Figuring it out

[farmerJ]

All I can say is wow! I don't know who is luckier G or Adventure or should say LFA herself, What a story and oh my such a beautiful woman. I wish i would have done this when i was young. I love your story and LFA smiles. Happy for you both!

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Wow,quite the post! You write extremely well, so it is always a pleasure to read your posts.
Glad your day of stepping out of your normal day to day was a grand success. And, dare I say, it probably felt like it was longer than it was. A good mental (and others) health break.

Thank you. It did feel longer than 30 hours...in a very good way. It was an excellent escape from reality...like living in a fantasy for a day

How was "A" with everything. Hopefully he had a good day with the kids and enjoyed the various files that came his way.

I see that he answered this one for himself

What has been the follow up with G been like? Will there be more "business meeting days" ahead?

The follow up has been good. He said he had a great time and thanked us both. I'm certainly hoping there will be more "business meeting" days soon....or parking lot visits, or picnics, or...

How did you feel being very public with G? Is there a non-bedroom activity you both enjoy that might lead to more public outings?

I loved being public with him. I enjoyed the intimate things like holding hands and kissing, but also the friend things like having meaningful conversations. I'm not sure about picking up a hobby together, though. Life is busy...for all of us...so I'm not sure we could make time. Plus, I really want to keep all my relationships in balance.

Could this lead to more regular dates, as in dinner, movie, etc, sort of thing, though in a another part of the city?

See above. It might. We've talked about grabbing lunch sometime. But I also want to make sure that I'm not asking for too much of his time, nor do I want to overlook the other relationships in my life.

[Lookingforadventure]

G - !
Ah the smile - LFA's superpower.

Ha ha ha. I like that super power. I will try to use it with great responsibility.

[Lookingforadventure]

All I can say is wow! I don't know who is luckier G or Adventure or should say LFA herself, What a story and oh my such a beautiful woman. I wish i would have done this when i was young. I love your story and LFA smiles. Happy for you both!

I think I'm the lucky one. My husband is amazing and I love how supportive he's been of me and my explorations. G is also wonderful. He has a deep respect for our marriage first and foremost, and is also willing to participate in all my naughty ideas. Plus he's become a good friend.

[farmerJ]

You are one amazing woman! My favorite on the forum!

[Lookingforadventure]

A wonderful write up of the adventure!

I will add one more thing, what struck me most was the constant beaming smile from Lfa from the moment we saw each other until drop off, I am also quite sure that adventurer saw the same as they reconnected.

Thank you both, I am humbled to be part of your journey !

G

Ps….I am glad the butter tarts were a hit!

Ppss…… of note, I was also smiling every moment and still am !

What can I say? You bring the smiles out of me.

I'm glad you were smiling too, and that the smiles lingered. Let me know when you need another.

[Lookingforadventure]

I was great with everything, particularly how she was glowing with happiness when she returned. I love everything about her and her exploring her sexuality with others. When we first started, it was the non-sex interactions that tended to trigger jealous emotions with me. That is no longer the case. Her real like of G beyond the bedroom adds to the excitement.

And I did find the files incredible. I think my favourite are the audio recordings (though it's hard to top a picture of my beautiful wife ). There is something so sexy about hearing the full sex session - the kissing, the sex noises, the banter and sexy talk, the many cries of pleasure.

I love everything about you too.

And "more audio please" is noted for the future.

[Whosbeensleeping]

What an amazing journey you are on!

[farmerJ]

Love to hear those audio recordings

[Lookingforadventure]

What an amazing journey you are on!

Thank you. I agree. It has been unexpected in many ways, and has opened up new things for me. I'm grateful.

[Lookingforadventure]

Love to hear those audio recordings

They are fun! I admit that I've listened to them a few times myself.

But they are not for public consumption.

[Lookingforadventure]

You are one amazing woman! My favorite on the forum!

It's not nice to play favourites

All of the ladies here are so great (and most of the guys too). Thank you for being a supportive reader. I appreciate it.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Thank you for sharing, you do a wonderful job of reeling us in and making us all a part of your adventures. My Lovely takes much inspiration from you, and we're both thrilled that things are going well for you all.

As a side note, I appreciate your comment about keeping things in balance. I believe this to be extremely important and often gets overlooked.

I hope we continue to see your beautiful smile.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thank you for sharing, you do a wonderful job of reeling us in and making us all a part of your adventures. My Lovely takes much inspiration from you, and we're both thrilled that things are going well for you all.

As a side note, I appreciate your comment about keeping things in balance. I believe this to be extremely important and often gets overlooked.

I hope we continue to see your beautiful smile.

Thank you hoping she will. I am so grateful to have my husband alongside me in this journey. My biggest concern when we started was that we'd mess up the wonderful thing we have. I'm very careful about that to this day. If he's not fully on board, I'm not on board. And balance is an important part of that.

[farmerJ]

Long as we get a glimpse of your smile! I am good with that!

[Lookingforadventure]

A few of you have asked for an update about “Sir” and my BDSM activities. The truth is, there isn’t a lot to report. I haven’t seen Sir in person since the end of March. We had talked about trying to get together this summer, but so far that hasn’t worked (Adventurer and I had a family member get sick and pass away, so that prevented us from playing for a bit. Sir had some work travel that took him out of the country, and all of us have had busy seasons with our jobs, so scheduling just hasn’t worked out).

Sir and I do chat a couple of times a week, and have a genuine fondness and friendship with one another. We just struggle to find time to play.

With that said, Sir and I have managed to have a handful of virtual play sessions in the past five months. We call them “wench breaks” and we try to fit them in on a weekday or weekend afternoon once a month or so.

I’ll give you a taste of one that happened this week. The plan was to play at 3:30. It helps if we schedule them in advance so that I can have toys and things ready in my bedroom, and Sir can have cleared space on his work calendar (if he’s in the office) or be home (if it is on the weekend). We don’t want him watching explicit videos in the grocery story! LOL

Sir had instructed me to prepare for the play session by attempting to slide an XL glass plug into my pussy at 3 and leave it there until 3:30. This particular plug was an online purchase that Adventurer made….it is WAY too big for anyone’s butt! It certainly won’t fit in mine.

I wasn’t sure it would fit in my pussy either. Glass isn’t a very flexible material and the butt plug shape doesn’t really fit pussy spaces. I expressed my hesitancy and Sir told me, “Whatever works Wench, but try the glass plug first. If it does, it should be a nice, tight fit. If not, slide the large, steel plug into your ass at 3 in lieu of.”

When 3:30 came around, I was naked on my bed with several toys next to me. I texted sir to let him know that my glass plug attempts had failed, but my ass was suitably stuffed. He enjoyed the photo evidence. Then he had me show him how many fingers I could slide into my pussy while my ass was filled with the plug. It took a bit of manoeuvring, but four could fit. I was surprised.

Sir told me to fuck myself to orgasm three times. I wasn’t sure that was going to work. Four fingers in your own pussy is a bit awkward, plus I probably needed some clitoral stimulation. I requested permission to play with my clit using my thumb as my four fingers were inside me.

“Permission granted, but now make it four orgasms,” Sir said. He likes when I show initiative, but also likes there to be consequences (I’m not a very good sub in that way. I frequently express my opinions).

I had another idea and thought that I’d present it in a cheeky way. I shot a short video of my smiling face as I licked and sucked an inflatable dildo. I pushed it very deep in my throat.

“How about I stuff this, instead of my fingers, into my pussy?” I texted as I hit send on the video.“It will free up my hands to play with my clit?”

“Excellent idea! But now make it 5. And feel free to use your magic wand on your clit for assistance.”

I pushed the toy inside and inflated it until I was completely airtight. With both my ass and pussy now stuffed, playing with my clit was extra stimulating. As soon as I turned on the magic wand, my first orgasm came rolling in.

I sent Sir a video.

“Oscar worthy o-face,” he replied.

I sent a blushing face emoji. “I’m not so sure about that, but I’m glad you enjoyed it,” I replied.

“Truth! You are beautiful,” he sent back. “And red carpet stylish too.”

I laughed. “Oh, you mean my stylish sex toy accessories?”

“Exactly! Stupendous. People wouldn’t be able to turn their eyes away. Adventurer could sell tickets to the show.”

“Ha ha ha. And no. My wench antics are for private viewing only.”

“I know. And I thank you for including me….Now focus wench! You need four more.”

The conversation and play continued through those first five orgasms. Then Sir had me remove the butt plug and the inflatable toy. They were replaced with the magic wand. It took some effort and some lube to fit the head into my warmed up pussy, but did eventually fit inside.

Sir instructed me to put a second wand on my clit and bring myself to orgasm 5 more times.

“Oh, so you want me to turn the wands on?” I asked cheekily.

“LOL. Yes! And now make it 7 more because of that comment,” he said with a chuckle.

As both wands hummed nicely on their low setting, Sir texted me about his plans for our next in person play date – gags he’d like me to try, hopes for some breast bondage, perhaps the opportunity to take his cock deep in my throat if I was very, very good.

With those mental images in mind and the vibrations going on between my legs, it didn't take long for the orgasms to start. After the first two, he instructed me to turn the wands on high.

I filmed myself switching the inserted wand from low, to off, and then to high. My body visibly reacting to the change in tempo.

“Keep those legs spread, wench,” he responded. “Looks like we are going to have to get you a spreader bar to hold those legs apart the next time we play.”

“Yes sir… I’m trying,” I texted back.

“Not to worry. We have ways to keep you in line,” he said.

He also commented on how responsive I was to the high voltage vibrators. “We may have to get you a new toy for our next play time,” he texted. “Maybe something industrial strength.”

“Ummmmmmm. No.” I responded.

“Like a paint mixer but to shake your whole lower body,” he continued to tease.

“Remind me to not let you anywhere near my lower body,” I said back.

“Nah. you know you will want me there. But no paint mixers. Noted. Just industrial strength toys! Now get back to work.”

Over the course of about 60 minutes, this banter and play continued. I think I had about 20 orgasms…most from the magic wands, although a couple included an njoy steel wand that always makes me squirt. After completely draining every drop of squirt in me, I tapped out.

“How are your legs doing?” he asked.

“They are quite shaky. I think I may need to lay here for a while before I get up,” I responded.

“Excellent. Then we’ve done a good job.”

“Yes. Thank you sir.”

“Thank YOU wench. You are always appreciated.”

As I lay and recovered, I asked him about his plans for his birthday which is coming up this week. He said he was keeping it pretty low key. It was just another day and just another year.

“I am aghast!” I said back. “55 is not just another year. Someone came up with ‘freedom 55’ for a reason. Clearly it is an important milestone.”

“Ha ha ha. Nah. Maybe 60, or 80, or 100. I’ll definitely celebrate 100”

But he also sent me a link to a youTube clip of the song “I can’t drive (55)” by Sammy Hagar. (He’s a music guy and our conversations often veer into him sharing song links with me. For example, he will tease me by saying something like. “I just heard this and it made me think of you” and the link will go to “Super Freak” by Rick James).

He remembered that my birthday is coming up soon and he asked how I felt about turning 45.

“I love all my birthdays, but 45 seems old. I can’t deny that I’m middle aged anymore…but maybe once you turn 45 you can claim the MILF title,” I texted with a smiley face emoji.

“Oh you are definitely a MILF. Super MILF even!”

“Ha ha ha. That should be my Halloween costume this year”

“Yes! You could hand out edible panties.”

“LOL. That might get me arrested. Or at least I wouldn’t be very popular with the parents in my neighbourhood.”

“I don’t know. I think you’d be very popular with many of the dads”

You get the idea.

So that’s how things are going with sir. We haven’t been meeting in person and don’t have anything scheduled (yet), but he’s charming and witty. He pushes me to do and try things that I normally wouldn’t do. He’s also very OK with me not being a very subservient sub. He puts up with my back talk and my teasing. He respects my limits and listens when I need a break.

It is kind of hard to depict in writing, actually. I don’t lust after him, but I do consider him a friend and am loving the sexual journey that he is helping me explore.

I don’t think I’d be open to playing with another dom. It takes me too long to build that trust level and rapport. Starting over sounds exhausting. So I’m willing to be patient and am very much looking forward to an in person play time again soon.

[farmerJ]

You amazing wench! I do not know how you do it. If i gave my wife more than 2 orgasms, I would probably have to call life squad. You are like a super duper wench! Amazing utter amazing to me

[Lookingforadventure]

You amazing wench! I do not know how you do it. If i gave my wife more than 2 orgasms, I would probably have to call life squad. You are like a super duper wench! Amazing utter amazing to me

Thank you. In my very limited knowledge of women's sexuality, I think that I probably do orgasm more easily and more frequently than most. With that said, forced orgasms like this are fairly new to me. It was something that Sir introduced me to way back when we started chatting and playing. Adventurer will sometimes do it with me as well. It is an interesting experience to not let your body recover from orgasm and to instead continue the stimulation. Eventually, you lose focus on other things and it becomes all about your body and the experience. In theory, some people get to a "sub space" kind of place mentally from it all. I have never experienced that, but I do like the spent feeling after a good play session.

[farmerJ]

You young lady are a amazing woman, I would to have loved to meet someone like you in my younger years. Well your gonna have to change you name, Looking for wench adventures! I think you would be a amazing woman to meet someday.

[Long Lurker 34]

You young lady are a amazing woman, I would to have loved to meet someone like you in my younger years. Well your gonna have to change you name, Looking for wench adventures! I think you would be a amazing woman to meet someday.

LFA - I'm with farmerJ. Well stated.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Another exciting read!! Your exploits are always exciting and they get our heart rates pumped up nicely! I was making mental notes as I read.

Shopping list items:
Two nice sized plugs
Another wand vibrator - plug in variety
Inflatable toy

And a day off from work with the Mrs!

[farmerJ]

And that sounds like a splendid idea for a day off work sir!

[Lookingforadventure]

Another exciting read!! Your exploits are always exciting and they get our heart rates pumped up nicely! I was making mental notes as I read.

Shopping list items:
Two nice sized plugs
Another wand vibrator - plug in variety
Inflatable toy

And a day off from work with the Mrs!

Happy shopping

A few notes for your shopping list:
- don't go too big on the plugs.
- the plug in magic wand is much more powerful than the rechargeable kind. I very much recommend having one of each (for power and convenience)
- inflatable toys are still new to me. I think they come in all sorts of sizes. Sir teases me that there are inflatable gags too (but I continue to insist on being able to breathe. Silly me). I have a small inflatable dildo that only pumps up a bit. I might like to graduate to a larger size but will wait to sample Sirs toys before I invest in more.

I hope you get your day off together soon.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - I'm with farmerJ. Well stated.

Thank you

[farmerJ]

Another exciting read!! Your exploits are always exciting and they get our heart rates pumped up nicely! I was making mental notes as I read.

Shopping list items:
Two nice sized plugs
Another wand vibrator - plug in variety
Inflatable toy

And a day off from work with the Mrs!

Happy shopping

A few notes for your shopping list:
- don't go too big on the plugs.
- the plug in magic wand is much more powerful than the rechargeable kind. I very much recommend having one of each (for power and convenience)
- inflatable toys are still new to me. I think they come in all sorts of sizes. Sir teases me that there are inflatable gags too (but I continue to insist on being able to breathe. Silly me). I have a small inflatable dildo that only pumps up a bit. I might like to graduate to a larger size but will wait to sample Sirs toys before I invest in more.

I hope you get your day off together soon.

Just like buying a tractor, You cannot go wrong with more power!!!!!!!!!! Only a farmer would think like that!