So my wife is an escort...

[Stpetehookerwife]

So my wife has been escorting since April of 2012. We live in saint Pete Florida. We typically post on backpage and also have an account on naughtyreviews.com for her clients to give reviews. She practices complete safe sex and typically is with 2 or 3 clients a day. A lot of tImes I am at work but we have a hidden camera so I can watch from my office at work. Outside of work, I am upstairs and again able to watch.

We are completely in love and have an amazing relationship. She is a total Hotwife in the fact that she loves sex with other men and she knows I like it and support her sex addiction. Being an escort obviously helps her achieve the amount of sex that she needs.

Has anyone else considered their wives becoming escorts to help fulfill, generously, theirs Hotwife fantasy??

[Mia]

Very interesting, Stpetehookerwife.

Welcome to OHW.



Mia

[Stpetehookerwife]

Thank you. I am looking forward to the replies and posting about her meeting clients.

[allengt]

Welcome to the forum.

[lozrob66]

Who would bring the subject up? Hubby or wife?

[seductionrules]

"A lot of tImes I am at work but we have a hidden camera so I can watch from my office at work."

How do her clients feel about this? Or how would they if they knew? Do you record the video's?

Regards

Mr. SR

[Stpetehookerwife]

Who would bring the subject up? Hubby or wife?

I am the husband.

[MrsTruckstar]

A lot of times I am at work but we have a hidden camera so I can watch from my office at work. Outside of work, I am upstairs and again able to watch.

having worked in this business full time and about to embark again part time, (There is a real boom in mature British escorts in UK at the moment).

If the woman is going in to this of her own free will and her husband/partner is supportive then it can be great fun.

The bit I would not be happy with is filming punters or spying on punters without their knowledge or consent. If you get caught filming punters having 'paid for professional services' you would most certainly get a jail term. That is not a good thing.

[MrsTruckstar]

Who would bring the subject up? Hubby or wife?

I am the husband.

I think the question was who brought up the idea?

if it is the wife saying "Hey I want to be an escort," people will think that is cool.

if it was the Husband saying hey "I think you ought to be an escort." she replies "yes me too" that would also be cool.

If the husband says "You will be an escort." against her will then not cool.

So I think people are asking what were the circumstances leading up to your wife turning professional.

[Stpetehookerwife]

A lot of times I am at work but we have a hidden camera so I can watch from my office at work. Outside of work, I am upstairs and again able to watch.

having worked in this business full time and about to embark again part time, (There is a real boom in mature British escorts in UK at the moment).

If the woman is going in to this of her own free will and her husband/partner is supportive then it can be great fun.

The bit I would not be happy with is filming punters or spying on punters without their knowledge or consent. If you get caught filming punters having 'paid for professional services' you would most certainly get a jail term. That is not a good thing.

Yes, this is of her own free will.

Unfortunately the largest part of the spying is for safety.

[allengt]

Does your wife go to dinner, plays, etc with these men or do they just come to your house to fuck her?

[MrsTruckstar]

Unfortunately the largest part of the spying is for safety.

Sorry still very wrong in my book. You can video them on arrival. Have a safety person in the house. you have their mobile number to ring them back to confirm the booking.

Filming them for your own gratification with the flimsy excuse that you are providing security without them knowing is wrong.

You are at work and the punter starts laying punches into your wife, really and honestly what security are you offering, let me tell you -: none. In actual fact you are putting her in danger via your actions, because if a punter who didn't want to be filmed got wind of what you are doing and his privacy was threatened or he felt it was and he got angry, Oh my God, it scares me to think of it. What if they find your camera by accident? Don't say it's impossible because there are people that just know these things.

No woman should ever be in a situation where she is alone in a house with an unknown punter. Even in the hotel scenario there is more safety because they had to book the room with a credit card or ID.

Punters do rape, rob and murder working girls. So effective security measures have to be put in place. this is your wife, you have a duty to protect her no matter what she is doing, your current way, is not effective and is also morally wrong.

In the places I have worked there was always a vase of plastic flowers on the bedside table (nearest the door), so on the woman's side that had a pressure switch underneath, if that got knocked off a loud buzzer sounded in the management area and a loud bell in the room. in seconds the security were in there with a baseball bat plus any girls not on (actual) duty. new girls were practised in the art of making sure they knew how to activate the alarm. Shove the bed, knock the vase and of course scream blue murder.

Of course they got knocked over by accident in the throws of passion from time to time but no girl was ever attacked or harmed because we always had real security measures. Yours won't work when you are not there.

[MichaelW]

Before we started hotwifing, my wife had said that by our marrying so very young, 19 for me, 17 for her, that I had "robbed" her of having experienced different lovers. The role playing we tried as a substitute only made her curiosity worse.

Being an open minded enabler, I considered what I felt was the safest way for that to happen, and at the time I was too insecure to consider her hotwifing, although we had talked about it. Then websurfing I came across a Nevada brothel called the Green Lantern that was advertising for hotwives to come fulfill their fantasy and work there for a couple of weeks. The idea intrigued me.

She would make remarks from time to time when money was tight that she could make some extra money hooking, but it was always in a way that she could say she was only joking, but at the same time hinting.

The appeal of a Nevada brothel was that it was legal, safer both with bouncers and requirement of condoms, and in that setting the chance of he getting emotionally involved with a single customer was reduced. I mentioned and instead of an "I would never do that" it was, "Really?"

I emailed several brothels in Nevada inquiring about employment, and three responded. One I rejected as it looked sleezy, and two of the better known ones responded. I sent two photos, one g-rated, the other nude, and she received invitations from each to come in the summer and try it for a couple of weeks. Her age was at the upper end of the range for doing this).

We talked about it at length, with one of her biggest reservations being, "What will we tell the kids why I'm not here for 2 weeks?" (The answer she was going to a spa as a gift from me). The other apprehension she and was the rejection of being in a line-up and not being chosen. "I could work the bar area and do well there though," she said. In the end she balked.

Once we started hotwifing, we revisited the subject, and this time she said she would like to try it--so I contacted the brothels we had communicated with earlier. This time for some reason I mentioned her actual age, which I had omitted the first time, and they both said that we had missed the age window.

When we read the news about the Olympic runner who was working as an escort with her husband's knowledge, my wife said, "You know, I wish now that I had gone and worked in that brothel in Nevada while I had the chance."

I would suggested that anyone who has the fantasy of their wife working as a prostitute consider the legal option of Nevada. In the end you at least get a "sex worker" ID to have as a token of the experience.

[richkathy96003]

My wife brought it up. We were only swingers at the time. It had been a childhood fantasy of hers to be this sexy over the top call girl. At least that's what she tells me. She had the fantasy from the age of 12 and came to me with it at the age of 38. She quit a high paying job and started interviewing with high end escort agencies. She started by working 4 days a week with 4 to 6 clients per day and growing a huge return clients. She ended with doubling her prices, working 2 days a week and being with only 4 regular customers per day. This lasted 4 years and she has now moved to be a Mistress/ Hotwife with a Doctor and also a Pro Athelete in the SF Bay Area. This is currently how her sexual adventure is involving from her asking me" Honey, I have a fantasy of being a Escort". The sex has been out of this world with all the new things she has tried and learned. I am looking forward to all the twist and turns of my Hotwifes jouney with her desires and passions.

[Stpetehookerwife]

Does your wife go to dinner, plays, etc with these men or do they just come to your house to fuck her?

Yes. She provides GFE so that usually means dinner and drinks. She has a few travelers that come to the Bay Area and of course on those nights she is at their hotel.

[Stpetehookerwife]

Before we started hotwifing, my wife had said that by our marrying so very young, 19 for me, 17 for her, that I had "robbed" her of having experienced different lovers. The role playing we tried as a substitute only made her curiosity worse.

Being an open minded enabler, I considered what I felt was the safest way for that to happen, and at the time I was too insecure to consider her hotwifing, although we had talked about it. Then websurfing I came across a Nevada brothel called the Green Lantern that was advertising for hotwives to come fulfill their fantasy and work there for a couple of weeks. The idea intrigued me.

She would make remarks from time to time when money was tight that she could make some extra money hooking, but it was always in a way that she could say she was only joking, but at the same time hinting.

The appeal of a Nevada brothel was that it was legal, safer both with bouncers and requirement of condoms, and in that setting the chance of he getting emotionally involved with a single customer was reduced. I mentioned and instead of an "I would never do that" it was, "Really?"

I emailed several brothels in Nevada inquiring about employment, and three responded. One I rejected as it looked sleezy, and two of the better known ones responded. I sent two photos, one g-rated, the other nude, and she received invitations from each to come in the summer and try it for a couple of weeks. Her age was at the upper end of the range for doing this).

We talked about it at length, with one of her biggest reservations being, "What will we tell the kids why I'm not here for 2 weeks?" (The answer she was going to a spa as a gift from me). The other apprehension she and was the rejection of being in a line-up and not being chosen. "I could work the bar area and do well there though," she said. In the end she balked.

Once we started hotwifing, we revisited the subject, and this time she said she would like to try it--so I contacted the brothels we had communicated with earlier. This time for some reason I mentioned her actual age, which I had omitted the first time, and they both said that we had missed the age window.

When we read the news about the Olympic runner who was working as an escort with her husband's knowledge, my wife said, "You know, I wish now that I had gone and worked in that brothel in Nevada while I had the chance."

I would suggested that anyone who has the fantasy of their wife working as a prostitute consider the legal option of Nevada. In the end you at least get a "sex worker" ID to have as a token of the experience.

Great posting. I'm sorry you guys were never able to do this. It's been amazingly rewarding for us.

[Truckstar]

Unfortunately the largest part of the spying is for safety.

Sorry still very wrong in my book. You can video them on arrival. Have a safety person in the house. you have their mobile number to ring them back to confirm the booking.

Filming them for your own gratification with the flimsy excuse that you are providing security without them knowing is wrong.

You are at work and the punter starts laying punches into your wife, really and honestly what security are you offering, let me tell you -: none. In actual fact you are putting her in danger via your actions, because if a punter who didn't want to be filmed got wind of what you are doing and his privacy was threatened or he felt it was and he got angry,.......

Stpetehookerwife With all the other posts, you kind of ducked this crucial observation, why are you filming people without their consent and putting your wife in danger as pointed out by my wife, who is let me say a seasoned professional and is on standby duty at a reputable place right now with security and privacy for the working girls and their clients.

[robandkate]

My wife Kate has been fucking other guys for over 20 years. She started out fucking my friends and other guys we knew. When our kids were young, we used to have guys come over after the kid's bed time and fuck Kate. When the kids got older, we rented an apartment so Kate would have a place to fuck her married boyfriends.

She met a guy online who asked for a date. She met him at a bar near the apartment. Halfway through their first drink, my wife invited him to the apartment. She said they started kissing as soon as the apartment door closed and they undressed each other all the way to the bedroom. She said that the sex with this guy was fantastic. He dressed and left while she was lingering in bed. When she was leaving the apartment, she found $300 on the counter.

Apparently, the guy thought that any married woman as good looking as Kate who would fuck him within minutes of meeting him, must be a hooker. Kate asked me what she should do. She always had the 'hooker' fantasy. I said that there was no harm in letting this guy think what he wanted to think. He paid to fuck my wife every month for about a year and a half.

About that same time, my wife's auto mechanic was hitting on her. She has a classic convertible and he keeps it in great working order. After more than a year of his flirting, she decided to let him fuck her. The next time he worked on her car, when he delivered it, she invited him in for a drink. After he fucked her, he told her not to worry about the bill for the work he had done. He has been maintaining her car for free for several years now, in exchange for a few hours in bed with my wife now and then.

Kate decided to turn the second bedroom of the apartment we rented for her into a massage room. She advertised her services as "relaxation massage' on adult web sites. We figured it was a great way for her to meet guys to date. She developed a nice customer base, being careful to only provide massage services at first. If she liked a guy, after about half a dozen massages, she started performing sexual acts at the end of the massage (topless massage, nude massage, hand jobs and blow jobs). The guys who showed their appreciation properly ($$$), eventually got to fuck her.

She ended up with several customers who booked a massage, and paid for a massage, but spent the entire time in bed with her. I teased her that she was a hooker, but she teased me that she was just operating a full-service massage business. My wife operated her 'massage' business for about 8 years. I loved the fact that guys were paying to fuck my wife.

Rob
robandkate@hotmail.com

[Stpetehookerwife]

My wife Kate has been fucking other guys for over 20 years. She started out fucking my friends and other guys we knew. When our kids were young, we used to have guys come over after the kid's bed time and fuck Kate. When the kids got older, we rented an apartment so Kate would have a place to fuck her married boyfriends.

She met a guy online who asked for a date. She met him at a bar near the apartment. Halfway through their first drink, my wife invited him to the apartment. She said they started kissing as soon as the apartment door closed and they undressed each other all the way to the bedroom. She said that the sex with this guy was fantastic. He dressed and left while she was lingering in bed. When she was leaving the apartment, she found $300 on the counter.

Apparently, the guy thought that any married woman as good looking as Kate who would fuck him within minutes of meeting him, must be a hooker. Kate asked me what she should do. She always had the 'hooker' fantasy. I said that there was no harm in letting this guy think what he wanted to think. He paid to fuck my wife every month for about a year and a half.

About that same time, my wife's auto mechanic was hitting on her. She has a classic convertible and he keeps it in great working order. After more than a year of his flirting, she decided to let him fuck her. The next time he worked on her car, when he delivered it, she invited him in for a drink. After he fucked her, he told her not to worry about the bill for the work he had done. He has been maintaining her car for free for several years now, in exchange for a few hours in bed with my wife now and then.

Kate decided to turn the second bedroom of the apartment we rented for her into a massage room. She advertised her services as "relaxation massage' on adult web sites. We figured it was a great way for her to meet guys to date. She developed a nice customer base, being careful to only provide massage services at first. If she liked a guy, after about half a dozen massages, she started performing sexual acts at the end of the massage (topless massage, nude massage, hand jobs and blow jobs). The guys who showed their appreciation properly ($$$), eventually got to fuck her.

She ended up with several customers who booked a massage, and paid for a massage, but spent the entire time in bed with her. I teased her that she was a hooker, but she teased me that she was just operating a full-service massage business. My wife operated her 'massage' business for about 8 years. I loved the fact that guys were paying to fuck my wife.

Rob
robandkate@hotmail.com

Hi guys,

That is pretty awesome. $300 is what we advertise my wife for for for one hour. It really weeds out a lot of the rif raf too as its much higher than the other local girls. So, she is usually doing outcalls or I calls with vp's of companies, lawyers, doctors, etc. it's typically the same thing every time. Their story is that their love life at home is so so and my wife gives them what they are not getting at home. For 4 or 5 guys, their visits are actually helping them spark up their sex life at home. It's great to get a text from a husband one day saying that he and his wife had sex the night before and thanking my wife for her encouragement.

[Stpetehookerwife]

So Friday (yesterday) around 3pm we started getting a text from this guy who clainmed to be a lawyer up in clearwater. After many texts back and forth, and his showing us he really was a lawyer (we always worry about LE), and even showing us his website and seeing his name on the website, my wife decided to meet him at a place called Courtside. He asked her ahead of time what she wanted to drink and an appitizer and had that there when she arrived. They talked for about 30 minutes and both agreed they were ready and left. She then texts me that she is on her way and following him to a local hotel. I see all of her texts as we use Google Voice on both of our cell phones for her one main phone number and he texts her that he "wants to go to the office and see if everyone has cleared out"... That kind of worried me as I then realized that he wanted to bring her to his office to get the deed done. I called her and we talked. She said no he didn't and that he was just swinging by to pick something up. We decided to leave me on the cell phone while it was locked while they got to his office. Sure enough, that IS what he was thinking. So I over heard her talking to him and tell him, "no, no I don't think so... We talked about a hotel..." He of course was ok with that and they got in their cars and went back to where a couple of hotels were. My Spidey senses were going crazy at that point and asked her to just leave me on the phone, with it locked so there were no lights on it and leave it in her purse. She said ok and i got my ipod headphones and put my phone on mute.

So they find a Sleep Inn, he goes in, gets the room and comes out to her car where I overhear what the room number is which is good in case something does happen bad. So over the next 30 minutes or so, I hear them make small talk, then start getting busy... Always amazing listening in on another man going down on your woman and making her cum. It then sounded like she had her turn giving him one of her amazing blow jobs. A few minutes later I hear the rustling of her purse to get the astrolube and condom (She had to use one of the gold magnums on him), I hear the package rip... Seconds later I hear her giggle which usually means she has the condom on, lube on his cock and her telling him what a Gorgeous cock he has. Finally I hear some moaning from my wife and some slapping of skin... Her big thing when she has a really big cock in her is her saying, "Fuck Fuck Fuck" in the heat of the moment.... Now I didn't hear him say that he was going to cum (within about 5 minutes which she told me when she got home later), but I did hear him start grunting really loud for about 10 seconds and then it went quiet... Shortly after I hear them talking and laughing, cleaning up and then go quiet as they apparently went and took a shower together. Apparently she offered him round two since they were only at about 30 minutes but he said he had to go anyways.. He asked her how much which is a huge no no (you can't discuss money and money is always just placed on a counter without a word) and she asked him what he remembered from her advertisment on backpage.

She continued to finish putting her clothes on, and when she was ready to go, she found the money sitting there as he continued getting ready. They kissed some more and left the room. After they parted ways, the usual text came in thanking her.

This morning (saturday), around 8:21am, another text comes in. It reads, "Don't want to be a pest. But thank you again. It was amazing - I've never received head like that before. I would like to see you again when you return (we are going on a cruise this week). Have a fun trip.

So, it looks like my wife has another regular client.

[MrsTruckstar]

Is he a defence or prosecution lawyer. Could become tricky if you get caught filming him. Then in his fantasy he might be a lwayer but reality is something else. I have all sorts that used to see me.

Stpetehookerwife, I am a massive fan of women working as escorts as long as they do it of their own free will.

I think a man who has an "itch to scratch" that sees a working girl instead of cheating is an honourable thing. How do you deal with filming these above average Joes without their consent, after saying in the above post.

$300 is what we advertise my wife for for for one hour. It really weeds out a lot of the rif raf too as its much higher than the other local girls.

You said also that

Unfortunately the largest part of the spying is for safety.

I understand that "Robert Hanson" would only murder $300 an hour in the early 80's and that was by shooting within the first 30 seconds of them entering the room, so you at work and wifey at home would have a tragic result.

I am appalled that you would claim on an open forum of (slightly perverted but honest) consenting adults that base all of what they do on honesty, trust and communication, that you film punters without their consent.

Your wife is complicit in all this and it is so wrong. Us escorts and former escorts have a bad enough name even when operating within the law. Whether a girl is charging $20 and hour or $1000 an hour; is actually by the by.
Filming your client who as no idea that you are doing it for what ever reason is debasing to working girls and wrong.

Try it on your next few, once they have left text them that you filmed them for your wife's security, most will come back but not as a client as an angry man, demanding the film at the least, they will put it on your review page that you are filming without consent and you will very quickly be out of business.

I may well be banging a drum here, but I am an honest part time working girl and I believe the service my friends and I provide is honest and is ruined by actions like this. Please stop exploiting men. Or put a sign up or put it in your advert that your 'event' with whatever her working name is being filmed. Please answer this in full.

Please review your actions and convince us you will stop this.

[allengt]

Does your wife go to dinner, plays, etc with these men or do they just come to your house to fuck her?

Yes. She provides GFE so that usually means dinner and drinks. She has a few travelers that come to the Bay Area and of course on those nights she is at their hotel.

Since she provides this service and goes to their hotel then filiming her at home is not for security but for your jerk off pleasure. I agree with MrsT, it is wrong.

[Stpetehookerwife]

In response to a couple of posts of couples that have done this or thought about it but never did..

For us, how we started, we were looking for new apartments for us to move in together for the first time. We wanted a nice place but found that on her income (strip dancer) and mine, it wasn't possible. We finally found one that was nice but just out of reach financially. She absolutely loved it though.

When I told her no, she replied, "I'll do anything"....

I of course stopped in my tracks and asked her to explain... She went on to tell me that:

1) She was already dancing, and the VIP room already means she was messing around with guys but for peanuts.

2) She knew about my previous 10 year marriage to a hot wife (where we ran a very well known amateur website for years that competed with the likes of Janet mason) so she knew I totally would love her fucking other guys all the time.

3) We were already having a couple of guys come over to fuck her and play with.

4) her own sexuality was skyrocketing and had MAJOR nympho tendencies and desires to be with many men.

She suggested we try escorting. So we did some research, found some websites to create her website for free. This started out slow so we finally started posting on backpage.

So now, on a daily basis, I get to come home from work, walk into the bedroom and seeing my beautiful wife standing at the mirror naked putting her makeup on, and get that amazing tinge in my heart, and that pang of good jealousy that we all get when we know our wives are about to got out and meet a man to fuck.

[Stpetehookerwife]

Tomorrow we leave on a swinger cruise. 3 of her boyfriends will be on the cruise as well. One white and two black. This should be a long week of her being an amazing Hotwife and getting tons of sex and she is so excited. So we will not be posting until next Saturday but can't wait to tell everyone the juicy details!!!

[MrsTruckstar]

.......And the very wrongful filming of people having sex with your wife, without their consent came at what stage?

I'm not name calling, flaming or anything derogatory I am asking for an explanation of this activity which i find so repulsive.