So my wife is an escort...

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Would you consider your wife escorting to help her be with as many men as possible?

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by BrunetteLover » Sun Jan 27, 2013 6:59 am

My wife has been an escort for about 2 years. She has, by now, been in the business as long or longer than many who try it, the burnout rate being pretty high. I would consider her an experienced professional. She is also in the process or winding-down the business, due to both losing interest and finding other business opportunities.

She has considered staying in the business only as an 'ultra exclusive' escort - entertaining only at upscale private homes. She is getting a bit tired of doing what we call 'backpage gigs' in which she is treated by the client as a whore - meeting is seedy motels, sucking and fucking in many different positions, and then rushed out the door with cum still drying on her tits, ass, etc.

In those two years, she has been able to be safe from any physical harm, disease and other risks. We attribute this to my total involvement with her safety, rejecting any venue in which I cannot have at least the opportunity to 'peek' into the room in which she is working. For example, there are motels in the area that have windows facing the parking lot, and she will open the drapes and inch or two. In private homes, she will do the same, and being that we are in a rural region, no one has noticed my presence.

When she entertains a group of men, in a private residence, she will dance for a time, then one by one take the guys into a back bedroom for sex. I always choose the room in advance, based on my ability to see in and monitor her safety.

I don't believe the OP said anything about recording the activities, but it does seem like he is occasionally not directly on-scene (while he is at work.) This, to me, is unacceptable. My wife would never want me to be at a distant location while she saw clients, ever. As for a mini-camera, the risk of discovery is small, but ever present, which could cause a client to react with hostility.

On the subject of volume, my wife rarely has more than one meeting per week, and during slow seasons, can go several weeks or a month without seeing a client. During the busier times, she may entertains at 'parties' in which she will fuck and/or suck several guys in an hour.

Most importantly, I always keep in mind that the purpose of this business is quick cash, NOT to turn either of us on. If, after a party, on the way home, I pull into a highway rest stop, and I am the third or fourth guy to have sex with my wife that evening, her sweat and their cum dried into her body makeup and glitter, that's an event to remember. But after the fact. During the gig, I am working, to keep her completely safe.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by JRE » Sun Jan 27, 2013 10:32 am

My wife has fantasied about being a high dollar call girl, but had less interest in quantity as she was in quality. She said she'd love to be an escort to all sorts of social affairs, and to travel in the circles of the rich and famous. She actually did something that for a few years when she was single, but was never paid for her services. She said she just enjoyed luxurious trips to places like Monaco, Italy, Paris, and the Far East.

Now she thinks there would be no demand for an older woman, even though I've tried to convince her that elegance, intelligence and class trump youth for a lot of wealthy men.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by MysteryCouple » Mon Jan 28, 2013 12:55 pm

My wife was a hooker for several years before we met. She has been dealing with sex addiction, and had trouble keeping a job or boyfriend, so her regular bar hopping activities transformed into that. She stopped about 4 months after we got together, when it was clear our relationship was going to be long-term.

While I'm attracted to her behavior, the truth is that its not a rewarding experience for her. A sex addict has sex out of compulsion, not enjoyment...and giving in can allow it get worse and take over your life. I made the mistake of "allowing" it early on when I didn't know her well enough. She wants to be faithful to me, so I support her in that, and try to avoid anything that might be enabling.

At the same time, it is because of my bad girl fetish that we are a good fit...as it is normally difficult for her to hold onto her relationships due to cheating. And though I keep it to myself, her behavior really turns me on.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by BrunetteLover » Mon Jan 28, 2013 2:17 pm

My wife has never had an orgasm with any sexual partner other than myself in her life. She had very limited experience before we met. She has been completely faithful (as have I) since we met, over twenty years ago.

Escorting for her is a (part-time) job, and only a job. She has a successful career in the straight world.

That's the foundation upon which her escorting career is built. With all due respect, any other life narrative (such as yours), no way would this be taking place.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by darslangly » Tue Jan 29, 2013 2:35 pm

I know my wife fantasizes about idealized versions of this situation, but would never consider doing it in reality. And I basically agree - both because of the risk and because she is already so picky that she is almost certain not to find clients she finds attractive. That said, we're keeping this in mind as a roleplaying situation if/when we identify a cooperative FB. That is a completely different deal!

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Monet106 » Tue Jan 29, 2013 2:46 pm

I have thought about this occasionally when I have been asked in bars if I am available and for how much. It isn't in the cards right now while I am under treatment. To me, I'd only consider it if I could continue to be very selective and choosy. I'd want to feel some chemistry. In some places for escorting, if he's got the money, he's got the service. I couldn't escort under those conditions. But, to me, chemistry isn't looks, it is a feeling. I have had several over weight lovers and enjoyed the romp. So, my criteria isn't obvious.
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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Nice Smile » Tue Jan 29, 2013 6:24 pm

darslangly wrote:That said, we're keeping this in mind as a roleplaying situation if/when we identify a cooperative FB. That is a completely different deal!
How would that role playing go? Do you have a particular script running through your minds? A particular scenario?
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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 03, 2013 5:44 am

BrunetteLover wrote:My wife has been an escort for about 2 years. She has, by now, been in the business as long or longer than many who try it, the burnout rate being pretty high. I would consider her an experienced professional. She is also in the process or winding-down the business, due to both losing interest and finding other business opportunities.

She has considered staying in the business only as an 'ultra exclusive' escort - entertaining only at upscale private homes. She is getting a bit tired of doing what we call 'backpage gigs' in which she is treated by the client as a whore - meeting is seedy motels, sucking and fucking in many different positions, and then rushed out the door with cum still drying on her tits, ass, etc.

In those two years, she has been able to be safe from any physical harm, disease and other risks. We attribute this to my total involvement with her safety, rejecting any venue in which I cannot have at least the opportunity to 'peek' into the room in which she is working. For example, there are motels in the area that have windows facing the parking lot, and she will open the drapes and inch or two. In private homes, she will do the same, and being that we are in a rural region, no one has noticed my presence.

When she entertains a group of men, in a private residence, she will dance for a time, then one by one take the guys into a back bedroom for sex. I always choose the room in advance, based on my ability to see in and monitor her safety.

I don't believe the OP said anything about recording the activities, but it does seem like he is occasionally not directly on-scene (while he is at work.) This, to me, is unacceptable. My wife would never want me to be at a distant location while she saw clients, ever. As for a mini-camera, the risk of discovery is small, but ever present, which could cause a client to react with hostility.

On the subject of volume, my wife rarely has more than one meeting per week, and during slow seasons, can go several weeks or a month without seeing a client. During the busier times, she may entertains at 'parties' in which she will fuck and/or suck several guys in an hour.

Most importantly, I always keep in mind that the purpose of this business is quick cash, NOT to turn either of us on. If, after a party, on the way home, I pull into a highway rest stop, and I am the third or fourth guy to have sex with my wife that evening, her sweat and their cum dried into her body makeup and glitter, that's an event to remember. But after the fact. During the gig, I am working, to keep her completely safe.

That is very cool to hear about. Furtunatly my work is literally on the other side of a parking lot. My fastest time home (for lunch) is about 1 minute and 50 seconds. From door to door. Thank you for the reply and your story. Very hot.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 03, 2013 5:47 am

JRE wrote:My wife has fantasied about being a high dollar call girl, but had less interest in quantity as she was in quality. She said she'd love to be an escort to all sorts of social affairs, and to travel in the circles of the rich and famous. She actually did something that for a few years when she was single, but was never paid for her services. She said she just enjoyed luxurious trips to places like Monaco, Italy, Paris, and the Far East.

Now she thinks there would be no demand for an older woman, even though I've tried to convince her that elegance, intelligence and class trump youth for a lot of wealthy men.

What does she consider to be old? What is her age? My wife is 40 and has a firm grip on getting clients from the younger girls around these parts.

Thank you for sharing your story!

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 03, 2013 5:52 am

MysteryCouple wrote:My wife was a hooker for several years before we met. She has been dealing with sex addiction, and had trouble keeping a job or boyfriend, so her regular bar hopping activities transformed into that. She stopped about 4 months after we got together, when it was clear our relationship was going to be long-term.

While I'm attracted to her behavior, the truth is that its not a rewarding experience for her. A sex addict has sex out of compulsion, not enjoyment...and giving in can allow it get worse and take over your life. I made the mistake of "allowing" it early on when I didn't know her well enough. She wants to be faithful to me, so I support her in that, and try to avoid anything that might be enabling.

At the same time, it is because of my bad girl fetish that we are a good fit...as it is normally difficult for her to hold onto her relationships due to cheating. And though I keep it to myself, her behavior really turns me on.
Well, our stories are kind of similar due to the fact that there is sex addiction. For me, I'm ok with this. Whether its her working, her having a boyfriend, her going out with the girls and going home with a guy, or just plain at publix shopping market and somebody making advances and them getting a room, I know that I keep her happy in life, love, being best friends, etc. that I know she will always end up home with me.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 03, 2013 5:54 am

BrunetteLover wrote:My wife has never had an orgasm with any sexual partner other than myself in her life. She had very limited experience before we met. She has been completely faithful (as have I) since we met, over twenty years ago.

Escorting for her is a (part-time) job, and only a job. She has a successful career in the straight world.

That's the foundation upon which her escorting career is built. With all due respect, any other life narrative (such as yours), no way would this be taking place.
Its not a problem and respect your thoughts. Thank you for your reply though.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 03, 2013 6:21 am

darslangly wrote:I know my wife fantasizes about idealized versions of this situation, but would never consider doing it in reality. And I basically agree - both because of the risk and because she is already so picky that she is almost certain not to find clients she finds attractive. That said, we're keeping this in mind as a roleplaying situation if/when we identify a cooperative FB. That is a completely different deal!

Honestly, we felt the same thing as well when we first started. Then... As she started to meet clients, it turned out that pretty much all have been very good looking gentlemen. Not only that, but they are almost all hung... Over the near year, there have been maybe 10 that were less than desirable type men that she has been with. Not only that, but we do have a screaming process before we give them a go ahead.

Thanks for the reply!!

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 03, 2013 6:31 am

Monet106 wrote:I have thought about this occasionally when I have been asked in bars if I am available and for how much. It isn't in the cards right now while I am under treatment. To me, I'd only consider it if I could continue to be very selective and choosy. I'd want to feel some chemistry. In some places for escorting, if he's got the money, he's got the service. I couldn't escort under those conditions. But, to me, chemistry isn't looks, it is a feeling. I have had several over weight lovers and enjoyed the romp. So, my criteria isn't obvious.
Monet

That's great Monet... Keep in mind that if you do this on your own and not in an escort service, you make the selection. The way we do our selection process allows her to chose her clients, find out about them by googling their number or email address as well. Some times they call from a work phone which allows us to look up their name and see that they are in fact a vp or an executive. Other times they actually use a work email address and that also helps us find more about them before meeting. Lastly we do have a process of of seeing about the chemistry too which sometime plays a fact for her.

Mostly she is interested in their cock size though as that is her addiction.

Thanks again for your reply.

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by BrunetteLover » Sun Feb 03, 2013 7:19 am

After a few slow weeks, my wife has been starting to receive email responses from potential clients again. As usual, the range of quality varies, a small number or responses are from upscale gentlemen who seem to have a respectable amount of cash to spend. One in particular is a businessman from the area, who is a prominent member of the community.

I have to admit, I can be heard on this forum repeatedly insisting it's all about the financial aspect of the business, about my wife having a generous amount of disposable cash at hand. It's not about getting turned on.

So why do I get the horny jitters, thinking about my wife, the high class call-girl, fucking a wealthy guy in a fancy hotel?

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Unread post by bubbajack » Sun Feb 03, 2013 8:31 am

BrunetteLover wrote:After a few slow weeks, my wife has been starting to receive email responses from potential clients again. As usual, the range of quality varies, a small number or responses are from upscale gentlemen who seem to have a respectable amount of cash to spend. One in particular is a businessman from the area, who is a prominent member of the community.

I have to admit, I can be heard on this forum repeatedly insisting it's all about the financial aspect of the business, about my wife having a generous amount of disposable cash at hand. It's not about getting turned on.

So why do I get the horny jitters, thinking about my wife, the high class call-girl, fucking a wealthy guy in a fancy hotel?
I think it's because of the delicious contrasts that her activities present for you to feel: you are her husband, you have the love-a-bad-girl kink, she is beautiful, proper-appearing in ordinary life, and she would be exercising sexual power over a man or men who, for whatever conventional reason - money, status, authority - you feel are above you in the pecking order in your mind. :twisted:

Face it, man - there is way more to this for you than the money -always has been. That's why you post on a hotwife forum in the first place. You talk a good game about the practicalities (security, condoms, lack of sexual stimulation for her, money, etc), but there are two glaring undeniable facts about your relationship with her which out you as fundamentally a hotwife hubby: she isn't just a whore and you are not cut out to be just a pimp. :roll:

That's always been clear to me from your posts and why I have always regarded you as posting in the right forum. :cool:

Best of luck to you both in this new development of her - er -YOUR joint (ha-ha!) adventures! And please keep posting as you and she go in this new direction! :up: :up: :D

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by jackandkissy » Sun Feb 03, 2013 9:23 am

Wow, truly mind blowing erotic. I'm not as hung up on the cam thing as others, but I understand their concern in case someone found out. Personally, I would consider doing the same thing under the circumstances. What would prevent us from ever doing this is the safety factor. You have had a nice streak going, and three clients a day means there are a lot of men she is seeing. Even assuming many are returning clients with whom you feel safer with due to previous history with them, all it takes is that one whom has a hard core fetish for brutality in sex.
While the eroticism is off the charts, the safety risk is too great. That's not even throwing in the criminal risk. Word gets around and one day it's an undercover cop. Now your wife is in the news, in court, fines and possible jail time. Just way too many risks.
Wishing you luck that your streak continues and no harm comes your way.
Please know that the people here that tell you this is wrong and are prompting you to maybe be upset with them as you know that they just don't understand the whole picture, are only truly concerned about the safety of the wife you love. Get out on top, with the memories of your adventures. Maybe limit it to a few established clients you trust. We all want you to have naughty fun, but we all want her safe and that is what scares all of us here.
Sincerely,
Jack

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by darslangly » Sun Feb 03, 2013 10:36 am

Nice Smile wrote:
darslangly wrote:That said, we're keeping this in mind as a roleplaying situation if/when we identify a cooperative FB. That is a completely different deal!
How would that role playing go? Do you have a particular script running through your minds? A particular scenario?
The way we would like to do this would be for us to devote a full night to roleplaying a scene in which she's a high-priced call girl and I'm her prep'er, driver, whatever. We would start at home with a long preparation session - a shower, me shaving her pussy, telling her what to wear and how to do her make up. You know the drill; tight dress, no panties or bra, heels, choker, dark lipstick, etc. Then I would drive her to a nice hotel downtown and deliver her to the door of the suite where her client is waiting. I would then wait downstairs or in a nearby room while he has his way with her. One thing she likes about this idea, as opposed to a more conventional date (which is also fine, of course) is the thought of being used for his pleasure - made to strip for him, oraly service him according to his directions, put in whatever positions he likes for fucking, and so forth. When he's done, she collects her 'pay' from the dresser and calls me to come give her a ride home. (and, because it is my kinky preference, a big-time face sitting session...)

There is one guy we would like to do this with - the male half of a groovy couple with whom we had a soft(ish!) swinging experience a year or so ago. He travels for business and might come to our town, but lives very far away and it hasn't really happened yet. Otherwise, we'll have to wait till we meet someone else who makes her think of this situation.

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Unread post by revicamc » Mon Feb 04, 2013 5:46 pm

Questions for the women who are/have been escorts:
1) What do you think of your clients?
2) What part of escorting do you find to be the most exciting?
3) How do you feel about the encounter after the fact?
4) What percentage of the time does the client NOT have sex with you?
5) What type of clients do you like/dislike?
6) Do you allow overtime?
7) Please describe your weirdest client?
8) Have you had any politicians, clergymen, or anybody espousing "Family Values"?
9) If your husband had a heart attack, and died, would you ever consider having a romantic relationship
with a client?
10) Do you ever think of the clients as your "victims"?
11) What would you like to tell your clients?

Thanks for Your Replies!

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Re: So my wife is an escort...

Unread post by BrunetteLover » Tue Feb 05, 2013 1:03 pm

We would start at home with a long preparation session - a shower, me shaving her pussy, telling her what to wear and how to do her make up. You know the drill; tight dress, no panties or bra, heels, choker, dark lipstick, etc. Then I would drive her to a nice hotel downtown and deliver her to the door of the suite where her client is waiting. I would then wait downstairs or in a nearby room while he has his way with her. One thing she likes about this idea, as opposed to a more conventional date (which is also fine, of course) is the thought of being used for his pleasure - made to strip for him, oraly service him according to his directions, put in whatever positions he likes for fucking, and so forth. When he's done, she collects her 'pay' from the dresser and calls me to come give her a ride home. (and, because it is my kinky preference, a big-time face sitting session...)


That about sums up a typical Friday or Saturday evening for my wife. Except the money part - that comes first.



I actually went over these with my wife. They were fun questions.

Questions for the women who are/have been escorts:
1) What do you think of your clients? I don't think much about them at all, just their money.
2) What part of escorting do you find to be the most exciting? Being (and staying) hot looking enough to get paid for sex.
3) How do you feel about the encounter after the fact? Just want to go home and take a shower.
4) What percentage of the time does the client NOT have sex with you? About ten percent of my clients realize seeing an escort is not for them during the date.
5) What type of clients do you like/dislike? Clean and polite/dirty and pushy.
6) Do you allow overtime? No, I run out of music on my CD player after 2 hours.
7) Please describe your weirdest client? Ate pretzels and drank beer during sex, ended up jacking himself off to cum.
8) Have you had any politicians, clergymen, or anybody espousing "Family Values"? No, most are pretty honest.
9) If your husband had a heart attack, and died, would you ever consider having a romantic relationship
with a client? That's why I take such good care of my husband - meeting these guys makes me realize how lucky I am.
10) Do you ever think of the clients as your "victims"? I never rip-off a client - they all get a good value.
11) What would you like to tell your clients? Take a bath and brush your teeth - and let me take the lead during sex. I'm the pro, remember?

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Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Mon Feb 11, 2013 4:15 pm

So my wife is dressed in a black nearly see through dress, tights, boots, no bra, no panties, all black meeting a new client tonight at a local bar for a drink. I went up there right after she did and had a beer next to them while they chatted and flirted. So amazing. Just waiting for her to bring him home now while I'm upstairs.

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Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Fri Feb 15, 2013 3:46 pm

Today she was with 4 different men. Omg I love our sex life. And now we move to our time to eyzwideshut.com in Tampa for free sex

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Unread post by dcguy3 » Sat Feb 16, 2013 9:45 pm

sounds like a fun day.

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Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 17, 2013 5:29 pm

Tonight we are at hard rock in Tampa. I delivered her to a high end insurance VP traveling to Tampa for some gambling. She spent an hour with him at the poker tables where he dropped about $1500 within about 45 minutes. Then took her up to his room. I'm sitting downstairs waiting having some drinks. Its 9:30pm. Eastern . Amazing jealously tinged tight now.

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Unread post by Stpetehookerwife » Sun Feb 17, 2013 6:34 pm

So she just came back down to the bar. She's got 1000 with her. oooo.... Mmmmm.... gggg.....

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Unread post by dcguy3 » Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:24 pm

Stpetehookerwife wrote:So she just came back down to the bar. She's got 1000 with her. oooo.... Mmmmm.... gggg.....
sounds like another fun day.

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