Do you regret hotwifing after you cum?

[geoffrya]

like I would say 99% of men regret it in the first few times after she was fucked , I know I did !!! but only after I had cum my self often from just watching without touching my self
I learnt that not ejaculating when she was with someone and I was waiting at home, but would often be filled with regret after I had fucked her after for a few hours until I got aroused again
none of these feelings stopped me prior to her arranging something the next time, but I was often hesitant just before she went out
I would become more filled with worry/regret when she had been fucked bareback or came home full of cum, worrying about the consequences but as soon as she had her periods , despite swearing never to risk it again, I would find myself wanting that wonderful slick silky feeling when we fucked after I would almost be gutted if she didn't come home with a cream pie
eventually it became easier and easier to accept the risk
but she did get pregnant by someone, that knocked all the cuckold feelings from me for months but the yearing never went away
30 yrs later I have no such feelings or regrets other than I would love her to be able to get pregnant again!!!!

[Wifesharing]

I never regretted it after I came or at any point. I do try hard not to cum until he is done and gone, The main reason is well as I get older I don't have many bullets in a night left and I want that reclaim sex. Also another reason is while I don't regret it I do get bored and it never fails when you fuck up and cum too soon the other guy is trying to prove how much of man he is and last for freaking ever. It's like dude i came already hurry it up I need to get to sleep soon lol.

[calicolombia69]

If I remember Biology class correctly, it is called Refractory Period. Nature ensure that we ejaculate and then give the female a break; lest we tear her pussy to shreds. So nature switches us OFF long enough for the female to run far away!!

Personally, YES. After I cum, for a few minutes I would prefer she spend the rest of the week with me and not see him again. 20min later I am back!

I'm not so sure the resting period is for the female to rest. The head of the human penis, and others is remarkably similar to a piston pump ucup. The in and out action actually pulls out the fluid inside, to help lubricate the shaft and more than likely another male's cum. I have always believed as I'm resting, another is attacking, trying to pump my cum out, put his in and she's still enjoying herself.

Let's face it, the vagina is a wonderful muscle and I think much more powerful than a prick.

and pussy hair can pull harder than a ship's mooring rope....

[CheltCpl]

Ah yes, the famous cuckold post orgasmic angst! Lots of us feel it. To me it's just another delicious parts of the cuckold experience. It doesn't last long, but in those few moments of regret, self loathing, guilt, jealousy and intense humiliation, the cuckolded feelings are intensified. And yet for me so are the other side of it, the joy of seeing my wife sexually satisfied by a real man, the knowledge that she needs and deserves it and that I can't do it for her and that she craves his big thick cock over mine. The conflicting thought and emotions are such a fabulous experience. A couple of times I have managed to cum right before I was made to clean up his cream pie from her. That is incredibly intense!!! Also when I have been allowed to jerk off while sucking his cock in front of her. If I cum, then it's so incredibly humiliating in front of my wife, but even with all those emotions ringing n my head, I never stop sucking. She usually has a good giggle and makes me clean up my own pathetic little mess.

I REALLY love the mix of conflicting feels -and forcing myself to supresss them -after all as it was all my idea in the first place.

[CheltCpl]

like I would say 99% of men regret it in the first few times after she was fucked , I know I did !!! but only after I had cum my self often from just watching without touching my self
I learnt that not ejaculating when she was with someone and I was waiting at home, but would often be filled with regret after I had fucked her after for a few hours until I got aroused again
none of these feelings stopped me prior to her arranging something the next time, but I was often hesitant just before she went out
I would become more filled with worry/regret when she had been fucked bareback or came home full of cum, worrying about the consequences but as soon as she had her periods , despite swearing never to risk it again, I would find myself wanting that wonderful slick silky feeling when we fucked after I would almost be gutted if she didn't come home with a cream pie
eventually it became easier and easier to accept the risk
but she did get pregnant by someone, that knocked all the cuckold feelings from me for months but the yearing never went away
30 yrs later I have no such feelings or regrets other than I would love her to be able to get pregnant again!!!!

Someone on my wavelength !!

[Bartleby]

I have never had any bad feelings about this at all. I want my wife to have sex with other men and I am happy when she does.

[bradisalpha]

I enjoy watching the emotions change after he has cum .. and he still has to clean us both.

Brad

[yorktownvaguy]

Oh no, I enjoy satisfying and cumin in a lady and then handing her over to her hubby/partner ... well used.

[Tncvegas]

Rarely. Regret is the wrong word. We may question some things that happened during. But we always debrief after an encounter and discuss the good and bad and what can change to make it better. Each experience seems to get better and better because of this discussion. I regret finishing in her face a la money shit style more than I regret her sleeping with another man.

[zorro]

If I remember Biology class correctly, it is called Refractory Period. Nature ensure that we ejaculate and then give the female a break; lest we tear her pussy to shreds. So nature switches us OFF long enough for the female to run far away!!

Personally, YES. After I cum, for a few minutes I would prefer she spend the rest of the week with me and not see him again. 20min later I am back!

I'm not so sure the resting period is for the female to rest. The head of the human penis, and others is remarkably similar to a piston pump ucup. The in and out action actually pulls out the fluid inside, to help lubricate the shaft and more than likely another male's cum. I have always believed as I'm resting, another is attacking, trying to pump my cum out, put his in and she's still enjoying herself.

Let's face it, the vagina is a wonderful muscle and I think much more powerful than a prick.

Yes! I agree. Women don't seem to need to rest or wait between orgasms or other guys. At least until they are plain old fucked out and exhausted from the physical exertion.

[annsman]

I regretted it the first few times as I thought I was weird for wanting it and also that Ann was no longer “exclusively mine” which was ridiculous because I knew she’d had several lovers before me. However, I very quickly accepted that we were both getting a great deal out of it, and particularly that she didn’t think less of me, so I no longer have any regrets.

Now I find it very sensuous to cuddle with her after I’ve cum and listen to her telling me the less explicit, but sometimes more intimate, details of their date.

[bradisalpha]

I regretted it the first few times as I thought I was weird for wanting it and also that Ann was no longer “exclusively mine” which was ridiculous because I knew she’d had several lovers before me. However, I very quickly accepted that we were both getting a great deal out of it, and particularly that she didn’t think less of me, so I no longer have any regrets.

Now I find it very sensuous to cuddle with her after I’ve cum and listen to her telling me the less explicit, but sometimes more intimate, details of their date.

That is a wonderful way to look at it .. and share her intimate moments with her also. Many cuckolds think about the sex but don’t realize how intimate the wife’s connection is with
a BF when they fuck him. A guy can fuck and leave.. but a woman puts more of a psychological connection with it. Once you are past the regret after you cum, you are sharing a very sensuous time with your wife and it helps her in looking forward to her next meeting with her BF... to fuck him and come home to be comforted by her cuckold.

Brad

[Mr ablondemilf]

I answered rarely, but only because that was the closest answer to never. As with most couples here, it was my idea for this lifestyle. It did take several years of pillow talk and role play before she became a hotwife, but after her first time she was on fire and neither of us had any regrets. She's been hotwifing for 25 years and we've been married 38 years.

[bjaficionado]

I wouldn't really call it regret at this point, just a loss of sexual desire. The jealousy is always there to some degree, that's sort of an essential part of the kink. But after I come, I'm disinterested in the kinkiness and just feel the jealousy. Which, to be clear, has faded quite a bit with experience and rigidly practicing honesty/transparency.

[wifeneedn]

Never! :-)

[Des 31]

I would have responded, but "never" wasn't an option in the choices. But I can understand the reasons by others.

Admittedly, though, I had a few bouts of jealousy when we started down this path. I hadn't anticipated I would have those reactions and suspect most other guys don't either until the reality of this lifestyle surfaces. For me, that went away soon after she had sex with the first few guys and I could then put it all in perspective.

[MtnCouple]

Never should be a choice.
After I come may be the best part. I love snuggling up and holding her.

I second that!

[AdventurousCouple69]

Can’t understand why “Never” isn’t a option

[Livingthedream]

I never cum during her fun but nit because I regret it, just because it’s not that exciting for me right after I cum. Most of her hotwifing is either me watching or I participate but don’t allow. Myself to cum. I wait till i have her alone where we can talk about it and just focus on each other. That’s when I cum. I think on,y one time did I actually cum during a mfm and it was a coordinated response, so to speak, whereas the guy came in her mouth at the same time I came in her pussy. No regrets. There have been times when we played with another couple where I might have finished before the other guy and then just joined in or watched as he finished with my wife. No regrets, but diff scenario cause I just fucked his wife.
For us, it’s just all very normal now that it’s been a few years. After all it’s just sex and we fuck others for fun and excitement. But we love each other and that’s always going to be the best,!

[Andreilly]

Never wasn’t an option so I didn’t pick. One of her big worries was that if she actually did it I’d feel some sort of way about it and the fantasy would be harder to deal with than the reality but it’s not been that way at all. If I get to watch I’ll usually jerk and cum a few times during their session but never have i had a second thought, even with post cum clarity lol

[dinoo]

Never. Why I should when I'm aroused by her? Above, she loves to watch me cumming, in whatever circumstance.

[Parsifal]

The more intense the orgasm, the more noticeable the letdown. I just shake it off and wait for my libido to return and clear the air of it. That always happens. Just be patient.

[magallag]

"No Ragrets!" (not even a single letter! ......See the "We're the Millers" movie trailer!)

There was intense jealosy in the first year, but that gave way as I realized that her hotwifing was only about her sexual satisfaction, not about us.

She just gets "the itch" and wants her boyfriend to scratch it for her. It's nothing that threatens our marriage. We're solid!

Once I figured that out, it was A LOT easier to accept. Over the past decade I have even come to see the idea of sex with one partner for the rest of our lives as overrated. (Although she has given me permission to play, I've never had the desire. She's a sexual dynamo. I can barely keep up with her, let alone consider another play partner for me.)

Actually........Once I realized that her hotwifing was absolutely non-threatening, the whole thing became MUCH more fun.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

No, I don't feel regret.

I sometimes worry what the future may bring, but have no regrets of anything we have done so far.

Her having sex doesn't bother me. Just worried about any feelings or interest in each other changing and some minor worries about potential for pregnancy or STDs, but none of that has happened so it is all hypothetical worrying.

So far, the benefits outweigh the risks.

[Bongomadness 6969]

I can honestly say I have never had any regrets after watching wifey get thoroughly fucked. In the beginning I do remember being confused as to why I liked watching her so much. Although 90% of the time our adventures would start as a threesome with me being involved, then stepping back to watch, then usually joining in for the finale.
Maybe that's why regret never came into play for me because I was always able to join in if I wanted to or if wifey asked me to.

I do regret not noticing the drinking problem wifey developed with her last and pretty much only "boyfriend" until it was to late. As I posted before I travel for work and wasn't around to notice how bad it got. I realized it's a different form of regret than everyone is posting about but a regret of poor decisions in our hotwifing none the less.