Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[mrs_reese]

My dear Zorro, thank you for sharing your thoughts they were very true in my opinion.

“This will not be fast and easy!”

[54321]

54321 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 02, 2022 4:04 pm
... I’d like to use the example of when somebody is on again off again when they wanna have a workout routine or exercise They take a break and I just don’t feel motivated to work out anymore and then after a while they look in the mirror and they realize they need to work on their body or their appearance and they start working out or there’s a vacation to go on and you work out the same thing with hot wife play for me I hope that helps

I think every fabulous, chic, beautiful woman needs an adoring husband to worship her, make love with her and share the deepest intimacies, and a select stable of lovers to give her the thrills, excitement, novelty and variety necessary to keep her in prime condition and 'date hot'.

I've told my wife this a few times but she just laughs and tells me I'm crazy. Ah well

54321

Yes 54321, yes! Now trying to have a women understand a man’s mind is one of the must difficult parts of this LS

Too right Do you have any suggestions?

[mrs_reese]

54321 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 02, 2022 4:04 pm
... I’d like to use the example of when somebody is on again off again when they wanna have a workout routine or exercise They take a break and I just don’t feel motivated to work out anymore and then after a while they look in the mirror and they realize they need to work on their body or their appearance and they start working out or there’s a vacation to go on and you work out the same thing with hot wife play for me I hope that helps

I think every fabulous, chic, beautiful woman needs an adoring husband to worship her, make love with her and share the deepest intimacies, and a select stable of lovers to give her the thrills, excitement, novelty and variety necessary to keep her in prime condition and 'date hot'.

I've told my wife this a few times but she just laughs and tells me I'm crazy. Ah well

54321

Yes 54321, yes! Now trying to have a women understand a man’s mind is one of the must difficult parts of this LS

Too right Do you have any suggestions?

Yes…: edge him, tease him, edge him, and make him cum
On your command

[54321]

54321 wrote: ↑Sat Dec 03, 2022 2:31 pm
54321 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 02, 2022 4:04 pm
... I’d like to use the example of when somebody is on again off again when they wanna have a workout routine or exercise They take a break and I just don’t feel motivated to work out anymore and then after a while they look in the mirror and they realize they need to work on their body or their appearance and they start working out or there’s a vacation to go on and you work out the same thing with hot wife play for me I hope that helps

I think every fabulous, chic, beautiful woman needs an adoring husband to worship her, make love with her and share the deepest intimacies, and a select stable of lovers to give her the thrills, excitement, novelty and variety necessary to keep her in prime condition and 'date hot'.

I've told my wife this a few times but she just laughs and tells me I'm crazy. Ah well

54321

Yes 54321, yes! Now trying to have a women understand a man’s mind is one of the must difficult parts of this LS
Too right Do you have any suggestions?

Yes…: edge him, tease him, edge him, and make him cum
On your command

Erm.. I'm the husband. I've already encouraged my wife to edge me and only allow me to cum on her command. We've been living a Devotional Sex lifestyle for about 9 years now. https:// devotionalsex. com/ (I've inserted a couple of spaces)
I've suggested the Hotwife Lifestyle a number of times but no luck so far.
Did Mr Reese suggest it to you? What made you say, "Yes"?

Best wishes,

54321

[mrs_reese]

54321 I know your the guy
When I worry about edging and teasing him, I was speaking to you as if I was answering your question.
This is how I’ve been dealing with Mr R.

What do I suggest for you and the wife?
Mr R eventually wore me out!
He was persistent!
He has a way of being very convincing.

It took some time before i gave in to his desires, and it also was a lot of trial and error!

Start by asking her to consider taking little steps to add some fun to your intimacy!
Mr R used the analogy of watering- sunshine to a flower.
It may bloom or not but with little water and sunshine, a flower is just a flower.
With a water and sunshine the flower will bloom and look amazing!
Not sure if this is exactly how he explained it but it’s close

[54321]

Dear Mrs R,

Thank you. I appreciate your reply.
Nurturing the possibility is what I'm trying to do so it's nice to get confirmation from someone as experienced and knowledgeable as you.
I'll give the ol' watering can a workout

54321

[mrs_reese]

Girl time yesterday. Dress and clothes shopping!
There was a cute man about 35 who assisted me!
I wish I could have taken his picture from the look at his face as I walked out of the fitting room to ask my girlfriends opinion.
I think I am going to go back later this week and hopefully he’ll be there for some more teasing!

[BallSpanking]

Mr Reese loves when you are a cockteaser.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Girl time yesterday. Dress and clothes shopping!
There was a cute man about 35 who assisted me!
I wish I could have taken his picture from the look at his face as I walked out of the fitting room to ask my girlfriends opinion.
I think I am going to go back later this week and hopefully he’ll be there for some more teasing!

Such a delightfully naughty little tease you are.

Any chance we (the perverted mrs-reese cheer squad) could persuade you to tease us with a few pics in the Hotties Forum again?

Mr GILF

[mrs_reese]

Mr Reese loves when you are a cockteaser.

Hello my dear old friend!
I am so happy to see your post

[mrs_reese]

Girl time yesterday. Dress and clothes shopping!
There was a cute man about 35 who assisted me!
I wish I could have taken his picture from the look at his face as I walked out of the fitting room to ask my girlfriends opinion.
I think I am going to go back later this week and hopefully he’ll be there for some more teasing!

Such a delightfully naughty little tease you are.

Any chance we (the perverted mrs-reese cheer squad) could persuade you to tease us with a few pics in the Hotties Forum again?

Mr GILF

I wish to be somewhat discreet
But let me find something soon

[mrs_reese]

Jeff has been flirty in his text messages but also confused as we still must have a heart to heart talk.
Hubby will be traveling soon after Xmas and I’d like to have an over night with jeff when he’s gone!
Possibly more!
I know jeff is just apprehensive!
I know we need to talk more soon.

[54321]

Yes 54321, yes! Now trying to have a women understand a man’s mind is one of the must difficult parts of this LS

Hi, Mrs Reese!

Sorry! I got a bit confused in our earlier exchange. "To have a women understand a man’s mind" is a really interesting sentence.
Care to expand on it?

54321

[mrs_reese]

Yes 54321, yes! Now trying to have a women understand a man’s mind is one of the must difficult parts of this LS

Hi, Mrs Reese!

Sorry! I got a bit confused in our earlier exchange. "To have a women understand a man’s mind" is a really interesting sentence.
Care to expand on it?

54321

The ability to allow the love of his life to find another man, to push her buttons and encourage her to take it to the highest degree, to sit home alone dealing with the torment of knowing his girl is fucking someone else!
I could never do this!
I still can’t figure out at times; how does he enjoy this?

[BallSpanking]

The ability to allow the love of his life to find another man, to push her buttons and encourage her to take it to the highest degree, to sit home alone dealing with the torment of knowing his girl is fucking someone else!
I could never do this!
I still can’t figure out at times; how does he enjoy this?

He can do this because he adores you, knows what this amazing gift means to you, just how needed, and perfect it is for you.

[leggysman]

The ability to allow the love of his life to find another man, to push her buttons and encourage her to take it to the highest degree, to sit home alone dealing with the torment of knowing his girl is fucking someone else!
I could never do this!
I still can’t figure out at times; how does he enjoy this?

It's a kink Difficult to understand if you don't share it.

(the guy who screws my wife leggysandy the most doesn't understand it either, although he's happy to oblige)

I don't understand the appeal of being flogged or humiliated or dominated - or doing it to anyone else - but other people really seem to like it!

You know your husband better than we do of course, but speaking for myself:

- Eroticizing the jealousy (which is a bit like enjoying pain, I suppose)
- The naughtiness and taboo of it
- My respectable, responsible, reserved, formerly-monogamous bride behaving like slut is wildly hot (like the madonna/whore complex enjoyed as an extreme sport?)
- Compersion. She's awfully happy and horny most of the time. It's wonderful to see, and I also benefit from the horniness

[NewtonBlade]

^^^^ This guy nailed it.

Great to see you back, Mrs Reese!

[mrs_reese]

The ability to allow the love of his life to find another man, to push her buttons and encourage her to take it to the highest degree, to sit home alone dealing with the torment of knowing his girl is fucking someone else!
I could never do this!
I still can’t figure out at times; how does he enjoy this?

He can do this because he adores you, knows what this amazing gift means to you, just how needed, and perfect it is for you.

Yes, of course Ballspanking
It is his gift to me and I just need to enjoy it all the time!

[mrs_reese]

^^^^ This guy nailed it.

Great to see you back, Mrs Reese!

Thank you NewtonBlade 🫂

[mrs_reese]

The ability to allow the love of his life to find another man, to push her buttons and encourage her to take it to the highest degree, to sit home alone dealing with the torment of knowing his girl is fucking someone else!
I could never do this!
I still can’t figure out at times; how does he enjoy this?

It's a kink Difficult to understand if you don't share it.

(the guy who screws my wife leggysandy the most doesn't understand it either, although he's happy to oblige)

I don't understand the appeal of being flogged or humiliated or dominated - or doing it to anyone else - but other people really seem to like it!

You know your husband better than we do of course, but speaking for myself:

- Eroticizing the jealousy (which is a bit like enjoying pain, I suppose)
- The naughtiness and taboo of it
- My respectable, responsible, reserved, formerly-monogamous bride behaving like slut is wildly hot (like the madonna/whore complex enjoyed as an extreme sport?)
- Compersion. She's awfully happy and horny most of the time. It's wonderful to see, and I also benefit from the horniness

Love reading this!
Yes to everything you said.

[BallSpanking]

Yes, of course Ballspanking
It is his gift to me and I just need to enjoy it all the time!

Exactly ...!
On second thought, it is not an obligation, but rather, a choice available to you.

[54321]

In his heart of hearts, every man wants to see his wife as an adventurous, exciting, irresistible, seductive, sexually free and empowered woman.
In reality, many men are afraid of it.
A hotwife husband understands it, accepts it and enjoys it.

54321

[mrs_reese]

My husband has been telling me as as long as I remember to embrace my freedom and empowerment!
For years I have struggled with this gift.
I can finally admit that I truly understand now.
This gift he gives me, I will sit back and enjoy the pleasure i receive from it.

[Open2it]

It’s a gift that represents a deep level of maturity, love, and trust to give and receive. Glad to have you back sharing you insights with us.

[mrs_reese]

It’s a gift that represents a deep level of maturity, love, and trust to give and receive. Glad to have you back sharing you insights with us.

Open2it I am so happy to read your words