Telling GF -breaking the ice

[BallSpanking]

His loss. She shouldn't be discouraged, though.

[toshare]

His loss. She shouldn't be discouraged, though.

Thanks, totally agree. We (she and I went out instead) I got to enjoy the company of a pretty and sweet girl, not him.
She didnt get discouraged, thankfully. Shes made a date with another guy she met on that app for Wed. I hope it goes much better for her.

Ill be waiting at home for updates. She says she likes it knowing Im home when shes out on a date. I agree, not sure why we both think its hot, but it is

[BallSpanking]

She enjoys being a bas girl.

[whenwillshe]

Safe to say the ice is broken!
No ice could survive these hot encounters

[TomG]

Ok, to sum up. He asked us to the room. She agreed with no expectations. We go up, they big time start making out and upagains the wall. He stopped (being a gentleman) asked her if she wanted anything. We all stopped for a beer from the mini frig. Were sitting on the couch he had in the room, soon they are kissing again and I see them touching and her reaching in her pants rubbing his cock. I was so hard seeing my girl, reach in to feel another mans hard cock, knowing it was hard for my girl. It was not 2 mins later I see her lower her self and op en her mouth to take his hard cock in her pretty lips. My face was flush with lust, my cock too was super hard, but she was full attention to him. After a bit of her sucking his cock, he moved to get her bikini off and was enjoying kissing and licking her nipples. Shes looking at me smiling and asking if I'm ok. I affirm I'm very ok, and move her hand to feel my hardness. She smiled and had me come closer to her where she could unzip me and put my cock in her mouth as she was enjoying his lips on her body. He went down on her, and soon she asked him if he had a condom. I was like, wow my girl is ready to have sex with another man.....and I'm so ready to see her. It a wild moment, she actually said to me, will you put his condom on him. I swear guys, we never talked of this, but I was like sure, why not. I actually (first time ever touching another mans cock , though not sure I touched it, ) I rolled a condom over a mans cock, so he could fuck my girl.
It was amazing seeing him slide in her as she got up on top of him to ride him. I had a great view of seeing her ride as his cock pushed its way inside my girl. I could hear their pleasure and even got to join in. I'm not sure who, but either he or she asked for a DP. We actually DVP her together and she did not last long and she began to cum. I felt a bit self conscious about it all in that DVP and was beginning to loose my erection and moved to let them enjoy the newness of being naked together.

Damn - how much better does it get! Great story, and I'm looking forward to hearing more!

[toshare]

Looks like her date is still on for tonight. Ill driver her to where they are going to meet for dinner. Things have moved a lot from it being more lets go out and see what kinda fun we can get into to this. She told me a few months ago that she wanted to also wanted opportunity to have a "regular". Shes expressed interest in wanting to date a guy too. I told her I was not sure about the dating thing and wanted to just keep it more sexual. She said, "sure, babe only if youre comfortable too." I'm not sure Im ready to share her that way?

Any guys here moved from just being sexual to your girl dating another guy too? I do want her to get enjoyment too from this "game" so I dont want to say no, per-say as more baby steps I guess to see if I can get my mind....heart wrapped around that idea. We are in a solid relationship of mutual respect and I'm a really good catch on the check the boxes thing so I dont have that big of issues when it comes to the competition thing we as humans can find ourselves in. I know shes a good catch too, and we both feel we have a good thing with each other in our lives.

[swansea-john]

Congrats, I can’t wait to hear what happens tonight. Personally if my wife sleeps with other men and women I can deal with it but I couldn’t deal with the dating situation and would shut that down, as I would only want the sexual connection not emotional. There are others on here that are in that situation though, I think you should take it slow and talk about it and see what direction you both want to go in.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum swansea-john.

[toshare]

Congrats, I can’t wait to hear what happens tonight. Personally if my wife sleeps with other men and women I can deal with it but I couldn’t deal with the dating situation and would shut that down, as I would only want the sexual connection not emotional. There are others on here that are in that situation though, I think you should take it slow and talk about it and see what direction you both want to go in.

Thanks. Yeah the emotional part is hard for me too. To kinda bring our story up todate I’ll add that now that she’s had and enjoyed a few sexual experiences with other men outside our relationship she’s found that she enjoys them but would like someone who she can be with more regular as sex is better usually after you know some one.

[toshare]

Her date Wed went well. After their dinner they came back to our place where I got to meet him. They had already kissed in his truck and they kissed more when they were at our place. They did not have sex but made out a lot. I got to see them touching a bit before I left the room to give them time together. He left shortly after but she was all smiles saying they made a date for Friday asking me if that was ok.

Its here where we talked more about what she was wanting and it seems she wanting to have another guy in her like that she can see regularly for dating and sex. She said if she started to get fillings for a guy shed let me know but wanted me to be ok with it if that happens and cant use it as an excuse to break up. I told her Id have to think about this, as Im not sure I could be ok sharing her emotionally. She said shed always kinda had a thing for the 2 boyfriends thing after watching a movie about a year ago called "Savages". I saw the movie with her and remember her saying something like that then, but I told her I could not, but now see its something shed like, so I'm going to try and see if its something I can support her with. With this new thing she wants I was wondering how I could handle her second date with this new guy and asked her can I see how I feel after their second date, she agreed. Well, as Friday came I was getting that anxious feeling but as their date time got closer he had to cancel. She didn't like how he canceled so Im not sure shell go back out wit him again.

So, Im not sure how this falls, is this a typical HW/(stag or cuck)/bull? When we started down this path I surely didnt know this is where wed be, I was thinking more of me just getting to watch her have sex sometimes.

[Favordod]

You're a stronger man than me with this, as I could not handle my wife having a 2nd hubby/boyfriend.

We have yet to have my wife enjoy sex with another man, but I think for us, the main ground rule is not local. We're both thinking it fits well for a vacation (what happens in Vegas.....) so that when it's over, we go back to our normal life. We also live in a small town so that could have something to do with it too.

Only advice I have for you is to listen to your heart. Don't do things that will make you/her uncomfortable and stick to the rules you set out (bend them once and it'll be a slippery slope).

[toshare]

@ Favordod, Thanks,yes, this is something Id like to be better at. Ive read where where other husbands have been able give this longer level of freedom to their loved ones. I know shed like to try it,and as of now, they have talked and agreed to have dinner tonight. So, it looks like some testing of me being ok with it will be on tonight.

What we agreed on: Shes to treat the date as if she were a single girl looking for a bf. 2. Sex is an option tonight but not guaranteed 3. Shell go back to his place after dinner if invited but agrees not to sleep over tonight, though if they hit it off on this second date, options for another date should be allowed where as after the 3rd date would be my chance to figure things out before we go deeper.

I know she and I have a great relationship, and she loves me dearly, I know she does not want to do anything that would harm our relationship, but this is something shes always wanted to do, So I'm trying it out for her. She also agreed she does not want to give up our fun of her hooking up with other men. Shed like to have the fun and romance of two men who care for her yet get the freedom to enjoy other sexual partners too.
And I seemed to had been the one asking her to expand her horizons, now shes doing it to me

[pixwellguy]

.... She also agreed she does not want to give up our fun of her hooking up with other men. Shed like to have the fun and romance of two men who care for her yet get the freedom to enjoy other sexual partners too.
And I seemed to had been the one asking her to expand her horizons, now shes doing it to me

Came here to read your story after I saw your reply on the "Love Spectrum" thread - you indicated there that your gf wants the freedom have an emotional relationship with, and date, another man, while maintaining her relationship with you. As I said over there, this can be an amazing thing if it works for the 3 of you - it can work, but it takes some mental adjustment, particularly on your part.

Now reading what you've said above, it seems as if she wants the situation that my wife has. My wife has a lover with whom she has formed a deep emotional connection. She and her lover are openly in love with each other, and she shares that with me completely. She is also continuing to see a long term bf - that relationship is principally for sex. And of course, she's still free, as she's always been, to fuck any man she wants, anywhere, anytime...although having a lover has mostly taken that part of things off the table.

I can tell you it's an amazing, intense, and hot situation, but it's not for everyone. You really have to have full confidence in YOUR relationship with HER, for this to work. You and she have to be absolutely committed to one another, and to supporting your relationship at all times and in all ways.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about it with someone who's living it right now.

[early-kink]

toshare -
I lived this with a then-HGF for about 1 1/2 years. (we had been together for a while). We both wanted to remain a couple since we had strong feelings and a bond together. But she wanted to be able to date other guys "on the side" and still keep our relationship.

Shoot me a PM if you want more details of how we made it work and how she approached her dating of other guys.

[toshare]

.... She also agreed she does not want to give up our fun of her hooking up with other men. Shed like to have the fun and romance of two men who care for her yet get the freedom to enjoy other sexual partners too.
And I seemed to had been the one asking her to expand her horizons, now shes doing it to me

Came here to read your story after I saw your reply on the "Love Spectrum" thread - you indicated there that your gf wants the freedom have an emotional relationship with, and date, another man, while maintaining her relationship with you. As I said over there, this can be an amazing thing if it works for the 3 of you - it can work, but it takes some mental adjustment, particularly on your part.

Now reading what you've said above, it seems as if she wants the situation that my wife has. My wife has a lover with whom she has formed a deep emotional connection. She and her lover are openly in love with each other, and she shares that with me completely. She is also continuing to see a long term bf - that relationship is principally for sex. And of course, she's still free, as she's always been, to fuck any man she wants, anywhere, anytime...although having a lover has mostly taken that part of things off the table.

I can tell you it's an amazing, intense, and hot situation, but it's not for everyone. You really have to have full confidence in YOUR relationship with HER, for this to work. You and she have to be absolutely committed to one another, and to supporting your relationship at all times and in all ways.

Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about it with someone who's living it right now.

Hi, thanks for your response. Good to know its working for you guys, really glad. Its just something that is new to me, I want to be able to give to her, like she does to me, and like loving couples do for each other. Its just it was not how I saw the "sharing" of my girl to go, however, I know she has things shed like to get out of the lifestyle too so Im looking to try and see how my emotions work for me as we test the waters here. Thanks for the PM offer, I may take you up on it one day.

[toshare]

toshare -
I lived this with a then-HGF for about 1 1/2 years. (we had been together for a while). We both wanted to remain a couple since we had strong feelings and a bond together. But she wanted to be able to date other guys "on the side" and still keep our relationship.

Shoot me a PM if you want more details of how we made it work and how she approached her dating of other guys.

Thanks for the offer, love for you to PM me about it. Its interesting to hear other guys get these request too from their girl/wife when they start to play outside the primary relationship.

[toshare]

To update about her date Tuesday. They went to dinner and then next to the place they had dinner went for a night cap. From there, she text saying shes having a good time and they discussed and she wants to go back to his place. She asked if I was ok with things and I confirmed I was, though my heart was beating hard, along with the worry and the excitement that makes the strange cocktail of a cock telling you to go for it..hahaha
I told her to have fun, and that I was doing pretty good, just wanted her to have fun and do what she thought would be fun. I said something basically, .."....its your dating life, babe" She said she was having fun and would like to go home with him and then sent me a kiss emoji. I intentionally tried to leave them alone, but, as I'm sure many you you guys know, its hard to get out of your head of the reality of your girl out with another man, at his place. I did check up asking if shes having fun and she updated me saying, "yesssss, hes such a great kisser" I asked if she was wanting to have sex with him and she told me she would like that and that shed tell me when she gets home tonight if it happens as shes going to put the phone out of sight and let me wonder a bit. (I ve told her sometimes its a bit of the unknown that's a rush..guess she was pushing my buttons...??).

We both are business owners and have flexibility in our hours, but as it was getting close to 1am, I tried to sleep, it was hard to stay asleep as my mind would not settle down. It was just after 2:30 I heard her come in and I got out of bed to greet her in the kitchen where I saw the disheveled hair and a big grin on her face. I asked,"have fun,babe?" Where I got a big smile a yes, babe and a kiss.
I asked her if she had sex with him and she said, "Yes, babe I did, two times." She went on to say he made her cum with in just minutes using his mouth on her where she quickly had to have him inside her. She said she rode him for awhile as they kissed facing each other on a couch of his, then later went to his bedroom where all the clothes were off and he took her from behind. All of this was so hot for me she and I went to bed as I was touching her all over too asking if he touched her here or there, all the while her smiling saying,"yes baby." We started kissing in the bed where it hit me, just moments ago she already was in another mans bed having sex. She said they had sex many positions and he wanted her to cum again, shes normally a one and done, but she could not. It was then when she said to him she wanted to make him cum. She told me she went down on him and sucked his cock for about 10 mins maybe less until he filled her mouth with his cum (the same one I kissed about 40 mins after). During this time we talked of a lot of naughty scenarios we would like, and ones we did like about her date.(more detail on that later)

She asked me how I was feeling about her seeing him again. I told her I agreed for a 3rd date with them and said I'm still willing to continue with it as we agreed. I have to say to you guys, ive been back and forth in my head if I should continue. There's times when I think its so hot, and other times I think its crazy and should pull the plug. I'm not letting her know of my back and forth because I dont think its fair to her and as I don't have it sorted in my head, why should I put her down my rocky road until I get my head sorted. Thus, I told her I"m fine when they pick their third date. She smiled and said, "good, we set a date Saturday!" Then wanted to confirm with me if that night was good and I said it was as we did not have any real plans.

So this brings us up to date on her dating right now. They do text some, him being sweet and flirty to her and of course she loves the attention. She said she does like him,but does not have any feelings for him, least not yet, other than hes a good guy and would like to see him more, but left the window open if things continue to go well; it would be natural that she could start developing feelings. Well, this is where I am on a Friday, happy my girl is having fun, happy we have tonight together, happy we communicate well, happy we're in each others lives, and that angst of their date on Saturday is fun and not taking away the enjoyment,fully. Its a wild ride, trying to enjoy it. So far we both have found it sexy

[wannabcucked]

Great story. Its gets easier with time.

[tampajym]

Love your story keep going. I'm sure it gets better as time passes. Or not.
In any event, I'm loving the read. Thanks!

[toshare]

Thx guys, good to hear you guys are enjoying our story. So far I’m in a good place today about her date tonight. We’re anout to go shopping, her idea O get her some special panties just for tonight. I thought that was so hot. So, we’re going shopping soon

[Still-Green]

Don't leave us hanging. How did it go!?

[Dharmadude]

Loving following along with this. Interesting how some choose to “date” and others just want a ONS type where any mention of feelings is shut down real quick.

I teased my HW about getting ready for her “date” and she got pretty upset. Basically she said I’m married. I don’t date. It’s just fucking. Okay, dear. Good to know and enjoy!

[rascalnvixen]

I teased my HW about getting ready for her “date” and she got pretty upset. Basically she said I’m married. I don’t date. It’s just fucking. Okay, dear. Good to know and enjoy!

I like the way she thinks!!!

Rascal

[Crza96]

Great stories man!

From experience being on these forums, I would not continue dating the same guy. Human psychology creates connections via sex, and the connection you two have gets buried underneath the lust.
There are tons of stories on here of bad endings. You want the lifestyle of being a beta, sub, that enjoys humiliation? The continue that road and risk everything for your lust. Remember, you're always smarter after you cum.
IMO you need to keep yourself involved if you want to continue. Don't be a bystander, and don't be afraid to say no to things. Maybe even take some time to cool off from the lifestyle, and revisit it after a break. Let your emotions and experiences mature before you get into the high risk zone.

Best of luck to you both!

[toshare]

Loving following along with this. Interesting how some choose to “date” and others just want a ONS type where any mention of feelings is shut down real quick.

I teased my HW about getting ready for her “date” and she got pretty upset. Basically she said I’m married. I don’t date. It’s just fucking. Okay, dear. Good to know and enjoy!

Yes, you are right, it is interesting how some hotwives/girls want to date too. I'm guessing it has to do with each couple. I was for sure more, just ONS and maybe a guy for sex sometimes, now shes wanted more of a relationship too, not saying she still is not interested in ONS too.