Figuring it out

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 11:14 am

Eek. Here goes. Part 2 for your reading pleasure. Remember, if you are thinking judgmental thoughts maybe keep them to yourself. I'm feeling brave posting about it...and a bit proud of myself for doing it...so don't burst my bubble :)

Part 2

At the club we put our clothes and things back in the locker, went to get a drink, and went outside to sit by the pool. CJ was there. I smiled briefly and nodded, but we purposefully sat far away from where he was. He was chatting with another couple, so I don’t think he minded.

Adventurer asked if I wanted to wear a collar and play in the dungeon. I said that I’d love to put on a show. I wanted to put on my harness outfit, so I left Adventurer to go change. The body harness has lots of straps and can take a bit of time to get on correctly. Once I was ready, I walked out of the change room. A 20-something woman stopped me in the hall to tell me how much she loved the outfit, and her friend agreed. A couple of men who were standing nearby gave approving glances. I liked the attention.

Adventurer and I went to the dungeon. A guy had followed us and asked if he could watch. I said that was fine. Adventurer strapped me to the St. Andrew’s cross. He kissed me and told me how sexy I was. He slapped my breasts a little and played with my pussy. I was really wet. He made me thank him out loud.

“Thank you sir. It feels really good when you touch me,” I said.

He took out some clover clamps and attached them to my nipples. I gave a little gasp but then thanked him for the pain. He ran his hands down my body and asked if I liked the small group of men who had come in to watch. I smiled and said that I did.

He reached down and played with my pussy some more. One of the guys asked if he could touch me. Adventurer said, “That’s really up to her. Wench, is it ok if he touches you?”

I had mixed feelings but decided to embrace my newfound bravery. I said, “He can touch me a little.”

The guy dropped his towel and started stroking his cock as he walked towards me. I said, “No penises!” (maybe a little too loudly, and with a bit of panic in my voice. LOL).

Adventurer explained that he could touch me with his hands, but not his cock. The guy accepted those rules. He traced my nipple a bit and pulled on the clamp chain. A second guy asked if he could also touch me. I said yes. He took my nipple in his mouth and sucked gently. The first guy’s fingers were playing with my clit. I made eye contact with Adventurer and asked if I could cum. He smiled and nodded. I came hard.

A few more people had come in to watch. A few more men were touching me. I found it a bit overwhelming. After orgasming a second time I said that I needed a break.

“All right, everyone back off. She needs a break,” Adventurer commanded. A guy to the right of me also helped out by tapping a couple of guys on the shoulder and telling them to step back.

Adventurer came to kiss me. He asked how I was doing and said how sexy it had been watching. He said that he loved me. His fingers played with my pussy and began fucking me. I told him I was going to squirt. He told me to go for it. There was soon a puddle dripping down my thighs.

Adventurer asked if I wanted to have the men touch me again. I said that the guy to my right (the one who had helped back the other guys away) could touch me. Adventurer told him that he had permission. That guy was very gentle. He ran his hands over me and even caressed my ass a little. I said he could slap it a bit if he wanted. He did, in the lightest way possible. I smiled at the attempt.

But me granting one guy permission seemed to imply blanket permission to others. A few other men had stepped forward. Soon there were a lot of hands on me and I got overwhelmed again. I said that I needed another break. In particular, I needed the guy who was playing with my pussy to stop. I don’t know what he was doing exactly, but I wasn’t enjoying it. (Note: My legs were not completely immobilized and I may have kneed him away!)

Adventurer took control of the situation. “Hey buddy. Yeah you . You’re done. She wants you to stop. Back away.”

After that, I felt better. I knew that Adventurer had my back and that I had the control to stop anything I didn’t like. The way the men were looking at me was still intimidating, but there were a few women standing behind the group of guys. They were smiling admiringly. One was touching herself slightly. I liked that they were watching and were aroused. Keeping my eye on them, I came again quickly.

Adventurer cleared the crowd a bit for me and came to check in. He kissed me and asked if I wanted anyone else to touch me. I said I wasn’t sure. I did want the nipple clamps off though. He removed them.

Someone asked if I wanted one of the women to touch me. I agreed that would be fine, if they wanted to.

One woman was kind of pushed forward. I had seen her earlier telling a couple of the guys that she wasn’t interested in having them touch her.

“She doesn’t have to touch me if she doesn’t want to,” I said to those nudging her. “I’m big on consent.”

She smiled back and said, “It’s ok. I want to.”

Her touch was very gentle. She explored my body a bit and kissed me. She lowered the towel that she had wrapped around her body and pressed her breast against mine.

“You have very nice nipples” I said to her with a smile.

“Well you have gorgeous breasts,” she replied.

Some creep came up behind her and began to rub his cock against her ass, but her boyfriend told him to stop. Once I knew that someone was looking out for her, I felt better. I let myself just enjoy what she was doing and trusted that other people had command of the situation.

She leaned over so that she could see what she was doing. She parted my pussy lips with her fingers and slowly played with the labia before finding my clit. She toyed with it gently and I told her that she was going to make me cum. She kept watching closely as my body quaked in orgasm. “Wow” she said as she stood back up to kiss me. I thanked her very much for her assistance.

I told the group that I wanted my husband. Adventurer stepped forward and I said that I wanted him to untie me and take me upstairs to fuck me in private. I wanted him inside me. He said that my wish was his command.

The nice guy to my right said that he’d love to come upstairs with us, but I kindly said that I wasn’t interested.

Once down from the St. Andrew’s cross. Adventurer led me by the hand out of the room. One of the women at the back of the room mouthed “Wow. That was awesome” to me as I walked by. I smiled and thanked her.

We went upstairs and found a private room.

Adventurer told me how amazing I was and how proud he was of me, but he also wanted to know how I was feeling. I told him I loved him and that I was a bit in shock but doing well. He leaned me back on a bed and spent a long time licking my pussy and making me cum. I told him that I desperately wanted him inside me. He was happy to oblige. It was slow and tender, I could feel every inch and wanted him so badly. Some other people walked into the room to find their own place to play. We were lost in our own bubble and didn’t really notice them.

After cumming inside me, Adventurer lay next to me and held me. We talked and cuddled, kissed and laughed. I said that I couldn’t believe I had done all of that. He couldn’t either, but he thought it was amazing. I said that women were a lot less creepy than men. He agreed. We decided that some of the guys were sex zombies…just brainlessly trolling for any women that would let them near them.

We eventually noticed that there were two couples in the room with us. Both were making love and it was enjoyable to be surrounded by the sounds of their pleasure.

We decided it was time to go. We went back down to the change room. Adventurer went to find the restroom, so I was alone for a bit. One of the guys from the dungeon walked by.

“Are you leaving?” he asked since I was now wearing street clothes.

“Yeah, I’m kind of exhausted,” I laughed.

He laughed too and said he could understand. “Well thank you for earlier. That was really amazing. Thank you for letting me be a part of it,” he said. I guess not all the zombies are bad :)

What I’ve learned from this experience is:
  • I am capable of getting pleasure out of letting strangers touch me
  • I am sexy and attractive. I enjoyed having men and women both watch me and get aroused by it.
  • I don’t like feeling like a piece of meat. While I’m capable of anonymous sex, I’m not 100% sure that it is for me.
  • Eye contact is important for me. The women (and a couple of men) who looked at me meaningfully with arousal and admiration in their eyes, made the experience enjoyable for me.
  • My husband is awesome and can be counted on to fend off creeps. Seriously, I trust him completely and am glad to have someone supporting me as I explore things.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Jul 14, 2022 12:56 pm

WOW!!!! What a great story and adventure!!! I guess I've been wasting my time and fingers typing some of my messages to you if you just now realized that you are sexy and attractive!!! You should listen to your posters... we know something about sexy and attractive!!! :D And LFA, you have it in TONS!!!!! I so happy you had a great time and I hope to hear of you being more open to sexy play with strangers in controlled settings!!! Very HOT!!!! 😋💖😈💋

Rascal

Any pics of you on a cross somewhere?? Just thought that would be a fitting touch to this story!!! :D

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Voyeurcouple904 » Thu Jul 14, 2022 2:04 pm

Wow! I'm new here but that was definitely one of the hottest stories I've read! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 3:26 pm

rascalnvixen wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 12:56 pm
WOW!!!! What a great story and adventure!!! I guess I've been wasting my time and fingers typing some of my messages to you if you just now realized that you are sexy and attractive!!! You should listen to your posters... we know something about sexy and attractive!!! :D And LFA, you have it in TONS!!!!! I so happy you had a great time and I hope to hear of you being more open to sexy play with strangers in controlled settings!!! Very HOT!!!! 😋💖😈💋

Rascal

Any pics of you on a cross somewhere?? Just thought that would be a fitting touch to this story!!! :D
Thank you Rascal. It turns out that a few random strangers agree with you 😁

No pics in the cross I'm afraid. Cameras aren't allowed in the club. But maybe next time we play in the bdsm rental space, I can do a little OHWs photo shoot.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Jul 14, 2022 3:28 pm

Voyeurcouple904 wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 2:04 pm
Wow! I'm new here but that was definitely one of the hottest stories I've read! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences!
Thank you. It has been a fun journey this far.

rascalnvixen

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Jul 14, 2022 3:31 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 3:26 pm
Thank you Rascal. It turns out that a few random strangers agree with you 😁

No pics in the cross I'm afraid. Cameras aren't allowed in the club. But maybe next time we play in the bdsm rental space, I can do a little OHWs photo shoot.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah!!!! That would be sooooo hot!!!! Would you get off knowing your fans here are looking at you in your BDSM mode??? How about knowing they would all love to be with you as you have the pics taken?? Just the idea of you posting pics of you in the mode is really HOT!!!

Rascal

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by regular3 » Thu Jul 14, 2022 5:12 pm

Thank you for your amazing recount of your sex club adventure. It sounds like overall it was a big step forward for you both, especially letting strangers feel you up.
Do you have any thoughts or fantasies about eventually taking that aspect further?

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Johng1953 » Fri Jul 15, 2022 2:28 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 3:26 pm
rascalnvixen wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 12:56 pm
WOW!!!! What a great story and adventure!!! I guess I've been wasting my time and fingers typing some of my messages to you if you just now realized that you are sexy and attractive!!! You should listen to your posters... we know something about sexy and attractive!!! :D And LFA, you have it in TONS!!!!! I so happy you had a great time and I hope to hear of you being more open to sexy play with strangers in controlled settings!!! Very HOT!!!! 😋💖😈💋

Rascal

Any pics of you on a cross somewhere?? Just thought that would be a fitting touch to this story!!! :D
Thank you Rascal. It turns out that a few random strangers agree with you 😁

No pics in the cross I'm afraid. Cameras aren't allowed in the club. But maybe next time we play in the bdsm rental space, I can do a little OHWs photo shoot.
That was amazing, thank you for sharing, it was obviously a big step for you to take.
And it would be amazing too if you did a photoshoot for us next time you play in the bdsm rental place. I still go back to look at the other pics you (or adventurer) have shared from other visits there.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Adventurer » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:11 am

A picture of the beautiful LFA bound in a similar manner has been posted in the Hotties thread😉.
Married to Lookingforadventure

Our story:viewtopic.php?f=47&t=63148

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:52 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 10:29 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Jul 14, 2022 10:10 am

LFA - You know if you are in the 416 and feeling adventurous (what you guys - Never!), head over to the "Islands". Specifically Hanlan's Point - an officially recognized by the City clothing optional beach. :idea: :shock: :o :o
How did you know that "nude beach" is on my summer bucket list? Hanlan's point is a possibility. I have heard there is also one in Port Burwell on Lake Erie. It might make for a fun road trip :)
LFA - "Nude beach" - Ah your smile says it all. :lol: - Of which of course we need another pic of - PLEEASE!

- Not so sure how much these days, but there used to be a number of secluded spots along the shoreline east from downtown out through Scarborough - Pickering that were used for much the same thing. Used to know a GO Train Engineman who would make comment years ago. At the time at least being on the train was the only way you could catch a glimpse, at 70 mph.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Jul 15, 2022 5:04 am

Adventurer wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:11 am
A picture of the beautiful LFA bound in a similar manner has been posted in the Hotties thread😉.
Oh man! You do love to share, don't you ;)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Jul 15, 2022 5:07 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:52 am

LFA - "Nude beach" - Ah your smile says it all. :lol: - Of which of course we need another pic of - PLEEASE!

- Not so sure how much these days, but there used to be a number of secluded spots along the shoreline east from downtown out through Scarborough - Pickering that were used for much the same thing. Used to know a GO Train Engineman who would make comment years ago. At the time at least being on the train was the only way you could catch a glimpse, at 70 mph.
The is a romantic appeal to the life of a train engineer. I'm sure it is not as exciting as it sounds in my head, but life on the rails, seeing the sights, maybe having a little fun in the engine room as the train is at maximum speed...mmmm....sorry, got a little distracted there :)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by rascalnvixen » Fri Jul 15, 2022 6:02 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 5:07 am
The is a romantic appeal to the life of a train engineer. I'm sure it is not as exciting as it sounds in my head, but life on the rails, seeing the sights, maybe having a little fun in the engine room as the train is at maximum speed...mmmm....sorry, got a little distracted there :)
OMG!!! You ARE a girl of my heart!!! Love your adventuresome outlook with a little risk in play as well!!!! I'd love to rail you at maximum speed as well!!!! :D :o :shock: :oops: :mrgreen:

Rascal

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Seekingmore12 » Fri Jul 15, 2022 8:17 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 5:07 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:52 am

LFA - "Nude beach" - Ah your smile says it all. :lol: - Of which of course we need another pic of - PLEEASE!

- Not so sure how much these days, but there used to be a number of secluded spots along the shoreline east from downtown out through Scarborough - Pickering that were used for much the same thing. Used to know a GO Train Engineman who would make comment years ago. At the time at least being on the train was the only way you could catch a glimpse, at 70 mph.
The is a romantic appeal to the life of a train engineer. I'm sure it is not as exciting as it sounds in my head, but life on the rails, seeing the sights, maybe having a little fun in the engine room as the train is at maximum speed...mmmm....sorry, got a little distracted there :)
Do train stations count :-)

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Fri Jul 15, 2022 8:56 am

Seekingmore12 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 8:17 am

Do train stations count :-)
They get half points :) A moving train would be even better.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Fri Jul 15, 2022 11:23 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 8:56 am
Seekingmore12 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 8:17 am

Do train stations count :-)
They get half points :) A moving train would be even better.
LFA - You guys should try (as I take it you habitate in S.O.ish) sometime flying out to the Wet Coast and returning on Via Rail's "The Canadian". Lots of rocking and rolling.

If you should be interested in any advise, because it's not cheap, let me know (PM me). Over the years I've done this six times and next week going up to Churchill Man. Returning to The Peg on Via.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Fox » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:50 pm

I don’t know what you were worried about. That sounds really hot!! You have some similarities to how Shirley sees things in the lifestyle. Very similar actually.

Lookingforadventure

Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Jul 17, 2022 7:05 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 11:23 am

LFA - You guys should try (as I take it you habitate in S.O.ish) sometime flying out to the Wet Coast and returning on Via Rail's "The Canadian". Lots of rocking and rolling.

If you should be interested in any advise, because it's not cheap, let me know (PM me). Over the years I've done this six times and next week going up to Churchill Man. Returning to The Peg on Via.
Thank you for the tip. I think a train trip would be fun. I've looked into it before but my kids weren't interested enough in joining me to warrant the cost. It might have to be a couple's trip when they are out of the house.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Sun Jul 17, 2022 7:08 am

Fox wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:50 pm
I don’t know what you were worried about. That sounds really hot!! You have some similarities to how Shirley sees things in the lifestyle. Very similar actually.
Thank you Fox. I think I just worried people would think less of me because I was a bit uninhibited. It is pretty slutty to let random strangers finger you to orgasm while you are restrained. Lol.

But I'm learning to embrace my sluttiness. Plus, I liked that the one guy thanked me and said goodbye, and that the women were admiring. Admiration and gratitude = good. Judgement = bad.

Sounds like Shirley is a wise woman 😁

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Fox » Sun Jul 17, 2022 10:39 am

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sun Jul 17, 2022 7:08 am
Fox wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:50 pm
I don’t know what you were worried about. That sounds really hot!! You have some similarities to how Shirley sees things in the lifestyle. Very similar actually.
Thank you Fox. I think I just worried people would think less of me because I was a bit uninhibited. It is pretty slutty to let random strangers finger you to orgasm while you are restrained. Lol.

But I'm learning to embrace my sluttiness. Plus, I liked that the one guy thanked me and said goodbye, and that the women were admiring. Admiration and gratitude = good. Judgement = bad.

Sounds like Shirley is a wise woman 😁
She struggles with people thinking of her as slutty as well. One of the similarities I was referring to. However, she is starting to embrace it a little more. In fact, if things go the way we hope, we will have another major update this week that will have her jumping outside her comfort zone like you did but in a different way that will be incredibly hot and a big step for her just like you did.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Sun Jul 17, 2022 4:29 pm

Lookingforadventure wrote:
Sun Jul 17, 2022 7:05 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Fri Jul 15, 2022 11:23 am

LFA - You guys should try (as I take it you habitate in S.O.ish) sometime flying out to the Wet Coast and returning on Via Rail's "The Canadian". Lots of rocking and rolling.

If you should be interested in any advise, because it's not cheap, let me know (PM me). Over the years I've done this six times and next week going up to Churchill Man. Returning to The Peg on Via.
Thank you for the tip. I think a train trip would be fun. I've looked into it before but my kids weren't interested enough in joining me to warrant the cost. It might have to be a couple's trip when they are out of the house.
LFA - Opps, forgot about the kids. Was definitely thinking of just you and A.
- One does not truly appreciate how big this country is until you do something like this. And even going from Van to TO is only 2/3 of the way across!

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Mrs Curious » Mon Jul 18, 2022 5:39 am

I read this yesterday, while "Hoping" and and I returned from a road trip. It is an exciting story, and I was actually very nervous for you. I re-read it today. It is a VERY juicy story. While you were not"free" you still had all the power. It took a lot of guts not only to do, but to share. Thank you!
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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Mon Jul 18, 2022 11:42 am

Fox wrote:
Sun Jul 17, 2022 10:39 am

She struggles with people thinking of her as slutty as well. One of the similarities I was referring to. However, she is starting to embrace it a little more. In fact, if things go the way we hope, we will have another major update this week that will have her jumping outside her comfort zone like you did but in a different way that will be incredibly hot and a big step for her just like you did.
I hope it goes well. I'm going to find some time to read your thread and will say hello there as well.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by Lookingforadventure » Tue Jul 19, 2022 5:00 pm

Mrs Curious wrote:
Mon Jul 18, 2022 5:39 am
I read this yesterday, while "Hoping" and and I returned from a road trip. It is an exciting story, and I was actually very nervous for you. I re-read it today. It is a VERY juicy story. While you were not"free" you still had all the power. It took a lot of guts not only to do, but to share. Thank you!
Thank you Ms. Curious. I missed your comment originally, so I apologize for not responding earlier.

Thank you for your kind words. I'm feeling kind of proud of myself that I did it. I still don't know if I would do it again, but I feel brave at having tried it once. And yes, my dabbling in bdsm often has taught me that the sub often has the power. They set the ground rules and can halt things at any time. I am glad my husband was there to make sure it went smoothly.

I look forward to hearing more about your story.

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Re: Figuring it out

Unread post by regular3 » Tue Jul 19, 2022 6:05 pm

Well if you were to try it again you would certainly have a lot of adoring fans rooting for you.
Maybe there's an adult theatre nearby you could try something similar.

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