Jane' adventure

[BrunetteBeth]

Do any other husbands have anxiety of leaving their wife alone with virtual strangers? I would say that is my greatest worry.

I think he worries more about what I will do them, poor bastards.

[cum4me2]

Do any other husbands have anxiety of leaving their wife alone with virtual strangers? I would say that is my greatest worry.

This situation is a rarity for us, only has happened once with a stranger that we met from sls. After meeting and some small talk at a Chili's bar and grill we decided or I should say I was instructed to get a hotel room... . I left out ahead of them and they would be along shortly. Although the hotel was just a quarter mile down the street, it took them probably twenty minutes to a half hour to make their way to where I was waiting with key in hand in the parking lot. It was the longest passage of time I've ever spent. I can honestly say this was not arousing for me as it may be for some. I kept thinking what the hell have I done and how am I going to explain to the kids that mommy got stolen... Then his truck pulled in and out she popped, a sigh of relief and my erection returned but I doubt that I would ever allow her to go with someone else again, unless we know them much better than a few minutes. For me there's simply to many crazies out there and she is waaaay to valuable to trust with strangers. Just my personal feelings. She has however met a couple of guys on her own but only socially and in a very public setting. Her place of work and on her lunch break, since they both were working in town. That was exciting to hear the details of her meeting someone like this without my presence to impose on the situation.

[NoWayInCT]

Do any other husbands have anxiety of leaving their wife alone with virtual strangers? I would say that is my greatest worry.

Yes, to the point we won't do this style of play...but, my wife feels the same way, so it's easier for me. If she does get that kind of itch, I will have to call timeout as that would blow my security-laden mind which would probably ruin it for everyone anyhow. As my wife does more and more over time, I can't rule this scenario out as the upcoming scenario for us I never dreamed she would WANT to do.

[Trifecta]

Hello Jane!

Hope you and hubby are doing well. I just started and finished this thread in one sitting... WOW! I have to say I'm slightly surprised, as your writing is very succinct and it makes you *appear* very demur in your other posts and PMs. But... you are indeed one very HOT hotwife!

BV and I are fast approaching our first.... opportunity, should I say? We got really excited about meeting T on Friday, then I woke up Sunday all anxious and nervous. (Do any other husbands here wake up a couple of hours early with a hard-on that they just can't get rid of? I lose more sleep this way!). I couldn't shake it all day and was looking to BV for reassurance, and she was just not really in the mood to talk about it. Later that night, BV read some of Mrs_Hotwifecplsa's thread, and then she freaked out and couldn't go to sleep last night! Today we feel better but we are tired! One thing we have some trepidation about is just how consuming all this is. Not sure how you or hubby deals with it!

As with a few other threads here, I get alternately horny then terrified by the way things go, and BV is the same way... this hotwiving business is clearly not for the faint at heart! But I am enjoying your thread, I wish you and JH all the best!

Take care Jane,

Trifecta

[jane]

i have two dates today. aren't i lucky? hope i can keep up. one is a play date, one is dinner

[allengt]

i have two dates today. aren't i lucky? hope i can keep up. one is a play date, one is dinner

Maybe you could turn that dinner one into some play after dinner.

[Aynsley]

Cool, Jane.
I always get an extra kick, when Iris has 2 dates on the same day.
She gets noticeably excited, and I enjoy her 'buzz', all the more.

Have fun!!

[bubbajack]

I hope to get a "two dicks in a day" report - I always like that kind of Mighty Hotwife Pussy demonstration!

You go, Girl!!

[Janes Husband]

Jane worries so much about leaving the kids, but i was able to text her a few minutes ago that they're both napping. So she's relieved and i am too.

[bubbajack]

Good for you, JH!

I like the way you are being supportive of your Hotwife's stimulating adventures!

[Arctus]

How did Saturday go?

Sure does seem like you two have made a lot of progress in your mutual comfort levels with the HW lifestyle over the past several months. Is the erotic charge as great or has the apparent increase in comfort diminished the eroticism of boundary pushing on Jane's part? Just curious.

[jane]

sorry i havn't posted, i've been a little sick, while still being a busy mom. i'll try to post what happend soon.

[doitforher]

Get better Jane. We'll be here when you are ready.

[jane]

i saw andre saturday afternoon. little bit of kissing to start, but he's more right down to it than romantic. about two hours of very hot sex. i was extremely relaxed afterward. later on i went to dinner with Cruz. i think it's kind of fizzling with him. maybe i waited to long to be intimate with him. i've just kind of lost interest. it was fun, but i felt like the spark had gone out a bit.
i'm sort of looking at a couple new guys, but like i said i've been not feling too well so i'm not particularly in the mood this week.

[Aynsley]

Get well, and happy hunting, Jane.
Thanks for the update.

[sirenseeker]

Your story fascinates, Jane. Thanks for the updates! And thanks to your loving husband as well!

[bubbajack]

Bump. Hope you and David are well, dear Jane. Would love to hear from you!

[justincase]

I need a Jane fix! Please give me an update.

[Janes Husband]

Jane and myself had an argument a couple weeks ago and so the hotwife thing has been on the backburner. Without saying too much i got mad because i was worried things were headed too crazy. Not so much what she did, but my paranoia.

[bubbajack]

Have you asked that she stop?

That's certainly something we talk about here, although I don't remember reading any reports from people who have initiated a process of stopping/suspending HW activities.

I would be grateful for some insight into what you are feeling (such as, what do you mean by "too crazy"?) and how it relates to Jane's sexual adventuring. The less-pleasant side of things is as valuable to consider as the sexy stuff people get up to.

Anyhow, I am sorry to hear that you and your beautiful wife are on the outs with each other and hope things get better soon.

Best to you both.

[justincase]

Sorry to hear about that. I just wanted to make sure it wasn't because you thought there wasn't any interest on our part. This is still my favorite thread. I love reading about Jane's passion. You two are so lucky to be on Jane's adventure.

My wife practices denial but that is where her hotwife practices end.

[bubbajack]

I have just re-read David's post and wonder if his "paranoia" suggests that the risk of discovery of his and Jane's participation in the lifestyle has become more acute.

Maybe there was a scare or something? Or maybe increasing complications have made arranging the adventures more difficult?

I have been happily following the story of these wonderful young people for a couple of years now and I have come to care quite a bit about their well-being.

I really hope they will share something about what changes are being worked out and why.

[jane]

some times people don't feel like sharing everything bubbajack. david got insecure about himself, and was worried i was becoming too slutty. (my words)

[livedit]

some times people don't feel like sharing everything bubbajack. david got insecure about himself, and was worried i was becoming too slutty. (my words)

You'll rebound.. you both love each other. There is not a manual for this. We all care and respect both of you very much.

[wifewatcher1001]

some times people don't feel like sharing everything bubbajack. david got insecure about himself, and was worried i was becoming too slutty. (my words)

To me, this suggests everyone should back off a little (my words) and give them some room