Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[reese]

Hello old friends!
The prolonged absence has been too long!
Update:
My wife decided a while ago to stop all activity.
She was basically burned out!
She felt like she needed to perform for others or myself.
We decided to re-focus on our marriage.
We emphasized marriage, friends and family.
I'm not sure how long we've been away but I can honestly state that I need this therapeutic moment as I express my thoughts today.

Please read carefully to the following information!
I've basically let go of all Hotwife thoughts and desires.
I I am a master at placing all my feelings and thoughts in separate compartments.
As they say, " men are better at compartmentalizing!"
Oh every once in a while I'll fantasize about my wife cheating.
But all the past..... The higher blood pressure- major heat beat and twinge of jealousy feelings have left me. I feel no more passion from those moments when my Hotwife was heavily involved.
I went through a seldom depression. Losing that angst was like losing a part of my identity.
Sex became boring. I have one of the hottest wives a man could ever wish for and I blamed Hotwife play for damaging my sexual psyche.

Moving forward..... Over the past few months I've delicately informed my wife at the most opportune moment how I missed our bond when she was a Hotwife.
I would leave it at that though as she would usually never respond to my comment.
Recently...... Things have changed!
She asked me my birthday wish for this year.
I told her that I wished for her to have an affair!
She told me "we'll see!"
A classic line that she will use when something is about to happen.

3 nights ago, she called me and told me that she would be home late.
My heart felt that familiar twinge.
I knew something was up.
I must leave now.
Work calls!

I Really need to discuss what happened later that night!
Soon, I will be back!


I'm back..... I edited this post.
Mrs Reese texted me and quoted as follows...
"I am having a drink at the bar with a new friend, I'll call you later!"
That meant.... She met someone , on her own!
I had No clue!
Honestly, I felt that excitement.
I wanted to call her but didn't.
About 2 hrs later she called me from the restroom telling me this guys been coming into work and talking to her often. He mentioned that he was searching for ideas on furniture.
Wife asked for his number and told him she'll call him with ideas.
This was a few months ago.
They've been texting often and finally he suggested she meet him for dinner drinks 3 days ago.
It was a casual request.
My wife hurried me off the phone and told me that she'll call me later.
I was back!
It only took that phone call to find those lost Hotwife angst feelings again.
I was nervous, excited and apprehensive.
I learned one thing though ...,, my wife was 100% done with Hotwife play because I was full of crazy ideas and pushed her to the point of no return!

My wife arrived home about 230am that night!
Amazing!!!
She went back to his house.
Kissed..... Both naked on his living room floor. She told him no sex... He kissed her breasts while he jacked off on her belly.
She was fingering herself!

She also told me how exciting it was for her to make this happen for "us!"
I asked her to describe to me how he looks.
Her response.... He's gorgeous, yummy
6'4 240ish muscles beyond belief!
I asked how big he was.... She said,
And I'm quoting, baby no offense but he's huge, very wide and longer!"
I'll be back again!

[BallSpanking]

Mr Reese!
It has been ages!

Thank you for posting and letting us know you both are well.

I am keeping my fingers crossed that you get your birthday wish, but I think you are very conscious that mrs Reese doesn't like feeling like she is "expected" to do something.
That is understandable, but if a delicious opportunity should cross her path, she has your encouragement to "jump" on it ...

Please give her our warmest regards (if you feel that is appropriate, you don't want her to feel pressured by the expectations of others), and pleeeeeease keep us posted!!

Oh, and Happy B-Day, Mr Reese...
May ALL your wishes come true.

[starbuckslvr]

Thanks for the update and for sharing this new development.

[reese]

Mr Ballspanking,
Hello again.
I edited my post.
I wrote about the night!

[reese]

This thread is so old I wonder if I should start new because I need some help....
Can the group please help me with a question.

My wife wants to tell her friend that I know all about her playing and that she does this for her and I.
I told her that some men freak out knowing the husband is involved.

Personally I've gone from peeping tom to sitting watching to joining in to cuckold to setting up the date to finally...... Having my wife control her own destiny!
I enjoy her being alone now.... And coming home for me to reclaim her.
While we've been inactive for a long time.... And as much as I'd love to watch this incredible beauty play with her lover, it's he most amazing torment for me not knowing.... Waiting for her to come home and tell me about her night!

What works best in your opinion?
I understand that everyone is different.
But I'd like to hear what you have to say!

[Mr1SexyGILF]

As much as I'd love to watch this incredible beauty play with her lover, it's he most amazing torment for me not knowing.... Waiting for her to come home and tell me about her night!

What works best in your opinion?
I understand that everyone is different.
But I'd like to hear what you have to say!

Mr Reese

I think you answered your own question. Yes, every couple is different and the model that you two agree is best for you is what you should use.

Don't you dare start a new thread. Your amazing story is one of the two classics here, that continues to evolve and withstand the test of time.

I am so happy for you both, that the vanilla stretch appears to be over. My vote is that she succumbs to a classic/American, cheating (in appearance to him) affair.

Mr GILF

[reese]

Mr1sexyGILF
Thank you.
I appreciate your kind words as well

[KyGrappler80]

Proof of life. Welcome back. Formerly jrgraham.

[reese]

JrGraham- KY
Awesome to hear from you!

[Morgan]

As much as I'd love to watch this incredible beauty play with her lover, it's he most amazing torment for me not knowing.... Waiting for her to come home and tell me about her night!

What works best in your opinion?
I understand that everyone is different.
But I'd like to hear what you have to say!

Mr Reese

I think you answered your own question. Yes, every couple is different and the model that you two agree is best for you is what you should use.

Don't you dare start a new thread. Your amazing story is one of the two classics here, that continues to evolve and withstand the test of time.

I am so happy for you both, that the vanilla stretch appears to be over. My vote is to that she succumbs to a classic/American, cheating (in appearance to him) affair.

Mr GILF

I agree with everything said above.
Let your wife and her fellow alone, be a silent conspirator and enjoy her pleasure from a distance.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Mr Reese,

Definitely thank you for posting further.

You are right in saying many guys freak out if a woman admits to being a HW.
On the other hand, they are not put-off if the woman says she is in an open relationship, or if there is a "don't ask/don't tell" policy at home.

But if she wants to let her lover know that she has the freedom to do as she wants (and not consult her husband), she can say you travel a lot, and have all of the above in your marriage dynamic.

Mrs Reese is so outrageously sexy, she will for sure make him very hard, and will rock his world!

I hope he rocks her world!

Don't be surprised if she comes home late soon and sits on your face, demanding you clean her up, maybe even placing you on a restricted pussy diet (as in oral only).


You might want to subtly imply it would be much more fun for them to go bareback, so there is time to get an all-clear HIV/HPV... I remember Mrs Reese adored swallowing her studs' loads.

[reese]

I think I'm gonna learn how to be patient.
She's different now.... It's all about when she wants to... She will never be forced...
She will never be told to fuck somebody!
It think she's absolutely over the adventure of crazy encounters and is just searching for one person with whom she can play with from time to time.
Im back to catering to her every need and since this past Wednesday, we've had sex 4 times and I've jacked off many more times. It's like unbelievable how awesome
This can feel again!

[BallSpanking]

LOL!

You can suppress and suppress a kink, Mr Reese, but they tend to be hard wired.

[reese]

Mr Ballspanking- you are so right on!
What is wrong with me? Lol

[BallSpanking]

BTW...
If you asked about starting a new thread, clearly you are free to do so, but this thread is LEGENDARY, and the more chapters you add, the more instructive it becomes.

[bash 44]

BTW...
If you asked about starting a new thread, clearly you are free to do so, but this thread is LEGENDARY, and the more chapters you add, the more instructive it becomes.

Agreed!

[reese]

Thanks for your input Mr Ballspanking and bash44

[reese]

Last night my wife elaborated on her night with her new friend. Ironically I have no clue who this man is.
He's a muscle guy with a huge cock too big for her tiny vagina, words of my wife.
He has blue eyes and blonde hair.
Yummy.... Again quoting my wife.

She told me that when he jacked off on her stomach, that was so damn hot for her!
I listened..., with a huge hardon.
She was too sore for sex bc she said the first time we had sex after her adventure, I came in her deeply, and her pussy is too sore.
I'm thinking to myself.....
I'm a nice size, but if this guy is larger and wider than me.... Ughhh!
I'm gonna be cucked again real soon!

[BallSpanking]

Some guys have all the luck...

[CuckPride]

I'm truly jealous .

[reese]

It funny you say that.... This morning I was cutting grass and I was thinking to myself,
No matter how many times I put this Hotwife fetish to rest and bury it deep within my subconscious.
When it resurfaces and appears again, there is no greater joy for me than knowing my wife is one of the most beautiful woman i will ever lay eyes on... She is too perfect for one man... And knowing I share her... Knowing she wants other men to complete her life.... But also knowing that she is my wife... She loves me more than any lover... She she plays to allow me to experience the greatest sensation I've ever felt on a continuous basis( when she plays).
it's Just awesomeness bro!!!!

[CuckPride]

Very beautifully stated.

[reese]

Thanks cuckpride
Do you still enjoy the Hotwife play?

[Mr1SexyGILF]

It funny you say that.... This morning I was cutting grass and I was thinking to myself,
No matter how many times I put this Hotwife fetish to rest and bury it deep within my subconscious.
When it resurfaces and appears again, there is no greater joy for me than knowing my wife is one of the most beautiful woman i will ever lay eyes on... She is too perfect for one man... And knowing I share her... Knowing she wants other men to complete her life.... But also knowing that she is my wife... She loves me more than any lover... She she plays to allow me to experience the greatest sensation I've ever felt on a continuous basis( when she plays).
it's Just awesomeness bro!!!!

And with this eloquently stated assessment, another page is turned on one the greatest threads on OHW.

Mr GILF

[CuckPride]

I'm actually a single cuck wannabe in my late twenties. I'm in school and have been too focused on my studies to enter into a serious relationship. But I hope my love life will become more interesting in the near future.