"Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

[Wishful22]

My wife has had affairs with at least two of her bosses but would never admit to it. So for me it would be far better to have fuck other men with my knowledge than doing it behind my back. I have been married twice and either I pick the wrong women or it seems women just can’t resist certain types of men. These are the type they don’t want to live with just fuck with. Yes I am no different there are women I have met that I would love to fuck but I would not want to spend a lot of time with. The difference is I don’t have much hope of getting them whereas my wife is an attractive petit woman with a suductive voice and nice arse and tits and I am pretty sure she could get any guy she wanted. Even though she is only 5’ and slim she gets turned on by big muscular guys the bigger the better. Personally I would love to see her with a big hung guy giving her a hard fucking she loves laying on her back legs straight up and spread apart while I pound her pussy. I’m pretty sure she could take a lot more size and duration than I can supply

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Wiskful22.

[Sparko]

My previous post was a bit short. I'll explain why so based on my own situation and thought.

When we first got together I had an extremely high sex drive, and a part of me was concerned that after the "lustful" period was over that one of us would dump the other. Then we got more serious, she wanted to get married (even though back then we were in an open relationship already) and have kids I was kind of scared if she might lose her sex drive as you hear of plenty of husbands complain about their wives not giving them even a quarter of the sex they'd like.

And yet you know what? years later its the opposite; on average at 38 (she's 35) I'm good with sex once every 2 days, and now even after having 2 babies its like she wants it at least once every day - EVERY day, seriously, when she gives me a blowjob every day so she can have sex its like I'm 75--90% hard when we have sex, so if we have sex once every couple of days I'm 90-100% hard for her. Compared to a lot of men my age and been together for 15 years that is pretty good going on my behalf, as lot of men seem to get bored of reading the same newspaper every day.

The things that keep me going is knowing that she will always come back to me, give me sex, show me genuine love and affection.
The "extra" things that help me get and stay hard is knowing and wondering what other men have been like with her. Honestly I love it, especially if they didn't use a condom - obviously hopefully he's (tested?) clean.

Also of course, I love it knowing she's having fun even if its behind my back. As long as she showers me with lots of love then everyone's happy?

[Msn75]

My wife is incredibly beautiful, inside and out, and very sexual and just plain loves to fuck. I cannot imagine denying her the pleasure she gets from being with other men. I’m 54, she’s 46. We’ve been “Open” for a long time and each played on occasion with others, but really began embracing the Hotwife lifestyle about 9 years ago. We went through the baby steps phase and lately she has really been enjoying her freedom.

Why would I want my wife to sleep with other men?
From the standpoint of being her man, her rock, her Alpha: because she wants to. She loves it. She has so much fun.
From the standpoint of our marriage: we’ve grown so much closer. We talk without inhibitions , our intimacy is amazing. And the sex is super hot.
From the standpoint of my own personal turn ons: I think it is really hot when she fucks others. Entering her after another man has fucked her well is really erotic and feels incredible. I have a strong sex drive, and I have a wife who wants to fuck me anywhere from 5-10 times a week.

I have a very thick 7.5 inches, I’ve been a bull for others in the past, when I was younger. Nowadays, she is the only woman I want.... I know how to fuck my wife multiple times a day and for as long as she needs to, and can get her off as much as she needs to get off. She still wants and needs to fuck other men, too. I love it and fully embrace her choice to do so, secure in the strength of our marriage...

Awesome forum btw.... thanks for including me

[early-kink]

Msn75 - WOW !! Color me jealous. It sounds like you two have a REALLY super-hot, sexy marriage going on. I'll bet your wife is very thankful you're so giving toward her needs. Hopefully I'll get to experience what you two have. I just think it's sooooo hot when a woman can admit she loves sex (like it's something to be ashamed of ???!!) and needs to have another guy or guys to play with. When a woman wants & chooses to have other play-partners, it's just soooo sexy!! And I understand only wanting your lady. My thinking as well.

Love to hear from your lady too, if she's up for sharing her thoughts.

Best wishes to you both !! Have lots of hot, steamy fun.

[Msn75]

early-kink: thanks. We’re both feeling really good about where our marriage is at these days. Don’t get me wrong, our entire marriage hasn’t been sunshine and fuckfests! It took us awhile to get to where we are now, there were plenty of missteps and mistakes a long the way. It took us awhile to learn how to communicate with each on a deeper level. I think a lot of couples in this lifestyle go through those phases.

I’m not sure exactly when it happened, but in recent years her sex drive became a little stronger than mine (for the first 10-15 years of our 20 year marriage that was flipped around and I was the one with the stronger drive). There was the realization long ago that my wife and I aren’t really wired for monogamy, however it has really become apparent in the last year just how much my wife needs and wants to fuck other men... it IS really hot... and when she comes home from a particularly hot date she is practically ripping my clothes off for the next 2-3 days straight......

[xian2014]

My question and I hope someone can answer this to the why, its not the part of watching the wife I can see how that could be a turn on and erotic, the parts I dont understand.
1. when its stated I do it for her enjoyment to make sure she is getting satisfied, what about the husband satisfaction? the wife could be just as boring in bed as the man, so why only the wife gets the hall pass?
2. when the husband or bf says he not good at sex and he wants the wife to be happy, to me that comes to communication and maybe having the wife teach the husband what makes her feel good, so why is this a reason?
3. why does the wife cut off the husband from sex, what is the point of that does the husband not want to have sex with the wife? I mean do you get your wife a bf so the husband doesnt have to deal with the drama of communication and intimacy?
4. I guess my main question is why only the wife gets to play? I get its hotwife or cuckold but still to say the husband doesnt have urges to fuck all the women is crazy, I mean if my wife gave me a hall pass my dick would be wrecked.
5. I dont understand letting the wife have a bf because emotions can not be controlled and if she falls to hard for him it could end your marriage,or is that the ultimate goal to actually lose the gf/wife?
6. why not just have an open marriage and both parties have to the option to play or not play? why should only the wife get it all ( I get it thats not what the lifestyle is about ) doesnt make sense, to me.

I guess I dont understand because I read a lot of whys in this thread and most of them were because of some sort of short comings like not good in bed, small dick, wife has a higher sex drive, to me all this could be addressed without being in the lifestyle, now dont get me wrong I see nothing wrong with what people want to do, but I do question some of the reasons most due to my lack of understanding, but like anything maybe it is just because it is, I find this lifestyle fascinating and thats why I come to this forum and for Xleglovers stories.

I myself couldnt do this lifestyle or wouldnt want to for me the risk would be to great and I know myself I would find myself more angry then excited, but I find it awesome that you guys can find joy out of it and make it work I know it doesnt always work and it can back fire, but still I guess at the end of the day if you and your wife are still together and love each other, then play on play on player.

[Msn75]

Xian, answered your question in bold, below

1. when its stated I do it for her enjoyment to make sure she is getting satisfied, what about the husband satisfaction? the wife could be just as boring in bed as the man, so why only the wife gets the hall pass?

My wife is amazingly hot in bed. I’m extremely satisfied. Her sex drive is stronger than mine these days, so She is down to fuck me as often as I want.

2. when the husband or bf says he not good at sex and he wants the wife to be happy, to me that comes to communication and maybe having the wife teach the husband what makes her feel good, so why is this a reason?

Doesn’t apply in our marriage. However, my wife loves variety. I can only be one man...

3. why does the wife cut off the husband from sex, what is the point of that does the husband not want to have sex with the wife? I mean do you get your wife a bf so the husband doesnt have to deal with the drama of communication and intimacy?

Again, doesn’t apply with us... if anything I have way more sex than the average monogamous marriage. Like, way more. An example: my wife went out and fucked somebody new on a Friday night a few weeks ago, has a great time, came home horny, and fucked me like a freakin porn star in our bed that night. Then over the course of the next 6 days, we fucked 10 more times. She would have been down for more sex with me that week, but dude I am 54 years old, and fucking 11 times in one week was awesome, but plenty... if you are in a monogamous marriage and your wife is crazy hot to have sex with you 7-10 times a week, and is sucking your dick every day, and is texting you pretty much every day telling you how wet she is and how she can’t wait to feel you inside her, hey hats off to you bro’... especially if it is a long term marriage like ours (20 years).

4. I guess my main question is why only the wife gets to play? I get its hotwife or cuckold but still to say the husband doesnt have urges to fuck all the women is crazy, I mean if my wife gave me a hall pass my dick would be wrecked.

My wife would be totally cool with me having sex with others. I choose not to. I’m just into her. When we were younger we did the open marriage thing and I had sex with lots of various women, and it was fun, but I came to the realization that I prefer to only have sex with my wife and the hottest thing to me is fucking her shortly after she’s been with someone else. It is just how I am, at this stage of life.

5. I dont understand letting the wife have a bf because emotions can not be controlled and if she falls to hard for him it could end your marriage,or is that the ultimate goal to actually lose the gf/wife?

She is her own self, it is her choice. She gets to fuck all sorts of extremely hot men, and yet chooses to live with me and fuck my brains out on pretty much a daily basis...to me that is the ultimate gift. If you love someone, set them free. For her, so far anyways, she just likes to fuck a lot. She’s not really into the Poly thing, and is just looking for hot sex. If that happens (feelings/Poly) we’ll talk it out

6. why not just have an open marriage and both parties have to the option to play or not play? why should only the wife get it all ( I get it thats not what the lifestyle is about ) doesnt make sense, to me.

We both have the option to play. She chooses to, I choose not to. It works for us.

[dinoo]

My question and I hope someone can answer this to the why, its not the part of watching the wife I can see how that could be a turn on and erotic, the parts I dont understand.
1. when its stated I do it for her enjoyment to make sure she is getting satisfied, what about the husband satisfaction? the wife could be just as boring in bed as the man, so why only the wife gets the hall pass?

My wife LadyD was jealous. The longer she was a HW, the less I became interested in other wives. The hottier she became when I was watching her. A win-win situation.

2. when the husband or bf says he not good at sex and he wants the wife to be happy, to me that comes to communication and maybe having the wife teach the husband what makes her feel good, so why is this a reason?

I hadn't the drive other men had. Tongue kissing I didn't like very much. So she "used" me to have dirty or kinky sex which we both liked.

3. why does the wife cut off the husband from sex, what is the point of that does the husband not want to have sex with the wife? I mean do you get your wife a bf so the husband doesnt have to deal with the drama of communication and intimacy?

Never, LadyD did cut me off.

4. I guess my main question is why only the wife gets to play? I get its hotwife or cuckold but still to say the husband doesnt have urges to fuck all the women is crazy, I mean if my wife gave me a hall pass my dick would be wrecked.

I was so happy with LadyD, in real life and in our secret lifestyle. The question didn't exist at all.

5. I dont understand letting the wife have a bf because emotions can not be controlled and if she falls to hard for him it could end your marriage,or is that the ultimate goal to actually lose the gf/wife?

I pushed LadyD not to hide emotions. "Feel free and if you will fall in love with another man, you have to know I don't have any problem with it."
We had only one rule: if marriage would suffer, she had to stop. A question of having confidence in each other.

6. why not just have an open marriage and both parties have to the option to play or not play? why should only the wife get it all ( I get it thats not what the lifestyle is about ) doesnt make sense, to me.

We both were very satisfied with our marriage and lifestyle. A matter of personal feelings. Be happy that not everybody is the same.

I guess I dont understand because I read a lot of whys in this thread and most of them were because of some sort of short comings like not good in bed, small dick, wife has a higher sex drive, to me all this could be addressed without being in the lifestyle, now dont get me wrong I see nothing wrong with what people want to do, but I do question some of the reasons most due to my lack of understanding, but like anything maybe it is just because it is, I find this lifestyle fascinating and thats why I come to this forum and for Xleglovers stories.

A matter of logical different persons with different feelings and emotions. If you would have the marriage we had, you would understand it. On beforehand, I never imagined how the lifestyle we are taling about, could have such a positive impact on our already delicious marriage.

I myself couldnt do this lifestyle or wouldnt want to for me the risk would be to great and I know myself I would find myself more angry then excited, but I find it awesome that you guys can find joy out of it and make it work I know it doesnt always work and it can back fire, but still I guess at the end of the day if you and your wife are still together and love each other, then play on play on player.

Okay, the risk is always there but this in a "normal" marriage also present We agreed that we never would retire from this lifestyle.

[stevens4fun]

Remember, though, - you can always get into swinging if you want to enjoy other women as well. It's a fun option and offers the possibility of watching or participating as your wife makes love to another woman, as well as to other guys. When we were with couples, I loved everything that happened, but always felt kind of gyped as my recovery time was so much longer than my wife's - she could go non-stop for several hours, while I was always trying to hold back, hold back........

6. why not just have an open marriage and both parties have to the option to play or not play? why should only the wife get it all ( I get it thats not what the lifestyle is about ) doesnt make sense, to me.

[Niceguysj99]

I read up on the motivations men for wanting their wife to have sex with another man. I have two:

1. I want my wife to be free to enjoy the passion that comes with having sex with a handsome, hung, respectful, attentive guy who adores her.

2, This is self serving; I think she is unbelievably sexy, incredibly desirable, unattainable for most men that would die to even kiss her, and a wild woman in bed. When I watch, or hear about another man having sex with her, from the moment he walks in the door and sees her I get a burning rush:

- seeing the instant lust show on his face and disbelief that he will actually will have the privilege of access to every part of her body.

- hearing about or seeing the animal passion when he cums.

- how much pleasure he gets as he kisses her while giving her an enormous orgasm, starring at her face as she cums

- the dreamy, dazed look on his face as she walks him to the door and kisses him goodbye, though he would to stay forever.

- Imagining him talking to his buddies afterwards, telling them “You won’t believe it but I fucked a beautiful, hot, animal of a wife last night and here are details

Then she comes home to me. If I watched, we make terrific love. Or, she tells me every detail as she rides on top of me.

[early-kink]

My hat's off to you, gentlemen!! I think it would take some real bravery - at first - to support your wives having lovers on the side. But from what you gents have stated, both you and your wives are enjoying something very special. To have great marriages, maintain the love between you both - even see it grow - while your wives thoroughly enjoy hot sexual chemistry with other guys is just inspiring!!! I'm envious. It must truly be very hot.

[dinoo]

I really think that an already existing good marriage is condition no. 1.
Condition no. 2: both want this lifestyle, trying it and/or experiencing it.
Condition no. 3: a very open communication. Yes, it can indeed very hot especially while talking about encounters or fantasies.

For me personal: no rules, to let your wife feel free. Considering rules while playing isn't a good condition. MHO.

Dinoo

[wannabecUKold]

Some answers from a wannabe, which perhaps explain why it hasn't happened yet and why I want it to.

"the part of watching the wife [have sex], I can see how that could be a turn on and erotic" - certainly a vital element of my desire. There is a control/surrender element and a voyeuristic element. Control, because she is doing what you want; surrender by you of her to another man and to her desires.

1. "what about the husband satisfaction? the wife could be just as boring in bed as the man, so why only the wife gets the hall pass?"
My wife is indeed boring in bed, with lots of repression and rejection. We try to deal with it, but I guess she has this view of what a husband should be and how he should behave. My view is that it would be best if she began again with a person with the designated role of fucking her.
Many wives here feel that they cannot let themselves go with their husband but are willing to do other things with a lover.

2. "when the husband or bf says he not good at sex, why is this a reason?" I agree it is best if the couple deal with that issue first. Of course if the husband has a tiny dick, then not much they can do to remedy it, and taking a lover is a good way round that problem. I sense that cuckolding in fact works better if the couple do have a good sex life.

3. "why does the wife cut off the husband from sex?"
The wife may do so simply because she cannot cope with having two lovers. In particular she wants to devote herself to her enjoyment of her new man.
The husband enjoys the denial: it is frustrating, worrying, exciting, fulfilling. A lot of buzz. He finds the thrill of knowing and being denied greater than the thrill of having sex with her.
But yes, it can also be to avoid intimacy with the wife, which is not advisable.

4. "why only the wife gets to play?" The buzz comes with handing one's wife, one's life partner, over, surrendering her, with nothing in return except the buzz of knowing someone else is fucking her, your wife. Sure a hall pass eg with Scarlet777 would be great. But it wouldn't be the point. It would be a different game.

5."emotions can not be controlled": a serious concern. Hence all the advice here that the marriage has to be strong to minimise that risk. Hotwifing by young couples who are newly together may be scarcely different from just playing the field.

6. "why not just have an open marriage" - see 4 above.

"I myself couldnt do this lifestyle or wouldnt want to for me the risk would be too great" I bet you could. The desire is already wormed into your head. You'd go down this path like a shot, if your wife said yes.

[early-kink]

This thought struck a chord with me. I've read that very same thing in a number of sex/relationship books, articles, - in print and online over the years. I've heard it discussed in counseling sessions, and in online "ted talks" and seminars, too.

I wonder why that is?? Can any of the ladies out there comment?? Do some ladies feel they HAVE TO be "respectable, goody-goody" wives and not do certain things sexually with / to their husbands?? I really believe this to be true based on all the info I mentioned above. But where does that idea or need to be "Mrs. ultra-conservative, socially acceptable, prim & proper" come from?? But then be willing to do with a lover / FWB the very things she refuses / doesn't want to do with her hubby?? I've read articles where women are quoted as saying those very things. Is it because women don't want to appear too "loose" or "slutty" to their husbands??

This way of thinking must be somewhat common (inside and/or outside of hotwifing) or there wouldn't be so many references to it in relationship/sexual material. The idea that a wife would be "plain-Jane, ultra-vanilla, goody-goody" with her husband, but want to be an unbridled, uninhibited, sexy, wild woman with another guy just blows my mind!!! I can understand if H & W both want that, in a hotwife/cuckold scenario, but women who are NOT into those things are also this way & do this. Why would wives want to deny their hubbies (and herself!) a really hot sex life???

Some answers from a wannabe, which perhaps explain why it hasn't happened yet and why I want it to.

"the part of watching the wife [have sex], I can see how that could be a turn on and erotic" - certainly a vital element of my desire. There is a control/surrender element and a voyeuristic element. Control, because she is doing what you want; surrender by you of her to another man and to her desires.

1. "what about the husband satisfaction? the wife could be just as boring in bed as the man, so why only the wife gets the hall pass?"
My wife is indeed boring in bed, with lots of repression and rejection. We try to deal with it, but I guess she has this view of what a husband should be and how he should behave. My view is that it would be best if she began again with a person with the designated role of fucking her.
Many wives here feel that they cannot let themselves go with their husband but are willing to do other things with a lover.

2. "when the husband or bf says he not good at sex, why is this a reason?" I agree it is best if the couple deal with that issue first. Of course if the husband has a tiny dick, then not much they can do to remedy it, and taking a lover is a good way round that problem. I sense that cuckolding in fact works better if the couple do have a good sex life.

3. "why does the wife cut off the husband from sex?"
The wife may do so simply because she cannot cope with having two lovers. In particular she wants to devote herself to her enjoyment of her new man.
The husband enjoys the denial: it is frustrating, worrying, exciting, fulfilling. A lot of buzz. He finds the thrill of knowing and being denied greater than the thrill of having sex with her.
But yes, it can also be to avoid intimacy with the wife, which is not advisable.

4. "why only the wife gets to play?" The buzz comes with handing one's wife, one's life partner, over, surrendering her, with nothing in return except the buzz of knowing someone else is fucking her, your wife. Sure a hall pass eg with Scarlet777 would be great. But it wouldn't be the point. It would be a different game.

5."emotions can not be controlled": a serious concern. Hence all the advice here that the marriage has to be strong to minimise that risk. Hotwifing by young couples who are newly together may be scarcely different from just playing the field.

6. "why not just have an open marriage" - see 4 above.

"I myself couldnt do this lifestyle or wouldnt want to for me the risk would be too great" I bet you could. The desire is already wormed into your head. You'd go down this path like a shot, if your wife said yes.

[early-kink]

I did something wrong!! Xian2014 didn't write those words in the inner tan box above - I did. I was trying to insert a quote of wannabcUKold's last sentence of his paragraph #1 above. I messed up something!!

Anyway I'd love to hear thoughts on my comments above in the innermost tan box please. I'm all ears!!!!

[wannabecUKold]

Some answers from a wannabe, which perhaps explain why it hasn't happened yet and why I want it to.

"the part of watching the wife [have sex], I can see how that could be a turn on and erotic" - certainly a vital element of my desire. There is a control/surrender element and a voyeuristic element. Control, because she is doing what you want; surrender by you of her to another man and to her desires.

1. "what about the husband satisfaction? the wife could be just as boring in bed as the man, so why only the wife gets the hall pass?"
My wife is indeed boring in bed, with lots of repression and rejection. We try to deal with it, but I guess she has this view of what a husband should be and how he should behave. My view is that it would be best if she began again with a person with the designated role of fucking her.
Many wives here feel that they cannot let themselves go with their husband but are willing to do other things with a lover.

2. "when the husband or bf says he not good at sex, why is this a reason?" I agree it is best if the couple deal with that issue first. Of course if the husband has a tiny dick, then not much they can do to remedy it, and taking a lover is a good way round that problem. I sense that cuckolding in fact works better if the couple do have a good sex life.

3. "why does the wife cut off the husband from sex?"
The wife may do so simply because she cannot cope with having two lovers. In particular she wants to devote herself to her enjoyment of her new man.
The husband enjoys the denial: it is frustrating, worrying, exciting, fulfilling. A lot of buzz. He finds the thrill of knowing and being denied greater than the thrill of having sex with her.
But yes, it can also be to avoid intimacy with the wife, which is not advisable.

4. "why only the wife gets to play?" The buzz comes with handing one's wife, one's life partner, over, surrendering her, with nothing in return except the buzz of knowing someone else is fucking her, your wife. Sure a hall pass eg with Scarlet777 would be great. But it wouldn't be the point. It would be a different game.

5."emotions can not be controlled": a serious concern. Hence all the advice here that the marriage has to be strong to minimise that risk. Hotwifing by young couples who are newly together may be scarcely different from just playing the field.

6. "why not just have an open marriage" - see 4 above.

"I myself couldnt do this lifestyle or wouldnt want to for me the risk would be too great" I bet you could. The desire is already wormed into your head. You'd go down this path like a shot, if your wife said yes.

This thought struck a chord with me. I've read that very same thing in a number of sex/relationship books, articles, - in print and online over the years. I've heard it discussed in counseling sessions, and in online "ted talks" and seminars, too.

I wonder why that is?? Can any of the ladies out there comment?? Do some ladies feel they HAVE TO be "respectable, goody-goody" wives and not do certain things sexually with / to their husbands?? I really believe this to be true based on all the info I mentioned above. But where does that idea or need to be "Mrs. ultra-conservative, socially acceptable, prim & proper" come from?? But then be willing to do with a lover / FWB the very things she refuses / doesn't want to do with her hubby?? I've read articles where women are quoted as saying those very things. Is it because women don't want to appear too "loose" or "slutty" to their husbands??

This way of thinking must be somewhat common (inside and/or outside of hotwifing) or there wouldn't be so many references to it in relationship/sexual material. The idea that a wife would be "plain-Jane, ultra-vanilla, goody-goody" with her husband, but want to be an unbridled, uninhibited, sexy, wild woman with another guy just blows my mind!!! I can understand if H & W both want that, in a hotwife/cuckold scenario, but women who are NOT into those things are also this way & do this. Why would wives want to deny their hubbies (and herself!) a really hot sex life???

Early-kink's post above: comments would be welcome.

[FL_Cpl_4fun]

I’ve come to understand that I live vicariously through her and she’s my outlet. Prior to meeting her I had what I consider a true sexual addiction. When she started HW, all my urges to fuck other people went away like magic. When she’s not at least actively looking for HW activity, I feel a longing to return to my old ways. If she’s fucking other guys or I think she’s about to soon, I feel quenched. I told her “you have sex with other people so that I don’t have to.” As long as she’s fucking other guys I am completely monogamous and happy with that. When she takes a break, or says she’s thinking of a vanilla life, I feel like I can’t live that way for very long and start strategizing for my own activities. Thus far I’ve been able to stay monogamous. Since we’ve been together I’ve not touched another woman except once in a swing club together, and it wasn’t much, just a taste. She does not believe this and thinks given my history and all her activities, I must be doing something on my own sometimes. It’s true that I’ve done nothing, because I didn’t want to, she’s everything I need if she’s playing.

If I could go through my life experiences like a box of cards and pull out my own sex experience cards and trade those for credits toward watching her with guys, I’d end up cashing them all In and would be a virgin again.

[Tross]

I open my wife’s pussy sometimes for a stranger. Never anyone we know. Always a condom. It is exciting for us both. She loves me to tell her what to do and how to do it. She prefers me with a girl. But even with condoms. No cumming inside or mouth. And no kissing. Just sex. It spices things up. And after, we have the best most passionate sex each time with each other. We also like going to a bar with her Bluetooth vibrator on and I hand my phone to dudes and girls and let them make her cum. Then she and I go back and fuck like crazy!

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Tross.

[Pinay4twoNY]

It's liberating to a woman to admit having desires and to act out her desires without fear of her losing her husband. To feel loved and supported by her man. And it's super hot to be involved with your wife's unleashing her passion and desires. It's good for a marriage in many ways and the communication reaches new levels.

[xian2014]

It's liberating to a woman to admit having desires and to act out her desires without fear of her losing her husband. To feel loved and supported by her man. And it's super hot to be involved with your wife's unleashing her passion and desires. It's good for a marriage in many ways and the communication reaches new levels.

Can that be vice versa?

[nocarpetmatch]

My fascination with hotwifing is rooted in a broader fascination with female pleasure. Watching a woman absorbed in her own orgasm is the sexiest sight in the world for me. I dislike porn that focuses on blow jobs and men spurting onto women without the women having given any sign of having come. When I watch videos of women masturbating, I don't want the camera zooming in constantly on their genitals—I want to see their faces in ecstasy, their whole bodies writhing. I especially like the approach of the Australian series "I Feel Myself" in which the women slowly and delicately arouse themselves or each other, build gradually to orgasm, and then "cool down," framing the experience as something meaningful to them and not just a performance for the men watching.

Nothing is more of a turn-off than the typical strained, artificial open-mouthed O of typical porn scenes. Much more exciting is a woman, eyes closed, lost in herself.

WOW! Perfectly stated. It’s as if you are inside my head transcribing my thoughts.
Thank you.

[wmjacking1]

Wish my pinay wife would do that.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum wmjacking1.