Our Hotwives

Luv It wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 18, 2019 6:37 am

yeah.... but, why does it make you excited?

RunningGuy wrote: ↑

Tue Sep 03, 2019 10:34 am

There are people out there who own the worlds best violins. These are very expensive instruments that require huge investments to own. Typically they are owned by wealthy “captains of industry”, some of whom may be half decent violinists as a hobby but don’t really have the skills to get the most from their instrument.

However, a Stradivarius violin is not a thing of beauty I’d its locked up in a safe or bank vault. These violins are typically loaned to the finest players in the world. When played by a skilled operator the violin sings beautifully,the owner gets to appreciate their instrument that little bit more, the quality of the violin is maintained (an unplayed violin loses quality) and the highly skilled player gets to ply their trade on a first class instrument they could never afford to own. Everybody wins.

I feel similar about my girl. Keeping her “locked up” in monogamy would be a senseless waste, she’s better keeping her sexuality exercised and fully alive, I get the joy of seeing her perform at her best and the other guy gets to experience a really good fuck that otherwise he might be missing out on.

My girl is a Stradivarius Violin.

SailorGuy wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 18, 2019 8:07 am

Luv It wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 18, 2019 6:37 am

yeah.... but, why does it make you excited?

Ah, THAT is the million-dollar question!
And I just don't know "why". Just that it does.
But I do ponder the question all the same.
I remember dating a girl in college. Not in love with her, but liking her quite a lot, and the sex was good, nice. When I learned she had slept with somebody else one weekend I was slightly pissed, maybe a little rejected feeling. But certainly not aroused.
Compared to another girl I knew in college. We were actually "going steady" and had been for a good long while. I loved her, and the sex was fantastic. So when SHE slept with someone else one weekend I was heartbroken, jealous, and - aroused! What?!? Where did THAT feeling come from? But there it was. After she told me about it we fucked like crazy; home alone and I masturbated thinking about her with that other guy.
I have that same dynamic with my wife of 31 years: because I am so crazy about her, the fact that she has another lover is incredibly arousing to me. The feeling is like a drug, impossible to ignore.
We started off our relationship and then our marriage as a fairly vanilla heterosexual couple; the wild days of sex behind each of us, thank god. Then one day we went swimming at a nearby lake with a male friend of ours. My wife, who dresses very tastefully - natural fibers, nothing overtly sexual or trashy - was wearing a very skimpy bikini, something our friend had never seen her in. He was clearly checking her out, and this reignited my lust for the girl I loved to be with another guy. And this eventually led to our being in a hotwife relationship. Our marriage is electric and exciting and very much alive with this other man being my wife's secret lover.
To repeat: there is nothing - nothing! - more exciting in life than to know my wife is lovers with another man. I've climbed mountains, raced cars, travelled the world, sailed across the Pacific, been to the Super Bowl, etc. etc., and NONE of these things comes close to the deep electric thrill of my beloved wife in the arms of another man. That's just how it is with me.

JlovesL wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 16, 2007 10:38 am

"Why would a man want his woman to fuck another?"

"His woman"? Wow, that's a non-starter if I ever saw one. We are two independent souls who decided to take a ride through this life together. What right do I have to limit her joy in whatever form she chooses to find it?

stuckonyou320 wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 30, 2019 8:08 am

A hug thrill it is the lead up, her cumming on his cock and the after glow of your wife on cloud nine for weeks afterwards. Wife is just starting to show sign of being more Dom with me and is a complete sub for other guys. Pretty fucking hot.

Dharmadude wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 06, 2019 8:11 am

I’ve had the desire to have a Slut wife/gf for as long as I can remember. My wife is the love of my life. Not only because she is a Slut, but that is definitely part of it. In a previous marriage we talked about swinging but it never went very far. My wife and I discussed non-monogamy pretty early in our relationship. Eventually I realized I am more of a stag than swinger. If she’s there participating I am okay with being with another woman, but, for me, it is more about her. It’s about giving her the freedom to explore her sexuality in whatever way she chooses. This is not something she has been “allowed” to do in previous relationships. I’m glad we are secure enough in our relationship to give this to each other.

So that’s one reason. I also get off on the taboo aspect of societal judgements. Love seeing how sexy and confident she acts. Love the idea of her meeting someone and having an immediate attraction to their energy. Then acting on it right in that moment instead of saying, “I wonder what that would have been like?” Many of her adventures are random and I get off on that guy thinking that she is cheating and I don’t know about it so he is somewhat getting over on me. The reality is she tells me every detail so I am getting over on him. Weird I know. I’m a perv so the live porn aspect is there too. Even if I am not physically present, the thought of random, uncontrolled coupling is hot.

The last part is ironic. I think it’s about power and possession. I don’t think any of us here are the jealous type or we wouldn’t be here. But she is MY wife. I told her early on that even if she fucked a hundred men one right after the other, they may get to have a small piece of her for a short time, but I get ALL of her. I get her heart and her life to share with mine. Her anklet is a bunch of small hearts with one big heart charm which really signifies this. As an aside, she recently went on a business trip and bought a new anklet for the trip. Didn’t tell me that until she got home. Also said that she was going to get one with a HW charm on it. Go, honey!

dinoo wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 12, 2019 11:45 pm

Dharmadude wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 06, 2019 8:11 am

I’ve had the desire to have a Slut wife/gf for as long as I can remember. My wife is the love of my life. Not only because she is a Slut, but that is definitely part of it. In a previous marriage we talked about swinging but it never went very far. My wife and I discussed non-monogamy pretty early in our relationship. Eventually I realized I am more of a stag than swinger. If she’s there participating I am okay with being with another woman, but, for me, it is more about her. It’s about giving her the freedom to explore her sexuality in whatever way she chooses. This is not something she has been “allowed” to do in previous relationships. I’m glad we are secure enough in our relationship to give this to each other.

So that’s one reason. I also get off on the taboo aspect of societal judgements. Love seeing how sexy and confident she acts. Love the idea of her meeting someone and having an immediate attraction to their energy. Then acting on it right in that moment instead of saying, “I wonder what that would have been like?” Many of her adventures are random and I get off on that guy thinking that she is cheating and I don’t know about it so he is somewhat getting over on me. The reality is she tells me every detail so I am getting over on him. Weird I know. I’m a perv so the live porn aspect is there too. Even if I am not physically present, the thought of random, uncontrolled coupling is hot.

The last part is ironic. I think it’s about power and possession. I don’t think any of us here are the jealous type or we wouldn’t be here. But she is MY wife. I told her early on that even if she fucked a hundred men one right after the other, they may get to have a small piece of her for a short time, but I get ALL of her. I get her heart and her life to share with mine. Her anklet is a bunch of small hearts with one big heart charm which really signifies this. As an aside, she recently went on a business trip and bought a new anklet for the trip. Didn’t tell me that until she got home. Also said that she was going to get one with a HW charm on it. Go, honey!

Well expressed.
On behalf of my wife I would add after "Love seeing how sexy and confident she acts." Love seeing even more how delighted she is being a HW from her soal, how her desires develope beyond every imagination, talking about it and hoping it would ever happen. Like an unexpected gangbang which she kept talking about. Being a HW, or like she says being a slut, is her ruling passion. Just that passion I love to witness.

early-kink wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 13, 2019 9:10 am

I'm too new here to know how the quote function works.
But I know exactly what Sailorguy meant when he said, "Ah ….. THAT is the million dollar question, etc., etc."

I think one has to have deep feelings for the woman in your life to feel the pangs of jealousy, hurt, agony, fear, and such - to have it be arousing to the man. If I dated some woman for a month or so and had no real deep feelings for her yet, knowing she bedded another guy wouldn't have the same arousal factor. I have NO IDEA why that is. But just the mental thought and/or picture of my wife having a sexual holiday vacation with a new guy she found hot would have me like a steel rod. So I think deep love and feelings have a role to play in the arousal aspect.

I've read articles stating that there's a biological factor at play in this arousal going back thousands of years. "Sperm competition" as it's called is a natural biological response to the thought or knowledge that "our" woman has been with another male. Researchers say a male's natural response is to become VERY aroused & hard, and want to vigorously "re-claim" her by extremely aroused intercourse to ejaculate a larger quantity of sperm into her. The idea being that the "re-claimer's" sperm are more numerous and will outswim the "invader's" sperm to fertilize her egg. Science.

I have no idea if that theory is accurate, but I know the thought of my wife being with another guy gets me sizzling hot. The agony and angst of that happening is at once painful …… and at the same time DELICIOUS !! I don't understand the whole dynamic - but it's very real.

mintymintybiscuit wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 16, 2019 1:03 pm

Please forgive me if this might be off topic, but I recently came across an article in Psychology Today titled "Marital Satisfaction Is Linked to Women’s Sexual Desire". It made me wonder if hotwifing might contribute to marriage stability if it contributes to the wife's sexual desire. What do you all think?

mintymintybiscuit wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 16, 2019 1:03 pm

Please forgive me if this might be off topic, but I recently came across an article in Psychology Today titled "Marital Satisfaction Is Linked to Women’s Sexual Desire". It made me wonder if hotwifing might contribute to marriage stability if it contributes to the wife's sexual desire. What do you all think?