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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by Sparkstar » Wed Jun 05, 2019 11:21 am

Some women love watching their husbands with other women too. An ex girlfriend said how one of her work colleagues confided in her saying how she loved watching her husband have sex with other women.

Since that first ever time I slid myself up a woman's vagina right after another guy had creampied her, I then lost pretty much all interest in lesbo porn and FMF threesomes that I then started loving MFM threesomes and hotwifing stuff. That silky smooth lube feeling in her vagina feels sooooo nice!

Honestly there is nothing more sexier and erotic than your GF/wife doing other men (as long as friends/family don't find out), especially if he sows his seed in her love garden. Its just so wrong, its so dirty, and fun to watch when she's with family acting all lovely and normal as if she'd never do something so dirty.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by SailorGuy » Wed Jun 05, 2019 12:13 pm

feetuji wrote:
Mon May 27, 2019 4:29 am
I am not a cuckold, because my wife doesnt seem to want such style of life. Sometimes, and just sometimes, she may open herself to a fantasy like that, when we are making love. And when she plays the fantasy- a little bit in a serious tone, a little bit pretending that she is just being playful - thats a powerful moment. The first time she said (again, in a playful tone, not 100% serious) she would love to have the cock of S. inside her, while playing with his chest and butt, it was an almost ejaculation! Generally I can keep myself without ejaculating until she gets an orgasm, but in these rare ocasions where she seems to enjoy the idea of other men, I cant handle any more and I cum a lot!

I can just imagine if it was real, seeing her touching other men/man. Anything would make me happy: seeing her just kissing or giving a simple massage with be super hot for me. Seeing a guy trusting on her, cum, licking her etc would be amazing! If she wanted, I wouldnt even there with them...knowing that she was fucking other man, just that tought, would be amazing!
My wife was the exact same way. I shared the fantasy with her and expected nothing but maybe her rolling her eyes. But she got into it as a fantasy and it made our sex life lights-out insane. After about four years of this a man we already knew hit on her while I was out of town and my wife, knowing she always had a green light, went for it.
The reality was even better than the fantasy!
Now, some 20 years later, my wife has cuckolded me and has chosen that other man as her lover. I get to masturbate next to her as she tells me about her sex life, and it is wonderful.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by feetuji » Thu Jun 06, 2019 1:13 am

SailorGuy wrote:
Wed Jun 05, 2019 12:13 pm
feetuji wrote:
Mon May 27, 2019 4:29 am
I am not a cuckold, because my wife doesnt seem to want such style of life. Sometimes, and just sometimes, she may open herself to a fantasy like that, when we are making love. And when she plays the fantasy- a little bit in a serious tone, a little bit pretending that she is just being playful - thats a powerful moment. The first time she said (again, in a playful tone, not 100% serious) she would love to have the cock of S. inside her, while playing with his chest and butt, it was an almost ejaculation! Generally I can keep myself without ejaculating until she gets an orgasm, but in these rare ocasions where she seems to enjoy the idea of other men, I cant handle any more and I cum a lot!

I can just imagine if it was real, seeing her touching other men/man. Anything would make me happy: seeing her just kissing or giving a simple massage with be super hot for me. Seeing a guy trusting on her, cum, licking her etc would be amazing! If she wanted, I wouldnt even there with them...knowing that she was fucking other man, just that tought, would be amazing!
My wife was the exact same way. I shared the fantasy with her and expected nothing but maybe her rolling her eyes. But she got into it as a fantasy and it made our sex life lights-out insane. After about four years of this a man we already knew hit on her while I was out of town and my wife, knowing she always had a green light, went for it.
The reality was even better than the fantasy!
Now, some 20 years later, my wife has cuckolded me and has chosen that other man as her lover. I get to masturbate next to her as she tells me about her sex life, and it is wonderful.
After reading your post and other similar posts here in the forum, its seems that the only chance I have is making my wife contact with other men, in a normal way. Eventually, some guys may try to pick her up. She is unemployed and in our city she is far from family and friends. That means almost zero contact with other men in a regular basis.

I wish she had colleagues from work, seeing them everyday, but no...

Until that changes, I think I wont have many chances to be a cuckold. Just fantasys, and trying to change her mind by that and only that, will not work. She needs social interaction with other men, only them someone will try to seduce her and/or she may get atracted to some guy.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by SailorGuy » Thu Jun 06, 2019 9:00 am

feetuji wrote:
Thu Jun 06, 2019 1:13 am
SailorGuy wrote:
Wed Jun 05, 2019 12:13 pm
feetuji wrote:
Mon May 27, 2019 4:29 am
I am not a cuckold, because my wife doesnt seem to want such style of life. Sometimes, and just sometimes, she may open herself to a fantasy like that, when we are making love. And when she plays the fantasy- a little bit in a serious tone, a little bit pretending that she is just being playful - thats a powerful moment. The first time she said (again, in a playful tone, not 100% serious) she would love to have the cock of S. inside her, while playing with his chest and butt, it was an almost ejaculation! Generally I can keep myself without ejaculating until she gets an orgasm, but in these rare ocasions where she seems to enjoy the idea of other men, I cant handle any more and I cum a lot!

I can just imagine if it was real, seeing her touching other men/man. Anything would make me happy: seeing her just kissing or giving a simple massage with be super hot for me. Seeing a guy trusting on her, cum, licking her etc would be amazing! If she wanted, I wouldnt even there with them...knowing that she was fucking other man, just that tought, would be amazing!
My wife was the exact same way. I shared the fantasy with her and expected nothing but maybe her rolling her eyes. But she got into it as a fantasy and it made our sex life lights-out insane. After about four years of this a man we already knew hit on her while I was out of town and my wife, knowing she always had a green light, went for it.
The reality was even better than the fantasy!
Now, some 20 years later, my wife has cuckolded me and has chosen that other man as her lover. I get to masturbate next to her as she tells me about her sex life, and it is wonderful.
After reading your post and other similar posts here in the forum, its seems that the only chance I have is making my wife contact with other men, in a normal way. Eventually, some guys may try to pick her up. She is unemployed and in our city she is far from family and friends. That means almost zero contact with other men in a regular basis.

I wish she had colleagues from work, seeing them everyday, but no...

Until that changes, I think I wont have many chances to be a cuckold. Just fantasys, and trying to change her mind by that and only that, will not work. She needs social interaction with other men, only them someone will try to seduce her and/or she may get atracted to some guy.
I don't know how old each of you are - and do you have children? If you're still young you have plenty of time to let things happen "normally". I first presented my fantasy to my wife around 25 years ago, when I was 35 and she was 30. We had two kids at the time. The internet was just getting up and running; we lived a fairly boring life working and raising our kids. Neither one of us really like to go out to bars or anything. In short, my fantasy was never going to be manufactured artificially. It was exciting enough to have shared the fantasy, to have my wife play with it in bed with me. But neither of us ever thought anything would ever happen.
The fact that it happened on its own - kind of "magically" - has been really important for us. As if with our fantasizing we somehow willed it to happen.
Her lover was a casual friend and neighbor we'd already known for several years. He'd been to our house with his wife and daughter many times for playdates and dinners, etc. His wife ultimately left him for another man and moved out of state. He was visiting with his daughter for an afternoon playdate with our daughter on a weekend when I was out of town.
What neither my wife nor I knew that this man had been secretly in love with my wife ever since we met him. While the kids played outside and with me away he decided to be bold and hit on my wife. And she, knowing she always had a green light, decided to be bold herself and just go with it. They kissed and fondled each other; my wife asked him to come back later that night when the girls would be asleep. And he did.
My wife told me everything the second I got home the next night. It just floored me. I couldn't believe it! And yet it was true. We raced into our bedroom and fucked like crazy. Wow!
And the rest is history.
So if it happened for us it can happen for you too. Good luck!!

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by feetuji » Thu Jun 06, 2019 2:29 pm

Thanks for the words! Yes i have a kid. I am 40, she is 39. Not late for a natural situation, but neither soon. And i am thinking and accepting that it may never happen. There are worst things in life.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by SailorGuy » Thu Jun 06, 2019 4:13 pm

feetuji wrote:
Thu Jun 06, 2019 2:29 pm
Thanks for the words! Yes i have a kid. I am 40, she is 39. Not late for a natural situation, but neither soon. And i am thinking and accepting that it may never happen. There are worst things in life.
Yes there certainly are! Enjoy your family and enjoy the fantasy. It's a wonderful one; I am lucky mine turned out so well. Some people have bad experiences when fantasy becomes reality, so if it never happens for you maybe it wasn't supposed to. Who knows what's going to happen??

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Unread post by tunafish » Wed Jun 12, 2019 8:41 am

We are all so sick. I love it.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by SailorGuy » Sat Jun 15, 2019 1:00 pm

mr cuckles wrote:
Fri Jun 14, 2019 9:17 pm
Why? I don't overthink this one. My brain and my dick are hardwired to want my wife to have sex with other men. That desire is embellished by the kinky desire to be excluded from the action and humiliated because of it. I want to be humiliated and dominated by both my spouse and her lover, but it's most important that my wife humiliate me, but not in a cruel femdom way. I just want to be told to do the things I should do as a good, submissive cuck (jack off as a submissive, suck dick, eat cream pie, don't cum unless given permission, etc.) As always, her pleasure is what's important and that's what makes us both happy.
Yep. Her pleasure is MY pleasure.
Not to say I didn't enjoy being her lover for the first 20 years I knew her. She was awesome in bed, and we had a lot of fun making our three babies.
But now that I'm her cuck I really enjoy NOT being her lover, while another man gets to be the lucky guy.
Neither one of us saw this coming back then, though looking back on my life I can clearly see cuckold tendencies on my part. My wife has allowed me to come out of the closet and given me an unexpected gift later on in life.
My wife has always been a "nice" girl, kind and warm to everyone. But she has found she LOVES cuckolding me - telling me NO, not letting me even kiss her much less make love to her. She is very fit, muscular and is a great physical match with her Man. I see her walk by in her tight jeans and tight tank top, her muscular flat chest and hairy underarms and I just faint with desire. Sure I desire her! If I didn't her denying me wouldn't mean anything. She knows she is my masturbatory goddess, as well as her well-hung Man's exclusive lover. She loves it. And so do I.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by Veryaware » Mon Jul 15, 2019 7:49 am

38kewp wrote:
Sat Mar 30, 2019 4:04 am
jagman1957 wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 3:19 pm
38kewp wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 12:32 pm

Statistically speaking, with the mean cock size being between 5” and 6” (call it 5.5”) and a normally distributed population with a very tight standard deviation (66% of cocks are +/- one standard deviation from 5.5”), it is an Infinitesimally small probability that 50% were 7+”… you’d be better off playing PowerBall.
You are forgetting one thing. That would be true if all the men in the world were the population sample. I suspect that most guys with cocks <4" are not going to be putting themselves out there as Bulls, likewise many guys with cocks >7" have found that many women will fuck them in a second and are more willing to be Bulls. So if the sample is not representative of the entire population the sub-set experienced by the woman would also not be representative of the entire population. I always wondered why the girls in college liked the guys who were jerks... now I suspect that the jerks had the bigger cocks.
Reread his post. The sample was collected before they were married. Single guys with small dicks want to get laid also. The challenge flag remains on the field.
To clear the field of laundry, human behavior is a factor. The woman looking at a guys hands, feet, nose or staring at his crotch to get an indication he's hung factors into her decision to date. Her sample size is dependent on who she engages with and pursues.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by Veryaware » Mon Jul 15, 2019 7:49 am

38kewp wrote:
Sat Mar 30, 2019 4:04 am
jagman1957 wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 3:19 pm
38kewp wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 12:32 pm

Statistically speaking, with the mean cock size being between 5” and 6” (call it 5.5”) and a normally distributed population with a very tight standard deviation (66% of cocks are +/- one standard deviation from 5.5”), it is an Infinitesimally small probability that 50% were 7+”… you’d be better off playing PowerBall.
You are forgetting one thing. That would be true if all the men in the world were the population sample. I suspect that most guys with cocks <4" are not going to be putting themselves out there as Bulls, likewise many guys with cocks >7" have found that many women will fuck them in a second and are more willing to be Bulls. So if the sample is not representative of the entire population the sub-set experienced by the woman would also not be representative of the entire population. I always wondered why the girls in college liked the guys who were jerks... now I suspect that the jerks had the bigger cocks.
Reread his post. The sample was collected before they were married. Single guys with small dicks want to get laid also. The challenge flag remains on the field.
To clear the field of laundry, human behavior is a factor. The woman looking at a guys hands, feet, nose or staring at his crotch to get an indication he's hung factors into her decision to date. Her sample size is dependent on who she engages with and pursues.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by bradisalpha » Mon Jul 15, 2019 11:26 am

jagman1957 wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2019 3:19 pm
38kewp wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 12:32 pm

Statistically speaking, with the mean cock size being between 5” and 6” (call it 5.5”) and a normally distributed population with a very tight standard deviation (66% of cocks are +/- one standard deviation from 5.5”), it is an Infinitesimally small probability that 50% were 7+”… you’d be better off playing PowerBall.
You are forgetting one thing. That would be true if all the men in the world were the population sample. I suspect that most guys with cocks <4" are not going to be putting themselves out there as Bulls, likewise many guys with cocks >7" have found that many women will fuck them in a second and are more willing to be Bulls. So if the sample is not representative of the entire population the sub-set experienced by the woman would also not be representative of the entire population. I always wondered why the girls in college liked the guys who were jerks... now I suspect that the jerks had the bigger cocks.
Jagman,

I will have to say you have something here. I was a bad boy and I guess sort of a jerk in high school and college. These were times when the girls would talk about boys and compare them all the time.. and gossip spread like wildfire. I had a reputation for having a big cock back then.. which I didn’t realize until later. So I thought my attitude was why the girls wanted to fuck me and were so easy for me to take away from their boyfriends and fuck. A lot if it back then was that they were constantly breaking up and having different boyfriends so now I understand how my cock size went around between the girls in different circles.

Then in college, it was more if the same but a little more mature.. but I was having a ball !!! Lol !!

Once I began fucking married hot wives there was a little bit of that still, but not as much. A hot wife might tell a friend.. or maybe two about our fun together and mention my size. I could always tell because the friend then would try to meet me and be around me.. even flirt with me.. again, curious to try my big cock. But fortunately I stayed away from those temptations that would have done nothing but got me in trouble !! I guess I calmed down and wasn’t as big of a jerk !!

So, yes, I agree that not that many men have cocks over 7+” and thick. And it is something many women want to experience. But at that age I was probably a jerk.. but not really realizing why !!!! Lol !!

But there is a saying “guys with little duckies buy big trucks and corvettes.. guys with big cocks fuck their Wives”. I am not sure I believe in that expression, but it does cause you to wonder, doesn’t it ??

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by kennysiu » Wed Jul 17, 2019 5:58 am

It's difficult to explain why. But I believe that it's a kind of sexual arousal. It's like you are asking why somebody likes S&M. It's just sexy and arousing. It's probably the chemistry in your brain that works

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Unread post by cantwait83 » Sat Jul 20, 2019 10:03 am

For me, it's years of me telling her she's stunning and her being coy and modest, whilst telling me I am wrong. The thought of watching a guy much more attractive than me get turned on by her and then her getting turned on by the fact that she's desired by him and the resulting passion that might erupt. Urgh. I'm working myself up. I might need to go and have a lie down!

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Unread post by SailorGuy » Mon Jul 22, 2019 9:26 am

For the life of me I cannot answer the "why". All I know is that there is nothing more intense, captivating, enchanting and flat-out mind blowing than watching the woman you so deeply love taken by another man. And knowing that she will come back to you afterwards. That has jazzed me all my adult life.
It's not like, say, watching porn, where the people involved are of no consequence to you. This woman getting fucked by another man is your WIFE! Whom you love devotedly and forever! And she loves you right back. And yet, and yet, there she goes, off to her lover's house.
But she will be back, and her glowing happiness assures you that this thing, this wife-sharing life, is very very good.

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Unread post by dinoo » Mon Jul 22, 2019 11:20 pm

I tried to explain for the "comfort" of myself but couldn't find a satisfying answer.
So I discussed it with my wife, LadyD.
After weeks of talking about this question, she said (some phrases):

"I really love to be a HW.
Very important for me wasthat you gave me a 100% freedom. So you took away from me feeling guilty.

The only negative thought I have is perhaps me being so selfish but you encouraged me to be as selfish as possible.
I did and at the end it made you a much better lover. And a better husband.

In principal you stayed monogamously and with this you took away all my existing jealously.
In fact you became a bi-man so I can watch you too. It exites me extremely.

We both embrace now me being a HW, your HW.
So why seeking for an rather clear answer.
Or it must be that we can talk now openly about our, sometimes very perverted, fantasies.
So let us enjoy our lifestyle I don't want to leave anymore."

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Unread post by EddieM » Wed Jul 24, 2019 1:35 am

So true... hard to explain to someone who has not experienced it or the same pleasure / feelings and emotions. It has been some time since our last "event". We were visiting our mutual long time friend (20+ yrs) who now has a GF. She knows nothing about our past together. We had only played a few times but did again last weekend. Hard to describe the emotions and enjoyment but even now after having had witnessed this before it was amazing. As she lay on her stomach getting a lower back rub his cock rubbed up against her labia. As he slowly enters her I could not tell if he was probing her anus or not. Long story short... as we are enjoying ourselves he grabs her arms, pulls behind her back and drives deep into her. A he thrusts, she pushes back, I see her face, her emotions as he pushes harder. I know he is getting more experimental... more on that later. He finally explodes in her, I see her body push his cock further in. Very hot. Prior to this I chatted with him on my feelings and to make sure he was not just looking at her like a tag. he said no... She said after some nudging that yes he has tried to put his cock in her anus but she resisted but otherwise she loves it when she can feel him finish in her.

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Unread post by SeaWife » Wed Jul 24, 2019 2:46 pm

For me it is the thrill of watching my wife with a much bigger cock than mine and one who is dominant. My wife positively craves men like this and it is incredible to watch how turn on she gets.
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Unread post by Buddy5542 » Thu Jul 25, 2019 3:48 pm

I get turned on watching her cum with another man; and watching her make him cum.

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Unread post by Nervousguy » Sun Jul 28, 2019 1:24 am

It's such a turn on seeing other guys interested in your wife. Chatting to them, trying to get your wife wet or horny. Admiring your wife's body or tight pussy. Enjoying reading their texts of what he wants to do to her. Seeing her blush or dirty talk around it.
Watch her cum using toys whilst she tells you it's his cock inside her.
Its thrilling, exciting and such a turn on knowing another man wants your wife in bed as bad as you do.

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Unread post by Luv It » Mon Aug 12, 2019 1:32 pm

If i may.....
To no one in particular....

Most just say this or that turns them on ,
However, what about why their wife with other men turns them on.... which can be more to the point. :)
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Unread post by Nervousguy » Sun Aug 18, 2019 4:42 am

Luv It wrote:
Mon Aug 12, 2019 1:32 pm
If i may.....
To no one in particular....

Most just say this or that turns them on ,
However, what about why their wife with other men turns them on.... which can be more to the point. :)
The added competition or the feeling of a wife who will literally do anything for you, the feeling and excitement of having a wife who is super kinky and rocks your world is unreal plus it can make a couple have an even tighter bond.

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Unread post by Luv It » Sun Aug 18, 2019 6:37 am

yeah.... but, why does it make you excited?
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Unread post by SailorGuy » Sun Aug 18, 2019 8:07 am

Luv It wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 6:37 am
yeah.... but, why does it make you excited?
Ah, THAT is the million-dollar question!
And I just don't know "why". Just that it does.
But I do ponder the question all the same.
I remember dating a girl in college. Not in love with her, but liking her quite a lot, and the sex was good, nice. When I learned she had slept with somebody else one weekend I was slightly pissed, maybe a little rejected feeling. But certainly not aroused.
Compared to another girl I knew in college. We were actually "going steady" and had been for a good long while. I loved her, and the sex was fantastic. So when SHE slept with someone else one weekend I was heartbroken, jealous, and - aroused! What?!? Where did THAT feeling come from? But there it was. After she told me about it we fucked like crazy; home alone and I masturbated thinking about her with that other guy.
I have that same dynamic with my wife of 31 years: because I am so crazy about her, the fact that she has another lover is incredibly arousing to me. The feeling is like a drug, impossible to ignore.
We started off our relationship and then our marriage as a fairly vanilla heterosexual couple; the wild days of sex behind each of us, thank god. Then one day we went swimming at a nearby lake with a male friend of ours. My wife, who dresses very tastefully - natural fibers, nothing overtly sexual or trashy - was wearing a very skimpy bikini, something our friend had never seen her in. He was clearly checking her out, and this reignited my lust for the girl I loved to be with another guy. And this eventually led to our being in a hotwife relationship. Our marriage is electric and exciting and very much alive with this other man being my wife's secret lover.
To repeat: there is nothing - nothing! - more exciting in life than to know my wife is lovers with another man. I've climbed mountains, raced cars, travelled the world, sailed across the Pacific, been to the Super Bowl, etc. etc., and NONE of these things comes close to the deep electric thrill of my beloved wife in the arms of another man. That's just how it is with me.

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Unread post by Nervousguy » Sun Aug 18, 2019 8:40 am

Luv It wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 6:37 am
yeah.... but, why does it make you excited?
I suppose that's the whole point of a kink or fetish is you have to feel the emotions to understand it.
Life's short, sex is one of our ultimate pleasures what's wrong with enjoying it and if a partner loves you enough to give you your ultimate fantasy then why not embrace it?
It's a thrill and turns me on the idea we haven't done it yet but it's been a fantasy of mines for years.

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Unread post by SailorGuy » Sun Aug 18, 2019 10:06 am

Yes, the fear of losing your wife to her lover is a part of it, and I guess that happens sometimes. Is it a risk worth taking? Initially my wife and I thought not, and she "ended" her affair after that first encounter. Scared us to death!
And yet it was my wife, not I, who re-initiated the affair only two weeks later. And when she told me about it I was thrilled once more, for I, too, had been miserable after she ended it with her new lover after that first thrilling/scary encounter.
Ultimately we have these all-too-short lives to live; either way I am going to lose my wife eventually. So the brave and "right" thing to do is embrace your passions and live them as best you can, while you can. I have a deep and profound passion for my wife to have another lover; luckily for me she does.

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