Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

Baby, your HW adventures are as exciting today as they were the first time you posted. You're a rock-star, baby!

[mrs_reese]

Good morning everyone,
Yes BallSpanking, this adventure is one I’ll
Never forget.
Yesterday:
I went to the marina and I was very nervous.
The Captain looked so handsome and sexy.
He is 55.
Divorced with grown children, grandfather to 3 children.
We left on his boat and anchored near a little
Island that a lot of boats visit.
He asked me lots of questions, polite and inquisitive but to the point.
He said that obviously I made a choice to come with him without husband and asked if I was interested in developing something between us.
He told me how attractive I was to him.
I had a blue top and shirts barely covering my butt and boat shoes, hair in braids.
I looked very cute I must say.

I was honest with him,
I told him I had a fwb and we only have sex.

I told him hubby encourages me to find lovers.
He knew all about hot wife play and stags/ vixen situations.
He’s played with other couples many times.

I told him right now if we were to move forward, that I’d only want to be with him alone and not a 3 some with hubby,

I guess in instinct, he pulled me closer to him and kissed me.
It’s not often a man can make me feel so wet upon first kiss but he did!

We kissed for a while and he asked me if I’d like to go down to his lower level.

Of course I wanted to go, but I told him maybe not just yet.

So we ended up having an amazing night,
We kissed and touched with clothes on.
No sex.
But I want him inside me right now as I post this.
Hubby was out with the boys and I have to admit when he came home I was in bed playing myself.
Hubby walked in and helped me finish having my orgasms.

I’ll definitely see the Captain again real soon.

[Hobby_Fan]

Cannot wait for the next update.

[BallSpanking]

Aye-aye-aye, Captain!

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update mrs_reese. Wonderful to hear that you have a connection with the Cap'n. Can't wait to hear more of your encounters with the gentleman Captain

[BallSpanking]

How do you dress for work, Mrs Reese?
Do you wear thigh highs and skimpy G-strings? Maybe some nice cleavage?
How will you dress for your Captain, a naval theme?

[54321]

We kissed for a while and he asked me if I’d like to go down to his lower level.

Yay!

Kinda nice you didn't have sex though. He's romantic and understands the lifestyle too... sounds like a keeper!

54321

[veub]

How is Jake going to react if you're taking time from him to see the Captain?

[mrs_reese]

Thanks for the update mrs_reese. Wonderful to hear that you have a connection with the Cap'n. Can't wait to hear more of your encounters with the gentleman Captain

Hopefully this afternoon

[mrs_reese]

How do you dress for work, Mrs Reese?
Do you wear thigh highs and skimpy G-strings? Maybe some nice cleavage?
How will you dress for your Captain, a naval theme?

Hi Ballspanking
I have to be more conservative at work
But I do wear g strings all the time and you know by now I have great tits and cleavage.

This afternoon I’ll be meeting captain
I need to try on a couple outfits for ideas.

I’ll be sure to be smooth all over.
I think I want him inside me 🥰

[mrs_reese]

How is Jake going to react if you're taking time from him to see the Captain?

Jeff is my Fwb
I’ll eventually tell him.
We only have sex here and there and he likes having sex with married women

[BallSpanking]

I need to try on a couple outfits for ideas.

I suggest a tight white/navy micro-mini.
Tiny/sheer G-string (white).
A bare midriff button shirt, tied (white).
Sans bra.
5" CFMP/s (white or navy).
A Captain's navy officer cap (Walmart/Costco $5.00-$7.00)
🥵

[KinkyBear]

Success?

[54321]

I suggest a tight white/navy micro-mini.
Tiny/sheer G-string (white).
A bare midriff button shirt, tied (white).
Sans bra.
5" CFMP/s (white or navy).
A Captain's navy officer cap (Walmart/Costco $5.00-$7.00)

Wow! He'll definitely pipe you aboard!

54321

[BallSpanking]

I have frequently mused on the nature of this site, how it is all about wives, but narrated almost exclusively by husbands, and a male audience that follows their stories vicariously, sharing their experiences by proxy. Yet, in its most naked essence, these are intimate stories of indiscreet intimate encounters, even if they are read by an audience of voyeurs, whose deepest meaning occurs between a married woman and her lover(s).

As men, we tend to focus on the prurient, the inflamed libido our wives experience from sharing their tenderness with their lovers, but I can never break away from the underlying truth, that it is the woman who has most at stake, who is most immediately and profoundly impacted by the events and emotions that unfold during these encounters.

As men, we are impatient to catch up on the latest indiscretions, the most recent descriptions of our wives being transformed by these experiences. We hope for them, wish for them, masturbate to them, but can NEVER fathom them in their most consequential form. Only our wives can experience that. And for all the detail and disclosure, and even desire to share the experience fully with their husbands, there is necessarily the ineffable nature of that tender exchange that cannot be replicated or explained.

It is our wives who are most fundamentally transformed by the experience of another man, often more virile, more potent, and better endowed, who will outdo himself to love our woman with a passion, surrender, and sincerity that has long been extinguished in their everyday life.

In our imaginations, we desire their transformation by these soul bearing encounters will move them deeply, free them from inhibitions, allow them to express their sweetest surrender in another man's embrace, sharing their most profound emotions and desires with better men than ourselves.

I believe we succeed very often in bringing out their deepest, most loving selves, but not as an experience the husband will ever know, except in their prurient retelling. But we ought not be surprised by their transformation, and redirection of their hearts to another man, not ourselves. We want desperately to learn of their metamorphosis, fearful and oblivious that frequently we will lose perhaps the most precious aspect of our wives, their innocence and fealty to us as husbands and main providers.

I hope, Mrs Reese, because of the deep affection we have developed between us over the years, that you are the exception. That you are one of those few who are brought closer and more intimate to Mr Reese, who like us, in our twisted inadequate way, have chosen this perilous path to bestow that illumined experience on yourself, and that you, as an exceptionally wise and tender woman, are able to overlook our folly, and in fact fall more deeply in love with your husband as a result of our distorted desire for your self actualization.

Kisses, darling.

[leggysman]

I dunno man. I just don't think it's that deep, TBH. I get that you're kind of rhapsodizing over Mrs Reese here, but ...

Most of us have had sex with several (or dozens and dozens of) people. It's fun. Variety is exciting.

If you're a woman who enjoys doing that, and you have a husband who encourages that and enjoys it ... whee !?!?

whose deepest meaning occurs between a married woman and her lover(s).

I think the deepest meaning occurs between the hotwife and her husband. Not between the hotwife and her lovers (ideally).

[whosbeensleeping]

Love hearing you recount your story Mrs. Reese! Thank you for your candid generosity.

[BallSpanking]

Bump

[Mature_Roselands2555]

Where's MrsReece, on Gilligans Island with the skipper

[54321]

Sorry, Spank. I'm with Leggy on this one

54321

[BallSpanking]

Sorry, Spank. I'm with Leggy on this one

54321

If you read the following context to that statement, you will better understand my meaning.
Hotwives frequently undergo transformational growth with their lovers, often keeping the most intimate experiences to themselves, or sharing them only limitedly with their husbands, hence my remark (applied to that specific dynamic).