Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[Long Lurker 34]

I love it when a plan comes together! Said by someone, oh Yaa...!!

[BallSpanking]

Maybe I am not reading this right, but I have a hunch SW is interested in Mr R, and her putting off Mr S on Friday, may turn into an impromptu ... something.

[whenwillshe]

Hope it is just a little cold.....

[solstice]

Has the frequency of your sex with SW improved with her advancing into hotwifing?

[rncinmd]

Hoping that both of y’all’s hunting trips were successful

[rncinmd]

Hoping that both of y’all’s hunting trips were successful

[slenderfish]

Quick update. Today is my day with SW, all day and all night, beginning last night around 9:30 when we finished dinner with my son and he went back to her sister's house for overnight.

We were both very tired and SW was still finishing getting over her recovery day (Friday) wherein I departed super early morning for an all-day boys' hunting excursion, so we talked and cuddled and fell asleep early.

During the middle of the night she was awake and moving around so I asked her what was up, and she said she had slept so much on Friday (didn't get up until 3 p.m.) that she can't sleep. She suggested we go through a much more relaxed and slow reclaim sex effort, which of course I obliged. We then passed out and slept until about 7 a.m. then went for coffee, errands, and then breakfast.

At breakfast we compared notes and she said she is definitely confirmed for Mr. S on Monday, that he was very sweet over the past couple of days, sending texts of comfort and support and offering to bring her some chicken soup or anything else. She asked me to assist her with the following texts:

- Mr. S to thank him for his outreach and looking forward to Monday

- Mr. M to thank him for the wild Wednesday night and not to think too much into the tryst, and to be assured that their "indiscretion" will be betwee them only and that SW has no interest in creating waves with his girlfriend and him, in the same way she has no interest in him creating waves between her and her husband (me)

- Mr. R to get together on Tuesday night to "try on" some more fashionable jeans that she thinks will be flattering (they talked about this on Wed)

So that's the update. Many possibilities here.

SW and I going for a run around a local lake and then for massages at a local spa. Then meeting friends for sushi and wine at their house for dinner, later.

[Observer1931]

Do you think or has SW said any thing about trying to fuck M R with new jeans?

[samlowen]

- Mr. M to thank him for the wild Wednesday night and not to think too much into the tryst, and to be assured that their "indiscretion" will be betwee them only and that SW has no interest in creating waves with his girlfriend and him, in the same way she has no interest in him creating waves between her and her husband (me)

I'm confused by this. Mr. M already knows that SW was asked by you to be a hotwife and they have had discussions about it. Why would it create waves between SW and you? He knows, you know, she knows. There are no waves to be created here.

[solstice]

slenderfish am I right in thinking SW had full sex on Wed with Mr R, did you get chapter and verse on that encounter and is she meeting with Mr S for sex for the first time (on this trip Mon)

[afagehi7]

slenderfish am I right in thinking SW had full sex on Wed with Mr R, did you get chapter and verse on that encounter and is she meeting with Mr S for sex for the first time (on this trip Mon)

I think she had Mr M her former boyfriend, mr S is her next and the guy who popped her hot wife cherry, mr r is new and she just met him but hung with him for a few hours as mr m was running very late. She has him in her cross hairs for Tuesday as long as he doesn't screw it up doing something stupid. The question to ask is will she fuck mr r if he plays his cards or is she just testing him as a future adventure.

[slenderfish]

- Mr. M to thank him for the wild Wednesday night and not to think too much into the tryst, and to be assured that their "indiscretion" will be betwee them only and that SW has no interest in creating waves with his girlfriend and him, in the same way she has no interest in him creating waves between her and her husband (me)

I'm confused by this. Mr. M already knows that SW was asked by you to be a hotwife and they have had discussions about it. Why would it create waves between SW and you? He knows, you know, she knows. There are no waves to be created here.

Mr. M is very old-school and has repeatedly told SW that the hotwife road leads to disaster. He doesn't understand any of this and therefore has concluded I must be some kind of unpredictable loon. As such, SW lets him believe I'm completely out of the loop. This was a partial driver for SW to seduce him, to prove to him his assumptions are all wrong and that he's not one to preach about anything, especially stuff he knows nothing about. I love that she did it.

[slenderfish]

slenderfish am I right in thinking SW had full sex on Wed with Mr R, did you get chapter and verse on that encounter and is she meeting with Mr S for sex for the first time (on this trip Mon)

No sex with Mr. R on Wed. She merely got to know him and then went for it with Mr. M that night.

She has the longstanding plan with Mr. S on Monday and today mentioned she might pursue seeing him also on Sunday night if there is sufficient time after her mother's birthday party, and of course after I'm on the aircraft returning home. Mr. S has kids responsibility on Tuesday so is unavailable.

She has reached out to Mr. R for Tuesday, her last night before returning home Wednesday. He has texted back but not yet agreed to get together on Tuesday.

Failing Mr. R for Tuesday, I'll suggest she reconnect with Mr. M for that night, to "sort out" what happened the prior Wed and, presumably, to give in to desire and just go for it again.

[slenderfish]

Gonna work on that voicemail recording now from Thursday. It runs approximately two minutes. I have it and need to edit it to delete references to names, etc.

[slenderfish]

Do you think or has SW said any thing about trying to fuck M R with new jeans?

Yes she said she would like to see if he is a possibility for Tuesday and reached out with a text (I helped her compose it) to reel him in. The text was some excuse for him to try on some designer jeans she said would look good on him (she is a talented stylist) and he had indicated interest when they were hanging out this past Wed while they were waiting for Mr. M.

He replied to the initial texts but when asked to get together on Tuesday he went silent.

[slenderfish]

Has the frequency of your sex with SW improved with her advancing into hotwifing?

Yes and no and yes.

I'll explain later.

[BallSpanking]

LOL ...

Love the piecemeal thread ... It's actually quite descriptive, largely chronological, and full of unexpected events, most of them delightful, concerning SW.
Certainly her disposition is positive, and she seems eager to get together with Mr S this coming Monday (possibly Sunday). Assuming Mr R will respond positively to her Tue night suggestion, SW will be honing her HW approach and skills, whether it is for possible sex that night, or in the future, it seems clear SW would like to explore that chemistry further. These are very good things.

As to Mr M, I'm not sure what to say ..., maybe some kind of 'confidant with special privileges'. She probably feels comfortable with Mr M, he's a known quantity, but I doubt SW will want his advice on whether she should see Mr R, or Mr S, or both ... She's a big girl, and those are her decisions to make as a HW in control of her own sexuality.

[afagehi7]

Hopefully mr r accepts her invitation. Did her text have any sexual overtones? He would be the icing on the hot wife cake.

[slenderfish]

Hopefully mr r accepts her invitation. Did her text have any sexual overtones? He would be the icing on the hot wife cake.

Nothing yet from Mr. R.

Her last text to him was that she wanted to meet him at his place to have him "try on" some brand of jeans she thinks will make his butt look sexier. This was a continuation of banter when they were hanging out together last Wed night waiting for Mr. M. SW had asked to see his place and his bedroom and his wardrobe.

[afagehi7]

Hopefully mr r accepts her invitation. Did her text have any sexual overtones? He would be the icing on the hot wife cake.

Nothing yet from Mr. R.

Her last text to him was that she wanted to meet him at his place to have him "try on" some brand of jeans she thinks will make his butt look sexier. This was a continuation of banter when they were hanging out together last Wed night waiting for Mr. M. SW had asked to see his place and his bedroom and his wardrobe.

What a doofus. I wonder if he's avoiding her because he knows she and mr m are involved. Bros b4 hoes rule

Maybe you should help her craft a final text? Something VERY suggestive and mention discreet?

I dunno why but I was really pulling for him. Too bad she didn't make a move on him in their 3 hours alone but that could have messed it up with mr m.

[slenderfish]

LOL ...

Love the piecemeal thread ... It's actually quite descriptive, largely chronological, and full of unexpected events, most of them delightful, concerning SW.
Certainly her disposition is positive, and she seems eager to get together with Mr S this coming Monday (possibly Sunday). Assuming Mr R will respond positively to her Tue night suggestion, SW will be honing her HW approach and skills, whether it is for possible sex that night, or in the future, it seems clear SW would like to explore that chemistry further. These are very good things.

As to Mr M, I'm not sure what to say ..., maybe some kind of 'confidant with special privileges'. She probably feels comfortable with Mr M, he's a known quantity, but I doubt SW will want his advice on whether she should see Mr R, or Mr S, or both ... She's a big girl, and those are her decisions to make as a HW in control of her own sexuality.

She already knows Mr. M is against her seeing Mr. S (he knows she has started the hotwife path but doesn't know Mr. S except that there is this other man in the picture) and against her seeing anyone, because he's against the whole hotwife thing.

She had a few things to prove and prove she did! Prove he's a dumbass regarding the hotwife thing, he's a dumbass professing to be "in love" with this first young thing he dates immediately after his wife filed for divorce, and a dumbass because he didn't ever even drop any hints that he might be interested in volunteering to assist with SW's hotwife adventures.

She said she might see Mr. M again during this trip, depending. Scheduling, whether he's freaked out in the aftermath, etc. I told her to not wait for him to come around, but to send a text to him that they should get together on Tuesday (assuming Mr. R remains out of the picture) to discuss their encounter and that he should "grow a pair" and take ownership of a) his desire; b) their mutual history and ongoing attraction; c) that they don't need to blow up their respective relationships just because of some mutually-agreed adult fun; and d) he should stop taking himself so seriously and acting so holy and proud regarding sanctity of relationships, etc.

[slenderfish]

I made it back home as scheduled. It's presently 11:00 p.m. where SW is, and she is most certainly with Mr. S right now. They were meeting up earlier today, if I had to guess it was probably around 7:30 p.m., for dinner (and wine, I'm certain of that because she deliberately kept a nice bottle of red in the hotel room and also asked me to be sure I didn't accidentally take the wine bottle opener in my luggage).

Oh, she also asked me to leave behind my shaving cream (add smiley face here).

Mr. S has really made the effort since SW finally let him know, in no uncertain terms, what she expects from him. I know she is ready to jump into the sack with him, but of course she'll work the extra effort first (make him wine and dine her).

I hope they take the time to relax and enjoy some quiet personal time over dinner and wine, just the two of them, to get SW more into the mood and relaxed, etc. She enjoys sex so much more if she is relaxed and feels free to let it all go. There's a balance; if she drinks too much wine she is not able to orgasm as readily. In this case there is only the one bottle, so that will limit it.

I arranged with the front desk to provide access to the club lounge area (just us while we are staying there) after hours, which we did use while I was there. Now she can use her room key to go in there with Mr. S and enjoy their own private dining area undisturbed, which is also very convenient to the hotel room just one level below and down the hallway. Presumably, after a nice dinner and wine, they will proceed to the hotel room and the king bed and they will enjoy each other in a relaxed and satisfying manner, one that will leave a much bigger imprint on SW.

She said she will make a great effort to remember and leave a voicemail for me regarding how it went with Mr. S. I probably won't receive that until tomorrow morning. She doesn't anticipate that he will stay the night, as he has to get home to be there overnight for his teenage son.

There remains the plan to also get together tomorrow night (Monday). I think they will do some social thing together (visit a friend of Mr. S) first, then presumably back to the hotel for more action that night.

This leaves Tuesday night as the open question as of now.

[BallSpanking]

Mr R is showing very bad form in not RSVP'ing Tue night.
If he fails to respond altogether, SW should delete his number.

[slenderfish]

SW has been more sharing of the texts with Mr. S the past few days. While we were out on date night with our friends last night (Saturday night), these texts went back and forth:

Saturday approx 5:30 p.m:

From SW: So I just found out my mom's bday party is a brunch instead of dinner. I'll be free tomorrow evening! Let's get together!

Saturday 11:30 p.m.:

From Mr. S: Hello beautiful! (kissing heart emojis x 2) Finally resting. (smiley emoji) I will fir sure make tomorrow eve work. However I'm not sure if the exact time yet. Will let you know though. I hope that you're feeling better (prayer hands) and a very happy birthday to your mama!1 (party hat) Can't wait till I see you (fire peach peach eggplant eggplant horny purple emoji love hearts face emoji). [note spelling as per the text]

Note that we left our friends' house at 11:42 p.m. and arrived at the hotel at 12:05 a.m. During this drive back she told me of the text immediately above, that Mr. S had confirmed they will get together on Sunday.

We got back to our room and after starting to get ready for sleeping and I was feeling pretty enthusiastic that she is now looking forward to Mr. S and had gone so far as to ask him over on Sunday (for after I left to go home). I thought about them making passionate love in that very hotel room and bed in less than 24 hours, so I got frisky with SW and we had a nice session of her preferred "missionary" sex during which she whispered in my ear about how much she is looking forward to being with Mr. S and having his larger cock inside of her, that we were having anticipatory reclaim sex (in advance) and that Mr. S' ejaculation will have to compete with mine instead of vice-versa. We went for some time until we both agreed it's time to finish, lest she be sore for Mr. S and that become an unnecessary element for them.

Sunday 12:51 a.m.:
(note SW sent this to Mr. S after I'd fallen asleep post-coitus and I didn't see it until late in the morning as I was hurriedly packing my bags and we were scrambling to get over to SW's sister's house for their mother's birthday party)

From SW: Hey Darling! That's wonderful! I can't wait! My mom hates her bday...doesn't like to age etc. Not a fun day for her so we do the best we can to cheer her up and make it special! I do hope we can meet up on the early side (praying hands). Have a proper dinner on the 7th floor Executive Level etc. Sleep well! (hearts and kissing winking heart-love face)

We attended the birthday party and I left with my son and also SW's sister's boyfriend directly to the airport, and arrived home some hours later (just a couple hours ago).

[Triggershy]

Loving the fact that she is on fire!!!

Quick prediction she’ll be opening an account on Sdc and sls this week. You’ll have so much fun making her profile together.

Congrats on a successful week I’m so happy for both of you.