Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Mon Feb 12, 2024 4:40 amMRS R - I get it. One reason I hated dating, being on either end creates hurt and it's never been fun.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Sat Feb 10, 2024 10:59 amThanks LurkerLong Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 08, 2024 12:44 pmMRS R - Thread poster "Des" has mentioned more than once his wife says of her longer term FWB's they all have a Best Before date. You may not know exactly when that date maybe but shouldn't be surprised when it occurs.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 1:03 pm
I always enjoy reading your comments Lookingforadventure!
It makes sense! I’ve done it in the past but only when I thought it interfered with my marriage,
This time it’s not only disruptive to my marriage, but I’m not in this with Jake to always feel bad when I can’t spend enough time with him!
I mean, I just don’t think he has the patience to allow me to go at my own pace! I enjoy being with hubby.
No matter the love I may feel for him, it’s not the same as with hubby.
There are times when I’m w Jake that I’ll text hubby and tell him how much I love him and can’t wait to be back in his arms feeling his love!
Jake knows this!
He’s become more hurt and upset when he’ll see my text hubby; and then he pouts and tells me to just leave if I don’t want to give him all my attention.
I guess I just don’t know how to do this when I have hubby to come home to.
I mean this girl, you’ve help me!
I think I need to allow the fade to happen naturally.
If it ends, then my time with Jake will be a good memory!
I won’t allow it to become bitter!
And honestly that’s the way I’ve felt lately!
As for SIR, maybe you’ve fulfilled some of your fantasies and that’s enough for you!
I hope you find the answers you need.
Thanks for YOU
I’m sad about ending things.
Thank you for sharing.
This LS is definitely more than fun and games.