Figuring it out

[Whosbeensleeping]

Everything was going so well until the last paragraph!

Ha ha ha. I promise that if I change my mind about that, you'll be on the list of people who are informed.

Hope springs eternal!

[Lookingforadventure]

I would love to be on that list too.

Mr GILF

Noted

But remember, it might not be anytime soon (or any time at all).

[rascalnvixen]

In a gang bang scenario where there are multiple men all watching you and coordinating what they will do to you, there is a very high risk that they start talking or acting in a way that would make me feel bad about myself.

Hence my cautions. If it was the right group of guys in the right situation, then maybe I'd consider it.

LFA, if your fantasy were to come true, would you want to blind folded?? restrained in position? If you are not blindfolded would you want the men to be masked to remain anonymous? Condoms or bare?? In you or on you? If in, pussy or mouth?? Just curious while fantasizing about you in that gang bang!!

Rascal

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Glad to see you back at this busy time of year. I know some of those lots you write about. Gee I guess I'll have to pay more attention this winter, once snow gets on the ground.
So will you G be having a tryst and ringing in the New Year?
:

Keep your eyes open for a couple of lovers getting up to mischief!! And now I kind of want to have sex on a picnic blanket on the snow, too (but maybe not in a parking lot. I think we'd need more tree cover to avoid being seen).

As for New Year's, we have no plans...yet.

LFA - So what immediately pops into my mind - Rabbit Blanket Falls - thou it's a tad outside the GTA.
Keep us apprised of updates to this naked roll in the snow, on a blanket, with hardened nips. As long as you can type! How many cools make it cold?

[anonymister1948]

A gang bang is a fantasy of mine. I just don't know if it is a fantasy that I want to make happen in real life.

I think that because I was raised with a specific understanding about sex, it is hard for me to completely let go. I'm very sensitive to feeling disrespected by men in this lifestyle. We've taken a break from chatting with new guys online, but when we did, it was probably my biggest turn off. If a guy talked "about" me to Adventurer instead of "to" me (e.g. "I bet she's a real tiger in the sheets" or "I can't wait to spread those legs and make her scream"), I'd shut down right away. It is hard to explain, but I want to be treated like a person not a sex toy!

The same has been true when we've tried playing with a guy that I haven't taken the time to get to know well. The sex is fine, but it feels cold and impersonal and then I end up feeling cheap afterwards.

In a gang bang scenario where there are multiple men all watching you and coordinating what they will do to you, there is a very high risk that they start talking or acting in a way that would make me feel bad about myself.

Hence my cautions. If it was the right group of guys in the right situation, then maybe I'd consider it.

To thine own self be true. You know yourself and how you'd react. In describing you, I think added to your sexiness and free spirit should be wisdom and self-knowledge. These traits are not as easy to come by as people think. Kudos!

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA, if your fantasy were to come true, would you want to blind folded?? restrained in position? If you are not blindfolded would you want the men to be masked to remain anonymous? Condoms or bare?? In you or on you? If in, pussy or mouth?? Just curious while fantasizing about you in that gang bang!!

Rascal

IF the fantasy were to come true (and that's still a big "if"), I will describe what it would look like. Warning, it might end up sounding more methodical than sexy.

It would take place in a hotel room that Adventurer and I paid for (so that I can be assured that there are no hidden cameras or anything, and we hold all the cards to kick someone out if they aren't playing by the rules).

The men would be vetted by me in advance. This might take awhile. I would want to know what they are looking to get out of the experience ("I just want to get my dick wet" would not make the cut. "I love pleasuring women, and the idea of being able to help a sexually confident woman experience something new and powerful is very arousing" probably would. I recognize that this makes it sound like it is all about me...but it is my fantasy and I'm ok with being selfish). I would also want them to know what I'm looking for, what pushes my arousal buttons, and what my limits are. I need time to develop trust with them.

As for the men, themselves, I'm not sure that I really care about age, race, penis size, athleticism, etc. I would need to find them attractive. They would also need to make a lot of eye contact. I want to be able to see desire in their eyes as we do things. I want to know that they are enjoying the experience, and I want to see concern in their eyes if I've asked for a break. They need to be the type of guys who will check in periodically, and maybe offer me a bottle of water when we adjust to new positions. Kindness, playfulness, thoughtfulness, respect, and putting me first will be what I'm really looking for (Yup! I'm making it all about me again).

I would not be blindfolded. I want to be able to see what is happening.

I would not be restrained. I need to feel like I could stop things if I end up not enjoying it.

The men would not be masked or anonymous.

Everyone would wear condoms (even with vetting, there is a lot of people involved and condoms makes it safer for everyone).

I think the guys should all spend a bit of time together before the event as well. They need to have a level of comfort with one another so that they can figure out the best positions, and ensure that things are equitable. Despite my self-centeredness, I don't want to direct every aspect of the time together.

As for activities, I really enjoy sucking cock. I'd love to be on my knees with men all around so that I could stroke and suck them. Having so many cocks all hard for me, and being able to just greedily go from one to the other would be extremely fun.

I would like to be spit roasted. I've done this a few times, and loved it every time.

I also enjoyed a threesome with G and Adventurer where I was laying on my back and they tag-team fucked me. When one got a bit tired, they'd swap and the other would take a turn. It was a lot of penetration without a lot of breaks and I really enjoyed it. I think I'd want to try that again....as long as I could tap out when I needed a break.

I want to be moved and adjusted into different positions to make me accessible to various men at various times. It would increase my mental pleasure if I didn't always know who was doing what.

At the end, I'd enjoy being covered in cum. I could help stroke some to that final stage, or they could do it themselves. Watching men orgasm is very sexy, and I would enjoy being messy at the end of our time together.

After I clean up a bit, I would like the men to tell me a few of the things they enjoyed. I want to know their highlights, and the things they'd do differently or want to try if there was a do-over. I would thank them for the evening and they would thank me in return. Then I'd like them to leave so that I can cuddle and debrief with my husband.

That's the fantasy from my point of view.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - So what immediately pops into my mind - Rabbit Blanket Falls - thou it's a tad outside the GTA.
Keep us apprised of updates to this naked roll in the snow, on a blanket, with hardened nips. As long as you can type! How many cools make it cold?

I had to google this. Do you mean way up on Lake Superior? Seems like quite the drive, but the photos online are beautiful.

Wherever we end up, I promise to let you know how my snow romp this winter goes.

[Lookingforadventure]

To thine own self be true. You know yourself and how you'd react. In describing you, I think added to your sexiness and free spirit should be wisdom and self-knowledge. These traits are not as easy to come by as people think. Kudos!

Thank you.

This post really touched me. First, I love a good literary quote But I also appreciate your appreciation for wisdom and self-knowledge.

I think that is one of the things that can make or break a hot wife experience. You need to be able to reflect on each experience and figure out what worked (or didn't) for you. Everyone is different. I know that my hurdles and limits aren't the same for everyone else, but they do exist for me. If I understand them, then I can communicate them to my partners, and also work within them.

In any case, thank you.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

LFA, if your fantasy were to come true, would you want to blind folded?? restrained in position? If you are not blindfolded would you want the men to be masked to remain anonymous? Condoms or bare?? In you or on you? If in, pussy or mouth?? Just curious while fantasizing about you in that gang bang!!

Rascal

That's the fantasy from my point of view.

I'm not sure that I've ever read a more thoroughly thought out scenario before in my life. How you detail the interactions between yourself and thos extremely fortunate men is amazingly erotic. I truly hope you get to live this out to it's fullest!

[Lookingforadventure]

I'm not sure that I've ever read a more thoroughly thought out scenario before in my life. How you detail the interactions between yourself and those extremely fortunate men is amazingly erotic. I truly hope you get to live this out to it's fullest!

Thank you friend. I appreciate that. I'm not entirely sure if I WANT to live this out (seems like a lot of work I order for it to go well), but I've been enjoying the fantasy and the discussion.

[rascalnvixen]

LFA, if your fantasy were to come true, would you want to blind folded?? restrained in position? If you are not blindfolded would you want the men to be masked to remain anonymous? Condoms or bare?? In you or on you? If in, pussy or mouth?? Just curious while fantasizing about you in that gang bang!!

Rascal

IF the fantasy were to come true (and that's still a big "if"), I will describe what it would look like. Warning, it might end up sounding more methodical than sexy.

It would take place in a hotel room that Adventurer and I paid for (so that I can be assured that there are no hidden cameras or anything, and we hold all the cards to kick someone out if they aren't playing by the rules).

The men would be vetted by me in advance. This might take awhile. I would want to know what they are looking to get out of the experience ("I just want to get my dick wet" would not make the cut. "I love pleasuring women, and the idea of being able to help a sexually confident woman experience something new and powerful is very arousing" probably would. I recognize that this makes it sound like it is all about me...but it is my fantasy and I'm ok with being selfish). I would also want them to know what I'm looking for, what pushes my arousal buttons, and what my limits are. I need time to develop trust with them.

As for the men, themselves, I'm not sure that I really care about age, race, penis size, athleticism, etc. I would need to find them attractive. They would also need to make a lot of eye contact. I want to be able to see desire in their eyes as we do things. I want to know that they are enjoying the experience, and I want to see concern in their eyes if I've asked for a break. They need to be the type of guys who will check in periodically, and maybe offer me a bottle of water when we adjust to new positions. Kindness, playfulness, thoughtfulness, respect, and putting me first will be what I'm really looking for (Yup! I'm making it all about me again).

I would not be blindfolded. I want to be able to see what is happening.

I would not be restrained. I need to feel like I could stop things if I end up not enjoying it.

The men would not be masked or anonymous.

Everyone would wear condoms (even with vetting, there is a lot of people involved and condoms makes it safer for everyone).

I think the guys should all spend a bit of time together before the event as well. They need to have a level of comfort with one another so that they can figure out the best positions, and ensure that things are equitable. Despite my self-centeredness, I don't want to direct every aspect of the time together.

As for activities, I really enjoy sucking cock. I'd love to be on my knees with men all around so that I could stroke and suck them. Having so many cocks all hard for me, and being able to just greedily go from one to the other would be extremely fun.

I would like to be spit roasted. I've done this a few times, and loved it every time.

I also enjoyed a threesome with G and Adventurer where I was laying on my back and they tag-team fucked me. When one got a bit tired, they'd swap and the other would take a turn. It was a lot of penetration without a lot of breaks and I really enjoyed it. I think I'd want to try that again....as long as I could tap out when I needed a break.

I want to be moved and adjusted into different positions to make me accessible to various men at various times. It would increase my mental pleasure if I didn't always know who was doing what.

At the end, I'd enjoy being covered in cum. I could help stroke some to that final stage, or they could do it themselves. Watching men orgasm is very sexy, and I would enjoy being messy at the end of our time together.

After I clean up a bit, I would like the men to tell me a few of the things they enjoyed. I want to know their highlights, and the things they'd do differently or want to try if there was a do-over. I would thank them for the evening and they would thank me in return. Then I'd like them to leave so that I can cuddle and debrief with my husband.

That's the fantasy from my point of view.

Is that all?????

I LOVE that you have a good idea of what you want. I think that shows that you have given a good amount of thought on the subject! I also LOVE that you have a very sensuous concept in your mind about how that should go with the men. It seems having them having a great attitude would make it all very hot for you and Adventurer. I really enjoy thinking about you in that gang-bang, how you might feel, what you might be thinking as the men pleasure you and themselves. Such a hot idea to do that!!! Having a good interaction with them prior to the event I think would add a lot of pleasure to the experience!

Thanks for the description of your fantasy!!!!! I'm sure it will be a wonderful thing if you ever get to do it!!! I think you should seriously consider doing it for real! It would be one of those big life events that you and hubby can talk about for years and years!!!

Rascal
(and YES, I would love to see some pics and/or videos of the event if it ever happens!!)

[SexyinNNY]

LFA, if your fantasy were to come true, would you want to blind folded?? restrained in position? If you are not blindfolded would you want the men to be masked to remain anonymous? Condoms or bare?? In you or on you? If in, pussy or mouth?? Just curious while fantasizing about you in that gang bang!!

Rascal

IF the fantasy were to come true (and that's still a big "if"), I will describe what it would look like. Warning, it might end up sounding more methodical than sexy.

It would take place in a hotel room that Adventurer and I paid for (so that I can be assured that there are no hidden cameras or anything, and we hold all the cards to kick someone out if they aren't playing by the rules).

The men would be vetted by me in advance. This might take awhile. I would want to know what they are looking to get out of the experience ("I just want to get my dick wet" would not make the cut. "I love pleasuring women, and the idea of being able to help a sexually confident woman experience something new and powerful is very arousing" probably would. I recognize that this makes it sound like it is all about me...but it is my fantasy and I'm ok with being selfish). I would also want them to know what I'm looking for, what pushes my arousal buttons, and what my limits are. I need time to develop trust with them.

As for the men, themselves, I'm not sure that I really care about age, race, penis size, athleticism, etc. I would need to find them attractive. They would also need to make a lot of eye contact. I want to be able to see desire in their eyes as we do things. I want to know that they are enjoying the experience, and I want to see concern in their eyes if I've asked for a break. They need to be the type of guys who will check in periodically, and maybe offer me a bottle of water when we adjust to new positions. Kindness, playfulness, thoughtfulness, respect, and putting me first will be what I'm really looking for (Yup! I'm making it all about me again).

I would not be blindfolded. I want to be able to see what is happening.

I would not be restrained. I need to feel like I could stop things if I end up not enjoying it.

The men would not be masked or anonymous.

Everyone would wear condoms (even with vetting, there is a lot of people involved and condoms makes it safer for everyone).

I think the guys should all spend a bit of time together before the event as well. They need to have a level of comfort with one another so that they can figure out the best positions, and ensure that things are equitable. Despite my self-centeredness, I don't want to direct every aspect of the time together.

As for activities, I really enjoy sucking cock. I'd love to be on my knees with men all around so that I could stroke and suck them. Having so many cocks all hard for me, and being able to just greedily go from one to the other would be extremely fun.

I would like to be spit roasted. I've done this a few times, and loved it every time.

I also enjoyed a threesome with G and Adventurer where I was laying on my back and they tag-team fucked me. When one got a bit tired, they'd swap and the other would take a turn. It was a lot of penetration without a lot of breaks and I really enjoyed it. I think I'd want to try that again....as long as I could tap out when I needed a break.

I want to be moved and adjusted into different positions to make me accessible to various men at various times. It would increase my mental pleasure if I didn't always know who was doing what.

At the end, I'd enjoy being covered in cum. I could help stroke some to that final stage, or they could do it themselves. Watching men orgasm is very sexy, and I would enjoy being messy at the end of our time together.

After I clean up a bit, I would like the men to tell me a few of the things they enjoyed. I want to know their highlights, and the things they'd do differently or want to try if there was a do-over. I would thank them for the evening and they would thank me in return. Then I'd like them to leave so that I can cuddle and debrief with my husband.

That's the fantasy from my point of view.

I have always had that fantasy too. My husband knew about it so a few months ago he started working on making it come true. We connected with a woman in SLS that kinda specializes in that sort of thing.
After messaging and several phone calls back and forth we set it up. She made me very comfortable and that really helped.
She had the guys all vetted and knew them all. We got the hotel room and she showed up an hour before so we could meet and talk to make sure it went the way I wanted.
She had 6 guys lined up and all 6 showed up!!!
We sat and visited for an hour or so, so I could get to meet them.They we're all very nice guys. 3 of them I clicked well with, 2 were ok but not as attentive as I would have liked and one ended up being a turn off. The guys sensed I was less than comfortable with the one and ran interference for me. As for being selfish, you absolutely have every right to be! It should be all about you. Most guys that are willing to participate it a gang bang would agree and will make it all about you! These guys made it about me. I would highly recommend getting a suite that has the bed in a separate room. That way while the guys are taking breaks and chatting it's not a distraction. And bring lots of water and snacks. We limited our session to 4 hours with a set ending time. This worked out very well as by the end of that time as I was pretty well wore out. However, we did ask one guy to stay a bit longer.
It was all BBC, I don't have a preference just the way it worked out.
All in all I had a great time. Is it something I want all the time now? No. Is it something I would do again? Absolutely!
If you have any questions feel free to PM me. I don't come on here very often but I will answer you back when I do.

[Lookingforadventure]

I have always had that fantasy too. My husband knew about it so a few months ago he started working on making it come true. We connected with a woman in SLS that kinda specializes in that sort of thing.
After messaging and several phone calls back and forth we set it up. She made me very comfortable and that really helped.
She had the guys all vetted and knew them all. We got the hotel room and she showed up an hour before so we could meet and talk to make sure it went the way I wanted.
She had 6 guys lined up and all 6 showed up!!!
We sat and visited for an hour or so, so I could get to meet them.They we're all very nice guys. 3 of them I clicked well with, 2 were ok but not as attentive as I would have liked and one ended up being a turn off. The guys sensed I was less than comfortable with the one and ran interference for me. As for being selfish, you absolutely have every right to be! It should be all about you. Most guys that are willing to participate it a gang bang would agree and will make it all about you! These guys made it about me. I would highly recommend getting a suite that has the bed in a separate room. That way while the guys are taking breaks and chatting it's not a distraction. And bring lots of water and snacks. We limited our session to 4 hours with a set ending time. This worked out very well as by the end of that time as I was pretty well wore out. However, we did ask one guy to stay a bit longer.
It was all BBC, I don't have a preference just the way it worked out.
All in all I had a great time. Is it something I want all the time now? No. Is it something I would do again? Absolutely!
If you have any questions feel free to PM me. I don't come on here very often but I will answer you back when I do.

Sounds like a wonderful time! I'm still not sure if this is something that I'd prefer to keep in the "fantasy" world, or if I actually want to try it in real life. It is great to know, however, that a woman has experienced the real thing and enjoyed it. Thank you for sharing.

If I ever do decide to try the real thing, I may take you up on your offer and will send you a PM with lots of questions.

[Lookingforadventure]

It is butt plug Wednesday!

The back story to this special day is that I recently celebrated the two-year anniversary of when I started to chat with "Sir." The day came and went without either of us realizing or recognizing it. We don't have that kind of relationship.

A couple of days ago, however, Adventurer decided to read through the "Wench Journal" that I kept during those early days. When he realized that it had been two years already since I agreed to experiment in BDSM play with a man I met online, he filled me in. He also told me that that my squirt-eversary is fast approaching (it was just a few weeks after Sir and I started talking, that I had an intense, forced orgasm session that led to my first time squirting).

In honor of the occasion, Adventurer thought it might be nice to bring back some of the training practices that he and Sir had come up with for me way back when. Butt plug Wednesday is one of them. All it means is that I'm wearing a stainless steel butt plug all day today. I'm hoping it might inspire some anal sex later

[P.S. Sir is out of the country for work for a couple of weeks, but I did let him know about butt plug Wednesday. He approves We might also try to play again in person in January]

[Farmgirl]

It is butt plug Wednesday!

The back story to this special day is that I recently celebrated the two-year anniversary of when I started to chat with "Sir." The day came and went without either of us realizing or recognizing it. We don't have that kind of relationship.

A couple of days ago, however, Adventurer decided to read through the "Wench Journal" that I kept during those early days. When he realized that it had been two years already since I agreed to experiment in BDSM play with a man I met online, he filled me in. He also told me that that my squirt-eversary is fast approaching (it was just a few weeks after Sir and I started talking, that I had an intense, forced orgasm session that led to my first time squirting).

In honor of the occasion, Adventurer thought it might be nice to bring back some of the training practices that he and Sir had come up with for me way back when. Butt plug Wednesday is one of them. All it means is that I'm wearing a stainless steel butt plug all day today. I'm hoping it might inspire some anal sex later

[P.S. Sir is out of the country for work for a couple of weeks, but I did let him know about butt plug Wednesday. He approves We might also try to play again in person in January]

Butt plugs are one of those fun naughty things that usually leads to anal for me, and hopefully for you !

[hoping_she_will_1day]

It is butt plug Wednesday!

All it means is that I'm wearing a stainless steel butt plug all day today. I'm hoping it might inspire some anal sex later

Sure hope your wish came true ;-)

[Adventurer]

Butt plugs are one of those fun naughty things that usually leads to anal for me, and hopefully for you !

LFA's slightly less than subtle plans were effective and I got to enjoy fucking her perfect ass. She cheated a little by also showing me how well the new shorts she bought for pole dancing fit her before.

And tomorrow LFA has a hotel date with G, she is a little giddy with anticipation today.

[Lookingforadventure]

Butt plugs are one of those fun naughty things that usually leads to anal for me, and hopefully for you !

I agree! I used to not be able to wear my butt plug for very long, but now I can go all day. There is something fun about having a naughty secret going on under your clothes. I especially like wearing one at work, or when we are at extended family events.

And you are right, the sight of the butt plug does seem to inspire Adventurer to action as well

[Lookingforadventure]

Sure hope your wish came true ;-)

Sure did!!!

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA's slightly less than subtle plans were effective and I got to enjoy fucking her perfect ass. She cheated a little by also showing me how well the new shorts she bought for pole dancing fit her before.

And tomorrow LFA has a hotel date with G, she is a little giddy with anticipation today.

I've been pole dancing for two months now, I figured I deserved a reward. And the new shorts do fit rather nicely I'm glad that you agreed.

As for tomorrow, I'm like a kid in Christmas Eve. I hope I can sleep tonight. Maybe you can help tire me out

[hoping_she_will_1day]

LFA's slightly less than subtle plans were effective and I got to enjoy fucking her perfect ass. She cheated a little by also showing me how well the new shorts she bought for pole dancing fit her before.

And tomorrow LFA has a hotel date with G, she is a little giddy with anticipation today.

I've been pole dancing for two months now, I figured I deserved a reward. And the new shorts do fit rather nicely I'm glad that you agreed.

As for tomorrow, I'm like a kid in Christmas Eve. I hope I can sleep tonight. Maybe you can help tire me out

One can hope for a picture thread update!!
Pretty please??

[Her number1]

Butt plugs are one of those fun naughty things that usually leads to anal for me, and hopefully for you !

I agree! I used to not be able to wear my butt plug for very long, but now I can go all day. There is something fun about having a naughty secret going on under your clothes. I especially like wearing one at work, or when we are at extended family events.

And you are right, the sight of the butt plug does seem to inspire Adventurer to action as well

And, yet, more reasons I am enraptured by you!

[Farmgirl]

Butt plugs are one of those fun naughty things that usually leads to anal for me, and hopefully for you !

LFA's slightly less than subtle plans were effective and I got to enjoy fucking her perfect ass. She cheated a little by also showing me how well the new shorts she bought for pole dancing fit her before.

And tomorrow LFA has a hotel date with G, she is a little giddy with anticipation today.

I bet she's one happy girl right now, and even happier after her date with G. And, based on how my Number1 reacts, you are just as happy .

[Lookingforadventure]

One can hope for a picture thread update!!
Pretty please??

In the booty shorts? I'll see what I can do. Once I'm a bit better at my pole moves, I do want to do a bit of a photo shoot. With that said, I'm probably 6-8 months away from being able to do anything photo-worthy.

[Lookingforadventure]

And, yet, more reasons I am enraptured by you!

Awww. You make me blush. Thank you.