Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[mrs_reese]

Perhaps this is life style maturation but whatever it is Mrs. Reese, just like Farmgirl, appears to be in a good place

Along with Mr Reese and Jake. It takes everyone being on the same page for this level of maturity (and fun).

Jake is the one who probably has the most difficult time with this as we’ve had years of understanding how to adapt and make changes.
But yea we all have to be dedicated to communicating

[mrs_reese]

You are quite the enigmatic and unique woman, Mrs Reese, and fortunate to have such an adoring and understanding hubby. Thanks for sharing so vividly. You've never been sexier.

Happy holidays and best wishes to both of you.

Thank you for your always kind words HH
Happy holidays to you and yours

[mrs_reese]

Good morning,
I’m going to breakfast with Jake, I’m
Off today so it’ll be easy to spend some time with.
We’re going to try to just hang out, I told him it’ll be important for our relationship if I can just hang out at times, not to have sex, but to spend time with each other.
We’ll see what happens after breakfast but this girl is really sore from last weekend and sex with both of my guys yesterday.

[Lookingforadventure]

said he loved me, and honestly it was a little awkward telling him I loved him back.
I thought about it on the drive back and i think i feel more emotional when he’s making love to me.
Fucking me, it felt more like just sex and pleasure.
I think this girl has to get her act together

I just want to pipe in to say:
a) I'm so glad you had a great time. Things seem to be going well and that makes me happy.

b) You aren't alone in feeling awkward about the love word. It took me a long time to wrestle through my feelings about it. I even had a conversation with my boyfriend about how I wish there was another word because I do really care for him, but it felt like it crossed a line to say that I love him. He was very understanding. There were some awkward visits where I said "I adore you" and he said "thank you." LOL. Or he said he loved me and I said something like "You are amazing." Eventually we got there, but my point is that your feelings of awkwardness are natural. It just means that you are taking it seriously.

If it helps, Adventurer and I went to Montreal on our honeymoon. Ever since then, we use French endearments for each other. We regularly say "Je t'aime" (I love you) or "Je t'adore (I adore you)" just as good morning or goodbye. I couldn't use them with my boyfriend, but maybe you could find a similar quirky way to have a special "I love you" for Jake.

[BallSpanking]

If it helps, Adventurer and I went to Montreal on our honeymoon. Ever since then, we use French endearments for each other. We regularly say "Je t'aime" (I love you) or "Je t'adore (I adore you)" just as good morning or goodbye. I couldn't use them with my boyfriend, but maybe you could find a similar quirky way to have a special "I love you" for Jake.

Peut être, Jake peut devenir 'Jacques'! (Ou bien Jacques mon amour.)
Maybe Jake can become 'Jacques'! (Or else Jacques, my love.)

[Her number1]

mrs_reese and reese,
I can't help but want to say that I find this newer version of your relationship very loving and sensual. I know most men get anxious if their wife uses the "love" word for another man. I was there at one time, but as we truly learn to come together and trust and rely on each other, we learn that it is okay and even a word that should be used.
We mature, we grow, and we learn to place the other ahead of self, all at the same time knowing they are doing the same to us. When we reach that point in our marriage, love abounds!
I congratulate you two on navigating the stormy parts and reaching this new level. You are doing so well in checking in with and reassuring each other, and in assessing your feelings.

[mrs_reese]

said he loved me, and honestly it was a little awkward telling him I loved him back.
I thought about it on the drive back and i think i feel more emotional when he’s making love to me.
Fucking me, it felt more like just sex and pleasure.
I think this girl has to get her act together

I just want to pipe in to say:
a) I'm so glad you had a great time. Things seem to be going well and that makes me happy.

b) You aren't alone in feeling awkward about the love word. It took me a long time to wrestle through my feelings about it. I even had a conversation with my boyfriend about how I wish there was another word because I do really care for him, but it felt like it crossed a line to say that I love him. He was very understanding. There were some awkward visits where I said "I adore you" and he said "thank you." LOL. Or he said he loved me and I said something like "You are amazing." Eventually we got there, but my point is that your feelings of awkwardness are natural. It just means that you are taking it seriously.

If it helps, Adventurer and I went to Montreal on our honeymoon. Ever since then, we use French endearments for each other. We regularly say "Je t'aime" (I love you) or "Je t'adore (I adore you)" just as good morning or goodbye. I couldn't use them with my boyfriend, but maybe you could find a similar quirky way to have a special "I love you" for Jake.

Your words and knowledge help me so much, I you know that!

[mrs_reese]

If it helps, Adventurer and I went to Montreal on our honeymoon. Ever since then, we use French endearments for each other. We regularly say "Je t'aime" (I love you) or "Je t'adore (I adore you)" just as good morning or goodbye. I couldn't use them with my boyfriend, but maybe you could find a similar quirky way to have a special "I love you" for Jake.

Peut être, Jake peut devenir 'Jacques'! (Ou bien Jacques mon amour.)
Maybe Jake can become 'Jacques'! (Or else Jacques, my love.)

Oh Ballspanking, never stop commenting on this thread, always love your posts! 🥰

[mrs_reese]

mrs_reese and reese,
I can't help but want to say that I find this newer version of your relationship very loving and sensual. I know most men get anxious if their wife uses the "love" word for another man. I was there at one time, but as we truly learn to come together and trust and rely on each other, we learn that it is okay and even a word that should be used.
We mature, we grow, and we learn to place the other ahead of self, all at the same time knowing they are doing the same to us. When we reach that point in our marriage, love abounds!
I congratulate you two on navigating the stormy parts and reaching this new level. You are doing so well in checking in with and reassuring each other, and in assessing your feelings.

Thank you for recognizing our level of growth, I really appreciate your kind words xoxo

[BallSpanking]

mrs_reese and reese,
I can't help but want to say that I find this newer version of your relationship very loving and sensual. I know most men get anxious if their wife uses the "love" word for another man. I was there at one time, but as we truly learn to come together and trust and rely on each other, we learn that it is okay and even a word that should be used.
We mature, we grow, and we learn to place the other ahead of self, all at the same time knowing they are doing the same to us. When we reach that point in our marriage, love abounds!
I congratulate you two on navigating the stormy parts and reaching this new level. You are doing so well in checking in with and reassuring each other, and in assessing your feelings.

I defer, of course, to whatever Mr or Mrs Reese respond, but from past experience, I think Mrs Reese will spend more time tending to her living relationships, and less time talking/writing about them. That is a natural tendency for relationship dynamics that become more settled, day to day.
I noticed in the past when things settled into a manageable copacetic groove, Mrs Reese's presence here became more sporadic ...
It makes sense. A happy HotWife ... may be too busy to post.

[Her number1]

mrs_reese and reese,
I can't help but want to say that I find this newer version of your relationship very loving and sensual. I know most men get anxious if their wife uses the "love" word for another man. I was there at one time, but as we truly learn to come together and trust and rely on each other, we learn that it is okay and even a word that should be used.
We mature, we grow, and we learn to place the other ahead of self, all at the same time knowing they are doing the same to us. When we reach that point in our marriage, love abounds!
I congratulate you two on navigating the stormy parts and reaching this new level. You are doing so well in checking in with and reassuring each other, and in assessing your feelings.

I defer, of course, to whatever Mr or Mrs Reese respond, but from past experience, I think Mrs Reese will spend more time tending to her living relationships, and less time talking/writing about them. That is a natural tendency for relationship dynamics that become more settled, day to day.
I noticed in the past when things settled into a manageable copacetic groove, Mrs Reese's presence here became more sporadic ...
It makes sense. A happy HotWife ... may be too busy to post.

I know I can be a bit dense at times, but you lost me with that comment.

[BallSpanking]

I know I can be a bit dense at times, but you lost me with that comment.

Basically, this:

A happy HotWife ... may be too busy to post.

[Her number1]

I know I can be a bit dense at times, but you lost me with that comment.

Basically, this:

A happy HotWife ... may be too busy to post.

But, she still posted. That's why you lost me, and now I'm more lost by your comment.

[BallSpanking]

There have been loooooong spells of absence. Sometimes couples don't continue to make their private lives public. So far, Mrs Reese has been gracious enough to do so, to the benefit of us all.

[Her number1]

There have been loooooong spells of absence. Sometimes couples don't continue to make their private lives public. So far, Mrs Reese has been gracious enough to do so, to the benefit of us all.

That I get, but what did it have to do with my post you quoted.

[BallSpanking]

... nevermind.

[mrs_reese]

There have been loooooong spells of absence. Sometimes couples don't continue to make their private lives public. So far, Mrs Reese has been gracious enough to do so, to the benefit of us all.

That I get, but what did it have to do with my post you quoted.

Ballspanking and I have had a very long friendship and the site and I think he understands me quite well.
With that in mind, he is very intuitive with understanding that I don’t always find the need to comment on this thread when I have another man in my life who I am committed to

[Her number1]

There have been loooooong spells of absence. Sometimes couples don't continue to make their private lives public. So far, Mrs Reese has been gracious enough to do so, to the benefit of us all.

That I get, but what did it have to do with my post you quoted.

Ballspanking and I have had a very long friendship and the site and I think he understands me quite well.
With that in mind, he is very intuitive with understanding that I don’t always find the need to comment on this thread when I have another man in my life who I am committed to

Thanks and I can appreciate that.
I was just at a loss as to why he quoted my post when it didn't fit the context of what I said. No foul on him, I just didn't get it, but now see that he was just telling me something about you ( which I'm aware of ) and not commenting on my words.
Anyway, I'll bow out.

[BallSpanking]

Love ya, Mrs Reese!
Merry Christmas to you and Mr Reese!

[mrs_reese]

Love ya, Mrs Reese!
Merry Christmas to you and Mr Reese!

merry Christmas to you and your family xoxo

[mrs_reese]

So I need to figure out some holiday arrangements!
This is a busy time of year for me and hubby, lots of commitments, visits, parties, family get together, we are busy just about every day until after the holidays.
How do i make time for Jake?
He’s asking!
He’s not at all being demanding but he’s confused how this works with the holidays!
I am struggling right now!
I don’t know what to do!
He doesn’t want to just have sex, he wants me for his parties and family get togethers.
He asked me when am i going to make time for him, he said “I am your boyfriend and I don’t want to piss off hubby, but when?”

[superb101]

How about an "after party" party with just you and him? Or can you leave one of your lesser important parties to show up fashionably late for one of his?

[mrs_reese]

How about an "after party" party with just you and him? Or can you leave one of your lesser important parties to show up fashionably late for one of his?

What a great idea, drive separately, leave friends party and show up later to Jakes! Thank you

[superb101]

You are so welcome! But that only works IF (1) you dont meet someone else at the party to screw first or(2) Jake decides to take you to his place and screw there. LOL

[veub]

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He doesn’t want to just have sex, he wants me for his parties and family get togethers.
He asked me when am i going to make time for him, he said “I am your boyfriend and I don’t want to piss off hubby, but when?”

How about an "after party" party with just you and him? Or can you leave one of your lesser important parties to show up fashionably late for one of his?

What a great idea, drive separately, leave friends party and show up later to Jakes! Thank you

I'm sure he will enjoy the "after party," but that's not what he wants.