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Unread post by solstice » Tue Feb 19, 2019 8:31 am

To the beautiful Carrie from Bad Grandpa,

I say beautiful with certainty, you are beautiful as I have been building up the evidence from the clues you unsuspected disseminate through your writing, Does that sound creepy? :oops: :lol: If the teeth and eyes appeal, then I am captivated. I am no expert but Remy's eyes in her later videos do not look as clear as this first one, they look a little heavy as if she may take drugs, I hope I'm wrong .
I am so glad you would eschew the rough treatment that she accepted with alacrity, In my mind the menace of real inflicted pain is best left to fantasy. and it would seem by this time Anthony has gauged your hard limits.
I think the redeeming feature of the gang bang video, is the interview at the end where she was joyfully coherent.

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Unread post by willingtoo » Wed Feb 20, 2019 4:03 am

Good Morning,

Mike was able to stream the videos he took of me with Anthony last night on the TV. It really turned me on. I mean Really turned me on. There is one where he has me in my favorite missionary position, and his muscular ass flexing as he drives into me and I cum and so does he. First time I ever watched me orgasm. God it looked and sounded so sexy. He has his left arm under my right leg and is lifting it. He was kissing me long and deep, driving powerfully into me. My toes were pointed. I am so small under him and so helpless looking. I watched it before but last night it really got me going. It's so sexy when I see it happening to me.

Then we watched the slow motion video (Pussy Stretch) with the same scene. I loved it. So now I guess I'm into porn??? But just certain scenes where the man is fucking her like Anthony fucks me. It was all I could do to not ask Mike to fuck me right then, but I held off, but this morning I am so horny I can barely stand it.
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I asked Mike to take some pictures of my legs and feet and text it to Anthony. He did and this morning Anthony had sent a picture of his beautiful, huge cock. I texted him back and said I couldn't wait to be ravaged today. I said I hope the Beast is with you today. He texted back and said "Don't worry, the Beast will be there. I got chills and was wet immediately.

I will be here alone with him. Mike won't be here. I hope he totally takes control and "Consumes Me" I want to be taken completely today. I want it rough.

I will post tomorrow or tonight. I am so excited and so is Mike!

Carrie

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Unread post by solstice » Wed Feb 20, 2019 4:52 am

Oh Carrie,
My Caring Grandpa has come to the fore, I trust Anthony has still a degree of control and the beast has in mind your physical differences, hope you have a great time and return to Mike with some skin on your arse.

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Unread post by solstice » Wed Feb 20, 2019 4:58 am

On the bottom of the page I noted at least one reader could be a woman, I know that ladies are in the minority on this site, but would have thought more of them would identify with you and communicate

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Unread post by solstice » Wed Feb 20, 2019 5:24 am

Carrie writes
He has his left arm under my right leg and is lifting it. He was kissing me long and deep, driving powerfully into me. My toes were pointed. I am so small under him and so helpless looking.
Thank you for that beautiful description Carrie.

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Wed Feb 20, 2019 5:28 am

willingtoo wrote:
Wed Feb 20, 2019 4:03 am

I will be here alone with him. Mike won't be here. I hope he totally takes control and "Consumes Me" I want to be taken completely today. I want it rough.

Carrie
Sounds so very exciting!!! I sure wish I could be a fly on the wall to watch that!!!! Talk about a turn on!! "I want it rough." is sooo sensuous and erotic!! Carrie, you do have a gift for words!

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Unread post by SutterKane » Wed Feb 20, 2019 5:54 am

I hope that it will be everything that the three of you need! Mike, I appreciate all the work that you have put into finding the very hot videos of Remy and the other women fucking and pointing their feet.To think of your/our sweet Carrie being driven mad with lust for big black cock the way that Remy and the other girls are is beyond hot! It's the same way my wife is driven into abject submission and need for her Bull's big chocolate fuck stick and the way he totally owns her when they are together! And I have become much more aware of female feet and how sexy some women's feet truly are.
Thank you both for opening my eyes to another level of sexual interest and excitement!
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Unread post by hotwifelover31 » Wed Feb 20, 2019 6:29 am

Carrie, I am definitely “consumed” by you and yours and Mike’s amazing and sexually intoxicating erotic journey, as are you other loyal OHW fans.

To hear the wanton lust through your words and your desire to be taken, controlled, dominated and used as Anthony’s submissive sextoy and fuckdoll has me in a perpetual state of carnal arousal! Damn it’s hard to work with my leaking, throbbing cock that you always inspire. I’m going to have to find time to sneak away at lunch and get off once more to one of those Remy videos, with visions of you being consumed and giving yourself over to your deepest desires and Anthony (and Mike).

BTW, while I haven’t found a Remy video that doesn’t get my cock saluting her and you, some of my faves are those where she is interviewed before getting down and dirty. Hearing the sweet innocent looking hottie talk about herself and her sexual and fetish desires and, trusting the similarities to you, definitely pulls me and certainly others in deeper. Mike really hit it out of the park finding and revealing to us how similar you and Remy are (your smaller tush only makes you even sexier to me)!

Can’t wait to hear about today’s solo session with Anthony and how he reveals his Beast mode. Sure Mike is going to be rushing to get home to reclaim you!

In unmitigated lustful awe, HWL31

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Unread post by willingtoo » Wed Feb 20, 2019 11:13 am

Good Afternoon,

Anthony will be here in awhile. I wanted to give you exactly the moment in a video that really gets me excited. It is exactly how it happens when he makes me cum. It's the video clip that turns me on most. When he lifts her onto the bed. Anthony handles me like I was a rag doll. When he lifts her on the bed, then lifts her leg and drives his powerful ass into her. Honestly that scene almost makes me cum just watching. I am smaller than she is in comparison to Anthony which makes it even sexier.

If you want to picture what I hope will happen, (and it always does) watch this! The real with Anthony lasts longer. I watch it over and over it is so erotic to me.

Bing Search: "BBC Stretches mu cunt until it hurts huge cock tiny pussy interracial hotel" From 5:10 to 6:26 especially but beyond as well. But that minute and 16 seconds is magical. Hopefully in an hour or so I will be experiencing this.

Carrie

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Wed Feb 20, 2019 1:57 pm

Carrie, if that is a good example of you and Anthony, you are surely well fucked when he is finished!!! That was a very arousing video selection but there is one thing I noticed that is not like you, the feet!! She doesn't point nearly as much or as well as you. Just wanted to let you and MIKE know that I noticed the feet!!!!! I hope you had a great time!!!!

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Unread post by willingtoo » Thu Feb 21, 2019 3:36 am

Good Morning,

Anthony arrived on time. He said nothing and immediately took me in his arms, lifted me up on my toes and started kissing me. (Blacked Remy Lacroix teen girl big dick interracial fuck"). I was bare foot and wearing only a sexy slip. I was already wet but his kisses were so passionate I kept getting more and more ready for his huge, masculine cock. I began to massage his cock outside his pants and it was already hard.

I asked him if he'd watch something for me. He agreed and I led him to the TV room. Mike had set up the tv so I could show him videos of us that Mike took. He had my feet in his lap and watched intently. I was laying back and touching his cock with my toes. He loved them. I could also show some still pictures of us. He loved all of it.

I continued to show my feet and leg poses getting him more and more turned on. He was already hard as could be. He told me to get a pair of hose and put them on, slow and sexy. I went to the bedroom and brought back a pair. I gave him the sexiest foot and leg show I could. He took off his shirt and pants and watched me pose. I went on my knees between his legs and began to kiss his cock and swirl my tongue around the head and licking the shaft. (Slow motion tiny mouth). then I began to take him into my mouth a little at a time. I made love to his cock with as much passion as ever. Slow pace but moving my tongue fast over his sensitive nerve. He was in ecstasy moaning deeply and that made me even more motivated to give him the best I could.

He stopped me and lifted me onto the couch, pushed me back and mounted me in the missionary position. I said, "Take me Anthony....I want you to consume me. He began teasing my clit with his cock and then drove in as he lifted my leg and began kissing me. I wanted it to go like the videos and it did for the most part. This date was going to be quick so he made the most of it.

His thrusting was just the right pace and he was kissing me passionately. I was feeling "Controlled and Consumed" totally. A deep hard thrust and I went of in a fantastic, full body orgasm and he kept driving deep as I did. I was aware of my feet pointing so hard and I felt so feminine and taken. Again I swear I could feel his ejaculation inside me.

He put me between his legs again with me kneeling on the floor in front of him. I began sucking and stroking his cock, milking it for more sperm. The was some left and it dribbled into my mouth and I swallowed. He moaned deeply.

That was it for sex. It was very intense, but lasted total about 45 minutes from his first kiss to the end. It wasn't the Ravaging I expected but it was intense and so sexy.

We talked a bit, mostly about the trip. He said there was a change in venue. The guy that was organizing did a poor job of securing the required 15 rooms.. He think they over booked or something. He didn't know the details but the guy was able to get rooms at another great, but bigger resort. I gave him my dresses and jacket to put in a huge garment bag he is bringing. This way I need only take one suitcase.

He kissed me a long while and left. I wanted more but I will be with him for a longer date at his place this weekend.

This is all I have time for this morning. Mike wants to respond to rascal and a few others that seem to really enjoy the videos he suggested I think later this morning.

Carrie

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Unread post by solstice » Thu Feb 21, 2019 5:11 am

Thank you Carrie for your account of your latest sexy rendezvous with Anthony, a great idea to watch the video and photos together, I like the active part you now take on your "dates" I have watched over the last few days Mikes latest video choices, giving a vivid illustration of your no holds barred coupling.
Just watched the blacked Remy video Mike recommended again, before enjoying your afternoon written account of the Anthony episode, she certainly uses her little girl voice so effectively.
You must have been a delight to the eye, bare foot and dressed only in a slip.
Being controlled and consumed by Anthony is such an apt term for what you experience, I love your choice of words covering your escapades.
Hope you don't have to wait too long for Mike to compete your wonderful day.
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Unread post by willingtoo » Thu Feb 21, 2019 7:28 am

rascalnvixen wrote:
Wed Feb 20, 2019 1:57 pm
Carrie, if that is a good example of you and Anthony, you are surely well fucked when he is finished!!! That was a very arousing video selection but there is one thing I noticed that is not like you, the feet!! She doesn't point nearly as much or as well as you. Just wanted to let you and MIKE know that I noticed the feet!!!!! I hope you had a great time!!!!
We are both happy you noticed her feet. Carrie has much sexier feet with a sexier toe point. Remy pointes her toes almost constantly which is like Carrie and awesome for me. Mike

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Unread post by willingtoo » Thu Feb 21, 2019 7:33 am

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Wed Feb 20, 2019 6:29 am
Carrie, I am definitely “consumed” by you and yours and Mike’s amazing and sexually intoxicating erotic journey, as are you other loyal OHW fans.

To hear the wanton lust through your words and your desire to be taken, controlled, dominated and used as Anthony’s submissive sextoy and fuckdoll has me in a perpetual state of carnal arousal! Damn it’s hard to work with my leaking, throbbing cock that you always inspire. I’m going to have to find time to sneak away at lunch and get off once more to one of those Remy videos, with visions of you being consumed and giving yourself over to your deepest desires and Anthony (and Mike).

BTW, while I haven’t found a Remy video that doesn’t get my cock saluting her and you, some of my faves are those where she is interviewed before getting down and dirty. Hearing the sweet innocent looking hottie talk about herself and her sexual and fetish desires and, trusting the similarities to you, definitely pulls me and certainly others in deeper. Mike really hit it out of the park finding and revealing to us how similar you and Remy are (your smaller tush only makes you even sexier to me)!

Can’t wait to hear about today’s solo session with Anthony and how he reveals his Beast mode. Sure Mike is going to be rushing to get home to reclaim you!

In unmitigated lustful awe, HWL31
Thanks! I'm happy you enjoy the videos and inspire you to jack off. Turns on Carrie knowing you and a few others enjoy the videos nd masturbate as wellthinking of her. She is so much like Remy it's hard to believe the similarities. Face, personality, submissiveness, voice, breasts and hair are so much the same. Mike

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Unread post by willingtoo » Thu Feb 21, 2019 7:35 am

hotwifelover31 wrote:
Wed Feb 20, 2019 6:29 am
Carrie, I am definitely “consumed” by you and yours and Mike’s amazing and sexually intoxicating erotic journey, as are you other loyal OHW fans.

To hear the wanton lust through your words and your desire to be taken, controlled, dominated and used as Anthony’s submissive sextoy and fuckdoll has me in a perpetual state of carnal arousal! Damn it’s hard to work with my leaking, throbbing cock that you always inspire. I’m going to have to find time to sneak away at lunch and get off once more to one of those Remy videos, with visions of you being consumed and giving yourself over to your deepest desires and Anthony (and Mike).

BTW, while I haven’t found a Remy video that doesn’t get my cock saluting her and you, some of my faves are those where she is interviewed before getting down and dirty. Hearing the sweet innocent looking hottie talk about herself and her sexual and fetish desires and, trusting the similarities to you, definitely pulls me and certainly others in deeper. Mike really hit it out of the park finding and revealing to us how similar you and Remy are (your smaller tush only makes you even sexier to me)!

Can’t wait to hear about today’s solo session with Anthony and how he reveals his Beast mode. Sure Mike is going to be rushing to get home to reclaim you!

In unmitigated lustful awe, HWL31
Your posts are awesome. I love hearing how much you enjoy everything Carrie. I'm into sharing her any way I can. She's too special for just one guy to enjoy! Mike

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Unread post by willingtoo » Thu Feb 21, 2019 7:46 am

Mike here- Here are two that Carries likes parts (she's picky about the parts that she finds sexy) It's an older man like Frank, Tom Aaron but doesn't resemble any of them:

1. "Remy Lacroix-1 (nobody's Daughter)

2. "Remy Lacroix nobody's daughter"

See if you can guess where she is "Controlled and Consumed" It's at 16:30 in one of them. Mike

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Unread post by willingtoo » Thu Feb 21, 2019 7:54 am

I'm so glad I found the right girl to compare with Carrie. Took a lot of searching but the time was worth it. You could substitute the faces of Carrie or Natashia B. and be really close. I realize this is mostly for me and I appreciate you guys looking and commenting on specific things you notice. It's my way of participating and sharing her. She is happy too now because she reads how much you enjoy them. She wasn't convinced you would but knew it was important to me.

Carrie has much prettier feet. The breasts are exactly the same but Carrie has a much sexier body from the waste down. I'm looking for feet like Carrie's but I am being very picky and haven't found them yet but I'm looking hard and will post when I find them. It's a damn shame I can't post real pictures of her feet. I have taken some really sexy pictures of them. Hundreds of them actually. I've been married to her and loving her feet for 10 years so you can imagine how many I have taken over the years Mike

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Unread post by SutterKane » Thu Feb 21, 2019 9:34 am

Mike, you could set up a Google drive account, upload the pictures and any vids you want, set the password to something like "willingtoo" and post the link here but break the hyperlink i.e. replace the "." with "dot" so as to not run afoul of site rules.
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Unread post by subtoall » Thu Feb 21, 2019 11:00 am

Carrie,
I really love the affection that is developing further between you and Anthony. It's great that you're able to allow your romantic and affectionate feelings for him show, while also feeling safe in your marriage and your love for Mike. So hot! Also, the way you describe your worship of Anthony, his body and his cock is wonderful. You and Mike have found the perfect arrangement with Anthony. You're so lucky!

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Thu Feb 21, 2019 12:22 pm

I found two videos, a part one and a part two. Both are pretty erotic. Thinking about the similarities between Remy and Carrie, Mike, I believe you said they were pretty much the same from the waist up but Remy was heavier in the legs and ass at some point. If Carrie has thinner legs and thighs and her ass is smaller, she (Carrie) must have an awesome thigh gap or as some call it pussy gap!! That's the width of the space between a woman's thighs at her pussy. For me, the wider the better!!!! If Carrie has a wider pussy between her legs, and I ever see her showing that gap, I'll be a basket case!!! That is one of my immediate hard-on makers and I'll be stroking myself like an 18 yr old freshman in college!!! Thanks Mike for the suggested videos!! You are a very lucky man to have a woman as pretty as Carrie but to have her be as sexy and slutty as she is with you and A is way over the top erotic!!!! Dude, you must be hitting on her every night or spanking the chicken every night thinking about her! You are definitely living life large!!!

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Unread post by hotwifelover31 » Sat Feb 23, 2019 2:16 am

Mike, unfortunately I haven’t been able to devour the newest video recommendations due to work overload. But that hasn’t curtailed the images of Carrie as Remy and Natasha B popping into my head throughout the day and and now even into my dreams. Just wanted to pop in before heading back into the coal mine to express my incessant carnal gratitude to both of you for allowing us to vicariously ride along on your fabulous and cock-hardening erotic journey. The effort you both put in to ensure we get to share in your naughty adventures is stupendous. Hope Carrie gets the ravaging from Anthony today she craves...no doubt she will be consumed being his perfect little, sexy-footed, submissive sex goddess! In Carrie We Lust, HWL31

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Unread post by willingtoo » Sat Feb 23, 2019 6:00 am

Good Morning,

Sorry we didn't post last night. I stayed late at work to finish up a project and was too tired to write.

Mike is taking me to Anthony's today at 3:00. Mike wants me to cut it short so he will pick me up at 6:00. No time for pedicure or hair, but my feet look great and so does my hair.

Mike had a concern about me asking Anthony to take me to the special room. We talked and I thought about it. The first time was so that Mike could get pictures of the Falaka and fucking machine, but I had another reason for asking for the room and pretty much asking for the pain. But I also now realize that I am doing it because I know he wants to hurt me, but has become very reluctant. I know he loves it so I am doing it to please him. I feel guilty depriving him of that excitement. I could do without the pain, but it does turn me on to please him.

The Beast has been hiding for the most part, but the Beast is definitely there. He is just so afraid to ruin our relationship. Mike understands my need to please any way I can so he is ok with it now that I have explained. It's my turn on as well. I want to give him the thrill of punishing me. Se the pleasure I am giving him. I want the Beast.

Mike showed me a video of something I might ask him to do. He has a chair that looks similar to the one in this video of Remy. Mike loves how she points her toes during the entire punishment. I'm not sure the chair is exactly like the one in the video. I don't like when the guy deprives her of air but it is sexy to watch her struggle and beg for air. Aaron did it to me and It scared the hell out of me but it seems to bring Remy to orgasm. I've read where air deprivation can be very sexy. Mike likes the way her legs and feet shake. Hard toe points during pain are very sexy to him.

Bing Search: "A sub girl bondaged, throatfucked and clit torture"

I may encourage this tonight. I know Anthony wants it and I want to have it happen for him.

I'll report tomorrow morning.

Carrie
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Unread post by solstice » Sat Feb 23, 2019 7:26 am

Thank your for writing about your desire to be taken to the special room, as usual I am apprehensive for you, that you may not be taken further than you can handle,
I have more trust for Anthony, but hope you will not encourage him to punish you with more pain you can bare.
You seemed a little disappointed that on your last meeting his treatment of you was a somewhat circumspect. although you must have gained by the frequency of your times with Anthony the knowledge of your limits.

My wish for you is to have a wonderful time,with many new experiences to share with Anthony

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Unread post by rascalnvixen » Sat Feb 23, 2019 10:53 am

"A sub girl bondaged, throatfucked and clit torture" Whew!! That's pretty intense!!! Are you sure you want that kind of BDSM from anyone?? I know you want to please A, but to be secured, restricted and basically locked into a very uncomfortable position like that while you are choked and smothered?? That was difficult for me to watch. I guess I would be the same with Vixen in a similar situation, it would only be allowed if she outright said that is what she wanted. I guess we husbands love our wives too much to see them subjected to this intense treatment unless we knew her limits. I think maybe that is why A was not as intensive with you when Mike was with you in the room, didn't want to scare Mike. Nipple clamps are one thing but mouse traps on your nipples?? Would you allow that? If you can endure all of this in addition to caneing your feet, you are a very strong woman!!!! Would you really encourage A to do THOSE things to you? I'm not trying to be too personal but I'm trying to get my pretty little petite Carrie mind wrapped around this. Have a great time with a this afternoon!! I'll be thinking about you!!!

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Unread post by subtoall » Sat Feb 23, 2019 11:36 am

Hi Carrie,
I wonder if it might be a good idea for you and Mike to sit down with Anthony sometime soon and talk about this issue of wanting to please him by allowing the beast to emerge, and both of your fears and concerns about it. Communication is so important to make sure signals don't get crossed in order to avoid unnecessary painful misunderstandings. I have no doubt that Anthony is sensing all of this as you say one thing and then tempt him to push the boundaries. Ultimately, I fear this could be kind of disrespectful of him.

On another note, I also wonder if the way that you have compartmentalized this relationship as being only sexual is setting you up for a difficult or awkward long weekend in Palm Springs. As I understand it, outside of short meetings before your encounters, and one or two overnight dates, you have spent very little non-sexual time together. This makes me think that the trip could be jarring, almost overwhelming in the way that it forces you to spend long periods of time with someone you don't really know very well (outside of sex) in a multitude of new settings, i.e. hours together on a plane, meals together, meals with others, sight seeing, working out, hanging out by the pool etc. It's almost like you're going to be trying to suddenly withdraw a lot of money from an account you haven't been depositing in.

I know this compartmentalization of your relationship with Anthony was designed as a way to keep all this in a proper perspective to protect your marriage, and that it's the way you and Mike want to play, but I wonder if it might make sense to lay some groundwork before this trip so that you enjoy it more when it comes. By this, I mean actually have some dates, and spend some non-sexual time with Anthony where you get to know each other better, e.g. go shopping, out for meals, out to a club, or to a Miami Heat game. I wonder if you wouldn't benefit from even increasing the communications between your meetings, like flirty texts and racy selfies etc. I bet Mike would love being included in this kind of fun too. It's a great way to involve him more in the play.

My gut tells me that you and Mike have the strength, mutual respect, care for your marriage, and importantly, the communication habits to not allow this stuff to threaten your relationship. I mean seriously, do you want to land in Palm Springs after 8 hours of flying only to text Mike: "OMG, Anthony may be sexy as hell, but I just discovered we have don't have much to talk about!!" That will make for one long weekend, or worse, if it starts to impact your attraction to him.

I hope you're not put off by any of this, I just thought I'd share my thoughts. I love your story, and how much you both share with your readers here!

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