My wife introduces me to hotwifing.

[isinlarsa]

Sorry you feel I'm begging. I'm not begging about not getting feedback. It's just not worth my while if there is no feedback. It's a little insulting to say I'm begging and complaining. Let's just consider this thread closed.

[readyy2009]

Don't forget your ball

[Flavius]

It would really be a pity if you stopped reporting your story! It is captivating! Please, go on!

Cheers
Flavius

[philxxo]

This is a superhot story!

[hornedhubby]

I'm enjoying your story very much, isinlarsa, and would love to hear more.

The sad truth is that OHW is not what it used to be in terms of member feedback and sharing. A lot of the best members left the site and others are aging out. Seems like most new people since the pandemic come here only to tell their own story. Selfish and more than a little bit of a shame.

And, BTW, ridiculing the OP for expressing his frustration, as in the post three above this, is totally uncalled for and counterproductive.

Like you, isinlarsa, I'd like to see this change for the better.

[Happyjohnson]

I have been a wannabe for a long time, with absolutely zero chance that it will ever happen - such is life, I can only dream, I think, as I have no idea how I would react, if it came to fruition!

I have no comments I can offer to posters other than that I enjoy reading about their lives and ponder the future for both them and their Hotwives, wishing in a lot of instances I could hook up with their wives who sound just so inviting and sexy!

To just comment "great writing and similar, to me, is an insult to the author" so I just read and enjoy, not being lazy about it, but otherwise find comments pointless!

isinlarsa I hope you will return and continue reporting/ recording your lifestyle!

Kindest Regards
Happy

[isinlarsa]

I have been a wannabe for a long time, with absolutely zero chance that it will ever happen - such is life, I can only dream, I think, as I have no idea how I would react, if it came to fruition!

I have no comments I can offer to posters other than that I enjoy reading about their lives and ponder the future for both them and their Hotwives, wishing in a lot of instances I could hook up with their wives who sound just so inviting and sexy!

To just comment "great writing and similar, to me, is an insult to the author" so I just read and enjoy, not being lazy about it, but otherwise find comments pointless!

isinlarsa I hope you will return and continue reporting/ recording your lifestyle!

Kindest Regards
Happy

Thank you for your kind comments. I certainly wasn't just looking for just "great writing" type comments. I know my writing isn't the best, but I think some of my experiences are worth sharing in whatever limited manner I can. I think what I was hoping for was to have some comments on my actual experiences, and perhaps having others share how they may have had similar experiences or just to engage in dialogue. Any comments or stories added wouldn't be viewed by me to be highjacking my thread.

[craven mohr]

Hi Isinlarsa,

I am following this thread right along. But in an effort to keep the Signal / Noise ratio as high as possible, I often lurk and don't offer comments unless I can improve the thread.

You story is a good one. Please do continue!

Best Day from FLA!!~

[isinlarsa]

Linda going out with Gary as her second boyfriend and either swapping with another couple or attending swinging parties went on for some time, while I stayed at home. Even so, my cuckold gene kept me aroused knowing my girlfriend was getting fucked by other men. However, I was also feeling left out, so Linda and I talked about me actually becoming involved in the sexual frenzy her life had become. She agreed that she would take me to some events, sometimes together with Gary and sometimes just the two of us.

I think this was the first swinger party Linda and I attended together.

I felt a little out-of-place because I really didn’t know any one. It was a “pajama“ theme party, so many of the women had interpreted that to wear sexy lingerie. Lots of skin showing. I don’t remember what Linda wore, but I don’t think it was too extreme.

Linda and I fell into a conversation with a couple of newbies who didn’t know many people either. They quizzed us about swinging, and how we handled when our partner had sex with other people. Of course, by this time Linda was fairly experienced and I faked it based upon my experience with my first wife.

As we talked, a man approached Linda, and whispered into her ear. He then took her hand and led her away toward the bedrooms. The newbies were in a state of shock. I sort of passed it off, and continued with our conversation.

Then people started paring off and looking for places to fuck. I think someone approached the newbie wife, but that part is a little hazy.

I looked around and saw two women sitting a sofa talking. I joined them, and, after talking for a while, invited the smaller, prettier one to join me. Much to my relief she agreed.

We went to a bedroom and started kissing and groping. Clothes came off, and we got down on the bed. I was a bit surprised that she could not spread her legs like other women I have known, but I could get between them sufficient to get my cock to her pussy. Shortly after I started fucking her, the door opened and Linda walked in with her curley-headed man. (How she knew where I was, and why she came in, I don’t know.)

She lay down beside us, and Curly got on top of her, and began to fuck her. As he did, Linda threw her leg over my knees. To say it was a distraction would be an understatement. As Curley fucked Linda, I felt her leg move against my thighs in rhythm with his thrusts.

I froze, but knowing Linda was getting fucked next to me kept my cock rigid in the other woman. I felt her wiggling under me, trying to grind against me.

I recovered from my frozen state, and began to stroke my cock into her. Strangely, I felt myself matching the rhythm of Curley’s thrusts into Linda. I went a little crazy and started feeling that I fucking Linda’s cunt at the same time that Curly was. (Linda’s cunt was tight, but the little woman’s was tighter.)

Curly finished in Linda. As always I felt angst and excitement that another man had seeded her with his cum.

They got up and left. I finished fucking the little woman. We got up and returned to the living room. It was like the “first act” was over for most couples, and people were hanging out drinking and talking. Few people bothered to get dressed. I noticed the newbie wife being chatted up by a guy, while her husband was the corner, looking dejected. She was smiling and had the glow of a woman who had just been fucked.

I hooked up with Linda for a few minutes, and then she was taken off again by a third man.

After that I didn’t see her for several hours. As I later found out, the guy had a lot of stamina and was able to cum in her twice.

Meanwhile I hung around the living room, getting a little stoned and watching some of the action.

I was dozing by the fireplace when Linda returned. She gently woke me, and started stoking my cock. I felt up her breasts and found her cunt was gaping and leaking cum. She mounted me, and I slid my cock into her well-fucked cunt.

There were people around, and later I wondered if they watched us fuck.

The party wound down, and we dressed and went home. Finally score: Linda 4, Bill 2.

I left out some sexy things that happened at the party to focus on a main thread. It still got pretty long. I hope I didn’t bore you.

[Clement99]

This is great stuff!

I know it wasn’t the main point of the story but, the thought of my wife going to a sex party with another guy while I stay home is wild.

[isinlarsa]

This is great stuff!

I know it wasn’t the main point of the story but, the thought of my wife going to a sex party with another guy while I stay home is wild.

Yes it was. She quickly went from "just" wanting to take dancing lessons to asking me if it was okay for her to date a man she met there. Given my background that was hot and welcome. But then she took it to another level when she told me that he wanted her to swing with him, and she quickly agreed! This was a woman who had had sex with only four men in her life up to then, and had been monogamous with each one.

[venus-can99]

Yes it was. She quickly went from "just" wanting to take dancing lessons to asking me if it was okay for her to date a man she met there. Given my background that was hot and welcome. But then she took it to another level when she told me that he wanted her to swing with him, and she quickly agreed! This was a woman who had had sex with only four men in her life up to then, and had been monogamous with each one.

WoW... what turned her on to the next level? Was it you expressing your desire and she acting on it or was it mutual discussion? IIRC in one of your posts you had mentioned that she was an active feminist. I love a woman who takes control of her sexuality. Has she been with women as well? If so is that a different feeling?

[isinlarsa]

Yes it was. She quickly went from "just" wanting to take dancing lessons to asking me if it was okay for her to date a man she met there. Given my background that was hot and welcome. But then she took it to another level when she told me that he wanted her to swing with him, and she quickly agreed! This was a woman who had had sex with only four men in her life up to then, and had been monogamous with each one.

WoW... what turned her on to the next level? Was it you expressing your desire and she acting on it or was it mutual discussion? IIRC in one of your posts you had mentioned that she was an active feminist. I love a woman who takes control of her sexuality. Has she been with women as well? If so is that a different feeling?

Although she knew my first wife had sex with other men during our marriage, I never encouraged her. I think part of her being a feminist led her to want to experience sexual freedom and the excitement of new sexual adventures. Although we discussed each step she took, it was very much her decision to expand her sexual horizons. In short, she would express to me what she wanted to do, and I found it excited me. Sometimes she did things we hadn't discussed, because they just happened when she was having sex.

In answer to your question, yes, she was with women, too; but not too often. The first time was the FMF with her best friend and me that I described; but that wasn't the only time. I don't know if being with a woman felt different to her. I expect it did, but it was just another way for her to have sex. For me, it was exciting. I remember watching her in a "group grope" with a number of people, and seeing the expression on her face the first time a woman went down on her.

[venus-can99]

In most of the accounts in OHW husbands describe feeling the "cuckold angst" that I interpret to be a mixture of anxiety, arousal, fear, jealousy and dispair. Is that something you experienced as well especially when she went to swing with the dancer?
Apologies if I am asking too many questions....

[isinlarsa]

In most of the accounts in OHW husbands describe feeling the "cuckold angst" that I interpret to be a mixture of anxiety, arousal, fear, jealousy and dispair. Is that something you experienced as well especially when she went to swing with the dancer?
Apologies if I am asking too many questions....

Actually I invite questions. I enjoy reminiscing about those times, since I am an old man now.

You are basically correct about the "cuckold angst". I don't think I felt despair, but I certainly felt a juxtaposition of anxiety and arousal, and of jealousy and excitement about her sexually being used by other men.

That period where she would swing with the dancer only lasted a few months, but sitting at home knowing that other men were fucking her who she had just met kept me both aroused and feeling sexually frustrated. It both infuriated me and made me euphoric that this guy was using my girlfriend to get other women, and that she was getting a sexual high by being used.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for answering my questions...
Are the feelings you described different if you watched her being fucked by other (wo)men and/or participated in the act? Just curious

[isinlarsa]

Thanks for answering my questions...
Are the feelings you described different if you watched her being fucked by other (wo)men and/or participated in the act? Just curious

It's different, but both exciting. To be completely honest, I would take watching her fucked than participating; but being up close and personal is also hot in a different way. Of course, it's not a real life possibility, but I fantasize fucking her only after another man has fucked her and cum inside her.

The only way I've seen her with a woman was watching the other woman going down on her, or watching her and her best friend embracing each other and kissing. So I don't know if she ever took an active role in having sex with a woman.

[isinlarsa]

There are a number of scintillating events that I remember from Linda and my time attending sex parties. With the passage of time I can’t keep them in chronological order, so I’ll just relate them as I recall them.

This one is as accurate as I can remember, although it doesn’t show me in a good light.

Linda’s favorite fuckbuddy's nickname was Higgie. He and his wife lived in a different city but would come into our town a couple of times a year for a party.

This was one of the first parties I attended with Linda. Actually she hosted it at her house both Gary and Higgie with his wife were there. I was co-hosting it.

Her house wasn’t that big, so there wasn’t going to be room for much onsite action — more of a “meet-and-greet” for the half dozen or so couples who attended.

Never-the-less, a couple of hours into the party, Gary took Linda into the bedroom and closed the door. As I was the co-host that left me to look after our guests.

I guess you might say that Gary was showing me up by taken my woman into our bedroom, in front of our guests, to fuck her.

They came back in an hour or so, as the party started winding down.

Everyone left except Higgie and his wife, who were staying over.

I had been paying attention to Higgie’s wife all evening anticipating the potential sleeping arrangements.

I wasn’t surprised when Linda brought out a mattress to the living room. She and Higgie would take that mattress and his wife and I could have the bedroom.

I was aroused just thinking how Linda was going to get fucked, but Higgie’s wife put me off, saying she was tired.

So I lay through the night visualizing what was going on in the living room.

At dawn, I got up to take a piss. After I finished in the bathroom, which was in a short hall from the living room, I heard unmistakable sex sounds coming from the living room. I immediately got a rod of steel. I don’t think I had ever been that hard.

I couldn’t resist peeking into the living room. I was mesmerized by what I saw. Linda was on her back and Higgie was on top of her fucking her missionary style. She had a look of passion on her face that I had never seen before, as she moaned under his thrusting.

She wasn’t aware that I was there, so I was seeing her unbridled ardor. He was definitely hitting her buttons.

Her hands were clutching his back, and her legs were obscenely splayed, given him unfettered access to her womanhood.

My gaze was drawn to his buttocks. The muscles clinched with each thrust into her. He was a superior swordsman giving my woman what she craved.

Then his butt muscle clinched and held. I knew he was flooding her womb with his potent ejaculant.

I exited the room and went back to the bed room, my cock hard as a rock.

Higgie’s wife was awake, and commented that the noises from the living room must mean her husband was given Linda a good fucking.

Soon we heard sex sounds again coming from the living room -- mostly moans, cries and grunts coming from Linda. She was making sounds like I never heard before. At some point Higgie's wife got up and went out of the bedroom. She was gone for a few minutes. Because of Linda's conspicuous verbalization I asked her "what is he doing? Eating her out?" She replied "no. He's just fucking her in different positions."

I cuddled up to her, but she put me off. She started talking about how some husbands could handle swinging, and some husbands’ couldn’t — implying that I couldn’t. She talked about how once her husband had fucked a wife, she would never be satisfied with her husband again.

Finally, she made clear that she was going to give me a pity fuck. She straddled me, and took my softening cock in her hand and slid it into her pussy. She did ride me, and I was able to maintain enough of an erection to eventually cum in her.

She smirked at me as she unmounted me. She had put me in my place.

She was a real ball buster, and I never fucked her again. However, Linda continued to crave Higgie on his visits to our city.

Fortunately, reclaiming time with Linda helped restore my self-esteem.

Another time Higgie's wife had sex with Linda, one-on-one, but to my knowledge they never did a threesome.

[Clement99]

Very interesting

It is great that Linda had such a good time, it can be strange if the other wife is a less accommodating.

Gary taking Linda to the bedroom during the party is very hot.

In many ways, the wife having fun while we think about what they are doing is hotter than playing ourselves.

Great story

[isinlarsa]

Very interesting

It is great that Linda had such a good time, it can be strange if the other wife is a less accommodating.

Gary taking Linda to the bedroom during the party is very hot.

In many ways, the wife having fun while we think about what they are doing is hotter than playing ourselves.

Great story

Very true that I found her playing hotter than playing myself. As I mentioned, Linda's house wasn't very big, with the bedroom on the first floor off a short hallway. The party didn't turn into swapping for sex, so Linda was the only one who got screwed during the party. Playing the host while the hostess was getting fucked in her bedroom, with the sounds on her moaning coming through into the living room, left me with a sense of angst everyone knowing my girlfriend was being debauched.

[venus-can99]

Was the anger mixed with arousal as well, since most people at the party would have known that Linda was the only one "getting it" ?

[isinlarsa]

Was the anger mixed with arousal as well, since most people at the party would have known that Linda was the only one "getting it" ?

It was angst, not anger. Of course I was aroused. It was difficult to focus on conversations with the other party goers while hearing Linda's moans. I really just wanted to go over to the bedroom door and put my ear against it so I could hear more clearly.

After a while they finish, and returned to the party. I guess to a group of experienced swingers, it was nothing out of the ordinary; but for me, having only been recently introduced to the swinging community, it was a big deal. She came over and joined me in conversation with our friends, putting her arm around my waist. It was surreal.

[Flavius]

There are a number of scintillating events that I remember from Linda and my time attending sex parties. With the passage of time I can’t keep them in chronological order, so I’ll just relate them as I recall them.

This one is as accurate as I can remember, although it doesn’t show me in a good light.

Linda’s favorite fuckbuddy's nickname was Higgie. He and his wife lived in a different city but would come into our town a couple of times a year for a party.

This was one of the first parties I attended with Linda. Actually she hosted it at her house both Gary and Higgie with his wife were there. I was co-hosting it.

Her house wasn’t that big, so there wasn’t going to be room for much onsite action — more of a “meet-and-greet” for the half dozen or so couples who attended.

Never-the-less, a couple of hours into the party, Gary took Linda into the bedroom and closed the door. As I was the co-host that left me to look after our guests.

I guess you might say that Gary was showing me up by taken my woman into our bedroom, in front of our guests, to fuck her.

They came back in an hour or so, as the party started winding down.

Everyone left except Higgie and his wife, who were staying over.

I had been paying attention to Higgie’s wife all evening anticipating the potential sleeping arrangements.

I wasn’t surprised when Linda brought out a mattress to the living room. She and Higgie would take that mattress and his wife and I could have the bedroom.

I was aroused just thinking how Linda was going to get fucked, but Higgie’s wife put me off, saying she was tired.

So I lay through the night visualizing what was going on in the living room.

At dawn, I got up to take a piss. After I finished in the bathroom, which was in a short hall from the living room, I heard unmistakable sex sounds coming from the living room. I immediately got a rod of steel. I don’t think I had ever been that hard.

I couldn’t resist peeking into the living room. I was mesmerized by what I saw. Linda was on her back and Higgie was on top of her fucking her missionary style. She had a look of passion on her face that I had never seen before, as she moaned under his thrusting.

She wasn’t aware that I was there, so I was seeing her unbridled ardor. He was definitely hitting her buttons.

Her hands were clutching his back, and her legs were obscenely splayed, given him unfettered access to her womanhood.

My gaze was drawn to his buttocks. The muscles clinched with each thrust into her. He was a superior swordsman giving my woman what she craved.

Then his butt muscle clinched and held. I knew he was flooding her womb with his potent ejaculant.

I exited the room and went back to the bed room, my cock hard as a rock.

Higgie’s wife was awake, and commented that the noises from the living room must mean her husband was given Linda a good fucking.

Soon we heard sex sounds again coming from the living room -- mostly moans, cries and grunts coming from Linda. She was making sounds like I never heard before. At some point Higgie's wife got up and went out of the bedroom. She was gone for a few minutes. Because of Linda's conspicuous verbalization I asked her "what is he doing? Eating her out?" She replied "no. He's just fucking her in different positions."

I cuddled up to her, but she put me off. She started talking about how some husbands could handle swinging, and some husbands’ couldn’t — implying that I couldn’t. She talked about how once her husband had fucked a wife, she would never be satisfied with her husband again.

Finally, she made clear that she was going to give me a pity fuck. She straddled me, and took my softening cock in her hand and slid it into her pussy. She did ride me, and I was able to maintain enough of an erection to eventually cum in her.

She smirked at me as she unmounted me. She had put me in my place.

She was a real ball buster, and I never fucked her again. However, Linda continued to crave Higgie on his visits to our city.

Fortunately, reclaiming time with Linda helped restore my self-esteem.

Another time Higgie's wife had sex with Linda, one-on-one, but to my knowledge they never did a threesome.

isinlarsa, why would you say this doesn't show you in a good light? I cannot see that.

It seems to me you and Higgie's wife just did not click sexually. You may have been focused more on Linda than on her. It has happened to me as well that I was focused too much on my beloved in such a situation. That is how I learned that I loved it more when my beloved was in sexual ecstasy rather than have sex with other women myself.

Cheers, Flavius

[isinlarsa]

Flavius. Thank you for your kind words. I thought the episode didn't show me in a good light because his wife got me insecure in myself so it was difficult to keep an erection. If she had been willing to fuck while we could hear Linda's moans from the living room, I'm sure I would have be rock hard. So you are on point about me focusing more on Linda than on her. I, too, love it more when my beloved is in sexual ecstasy rather than having sex with other women.

[venus-can99]

Would you say that a man's complete focus on his partner's enjoyment with other men is a sign of a cuckold? I am really not a fan of labels but just asing your view,