Kevin's around.1 LOL Take your time.
viking68

[BallSpanking]

Dear Ms Reese,

You are so sweet...,
Of course you should call him.

As to your question "Is younger better", I think you will have an answer FOR US soon... lol!

No, seriously, I don't think younger is necessarily better, but it can be an indicator of stamina. It really depends whether or not he has 'the touch' to please you, doesn't it. You have a clue as to whether or not you will be sexually compatible in your own observation, you remarked "He's hot, broad shoulders, etc...", so at least your 50% of that equation forecasts fireworks, because he turns you on (if you doubt me, check your 'moisture index' when you've been thinking of him..., lol).

Now it's up to him to do something that's pleasing to you. I know he'll try VERY hard. You will enjoy it.
After all, that is precisely what your husband's gift to you is about. A loving HW revels in her freedom to explore different men, yet remains faithful to her husband. She comes home to HIM.
It is a beautiful thing.

Even if a HW is overwhelmingly attracted to another man, the truth is very few men have the self assuredness to allow their woman this freedom, and wisdom to help guide her through her adventures. Most HW's know they already has the best of both worlds.
Relish it!

By the way, in some couples the same freedom is enjoyed by men, and that too is a wonderful thing. I'm not implying this arrangement is suitable to all couples, just making an observation.

Cheers!

And have fun!


Cheers!

[sedvuslad]

Sorry to say I was half asleep when I wrote a note after your return from vacation and cancellation of D. I must've hit the wrong key, because I didn't see it appear, and have been to tired/busy preparing to fly to rewrite it.
Point is, CONGRATULATIONS on your D-cision!
Too fast, too soon, to often and for too long at a time can definitely cloud the senses, let it go further and faster than makes sense and take a good deal of the fun out of it when the lights go back on.
It is as with many things, when it becomes consuming, it has reached overload and needs the brakes put on.
Regarding new guy, I think most are hinting at giving it a little time.
Don't call him right away; wait 5, 6, even 7 or more days before you call him. Don't talk for a long time. Find out what he has in mind, and mention hubby several times in the conversation. That will make it clear to him that hubby is a major factor in the formula for you, and hubby.
Try not to plan for a play time real soon after your (first) phone conversation. Maybe talk to him breifly on the phone 2 or three times a few days apart, let him you know that you (and hubby) are interested in POSSIBLY getting together, in YOUR time and on YOUR terms.
Hubby says you are a good teaser; tease gently with this potential new playmate, keep him interested and let (make) him be patient. You will earn his respect and set a responsible tone for any future activity.
Have fun.
SEDL

[mrs_reese]

Hi everyone.
We took a break but i have to admit, without looking for it, they come to me a lot.
It must be the summertime attire. I usually wear sandals, shorts, and a tight top exposing my breasts.
My man walks around hard all the time so why not other men, right?
Something happened to me yesterday evening. I havent told my hubby yet, because I know he loves suprises.
I went to the gym for the 1st time. We set up a membership earlier this week.
I looked very hot, delicious as my hubby will tell me.
My initial visit, I had to walk through the gym with a trainer. I am allowed 3 free consultations with a trainer.
My trainer, Steve is 6'1, and huge. He is competing for a Mr. something next month. He is on a strict diet and works out daily. He is young, 25 ish.....and even though he was very professional, he told me that he would love working with me even after the 3 visit thing is over. Of course I told him that I would think about it, but I look forward to our next meeting tonight after work. He asked that I come in around his schedule if possible to better maximize my training sessions.
My hubby will read this and go crazy!

I want this hunky man already, I cant wait to spend time with him tomorrow.

[hwc]

Phew!

...Is this going to be a one on one personal trainer, mrs.Reece? and if so, is he a potential future full time boyfriend?

Hwc.

[BallSpanking]

Dear Ms Reese,

HOT!!!

As you know I sent you a little story/fantasy involving a stud trainer (or two).
My favorite scenario for a HW.

Please, please keep us updated.

Congratulations on being such a hot babe, Ms Reese.

PS-
Please tell Reese not to forget about us in the forum!

Cheers!