Jane' adventure

[jane]

cool down everyone. no offense taken either way.

[jane]

if only my husband could reply but he left for work..

[bubbajack]

Sorry, Bear.

A little less quick on the trigger would have been better, especially in the context of the this Forum's admirable engagement norms.

I will endeavor to keep my somewhat puzzling (to me, as well as anyone else who is wondering) devotion to Jane from interfering with my aim to conduct myself decently here.

I attribute my crush on Jane to advancing age and anxiety over diminishing personal powers. Those conditions often seem to cause "old men to dream dreams."

Please don't let anyone's rude reaction keep you from continuing to contribute or stop you and Mrs Bear from journeying in the direction we all want you to reach.

All the best,

Bubbajack

[Arctus]

Then jane undressed Deron. He looked over and told me to get undressed, and Jane agreed. I got undressed and sat down. Jane sat on the edge of the bed and went down on him. I think she was playing it up for me with moaning and sucking noises. She whispered to him, and i think they agreed to take the cuckolding up a bit. ...

I don't think it will be a regular occurance, but it was better than last time. And afterward the talk was back to normal and Deron was cool to me again.

I'm curious whether you were wearing the chastity device when Deron told you to get undressed? If not, did you get erect as you watched? Were you given an opportunity to enjoy Jane after Deron left? And, I'm curious why you think "it was better than last time"?

And thanks for keeping us updated.

Best to you and Jane.

[Janes Husband]

It did not bother me quite as much as last time. Why, i don't know. Maybe it's just getting use to it.
But it'll always be strange seeing another man with her.

[Aynsley]

It did not bother me quite as much as last time. Why, i don't know. Maybe it's just getting use to it.
But it'll always be strange seeing another man with her.

Hey JH,
It sounds like you two are reaching a good place; Cool.

Just thought I'd comment on the 'difference' between 'Being There' and an 'MFM' where I'm participating.
On five different occasions, I've been present when Iris was having sex with another guy.
Three were an MFM, and the other two were erotic massages.

And yet, even more erotic than those five times,
was the time that Iris had a Hotel Date w/our black gentleman friend, Trent.
Iris called and left the phone on, so I was Only 'present' via the cell phone.
The ability to hear what was happening, but having no control, was quite exhilarating.
I'm guessing that if Iris ever took video, that I'd be equally blown away, particularly if she suprised me with it.

I am not sure why there's a difference (at least for me) between 'being present' and 'participating';
both are a lot of fun...but the former does give me an extra 'charge'. Anyway, your situation caused
me to think about the difference between those two situations.

[bubbajack]

I just wish J'sH would share a little about what satisfaction he is getting out of this amazing ride (I guess I should say, "what satisfaction if any," just to avoid the appearance of "leading the witness" - even though I am!)

I genuinely hope you are enjoying it, sir.

[Arctus]

Jane's Husband... You wrote:

"It did not bother me quite as much as last time. Why, i don't know. Maybe it's just getting use to it. But it'll always be strange seeing another man with her."

I remain curious whether you found watching arousing at any level? Not just whether it bothered you or not. But did it arouse? As I recall, you first suggested that Jane push the boundaries and explore the HW lifestyle. There must have been some arousal for you then. Is there still arousal for you associated with Jane's sexual involvement with other men? Just curious about your erotic thoughts and feelings about where you and Jane are now... mostly where you are in this process.

I'm glad to hear that you are not reacting negatively to Jane's boundary pushing.

[Janes Husband]

I don't fully understand it. Up till now i have found it more stimulating to not be there. Watching being pounded really hard, and hearing her voice, her reaction, knowing that she is having an orgasm did arouse me. Before it was too much for me to handle . It's not going to become a routine for me to be there, but there's been a little more acceptance this time of what she is feeling, and that's it's alright, from me. This is a very deeply psychological thing, and difficult to understand.

[Arctus]

Thank you for answering. I presume you were not wearing a chastity device at the time Deron asked you to take off your clothes.

I wonder what that was about for Deron. Perhaps he wanted to level the playing field (read, I'm naked, you get naked too). Perhaps he could see whether you were aroused or not and that helped him gauge the effect of his cuckolding behavior. So many possibilities.

About a month ago, I had the pleasure of watching Angelique being taking by a Bull. I enjoyed every minute of the experience. She may fly solo sometime down the road. We're taking it one step at a time. Visited a club once and were just with each other in the midst of a lot of sex around us. Then, we invited the Third - the Bull to take her in my presence. And now she's expressed some interest in flying solo which for me is a bigger challenge that being present (unlike what you report).

[bubbajack]

Hello J'sH,

Thanks from me, too.

If I understand what you are saying, you have liked the hotwifing idea and the feeling you have about Jane doing other men for a long time. But your favoring it simply did not include a desire to watch her get fucked.

Now that you have seen it, at least twice, it has generated no particular desire to see it again or regularly. But seeing it has also not lessened the appeal of the idea that she is doing it or your excited feelings about her doing it.

I think the basic HW theory is that the wife enjoying sex with others does not necessarily destroy the marital relationship even though it does tend to change it, for better or for worse (as we see written about here every day).

It seems that watching her get pounded at least did not make things between you and her worse, from what you said in today's post

there's been a little more acceptance this time of what she is feeling, and that's it's alright, from me

The only proof that the basic HW theory is true in any instance is that the marital relationship is at least not made worse by the wife doing other guys. It sounds like the theory is still holding true for you and Jane.

As always, best to you both.

[bubbajack]

Bump

[justincase]

Any new developments? Hell, I would get excited just hearing about Jane's trips to the Grocery store. I can't tell you how many times I check to see if a full-size version of your old avitar has been added to the Hotties section.

[bubbajack]

Hello Jane et al.

Mrs Reese's current explorations into the bbc domination game have made me wonder about the state of play with you, your husband and Deron.

Your adventures are always exciting to us all - I hope you are having good and interesting times!

[54321]

Dear Jane's husband,

I am a huge fan of you and Jane and your adventures. After consideration, please tell us which moments in your hotwifing adventures have been the most enjoyable for you.

Best wishes,

54321

[Arctus]

Jane and JH... are you two doing ok? Your silence is deafening...

Hope you're ok.

[bubbajack]

Hope you are all OK.

Wish you would post.

Best to you both.

[jane]

thinking of going to a club tonight..

[bubbajack]

Alone or accompanied?

[jane]

david and i going together, but maybe he'll hang back and watch

[wookinponub]

would love to see you out at a club in Socal Jane.
mmmmmmmm

[Arctus]

And how did the clubbin' go last night... Did you use your extra hour wisely <smile>?

Hope you had fun...

[Aynsley]

Hi Jane & JH,

Hope you guys are well. How did the clubbing, go?

[jane]

nothing special really. just dipping my toe in the water. not much hw'ing lately

[jane]

i havn't seen him, but we have talked. i think we'll get together again soon.
i met with a new guy last night. little young for me, a bit under six feet tall too. met at a hotel, and got down to it quickly. he doesn't have much experience with hotwives. probably gets enough 'regular' girls. did he do me hard though! sore today.