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All has been quiet. My wife told me J is out of town again with his kid.
Back later in the week.
She won't text or call him during this period.
My wife and I had a great discussion about this past weekend.
I'll keep it to myself until things open back up with J

You are a lucky guy Mr Reese, Mrs Reese is awesome!

I look forward to things getting back on track with your wife and J.

Thanks Ballspanking and cuckpride.
We talked again last night.
She told me that she thinks of him often, mostly wondering how his cock would feel inside of her.
She told me that when he comes back from vacation she'll probably wait a few days, and probably have a few drinks and text him only to answer his question in another manner.
She believes a cheating wife freaks him out!
She's gonna tell him that we have an open marriage.
She's free to choose who she wants whenever she wants!

It's fantastic that you're both continuing to discuss hotwifing.

Hmmm...
If that were me, having a date with Mrs Reese... I wouldn't be waiting on no green light...

Reese, do you still have pics of Mrs. Reese in the hotties section?

Red skull I'm not sure they may be deleted
I'll try to post one

reese wrote:Red skull I'm not sure they may be deleted
I'll try to post one

I still remember one that was taken from underneath.

Missed you guys and so glad you are back.

To know you are happy and well is quite enough for me,
but to learn that more erotic adventures
are in the pipeline is an exciting bonus. Go Reeses!

Every good wish,

54321

54321, thank you for your kind words!

I'm still deciding what I want to do.
This is all mentally exhausting, feeling like I have to perform.
I haven't been on this site because I don't want to get caught up in the hype.
Hubby requested that I post a pic and I did!
But playing again, I had to deal with hubby's super charged sex drive again and at times it's quite frustrating. He wants sex all the time. He talks all the time about the possibilities.
I told him I was gonna post this on the thread and he told me to feel free to talk about this.
I want to ask all our friends, how do we balance a normal life and occasional play when there is a husband who is intense and crazy when I play?
I don't like who he becomes and he knows that.
We stopped for over a year.
Our marriage was normal and amazing to me.
I decided to play again for his birthday wish.
Now I'm wondering why I ever thought I'd suprise him.

it's strange how that works. it can be out of our system for a while, but then it can get kind of crazy again.

Hi Jane.
I missed talking to you.
I know, can we ever get this out of our system?
Honestly, I think I could live without this.
But hubby's so damn influential, he starts me up again and I find myself enjoying the attention and hotties.

mrs_reese wrote:Honestly, I think I could live without this.
But hubby's so damn influential, he starts me up again and I find myself enjoying the attention and hotties.

I really appreciate you sharing your wide range of emotions. I'm still a wannabe, but I can understand how this fantasy can quickly become an obsession.

My wife is at a crossroads.
I'm being patient and not pushy..... Unfortunately she knows me well....
I'm obsessed with this lifestyle.
It's extreme hate and love!
The mechanism has been activated/ I can't help myself!
This sucks!
But I want to share this thought, I've had personal experiences with friends and addictions- I used to be that guy who could never understand how that particular disease effected their lives so much that they were not who they used to be. They were slaves to their addiction!
I understand now.... How helpless you feel!

Pardon me for comparing serious addictions to a Hotwife addiction but it's the closest thing I could think of to analyze how out of control I feel at times!

Whether it's an addiction to drugs, alcohol or hotwifing, if it disrupts your life and jeopardizes your personal relationships it's not to be taken lightly.

Good point cuckpride.
I think everyone can agree that living outside vanilla relationships ... It's hard to find a balance.
Reality vs fantasy mixes things up in a marriage.
Crossing lines, taboo behavior, pushing limits , battling psychological restraints, mental manipulation to feed the brains LUST for more stimuli.... It's out of Control at times!

Self-awareness is very important, as it allows you to reflect on your own behavior and make the necessary adjustments.

Burn-out can happen, and does happen.
Probably both you and Mrs Reese got burned out from the intensity of HW'ing.
I know for Mrs Reese it was the loss of control over her own body that was troubling.
In a way, a HW can become a sex-symbol, or object of a sexual fixation for one or more men,
once that happens she has to struggle hard to retain her sense of personal identity, and not
feel like a fuck-toy to be passed around.

Conversely, if Mrs Reese finds that the seduction of a potential virile bull is fun and challenging...
That is a delicious thought.

I want the benefits of my new friend's attention and body.
Yummy!
But I'm not sure if I'm ready for hubby's intensity and persistence.

I hope you can both achieve the balance in this lifestyle that you're looking for.

However you decide to go, please make sure you squeeze every ounce of enjoyment out of it... guilt free!

mrs_reese wrote:I want the benefits of my new friend's attention and body.
Yummy!
But I'm not sure if I'm ready for hubby's intensity and persistence.

Can you explain exactly what you mean? Persistence in what exactly. Intensity how so?

Hubby becomes so pre-occupied with me when I play.
He can not focus on anything but me.
Yes the attention is nice but he is too intense, he'll constantly talk about me and him and what we feel, think and desire. It's all the time. He wants sex all then time. If I'm too sore than he will find ways all the time to masterbate while using a part of my body. It never stops!
Once that switch is turned on the only way for him to control himself is for me to turn it off.