Jane' adventure

[bubbajack]

Thanks for the report, including the indication that Jane may be feeling conflicted. (Easter sure calls in the heavy religious artillery, doesn't it?)

doit said very well what is important to understand. All I would add is that inner conflict comes with taking responsibility for having the kinds of experience that you want.

If you only did what everyone does (or claims to do) you would still feel conflicted, but your experience would be all the poorer for having not pursued what you desire.

I hope you will feel better soon, Jane.

[jane]

it's all good. i had my hotwife play for two nights, then it was Easter sunday. it is kind of weird, and i think it always will be.
i had fun with deron, great sex with sam. sam is into sharing , and he broached the subject of me going to some kind of sex party with him. i'm intrigued, but not sure about doing it.

[MrBrunetteBeth]

Oh, a sex party/swing club can be a blast - especially if you go with the right attitude. It helps being an exhibitionist or voyeur to be sure. And you don't have to do anything. Just take it all in. But if we know Sam as we do ...

Those of your fans here, Jane, I'm sure would truly love to hear all about that kind of excursion! If only your feelings about it all regardless of activities participated in.

MrBB

[doitforher]

Glad your doing good Jane. Thank you for letting us know.

[Aynsley]

Hi Jane,

If you're like Iris, it sounds like Friday night was just a really nice time, with Deron.

As to Sam...he sounds like a character...one who will push 'the envelope',
should you and JH decide you're willing. As always, 'This' is all about what any
couple decides they're ready to explore.

It is fascinating to hear how both of you are progressing...particularly since it's not
always at the same rate.
I say that, as someone who has pretty much committed to memory, you guys' journey.
In a good way, you both are just so much different people.

The best with however you guys decide to proceed.

[bubbajack]

+1 on glad you're OK, Jane!!

(And I predict, based on what you generally do when you are intrigued by the possibility of an Adventure, that you will soon do a party with Sam where he shares you with others and that you will have a great time!! )

[Arctus]

The right party in the right setting can be delightful. But it could be a bit over the top for JH if you went with Sam and he was left home to imagine. Then again... you two can sort that out.

[jrandmustang]

I've been curious about whether Deron and Sam were each aware that they were part of Jane's weekend double-header. They both seem to like (or at least accept just fine!) the fact that she's a hotwife, a married mom. At some level, both Jane and JH find it exciting that, in addition to her loving husband, Jane sees multiple other men. Do those men feel the same way?

[jane]

no they didn't know. so many guys are kind of possessive that i don't see any reason to tell them, and have them tell me they don't like it.

[jane]

actually i should clarify that. they both know that i am a hotwife, but they don't know when i am with other men.
sam has been pushing me to go to a party with several other women and men. i'm guessing it's what would be called an orgy. part of me is curious, part of me is horrified.

[allengt]

actually i should clarify that. they both know that i am a hotwife, but they don't know when i am with other men.
sam has been pushing me to go to a party with several other women and men. i'm guessing it's what would be called an orgy. part of me is curious, part of me is horrified.

You should go just for the experience and then maybe you will never want to again but then you might like parties.

[bubbajack]

I think you should go. Your curious part is more reality-based than your "horrified" part. There is unlikely to be anything horrific going on at a sex party!

A sex party is where Mia met her significant other (not sure that's the right terminology for that person) and she will probably tell you that there was a whole lot of fucking, absolutely no horror, and a life-enriching experience was set in motion!

[rypmar7]

sam has been pushing me to go to a party with several other women and men. i'm guessing it's what would be called an orgy. part of me is curious, part of me is horrified.

My wife always feels the same way about new things that push the envelope into a new area. Eventually, curiosity gets the better of her and she gives it a try. She'll always say afterward that she can't believe she did that, but at least there are no pictures, so it didn't really happen. That's one reason she doesn't like her escapades photographed.

[mrs_reese]

Go jane, you will love it.
You keep control and let the boys play how you want them to

[jrandmustang]

actually i should clarify that. they both know that i am a hotwife, but they don't know when i am with other men.
sam has been pushing me to go to a party with several other women and men. i'm guessing it's what would be called an orgy. part of me is curious, part of me is horrified.

Trust your instincts Jane -- and pay attention to JH's signals as well. I think he's embracing the role of having surrendered control to you ... but when he's been pushed too far, it seems that his concerns have often revolved around your safety and that of the family.

Beyond that, I've always thought that there's a certain elegance to the "one-on-one" nature of hotwiving and cuckolding. It's precisely because I put Mustang "on a pedestal" that it is so intense for me when another man gets to enjoy her ... I've always been turned off by amateur porn where you could hear the husband in the background cheering on a group of men "gang-banging" his wife -- where's his sense that she's a precious treasure that he's (momentarily) relinquished?

Which is not to say that it doesn't excite me when Mustang mentions how she'd like to be the center of attention, being pleasured by multiple men! But it would have to be on her terms ...

If your curiosity overcomes your reservations, I think you have a right to inform Sam of your limits and satisfy yourself about that. And then it would probably be a wild ride! I also think it's just fine to stay where you are ...

[mrs_reese]

jane, did you look over the thread nicetits in hotties started by seacuck? You are getting some attention, especially from hubby xoxo

[jane]

? untamed jane??

[jane]

i see it now. i guess i'll have to look at the hotties section a little more?

[reese]

hope i didnt offend you jane,,,just having fun.

[jane]

no of course not.

[Janes Husband]

Jane decided not to go the party. She was aroused by it, but it didn't feel "safe" to her. She said maybe if she knew all the people.
She did meet a new guy late this afternoon. Not for coffee she said, ice tea.

[Arctus]

I think going to a sex party could be a lot of fun for Jane. But Sam sounds a bit edgy. Always good to pay attention to one's gut instincts about such matters. Anyway, I continue to wish both you (JH) and Jane the very best.

[jane]

had a date tonight. fill you in later.
well i'll tell you he was kind of geeky, but in a good way.

[doitforher]

Good for you Jane. You go girl!

[Aynsley]

Geeky can be fun, at least in Iris' world.
She's been with a guy, who (from his looks)
could be Eugene Robinson's brother (Washington Post/MSNBC).
Everytime I see Eugene on the TeeVee, I think of Trent.