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Omg that’s so funny and true
Thank you.Her number1 wrote: ↑Wed Jan 31, 2024 7:30 amMrs. Reese,
I agree with LFA and my wife, Farmgirl. You're doing great at this! Everything worth having has to be worked at to get it going and a little continuing work to keep it humming along.
It must be said! It’s one of the main fullfillment of LS, and what I miss the most.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Thu Feb 01, 2024 4:27 amLast night, I made dinner for hubby. We had so much fun, talking and sharing a few drinks.
Later I took a gummy and made love.
There is something to be said about life as a hotwife from time to time. Feeling so desired and sexy.
I’ve never been more confident in my life,
Thank you my husband
FerranB wrote: ↑Thu Feb 01, 2024 8:17 pmIt must be said! It’s one of the main fullfillment of LS, and what I miss the most.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Thu Feb 01, 2024 4:27 amLast night, I made dinner for hubby. We had so much fun, talking and sharing a few drinks.
Later I took a gummy and made love.
There is something to be said about life as a hotwife from time to time. Feeling so desired and sexy.
I’ve never been more confident in my life,
Thank you my husband
Many thanks mrs_reese for your lovely updates.
Good luck with the gym guy. It sounds very exciting to me...and will provide you with extra motivation to get your workouts in
lol that’s a good one!The good hub wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 7:56 amLuck is for those who lack determination and skill. More like Happy Hunting!!
Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 11:43 amGood luck with the gym guy. It sounds very exciting to me...and will provide you with extra motivation to get your workouts in
As for Jake, I feel for you in your comment above. If it helps, a podcaster I listen to talks about the fact that some relationships are not intended to be forever. They are good for a time, and that's ok. I think that's probably true for Hot Wife partners too. They can be a wonderful addition for a season, and then sometimes that season ends. I guess the trick is to figure out what feels like the right amount of time, to you, and then to stick the dismount before things go sour.
As for things fading, I've been feeling that for a long time with my Dom friend, Sir. The spark isn't what it was. We don't talk very often anymore. We only see each other every five or six months. If I'm honest, I'm not sure that I even miss it that much. But I also don't know how to end things officially, or if that is even necessary. When we do connect, it is still friendly and fun. So maybe that is good enough of a "dismount" for us. We will reach out when we want, get together occasionally, but no pressure or hard feelings either way.
With Jake, I suspect, things will be more complicated for you. A gradual fading away might not work. I'll be thinking about you as you figure out what you want and then how to have that conversation.
Sounds like you've given this a lot of thought and have come to a conclusion. I hope that Jake lets the fade happen. He sounds a bit like he's not emotionally mature enough for a hot wife relationship, or maybe he just isn't built for nonmonagamy. In either case, it sounds like letting things fade is the right decision, but I also know that will be hard when you do care for him. Hugs to you thought this process.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 1:03 pm
I always enjoy reading your comments Lookingforadventure!
It makes sense! I’ve done it in the past but only when I thought it interfered with my marriage,
This time it’s not only disruptive to my marriage, but I’m not in this with Jake to always feel bad when I can’t spend enough time with him!
I mean, I just don’t think he has the patience to allow me to go at my own pace! I enjoy being with hubby.
No matter the love I may feel for him, it’s not the same as with hubby.
There are times when I’m w Jake that I’ll text hubby and tell him how much I love him and can’t wait to be back in his arms feeling his love!
Jake knows this!
He’s become more hurt and upset when he’ll see my text hubby; and then he pouts and tells me to just leave if I don’t want to give him all my attention.
I guess I just don’t know how to do this when I have hubby to come home to.
I mean this girl, you’ve help me!
I think I need to allow the fade to happen naturally.
If it ends, then my time with Jake will be a good memory!
I won’t allow it to become bitter!
And honestly that’s the way I’ve felt lately!
As for SIR, maybe you’ve fulfilled some of your fantasies and that’s enough for you!
I hope you find the answers you need.
Thanks for YOU
MRS R - Thread poster "Des" has mentioned more than once his wife says of her longer term FWB's they all have a Best Before date. You may not know exactly when that date maybe but shouldn't be surprised when it occurs.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 1:03 pmLookingforadventure wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 11:43 amGood luck with the gym guy. It sounds very exciting to me...and will provide you with extra motivation to get your workouts in
As for Jake, I feel for you in your comment above. If it helps, a podcaster I listen to talks about the fact that some relationships are not intended to be forever. They are good for a time, and that's ok. I think that's probably true for Hot Wife partners too. They can be a wonderful addition for a season, and then sometimes that season ends. I guess the trick is to figure out what feels like the right amount of time, to you, and then to stick the dismount before things go sour.
As for things fading, I've been feeling that for a long time with my Dom friend, Sir. The spark isn't what it was. We don't talk very often anymore. We only see each other every five or six months. If I'm honest, I'm not sure that I even miss it that much. But I also don't know how to end things officially, or if that is even necessary. When we do connect, it is still friendly and fun. So maybe that is good enough of a "dismount" for us. We will reach out when we want, get together occasionally, but no pressure or hard feelings either way.
With Jake, I suspect, things will be more complicated for you. A gradual fading away might not work. I'll be thinking about you as you figure out what you want and then how to have that conversation.
I always enjoy reading your comments Lookingforadventure!
It makes sense! I’ve done it in the past but only when I thought it interfered with my marriage,
This time it’s not only disruptive to my marriage, but I’m not in this with Jake to always feel bad when I can’t spend enough time with him!
I mean, I just don’t think he has the patience to allow me to go at my own pace! I enjoy being with hubby.
No matter the love I may feel for him, it’s not the same as with hubby.
There are times when I’m w Jake that I’ll text hubby and tell him how much I love him and can’t wait to be back in his arms feeling his love!
Jake knows this!
He’s become more hurt and upset when he’ll see my text hubby; and then he pouts and tells me to just leave if I don’t want to give him all my attention.
I guess I just don’t know how to do this when I have hubby to come home to.
I mean this girl, you’ve help me!
I think I need to allow the fade to happen naturally.
If it ends, then my time with Jake will be a good memory!
I won’t allow it to become bitter!
And honestly that’s the way I’ve felt lately!
As for SIR, maybe you’ve fulfilled some of your fantasies and that’s enough for you!
I hope you find the answers you need.
Thanks for YOU
Thanks LurkerLong Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 08, 2024 12:44 pmMRS R - Thread poster "Des" has mentioned more than once his wife says of her longer term FWB's they all have a Best Before date. You may not know exactly when that date maybe but shouldn't be surprised when it occurs.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 1:03 pmLookingforadventure wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 11:43 amGood luck with the gym guy. It sounds very exciting to me...and will provide you with extra motivation to get your workouts in
As for Jake, I feel for you in your comment above. If it helps, a podcaster I listen to talks about the fact that some relationships are not intended to be forever. They are good for a time, and that's ok. I think that's probably true for Hot Wife partners too. They can be a wonderful addition for a season, and then sometimes that season ends. I guess the trick is to figure out what feels like the right amount of time, to you, and then to stick the dismount before things go sour.
As for things fading, I've been feeling that for a long time with my Dom friend, Sir. The spark isn't what it was. We don't talk very often anymore. We only see each other every five or six months. If I'm honest, I'm not sure that I even miss it that much. But I also don't know how to end things officially, or if that is even necessary. When we do connect, it is still friendly and fun. So maybe that is good enough of a "dismount" for us. We will reach out when we want, get together occasionally, but no pressure or hard feelings either way.
With Jake, I suspect, things will be more complicated for you. A gradual fading away might not work. I'll be thinking about you as you figure out what you want and then how to have that conversation.
I always enjoy reading your comments Lookingforadventure!
It makes sense! I’ve done it in the past but only when I thought it interfered with my marriage,
This time it’s not only disruptive to my marriage, but I’m not in this with Jake to always feel bad when I can’t spend enough time with him!
I mean, I just don’t think he has the patience to allow me to go at my own pace! I enjoy being with hubby.
No matter the love I may feel for him, it’s not the same as with hubby.
There are times when I’m w Jake that I’ll text hubby and tell him how much I love him and can’t wait to be back in his arms feeling his love!
Jake knows this!
He’s become more hurt and upset when he’ll see my text hubby; and then he pouts and tells me to just leave if I don’t want to give him all my attention.
I guess I just don’t know how to do this when I have hubby to come home to.
I mean this girl, you’ve help me!
I think I need to allow the fade to happen naturally.
If it ends, then my time with Jake will be a good memory!
I won’t allow it to become bitter!
And honestly that’s the way I’ve felt lately!
As for SIR, maybe you’ve fulfilled some of your fantasies and that’s enough for you!
I hope you find the answers you need.
Thanks for YOU
MRS R - I get it. One reason I hated dating, being on either end creates hurt and it's never been fun.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Sat Feb 10, 2024 10:59 amThanks LurkerLong Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 08, 2024 12:44 pmMRS R - Thread poster "Des" has mentioned more than once his wife says of her longer term FWB's they all have a Best Before date. You may not know exactly when that date maybe but shouldn't be surprised when it occurs.mrs_reese wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 1:03 pmLookingforadventure wrote: ↑Wed Feb 07, 2024 11:43 am
Good luck with the gym guy. It sounds very exciting to me...and will provide you with extra motivation to get your workouts in
As for Jake, I feel for you in your comment above. If it helps, a podcaster I listen to talks about the fact that some relationships are not intended to be forever. They are good for a time, and that's ok. I think that's probably true for Hot Wife partners too. They can be a wonderful addition for a season, and then sometimes that season ends. I guess the trick is to figure out what feels like the right amount of time, to you, and then to stick the dismount before things go sour.
As for things fading, I've been feeling that for a long time with my Dom friend, Sir. The spark isn't what it was. We don't talk very often anymore. We only see each other every five or six months. If I'm honest, I'm not sure that I even miss it that much. But I also don't know how to end things officially, or if that is even necessary. When we do connect, it is still friendly and fun. So maybe that is good enough of a "dismount" for us. We will reach out when we want, get together occasionally, but no pressure or hard feelings either way.
With Jake, I suspect, things will be more complicated for you. A gradual fading away might not work. I'll be thinking about you as you figure out what you want and then how to have that conversation.
I always enjoy reading your comments Lookingforadventure!
It makes sense! I’ve done it in the past but only when I thought it interfered with my marriage,
This time it’s not only disruptive to my marriage, but I’m not in this with Jake to always feel bad when I can’t spend enough time with him!
I mean, I just don’t think he has the patience to allow me to go at my own pace! I enjoy being with hubby.
No matter the love I may feel for him, it’s not the same as with hubby.
There are times when I’m w Jake that I’ll text hubby and tell him how much I love him and can’t wait to be back in his arms feeling his love!
Jake knows this!
He’s become more hurt and upset when he’ll see my text hubby; and then he pouts and tells me to just leave if I don’t want to give him all my attention.
I guess I just don’t know how to do this when I have hubby to come home to.
I mean this girl, you’ve help me!
I think I need to allow the fade to happen naturally.
If it ends, then my time with Jake will be a good memory!
I won’t allow it to become bitter!
And honestly that’s the way I’ve felt lately!
As for SIR, maybe you’ve fulfilled some of your fantasies and that’s enough for you!
I hope you find the answers you need.
Thanks for YOU
I’m sad about ending things.
