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Unread post by Iris777 » Wed Feb 27, 2019 11:45 am

conflictedhubby wrote:
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2inUPMichigan wrote:
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Desibull wrote:
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not sure if this quesiton has been asked, but how many hotwives have married guys with smaller dicks than their ex-boyfriends? and if so, why would you do that when most hotwives crave bigger cocks?
Wow, what a question!
I've honestly never known a woman who married a man because of the size of his dick :lol:
I thought we married men because we loved them, silly me :roll:

"Most" is a word you use after you have asked every single hot wife and found a majority. I'm pretty sure you haven't done that. So when you say "most hot wives crave bigger cocks" you are only assuming you know the answer......

You post was a question followed by what you thought the answer should be. You are asking VHW's to justify and/or defend our position if we don't agree with you. We are not here to justify why we don't fit into your fantasy.
See that brings up something else I have problems wrapping my head around. What keeps the hotwives with their husbands? As we've already established, love is something that has to be guarded against forming. So if you know you can fall in love with someone else, why stick with your husbands? Is it just familiarity/dependability? Just too much work to deal with falling in love with someone else?
I too, have never known a woman who picked a spouse based solely on his dick size. For some, it may be an important factor than for others, but if that’s the only thing that enticed someone into marriage, it’s going to be a lot of empty hours in their relationship.

Simply put, my husband is the man I want to share ALL my life with. Each moment of the day. He is my rock. If I never had sex with him again, I’d still be married to him since he is so much more to me than just his penis.

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Unread post by LuckyLady85 » Wed Feb 27, 2019 5:54 pm

Biostar74 wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 6:51 pm
Luckylad85,
Thanks for your reply! I'm so glad to hear from similar folks that have actually done this.

Could I ask what your objections were at first, and how did you move past them to embrace enjoying another man?
At first, I thought hubby just wanted a way to get to be with another woman. I have always struggled with low self esteem. But after many, many times of being told he didn't want to be with anyone else, but wanted me to enjoy a little freedom I started to believe him. Also, like I said before, I've always considered myself conservative and the thought of having sex with someone other than my husband went against my moral upbringing. I did get on this forum to get the insight of other women who had already taken the plunge. Hubby convinced me to join a dating site and that's were I met my first BF.

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Unread post by nick_mr » Wed Feb 27, 2019 11:46 pm

I have been fantasising about having my wife sleep with another and watching them since years. She was a virgin when we met and we are married over 25 years during which we have been faithful to one another. Any suggestions how I could approach the topic with her.

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Unread post by SpareTireDixon_66 » Thu Feb 28, 2019 5:56 am

Ares wrote:
Tue Feb 19, 2019 11:15 am
SpareTireDixon_66 wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 4:28 am
Hi gals,
If possible, I'm hoping someone can elaborate on the question below.
SpareTireDixon_66 wrote:
Thu Jan 31, 2019 3:41 pm
Hi,
From a woman's perspective, can anyone elaborate on the sensation of being penetrated by a much smaller unit shortly after a much bigger one? Is it harder to feel?
Also, what about after a long term relationship and not having the bigger one any more; or "getting used to" a bigger piece, but being only with a smaller one after that?
Thanks.
SpareTireDixon, THAT is a naughty, very specific question! :twisted: I'll give it a shot: It depends!

OK, ya prolly want something better than that?! Physically? Yeah, I can still feel a much smaller one after a nice big one. We "close" right back up pretty quickly after a fella withdraws. But I think it's definitely less satisfying for me and the difference between the two is definitely much more obvious. (Then, say, if I had a big one two days ago and a little one today, the difference between the two isn't as obvious as if one IMMEDIATELY follows the other). However, for me (and I'm one of the few women here who do profess a love of larger built guys), it really does depend on context. So I'm talking about the emotional/mental situation rather than actual physical sensation. My husband's built extremely small, technically I think he'd be considered to have a micropenis. And there's been times when he's gone immediately after a very thickly endowed friend and I could just barely feel him. The sensations probably would have been increased if he'd have lasted awhile though. I'm afraid I've always teased him a bit when this happened ... announcing loudly how tiny he is and how I could barely feel him after being so thoroughly ravished by such a hung stud ... that he can only last a few thrusts before he loses control!! And oh how I love doing that to him! :whip: :twisted: I've gotta say though that he knows this and rarely tries to climb right on board after another man -- preferring to lick me out instead just so he's got a decent chance of making me orgasm too. You know how competitive you men can be! :lol: But, anyway, yeah, I can definitely feel the difference!

Ares,
Thank you for your response. I was mostly curious about the immediately after situation and your scenario did not disappoint.
Thanks again.

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Unread post by vaman837 » Thu Feb 28, 2019 8:50 am

Thank you for this,...but how should I best manage while taking that time? (a sincere question)
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Unread post by Dzs1653 » Thu Feb 28, 2019 11:13 am

My question is based on my history. I see a lot on OHW about men trying to talk their wives into seeing other men, sometimes succeeding, etc. But what happened to me in my previous marriage was that she confessed to some infidelity, but went on to say that she couldn't really be monogamous any more. She also said she thought I should remain monogamous since I'd fall in love with anyone I had sex with (at least I guess that meant she didn't want to lose me). So maybe you could say she wanted the hotwife lifestyle, though neither of us knew that word for it. We did have one MFM with a friend of mine. Seeing her come so hard with him remains a beautiful and extremely erotic memory.
Now, years later, much healthier marriage and ironically, I'm the one who has the fantasy (maybe a seed was planted by that earlier experience?). So my question: Is there anyone here who was the initiator, maybe the one who wanted to act on what had previously been only a fantasy, rather than your husband being the one who asked for it?

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Unread post by Biostar74 » Thu Feb 28, 2019 5:55 pm

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Luckylad85,
Thanks for your reply! I'm so glad to hear from similar folks that have actually done this.

Could I ask what your objections were at first, and how did you move past them to embrace enjoying another man?
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At first, I thought hubby just wanted a way to get to be with another woman. I have always struggled with low self esteem. But after many, many times of being told he didn't want to be with anyone else, but wanted me to enjoy a little freedom I started to believe him. Also, like I said before, I've always considered myself conservative and the thought of having sex with someone other than my husband went against my moral upbringing. I did get on this forum to get the insight of other women who had already taken the plunge. Hubby convinced me to join a dating site and that's were I met my first BF.
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LuckyLady85,
Again, really appreciate your reply. You were exactly.in the same boat that my wife is in now. I think she, like you were see that this lifestyle is something that normal people enjoy without blowing up other marriage, we'll be able to take the next step together.

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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Fri Mar 01, 2019 4:41 am

Desibull wrote:
Thu Feb 28, 2019 10:05 pm
Iris777 wrote:
Wed Feb 27, 2019 11:45 am


I too, have never known a woman who picked a spouse based solely on his dick size. For some, it may be an important factor than for others, but if that’s the only thing that enticed someone into marriage, it’s going to be a lot of empty hours in their relationship.

Simply put, my husband is the man I want to share ALL my life with. Each moment of the day. He is my rock. If I never had sex with him again, I’d still be married to him since he is so much more to me than just his penis.
I ask because I always get the could shoulder from women and I've got a nagging suspicion it has to do with my 5 inch dick.
Average (from what I have heard) is 5-7 so you fall in the average category. I've honestly never measured my hubby -have no idea and couldn't care less what the measurement is. It's the man attached that makes the experience good or bad.
You say you are getting the cold shoulder from women and you think it is because of the size of you penis. So you are saying you get the cold shoulder from them after they see you naked? If it's before it has nothing to do with your size, and even if it is after it's probably unrelated.
If you read the threads on here about size and the comments from the VHW's you will notice that there are some admitted size queens but there are plenty of women that talk about being more interested in the man attached.

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Unread post by ckathrill » Fri Mar 01, 2019 5:14 am

How many ladies and/or their husbands have never measured their guy's cocks? How can ladies and/or their husbands in this lifestyle not be curious enough to do so? If you run or answer ads, doesn't size come up a lot? You mean guys will say in an ad "I am 7 inches" and you have no idea nor care what that means? Not that the numbers have to be so important but where the heck is basic curiosity?

And who agrees with the notion that the broad statement of "5-7 is average" as if there is no significant differences within this category? Have you experienced this whole size range? And if so, isn't there a huge difference between 5 in long and 4.5 around and 7 inches long and 6 inches around?

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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Fri Mar 01, 2019 5:57 am

ckathrill wrote:
Fri Mar 01, 2019 5:14 am
How many ladies and/or their husbands have never measured their guy's cocks? How can ladies and/or their husbands in this lifestyle not be curious enough to do so? If you run or answer ads, doesn't size come up a lot? You mean guys will say in an ad "I am 7 inches" and you have no idea nor care what that means? Not that the numbers have to be so important but where the heck is basic curiosity?

And who agrees with the notion that the broad statement of "5-7 is average" as if there is no significant differences within this category? Have you experienced this whole size range? And if so, isn't there a huge difference between 5 in long and 4.5 around and 7 inches long and 6 inches around?
I've answered this before but I will chime in. No, I've never measured any man's cock.
I generally don't answer an ad that includes the size listed because he's probably not someone that I would be interested in if he puts that much emphasis on penis size.

Sex starts in the brain. If he can't turn my brain on I could care less about the rest of him - okay that sounds a little blunt but I don't do one night stands and I get to know someone online before meeting them. I have no interest in seeing a full frontal nudity picture before meeting. If we get to that point I would rather see him in person.

There are numbers thrown around about the range for average and 5-7 is one of them. Of course I personally haven't experienced every possible combination ;) but since most of the nerve endings are near the opening once he is inside, as long as he isn't bottoming out, there isn't a lot of difference in the length from my experience. The girth can make a difference in that it can be painful if very thick.
The difference that I notice is if a man knows how to work with what he has. Seriously! Some men are like jackhammers and that is no fun (no finesse). Other men know exactly how to move to hit all the right spots, when to read a woman and know when to adjust the speed or rhythm. :mrgreen:

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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Fri Mar 01, 2019 9:09 pm

Desibull wrote:
Fri Mar 01, 2019 8:43 pm
2inUPMichigan wrote:
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Average (from what I have heard) is 5-7 so you fall in the average category. I've honestly never measured my hubby -have no idea and couldn't care less what the measurement is. It's the man attached that makes the experience good or bad.
You say you are getting the cold shoulder from women and you think it is because of the size of you penis. So you are saying you get the cold shoulder from them after they see you naked? If it's before it has nothing to do with your size, and even if it is after it's probably unrelated.
If you read the threads on here about size and the comments from the VHW's you will notice that there are some admitted size queens but there are plenty of women that talk about being more interested in the man attached.
I'm slightly longer than 5...5.25 to 5.5 depending on arousal. Still far smaller than a porn star or most men who play with hotwives.

No, women tend to ignore me well before I'm naked in front of her. Usually, I'm not even able to convince them to grab a cup of coffee. A buddy of mine joked that since asking a girl out on a date is a guaranteed no, I should just ask attractive women for sex since that has a higher probability of success than the conventional manner.
Some of those men in porn are really scary huge LOL - and not in a good way :shock:
Would you really want to be so big that you can't even get most of it in a woman? What would be the point? Sorry that I don't understand.
I don't measure men, as I've said but can tell you that the men I've been with are not as huge as some I have seen in porn (thankfully) which is a good thing as some of them would just hurt!
I get it that a lot of men wish they were bigger and for some reason compare themselves to porn stars and think that they are some kind of ideal. The men that play with hotwives are all different in size and shape, there is a wide range because there i a wide range of interests among the hotwives themselves.

Some women will undoubtedly want a specific size but not all women feel that way and that is important to understand. We aren't pretending to feel this way :) We aren't spouting some kind of cliche, those of us that prefer to get to know the man first really feel that way.

So when I asked the question about if you were naked when they were giving you the cold shoulder you answered no. So if they don't see you naked and they don't have any idea of the size of your penis then that has nothing to do with the reason that they are giving you the cold shoulder.
It might be in the way you are approaching them? Not sure as you didn't give an example.
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Unread post by Liese » Mon Mar 04, 2019 4:46 pm

Biostar74 wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 2:02 pm
Hi ladies,

I'm looking for thoughts from wives of a similar background as mine. We are 44/41, been married for 20 years, 2 young twins. My wife knows my fantasies about her playing with other men. We have had lots of good discussions about this that weren't pillow talk. She has MFM and big cock fantasies, and says the thought of sex with another man turns her on. However she says she can't see her doing it in reality right now. We're from the Bible Belt, and she still holds on to pretty conservative ideas about her body and sex while she is very open minded about everything else. When I ask why she isn't interested in actually carrying out these less traditional fantasies, her only answer is, it doesn't feel right. I ask what she means and she says she could use her body for that.

I dont bring this up all the time, and don't pressure her so do anything. I want HER to want it. I want her to feel good about her body and sexuality. But even being admired by other men can make her uncomfortable. However, she has been more open lately. We recently did an online fantasy survey and found that we'd both agree to go to an adults only nudist resort, and we've made a reservation to go next month to try getting nude in from of folks, but sex just between us.

Have any ladies on this forum come from similar backgrounds, and then moved on to enjoying a more open sexuality?

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks!
Similar background here, very conservative, anti sex upbringing, that left me guilty and ashamed and anxious about my own body and its responses. I knew it was all nonsense before I got out of college, but even so I still have to overcome anxiety and body image issues to even enjoy sex with my husband. But I did, and got more adventurous, JUST with hubby! And as we had fun with toys and porn and the camera together, at home and out in the woods, I became open to other things, including that adult nudist resort adventure! OMG that was transformative for how I regarded my body in front of others, I got much more comfortable with my own skin amongst others, not just hub, and it energized our sex lives even more. And eventually gave me the courage to tell hub I was beginning to entertain fantasies of being showy with my toys not for just him, but others too!

So we considered 'watch and be watched' with another couple, and eventually did it, and gradually moved into moderate swap, and did more and more and more and . . .

anyway, it seems you two are on a good path. Baby steps, open honest communication, respect for where each of you is at, no being pushy, but it's ok to talk about your fantasies for each other, as long as there's no expectation that it must come true.

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Unread post by Biostar74 » Mon Mar 04, 2019 5:39 pm

Liese wrote:
Mon Mar 04, 2019 4:46 pm
Biostar74 wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 2:02 pm
Hi ladies,

I'm looking for thoughts from wives of a similar background as mine. We are 44/41, been married for 20 years, 2 young twins. My wife knows my fantasies about her playing with other men. We have had lots of good discussions about this that weren't pillow talk. She has MFM and big cock fantasies, and says the thought of sex with another man turns her on. However she says she can't see her doing it in reality right now. We're from the Bible Belt, and she still holds on to pretty conservative ideas about her body and sex while she is very open minded about everything else. When I ask why she isn't interested in actually carrying out these less traditional fantasies, her only answer is, it doesn't feel right. I ask what she means and she says she could use her body for that.

I dont bring this up all the time, and don't pressure her so do anything. I want HER to want it. I want her to feel good about her body and sexuality. But even being admired by other men can make her uncomfortable. However, she has been more open lately. We recently did an online fantasy survey and found that we'd both agree to go to an adults only nudist resort, and we've made a reservation to go next month to try getting nude in from of folks, but sex just between us.

Have any ladies on this forum come from similar backgrounds, and then moved on to enjoying a more open sexuality?

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks!
Similar background here, very conservative, anti sex upbringing, that left me guilty and ashamed and anxious about my own body and its responses. I knew it was all nonsense before I got out of college, but even so I still have to overcome anxiety and body image issues to even enjoy sex with my husband. But I did, and got more adventurous, JUST with hubby! And as we had fun with toys and porn and the camera together, at home and out in the woods, I became open to other things, including that adult nudist resort adventure! OMG that was transformative for how I regarded my body in front of others, I got much more comfortable with my own skin amongst others, not just hub, and it energized our sex lives even more. And eventually gave me the courage to tell hub I was beginning to entertain fantasies of being showy with my toys not for just him, but others too!

So we considered 'watch and be watched' with another couple, and eventually did it, and gradually moved into moderate swap, and did more and more and more and . . .

anyway, it seems you two are on a good path. Baby steps, open honest communication, respect for where each of you is at, no being pushy, but it's ok to talk about your fantasies for each other, as long as there's no expectation that it must come true.

Liese
Liese,
Thanks so much for your reply! It's amazing heading from someone who's background is so similar. I'd love it if our path followed you and your husbands. I don't have any problem with tiny steps, and I know being pushy won't get me anywhere!
I'd love for her to chat with you and see that this is something a smart, responsible lady could enjoy.
Thanks again!

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Unread post by bernieshar » Sat Mar 16, 2019 6:02 am

What about Queen of Spades tattoos? Have you worn one (stick on or actual). Do you find that black guys hit on you more if you have one? Or is it a turn off for them? Does it make them more excited if they cannot see it until you undress?

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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Fri Mar 22, 2019 8:40 am

bernieshar wrote:
Sat Mar 16, 2019 6:02 am
What about Queen of Spades tattoos? Have you worn one (stick on or actual). Do you find that black guys hit on you more if you have one? Or is it a turn off for them? Does it make them more excited if they cannot see it until you undress?
Sorry you haven't received any replies.
I don't have any tats real or fake and I don't go looking for BBC so I'm not the one to answer.

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Unread post by greenbuff » Sat Mar 23, 2019 10:10 am

Hi hot wives, any suggestions for porn that make you especially interested in more aggressive/ bigger cocks? Looking for one to set a mood a bit

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Unread post by Trixkat » Mon Mar 25, 2019 7:40 pm

LouiseJohn wrote:
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Not a question, just a suggestion for trying out. Sometimes my wife and her boyfriend have a 'silent fuck'. He puts his hand over her mouth and penetrates very slow and all the way down. Most cases she cums quick or gets very wet with juices running.
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Unread post by sadie » Tue Mar 26, 2019 12:41 am

greenbuff wrote:
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Hi hot wives, any suggestions for porn that make you especially interested in more aggressive/ bigger cocks? Looking for one to set a mood a bit
Um. No? Also aggressive isn't something I think of when I think of penis. It's an attribute of the guy attached to the penis.

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Unread post by The_Lion » Tue Mar 26, 2019 1:14 am

The world of professional pornography isn't particularly kind to the Cuckold/Hotwife genre often seeming like it was made by someone who did a quick Google search of the term then churned out a video.

VHWs, what changes would you make to professionally produced Cuckold/Hotwife porn to make it more accurate to the Lifestyle or at least more relatable to your experience in it?
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Unread post by Trixkat » Tue Mar 26, 2019 5:57 am

The_Lion wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 1:14 am
The world of professional pornography isn't particularly kind to the Cuckold/Hotwife genre often seeming like it was made by someone who did a quick Google search of the term then churned out a video.

VHWs, what changes would you make to professionally produced Cuckold/Hotwife porn to make it more accurate to the Lifestyle or at least more relatable to your experience in it?
for me, professionally produced porn is entirely too fake. the reactions of the participants (I hesitate to call them "actors") often seem exaggerated and unrealistic compared to actual sexual encounters. for example, I myself have never been so overcome by lust that I have an orgasm when a man jacks off and cums all over my face.

I'd rather watch honestly amateur porn, stuff that was filmed by an actual couple (or more!) who have real reactions, snafus and awkward moments that come along with a legitimate fuck.
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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Tue Mar 26, 2019 7:14 am

The_Lion wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 1:14 am
The world of professional pornography isn't particularly kind to the Cuckold/Hotwife genre often seeming like it was made by someone who did a quick Google search of the term then churned out a video.

VHWs, what changes would you make to professionally produced Cuckold/Hotwife porn to make it more accurate to the Lifestyle or at least more relatable to your experience in it?
We did buy one video that was specifically supposed to be "wife watching" which was the closest thing we could find. What a disappointment!! The camera was taking the part of the husband, the wife played to the camera and the man hardly had anything to say he was just there as a prop or a human toy. YUCK!!
Come on!! They should have had three people in those scenes not two. There should have been a lot more verbal interaction between them as this is not just about the sex.
And the reactions are just so fake!! The women in this video were so busy playing to the camera angles there was no way they were actually enjoying themselves.
I think that a true hotwife or cuckold video needs to include the build up, the anticipation that comes before for the couple. Not just a sex scene.

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Unread post by Mad Dog65 » Tue Mar 26, 2019 9:15 am

2inUPMichigan wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 7:14 am
The_Lion wrote:
Tue Mar 26, 2019 1:14 am
The world of professional pornography isn't particularly kind to the Cuckold/Hotwife genre often seeming like it was made by someone who did a quick Google search of the term then churned out a video.

VHWs, what changes would you make to professionally produced Cuckold/Hotwife porn to make it more accurate to the Lifestyle or at least more relatable to your experience in it?
We did buy one video that was specifically supposed to be "wife watching" which was the closest thing we could find. What a disappointment!! The camera was taking the part of the husband, the wife played to the camera and the man hardly had anything to say he was just there as a prop or a human toy. YUCK!!
Come on!! They should have had three people in those scenes not two. There should have been a lot more verbal interaction between them as this is not just about the sex.
And the reactions are just so fake!! The women in this video were so busy playing to the camera angles there was no way they were actually enjoying themselves.
I think that a true hotwife or cuckold video needs to include the build up, the anticipation that comes before for the couple. Not just a sex scene.

100 % agree. My wife is not anti porn but she dislikes the 95% of the porn out there. The build up, the dialogue, the anticipation before is what will be interesting as well as a good sex scene with the three of them. Well said!

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Unread post by D+D » Wed Mar 27, 2019 7:39 am

SpareTireDixon_66 wrote:
Thu Feb 28, 2019 5:56 am
Ares wrote:
Tue Feb 19, 2019 11:15 am
SpareTireDixon_66 wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 4:28 am
Hi gals,
If possible, I'm hoping someone can elaborate on the question below.
SpareTireDixon_66 wrote:
Thu Jan 31, 2019 3:41 pm
Hi,
From a woman's perspective, can anyone elaborate on the sensation of being penetrated by a much smaller unit shortly after a much bigger one? Is it harder to feel?
Also, what about after a long term relationship and not having the bigger one any more; or "getting used to" a bigger piece, but being only with a smaller one after that?
Thanks.
SpareTireDixon, THAT is a naughty, very specific question! :twisted: I'll give it a shot: It depends!

OK, ya prolly want something better than that?! Physically? Yeah, I can still feel a much smaller one after a nice big one. We "close" right back up pretty quickly after a fella withdraws. But I think it's definitely less satisfying for me and the difference between the two is definitely much more obvious. (Then, say, if I had a big one two days ago and a little one today, the difference between the two isn't as obvious as if one IMMEDIATELY follows the other). However, for me (and I'm one of the few women here who do profess a love of larger built guys), it really does depend on context. So I'm talking about the emotional/mental situation rather than actual physical sensation. My husband's built extremely small, technically I think he'd be considered to have a micropenis. And there's been times when he's gone immediately after a very thickly endowed friend and I could just barely feel him. The sensations probably would have been increased if he'd have lasted awhile though. I'm afraid I've always teased him a bit when this happened ... announcing loudly how tiny he is and how I could barely feel him after being so thoroughly ravished by such a hung stud ... that he can only last a few thrusts before he loses control!! And oh how I love doing that to him! :whip: :twisted: I've gotta say though that he knows this and rarely tries to climb right on board after another man -- preferring to lick me out instead just so he's got a decent chance of making me orgasm too. You know how competitive you men can be! :lol: But, anyway, yeah, I can definitely feel the difference!

Ares,
Thank you for your response. I was mostly curious about the immediately after situation and your scenario did not disappoint.
Thanks again.
I too have wondered. My wife, unfortunately, won't tease me about size so when she's been with a big guy, both physically and sexually, I wonder what she feels. I usually go down on her after she tells me about her date, then she lets me fuck her. Or maybe I should say cum in her because it's really not fucking. I'm so excited that like Ares' husband, I don't last but a microsecond. Thank you Ares for answering this question. Inquiring minds need to know.

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Re: Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!

Unread post by spongeworthy » Fri Mar 29, 2019 1:56 pm

Hotwives, Which do you prefer when playing?
a) seeing your fellow alone?
b) hubby in the room watching
c) hubby on the bed with you and the guy

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