Figuring it out

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by hoping_she_will_1day » Sat Mar 12, 2022 4:54 pm

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Sat Mar 12, 2022 3:43 pm
This is like dangling a string in front of kittens!!!! :D :lol:

Rascal
I know, right?
Sure hope they had a great time and made a real connection. But like you said, it'd be great to see what she chose to wear to tease them with.
Our story: viewtopic.php?f=48&t=65850#p1284434

Some pics: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=65745

Married to Mrs Curious

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Mar 12, 2022 7:49 pm

hoping_she_will_1day wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 4:54 pm
rascalnvixen wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 3:43 pm
This is like dangling a string in front of kittens!!!! :D :lol:

Rascal
I know, right?
Sure hope they had a great time and made a real connection. But like you said, it'd be great to see what she chose to wear to tease them with.
Sorry. I tried to post a pic when we were heading out, but the file was too big. I'll resize it tomorrow.

Dinner was great. We met at 7 for dinner and didn't leave until they kicked us out at 11. A couple bottles of wine, some excellent food, lots of laughing as we got to know each other. There was a women's trip to the restroom where all the juicy stories were shared. There were even some goodbye kisses in the parking lot.

As for outfits, I went with the turtleneck sweater dress. I think I looked pretty good, but the other woman went with cleavage. My husband enjoyed that from across the table! 😁

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by solstice » Sat Mar 12, 2022 8:01 pm

I have searched the Hotties in vain but have not found an photo of you, but I am contented with the image you have conjured in my mind with your warm and friendly remarks, you could be a teacher, as I sit at your feet listening to your New England dulcet tone. :D

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sat Mar 12, 2022 8:09 pm

solstice wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 8:01 pm
I have searched the Hotties in vain but have not found an photo of you, but I am contented with the image you have conjured in my mind with your warm and friendly remarks, you could be a teacher, as I sit at your feet listening to your New England dulcet tone. :D
Maybe I should add the links to my signature line. Here are some pics: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=64674

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Matureone2560 » Sat Mar 12, 2022 11:12 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 8:09 pm
solstice wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 8:01 pm
I have searched the Hotties in vain but have not found an photo of you, but I am contented with the image you have conjured in my mind with your warm and friendly remarks, you could be a teacher, as I sit at your feet listening to your New England dulcet tone. :D
Maybe I should add the links to my signature line. Here are some pics: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=64674
It is a sexy array of photos you are gathering in that thread K 😀

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Mar 13, 2022 10:23 am

Matureone2560 wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 11:12 pm
It is a sexy array of photos you are gathering in that thread K 😀
Thank you so much. I wasn't planning to share photos originally, but it has been quite fun.... especially when they are well received by people like you.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by superb101 » Sun Mar 13, 2022 6:15 pm

How dd the dinner go with the other couple?

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by superb101 » Sun Mar 13, 2022 6:23 pm

How dd the dinner go with the other couple?

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Mar 14, 2022 5:36 am

superb101 wrote:
Sun Mar 13, 2022 6:23 pm
How dd the dinner go with the other couple?
It went really well. I gave a short summary a few posts above, but maybe I owe you all a longer explanation. I'll try to work on that later today if I have time. At the very least I should paint the picture of what they look like and explain why I find them so compelling.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by superb101 » Mon Mar 14, 2022 6:39 am

Sorry! I missed that post but I see it now! Thanks for sharing!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Matureone2560 » Mon Mar 14, 2022 9:05 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sun Mar 13, 2022 10:23 am
Matureone2560 wrote:
Sat Mar 12, 2022 11:12 pm
It is a sexy array of photos you are gathering in that thread K 😀
Thank you so much. I wasn't planning to share photos originally, but it has been quite fun.... especially when they are well received by people like you.
Thankyou K, that's nice of you 😊

I know you were apprehensive in the early days, but you have a sexy bod and beautiful smile, why not flaunt it on here for your friends to see 😉

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by solstice » Mon Mar 14, 2022 9:38 am

Lookingforadventure : writes At the very least I should paint the picture of what they look like.
Yes please, particularly as your descriptive powers are so engaging.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Mar 14, 2022 5:01 pm

Here is bit more about our dinner date. We arrived just before 7 and went inside to get a table. Our new friends texted that they had arrived just seconds after us. We waited for them at the hostess stand so we could be seated together.

To help paint the picture, let me describe our friends. She is tall. She was wearing heels with her emerald green dress, and was slightly taller than me in my flats. I'm going to guess she's 5'8.

She's blonde, with creamy white skin, and a beautiful smile. I really found her to be strikingly beautiful, but not in an overly "done" way. She's a natural beauty who just draws attention by her infectious and bubbly personality.

Her cleavage may also have caught my eye a few times. She is "blessed" in the breast department.

He describes himself as a nerd, which is totally my type. He's 6'4 with salt and pepper hair, a beard, and glasses. He recently lost a lot of weight, and you can tell that he works out. He is quieter than she is, but is very funny with a very dry and witty sense of humor.

We sat at a table for four – Adventurer and I on one side, our friends on the other. I sat opposite our male friend and wondered if I would be able to make him blush at some point in the evening. I like to have goals. :)

Conversation was really easy. I was learning about online gaming on one side of the table, while Adventure and our female friend decided on what bottle of wine to order.

And we had a lot of good four-way conversations as well. We talked about kids and parents, about travel wish lists and covid work arrangements, about birthdays and recent reads. Occasionally someone would make a joke ripe with innuendo and we'd all laugh.

I might sound like I'm gushing, but it really felt like we were out with long-time friends and not new acquaintances.

After four hours or so, we realized that the other tables had emptied and the restaurant was closing up around us. We paid our bill and our female friend said she had to use the restroom before we left. She asked if I wanted to join her.

The men laughed at our communal effort, but everyone knows that the ladies room is where the real conversations take place.

I won't reveal secrets here, but will say that we agreed things were going really well. She asked a bit about our previous swinging experience and if it always felt like this. I shared some stories and said that no, we hadn't had such a good four-way connection with other people before.

We returned to the table, put on our coats and headed outside. I hugged her goodbye and then hugged him. I turned around and saw that Adventurer and our female friend were kissing!

This was not part of our "just dinner, getting to know each other" plan. I laughed and said to our male friend, "looks like our spouses are kissing."

He said he'd be ok with a kiss too, so I laid one on him. His lips were soft and his beard was rather enjoyable against my face.

We finished kissing and Adventurer was still at it. Lol.

There were a couple awkward moments when I didn't know if I should try another kiss, but I also recognized that this was the first time that our male friend had seen his wife kiss another man. I wasn't sure what he was thinking or feeling. I wanted to let him process that.

Finally, the kiss was over (it really wasn't that long). We said a final goodbye and got in our car.

Adventurer smiled at me and said, "She handed me her panties while we were kissing." He held them up to demonstrate the truth of his claim.

It turns out she had removed them while we were in the bathroom together. I think I'm going to have to step up my game!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue Mar 15, 2022 3:28 am

Awesome!!!! What a great first meeting! I guess it is not difficult to tell who's driving the swing bus for that couple! Glad you all made such a great connection! Looking forward to your next meeting with them. Did you all discuss a next time??

Rascal

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Mar 15, 2022 6:52 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Tue Mar 15, 2022 3:28 am
Awesome!!!! What a great first meeting! I guess it is not difficult to tell who's driving the swing bus for that couple! Glad you all made such a great connection! Looking forward to your next meeting with them. Did you all discuss a next time??

Rascal
Thank you Rascal. I tend to be rather slow, deliberate, and cautious in my approach to this lifestyle. I find her enthusiasm rather refreshing. I think it might be a good motivator and push me a little.

We do have a tentative plan for a "next time" very soon. Since this is new for them, I'm a bit anxious about pushing things too far too quickly (see? my deliberate nature coming through). My husband reminds me that they are grown ups and are responsible for their own relationship and communication with each other.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Tue Mar 15, 2022 7:54 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Tue Mar 15, 2022 6:52 am
Thank you Rascal. I tend to be rather slow, deliberate, and cautious in my approach to this lifestyle. I find her enthusiasm rather refreshing. I think it might be a good motivator and push me a little.

We do have a tentative plan for a "next time" very soon. Since this is new for them, I'm a bit anxious about pushing things too far too quickly (see? my deliberate nature coming through). My husband reminds me that they are grown ups and are responsible for their own relationship and communication with each other.
I think your approach with them is appropriate! As newbies to all of this, they need to be careful and deliberate as you are because we all know that bad things can happen within the couple if things progress faster than one of them is comfortable with. They may well "know" about those potential issues but the real trick is will they remember that when they get excited when you four get together again!! From what you have written, when I say "they" I really mean "she"!!! :D She apparently is a personable "Go getter" and I do believe she likes what she sees in your hubby!!! You might need to slow her down a bit and watch over her just a little to help her from creating a problem with her hubby. I just hope there is not a problem there already, maybe in his sexual performance for her, thus her eagerness. (I guess you may have already had that conversation with her about hubbies.) We had a couple that "coached" us in the ways of being with others when we first started. It was a BIG help for us in understanding some of the pitfalls!! I believe a couple like you and Adventurer do have a social responsibility (of sorts) to guide them in their first encounter(s). Of course that is just mho. Somehow, I get the feeling she might be in commercial real estate or in the corporate ladder of a large firm.

Rascal

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Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Mar 16, 2022 10:50 am

Thanks Rascal. I do take the responsibility seriously. For example, they invited us to their place for brunch this weekend. I asked them what "brunch" involved in their minds. Was it just food, or something more? They then had a conversation with each other about expectations and got back to us. My biggest worry is about doing something that would hurt someone else's marriage.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by superb101 » Wed Mar 16, 2022 11:32 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed Mar 16, 2022 10:50 am
Thanks Rascal. I do take the responsibility seriously. For example, they invited us to their place for brunch this weekend. I asked them what "brunch" involved in their minds. Was it just food, or something more? They then had a conversation with each other about expectations and got back to us. My biggest worry is about doing something that would hurt someone else's marriage.
My guess is that, inadvertently, by asking that simple question, you just helped their marriage a lot! Nice work!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Mr1SexyGILF » Wed Mar 16, 2022 11:54 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Wed Mar 16, 2022 10:50 am
Thanks Rascal. I do take the responsibility seriously. For example, they invited us to their place for brunch this weekend. I asked them what "brunch" involved in their minds. Was it just food, or something more? They then had a conversation with each other about expectations and got back to us. My biggest worry is about doing something that would hurt someone else's marriage.
Well played. Hopefully literally.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Wed Mar 16, 2022 12:52 pm

Mr1SexyGILF wrote:
Wed Mar 16, 2022 11:54 am

Well played. Hopefully literally.

Mr GILF
LOL. I'll keep you all posted :)

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Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Mar 21, 2022 11:00 am

After our successful dinner together, our new friends invited us to have brunch at their place. It was something we all looked forward to with nervous excitement.

Adventurer and T (the female friend), have been chatting up a storm in the past couple of weeks. They have similar kinks and desires, and have been enjoying flirty banter. The kiss –and panty sharing– outside of the restaurant after our dinner together is a good indication of how well their chemistry is going!

C (the male friend) and I have also been chatting, but on a slightly different plane. It isn’t as if he is uninterested in the idea of swinging or playing with other people. In fact, he has a strong desire to develop deeper relationships with people, and thinks this might be one way to do that. But, he is more cautious about it.

C had lots of questions for me about my experiences, how I felt, the good and bad things that had happened over the past year, and my advice for them as they move forward.

I am a bit of a flirt (shocker!) so the exchanges did include a few photos ;) Plus, C is a handsome guy, who has worked hard to lose 70lbs over the past couple of years. I was appreciative of his photo shares, he was appreciative of mine.

I once told him that guys who are good dads are sexy. He proceeded to send me pictures of him out for a walk with his daughter. And later he sent one with him and his dog and the text, “how about guys who are good pet parents? Are they sexy too?”

So the texts were fun and flirty, but generally speaking the conversation had more of a “flirty sex counselor” vibe to it than any sort of wooing. He wanted knowledge about the lifestyle and I was happy to help. I also really wanted to respect C and T’s pace so that they would have a good experience.

I think that’s why, when T invited us over for Sunday brunch, I asked her exactly what “brunch” entailed. Was it just eating together? Was there an expectation of some play?

She said she’d talk to C and get back to me. Several hours later, they came back and said that they would be comfortable with “soft swap.”

We left it at that for a day or two, but eventually Adventurer stepped in and asked them to define what “soft swap” meant to them. We really wanted to make sure that everyone was on the same page. This time, the answer was “some kissing, some heavy petting, but over the clothes. No nudity.”

With clear expectations, we continued to chat in the days leading up to brunch. Some of it was four-way conversations about our kids, jobs, sex lives, etc. Some of it was “girl talk” about lingerie and favorite sex toys (plus a little about the husbands we love, and what we wanted for them). Some of it was one-on-one conversation with the member of the opposite sex that we aren’t married to.

I enjoyed getting to know C. We talked about hobbies and musical interests, as well as describing how we like to be kissed. He’s a very witty guy and I enjoyed the way our conversation flowed. I also appreciated the authenticity of it.

He shared that he was a bit nervous about how he’d feel watching his wife with Adventurer (C had had some mixed emotions watching them in the parking lot the week before). He was a bit nervous about being with me (he was relatively inexperienced before dating T, and hadn’t been with anyone else since). He wanted me to know that it had nothing to do with his attraction to me; he thought I was a hottie. He was just nervous.

I thanked him. And I shared that I was nervous, too, but mostly about doing anything that would hurt their relationship. This isn't a competition and there was no set way to go about it. I would be happy to go at his pace: we could just watch our spouses if he wasn’t ready to do anything, we could go play video games if he didn’t want to watch, I could attempt to distract him by kissing his neck while he was playing video games :). Whatever he needed.

I encouraged him and T to have some sort of secret word that he could say if he wanted to have a private check-in with her. He said that they would talk about that. He also said that he looked forward to kissing me again.

T and Adventurer had been chatting multiple times a day in a very steamy way. I should be clear that she very much loves her husband and is eager to see him happy and fulfilled. She just also has a strong sexual side and is enjoying this opportunity to explore it.

Sunday arrived. As we drove to C and T’s place, Adventure and I agreed to let them set the pace. I made a joke along the lines of, “Under no circumstances are you to take off your pants!”

He replied that with all that dry humping and no sex, “It’ll be like high school all over again.”

I also discussed with him my game plan. I was thinking that C might be less focused on feelings about T, if he was having his own fun on the side. And I’ve learned that good guys don’t want to be pushy or disrespectful. It often takes the woman to initiate things. I said that Adventurer should help T cook in the kitchen, and I’d see if I could keep C entertained ;)

(Stay tuned for part 2 of this story).

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Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Mar 21, 2022 1:31 pm

(Part 2)

Adventurer and I arrived, gave each other a kiss in the car and went to knock on the door. T and C let us in. We hugged hello, had a short tour of their house and chatted a bit in the living room.

After 20 minutes or so, C went to let their dog into the backyard. T said she would get working on brunch and went to the kitchen. I gave Adventurer a quick peck, and he went to the kitchen to offer to assist.

When C came back in, I gave him a flirty smile. He sat with me on the couch and I asked if he minded if I scooched close to him. He put his arm on the back of the couch and told me to slide over. We cuddled for a bit and made small talk.

Then, taking the bull by the horns, I asked if I could kiss him. He smiled and agreed that that was a great idea.

The kiss was soft. C has a beard and I enjoyed stroking it a bit as I kissed him. His hand was caressing my arm and my leg. I think it surprised me a little how good of a kiss it was. He pulled me close so that our bodies were pressed against each other.

“I think we should always offer to let other people cook,” he said to me with a smile, his hands stroking my hair as he gazed into my eyes.

I pointed out that there weren’t a lot of cooking sounds coming from the kitchen, either, so I wasn’t sure that much cooking was going on. He laughed and said he was ok with a late brunch. Then he kissed me again.

Our tongues played a little, and our hands got a bit more greedy. I do really like kissing!

Eventually, Adventurer and T began to bring food out to the dining room table behind where C and I were kissing. We’d break our kiss and give them a guilty smile over our shoulders. Then, once they’d left, we’d kiss again. I said it reminded me of being caught by my parents when I was making out with a boyfriend.

When it was time to eat, we all moved to the dining room. We ate a great meal together and enjoyed the conversation. T pointed out that my chest and face were rather flushed. She wondered if I was having a reaction to the food.

Adventurer set the record straight, “Nope. That’s just how she looks when she’s really aroused. I think she enjoyed kissing C” (How embarrassing!).

After brunch, C and I cleared the table and worked on the dishes while Adventurer and T went to the living room. We talked about real estate and home renovations, but could hear kissing sounds happening in the other room. It was funny to be on the other side of the situation after our earlier shenanigans.

When we had finished, we went back to the living room. Adventurer and T quickly disentangled themselves and sat up. The four of us chatted again for a while. The conversation was easy and light, but not really sexual.

At some point, I said that we shouldn’t stay long. We had an hour drive to get home and would have to make dinner for the kids, etc. There were nods of agreement.

I worried that maybe the experience hadn’t lived up to people’s expectations. I turned to C and said, “Can I kiss you again before we go?”

That seemed to unlock a whole lot of sexual energy. C and I were on one end of the L-shaped sectional and Adventurer and T were on the other. As I was kissing C, there was the sensation of the kissing itself, but also the auditory sensation of hearing our partners making out nearby. It was sexy and a bit surreal.

I will relay a bit from my point of view. Kissing C was passionate. He kissed my neck, exactly where I had told him I liked it. His hands were stroking my leg and groping my butt. I may have moaned a little. My hand was in his hair pulling him in deeper.

It was also surprisingly intimate. He was wearing a button down shirt and at one point, I ran my finger along the collar to the top button. “I’m really tempted to undo a button,” I confessed.

He told me that I could, but I said that I’d be good and respect the rules. I mostly did :) I will admit, however, that sometimes a finger would slip between two buttons and stroke his skin.

We looked over at one point and saw T straddling Adventurer on the couch. She had lost her sweater and was wearing a red lace teddy underneath. The thong of it was visible above her jeans.

“How do you feel about that view?” I asked C.

“I don’t mind it at all,” he said with a smile, “But I kind of prefer this view right here.” He stroked my hair and looked into my eyes before kissing me again.

C’s hand slipped between my legs and he cupped my pussy through my yoga pants. He asked if that was ok. I smiled and said that it felt really good. He began to rub me a bit as he kissed my cleavage. I closed my eyes and let myself enjoy it. Soon, I felt myself orgasm.

C kissed me on the lips again and my hand found his erection. I stroked it through his jeans a bit and asked him if that was ok. He assured me that it was more than ok. His hand cupped the side of my breast and his thumb grazed my nipple through my shirt. I told him that I was being a very good girl and obeying the rules, even though what I was feeling in his pants was very intriguing to me.

I think that’s around the time that I decided to straddle him. I took off my outer sweater because it was getting warm. Then I slid my leg across his lap and allowed my yoga pants to make contact with his jeans. My breasts were filling out my tank top really well and were right at his face height. He smiled like a school boy in a candy store. His hands grabbed my hips and guided me a little as I began to grind against him.

I leaned down to kiss his forehead and then his lips. Then, I decided to just enjoy the feeling. I sat up and leaned my head back. I moaned as I got into a good rhythm. I smiled down at him and told him that I was going to make myself cum. He told me that I was a very good girl and I should cum for him. For some reason, I found that really arousing. The “good girl” language or the way he was looking at me, or maybe the combination. In any case, I came quickly afterwards.

I leaned down to kiss C again, then climbed off his lap and snuggled with him for a bit as we watched our spouses. At this point, T’s breasts had come out of her teddy. She was moaning as Adventurer kissed her neck and fondled her breasts. It was sexy to watch.

As we took in the view, C’s fingers were absent-mindedly stroking the skin of my stomach where my top had ridden up a bit. I looked up at him and kissed him as I told him that it felt nice.

“I really want to go under,” he confessed. His fingers teasing the waistband of my yoga pants.

“You may,” I said with a smile. He didn’t take any more convincing. His hand slid underneath and I felt his fingers make contact with my clit. I could hear how wet I was. We kissed as he rubbed me to orgasm, and then he slid a finger inside me.

I was kissing his neck and whispering in his ear as he fingered me. “That’s it. Just like that. Please don’t stop. Please don’t stop.” He didn’t. And that led to yet another orgasm for me.

I thanked him. I also told him that, at this point, I felt like I was allowed to undo one of his buttons…rules be damned. He laughed and said that was only fair, he had, after all, just gone into my pants. I undid the top button and kissed his chest. I sucked one of his nipples into my mouth and then moved to the other one. I also asked if it would be ok if I ran my tongue over his jeans. He nodded.

I smiled up at him as I teased his erection with a long, slow lick. It took amazing willpower to not undo his belt and take him out. His head was leaning back and he was making the sexiest sounds.

I went back up to kiss him and let my hand tug at the bottom of his shirt. I found his stomach and stroked it, sliding just the tip of my fingers beneath his waistband.

At some point, Adventurer and T had moved. She was now laying down on her back. Her head was against my hip. Adventurer was kissing her and had his hand in her jeans. I reached over and fondled her breast. She smiled up at me and reached her hand to play with mine. I kissed C again. It was a tangle of arms and hands, and it was wonderful. T came hard.

Eventually, we all came up for breath. We reminded ourselves that Adventurer and I had planned to leave an hour ago. LOL. We got prepared to actually leave.

“Before we go, K said she really wanted to kiss you,” Adventurer said to T.

I laughed because I didn't think I had actually said that, but T didn’t care. We gave each other a nice, deep kiss as our hands explored a bit. I cupped her breast and groped her ass. She put her hands in my hair and pulled me in deeper.

Our men had adjusted where they were sitting so they could get a good view (OK, I’m projecting. In truth, Adventurer was kissing T’s neck and C had moved behind me to stroke my back….but they were also getting a good view).

T and I each took turns kissing each other’s breasts. We agreed that we’d need to explore more girl-on-girl interactions the next time we got together.

That’s about it for our brunch date. I think everyone had fun, and we MOSTLY obeyed the original rules. :) The poor men didn’t quite get the release that the women did, but that was dealt with a bit later.

I am left with a couple of thoughts to ponder. First, I was surprised by the intimacy and tender moments I had with C. That’s usually my biggest disappointment with swinging. The sex is fun, but always leaves me feeling somewhat empty. This was not that. There was a lot of eye contact, gentle touching, and cuddling. I really enjoyed the connection.

It was also my best experience with a woman so far. I think it helps that neither of us has any real experience, and we are ok with just figuring it out while our husbands watch. It was fun and playful without any pressure.

Oh and C and T both said that they had a great time. They debriefed with each other and are figuring out what they want next. So "yay" all around.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by solstice » Mon Mar 21, 2022 3:21 pm

I think your soft swing was as sexy to me as the account of a hard fuck, but then you told of it with such elan and with the detail I love. the small talk set the scene, and was likely to encourage him to go further, although his wife helped by setting the pace. I have read your thread several times and it is still fresh and simulating.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by eventfire » Mon Mar 21, 2022 4:33 pm

I'm staying at an Airbnb tonight. I normally am pretty reserved in case there are cameras about. After reading this I had to tap into my exhibitionist side...

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Mar 21, 2022 4:38 pm

solstice wrote:
Mon Mar 21, 2022 3:21 pm
I think your soft swing was as sexy to me as the account of a hard fuck, but then you told of it with such elan and with the detail I love. the small talk set the scene, and was likely to encourage him to go further, although his wife helped by setting the pace. I have read your thread several times and it is still fresh and simulating.
Thank you. I discovered that "soft swap" can be quite fun 😁

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