How does your wife feel about you watching.

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How much enjoyment does your wife get from you watching?

1. She doesn't let me watch.
103
13%
2. She'd rather me not watch, but allows it.
132
16%
3. She likes for me to watch.
173
21%
4. It gets her "fired up" and a large portion of her excitement is having me watch.
110
13%
5. She forces me to watch.
7
1%
6. I love to watch.
263
32%
7. I am indifferent to watching.
13
2%
8. I find it hard to watch/do not want to watch.
15
2%
 
Total votes: 816

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by gatorrdw » Tue Jun 26, 2018 5:42 am

My wife loved for me to watch and she would at times tell me later that she really enjoyed "putting on a show for me". At times when she was with a new man she wanted me there until she was sure that she would be OK and as time went by she started to enjoy being just one-on-one and return to me very well fucked as she put it. I loved to watch her when I could tell that she was really into-it with whomever was between her legs. I will never be able to forget the first time she was with Haywood (the black guy that lived with us for 3 years) as he worked his 11 inches plus thick black cock into her and she was oblivious to me even being in the room as he took her thru orgasm after orgasm, it's sort of fresh on my mind like it was last night. It was really something to watch. GTR

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by petey boy » Tue Jun 26, 2018 6:30 am

maxbud wrote:
petey boy wrote:She loves having others see her taken by SIR. There is a special heat she gets when she is aware
he is displaying her.



Champagne glass full of piss?! Jesus! That's serious. Seems he gets off on the dominance and not really the sex.
Your wife loves to be dominated just like you do? Does she cum hard when SIR humiliates her, like with the piss thing?

Are you allowed to kiss your wife when he is there? (or even when you are home?)
Which other wife does SIR fuck regularly? DOes he do FFMs threesomes with your wife and his other sluts? :D

(I would love to hear that he fucked her and another woman while you sat there and licked the womens feet during the fucking)
I am allowed to kiss her sweetly. Mostly i pay homage to her pussy which Sir loves to see. My tongue soothing her sore. Often at the
same time she is servicing SIR. He does fuck other women, usually in front of Beth ..SIR has had her eat the other woman clean.
He has given her to other bulls often.

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Unread post by WimJansen » Tue Jun 26, 2018 7:05 am

TheGreatStag wrote:Picked 4 and 6 but there is another reason for my being there. She finds safety in it. Should something, anything go wrong I'm right there for her. Or she will signal me over to join. She reserves the right to turn any encounter into a threesome.
This. Plus sometimes she wants to get solo, sometimes not, and there is no option for that.

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by Wooster » Tue Jun 26, 2018 11:51 am

1. She considers that a private part of her life.

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by dirtydog69 » Wed Jun 27, 2018 8:48 am

She loves to have me watch but her last encounter with her bull he had his bigcock in her pussy for about an hour and made her cum three times got the feeling she forgot I was there

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by sextiescouple » Wed Jun 27, 2018 2:16 pm

dirty dog, my wife often forgot I was there - and that's what I wanted for her.

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Unread post by JMNBABE » Thu Aug 02, 2018 12:37 pm

1 and 7 for us........when we first delved in to this, she let me watch and even join in a bit, but it became really obvious she was only doing this for my benefit and not her pleasure, Once we evolved from one niters and meeting guys thru sex ads, and she had her first affair she let me know in no uncertain terms that she did NOT want me there and it wasn't really possible anyway since she was meeting guys on her own, usually at work or as a result of work, and they thought she was "cheating"......which she was usually until she decided to let me in on things.

When she initially got involved with BBC, she wanted me around because it was new to her and she felt more comfortable.........but only a couple months later she was off on her own with Black Lovers too.

She tells me all about her evenings/weekends later on while we play in bed........but I haven't seen her be sexual with anyone for years. Her current affair is almost 9 yrs long now, with her Boss/Lover and he has no idea I even know about them. They are together a couple times a week and occasional weekends (when at home) and regularly when they travel together (they don't even bother getting two rooms any more). Have heard about everything they do, but will ever see them together sexually.

Works for us, not for everyone.

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by RangerCuck » Sat Aug 04, 2018 4:45 pm

Part of the fun for her is me watching, and she even considers it actually cheating if I'm not watching (even though I'd be fine with her fucking guys without me present anyway).

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by tractorman2 » Sun Aug 05, 2018 12:16 am

My wife has no issues with me watching her with her lover and I like to see her enjoying herself, I have declined offers to be tied to a chair etc or dressed in such a way I cannot leave as I do like to dip in and out of the action. I have seen too from a video camera I sometimes leave that the moment I leave the intensity of their fucking increases in my absence and I like to comeback and see what they are doing.

I have had a lot of interesting feelings after I have left from standing in a hotel corridor hearing her screaming as she is fucked as people pass, once I was told to go to the reception at a premier inn to get another couple of pillows for me, the girl on reception stared at me and I knew she knew rather uncomfortable I would say.

On another occasion during a very intense session they paused and I used this as an opportunity to go to the car to get some fresh air as it was so hot, as I left she was lent out of the first floor window getting cool air wearing a top with the curtains open. As I walked through the hotel and towards the elevated car park I saw a chap standing on the stairs upto the car park as I reached him I looked and could see my wife riding her chap, light on in the room, she hadn't closed the curtains. This man was watching them from a distance of about 20 feet seeing all, I was shocked. Momentarily I thought I had to go back and tell them but then decided to stand near him in the dark and watch the show!.

I did tell her later she was shocked but then said oh well!!!!

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by Des 31 » Sun Aug 05, 2018 3:13 pm

I honestly wasn't sure which to choose. I enjoy watching, but I'm also pleased to hear about her and other partners if it occurs at their place rather than our home.
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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by tommypack87 » Sun Aug 05, 2018 8:53 pm

I've always watched and I feel like its a must have for both of us; I'm not sure there is anything more erotic in life than watching her get fucked and she gets off partly on putting on a show for me and seeing how much I enjoy it.

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by Hard3 » Mon Aug 06, 2018 3:35 pm

My wife and her lover are fine with me watching and i usually do when they are at our house. The only thing I have to agree to is that i stay in my chair where they put it and do not cum as it is too disruptive. I am always nude when he is there, but not as a sexual treat for them.They do not consider me part of their sexual activity. It is more for control or humbling me. I have a little dick and they do take advantage of that emotionally with me.
So I love to watch. Nothing like it!!

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by myeasywife » Tue Aug 07, 2018 3:18 am

Her first time with another man after we married was with an old friend of her's that first fucked her way back in high school. I knew he fucked her way back then, and we had discussed him being her first "other man" as a married woman. To much alcohol prevented me from watching the first time they fucked. But............. The next time, I was right there to see him crawl up between her legs and slide his cock in. She said having me watch made it more exciting. So I picked #4. I thought it was the hottest thing I've ever seen up to that point. So I picked #6.

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Unread post by dinoo » Tue Sep 17, 2019 8:03 am

The first time we visited "our" club, I acted as her guard.
This changed very quickly after some visits.
I became the non partipating compagnon.

LadyD (in our journal of happenings, bedtalks and mails) repeated many times her feelings about this subject.
It aroused her when I was watching.
Some examples:

"In fact it makes me even sluttier, especially when I see you excited eyes. And I know you can't lie with your eyes."
or
"I enjoy being your HW and you have to witness this by watching me."
or
"Being watched by you, makes me cross borders. It goes automatically and till now I never regretted."
or
"Crossing borders is for me not to prevent having any regret not to have experienced it. It is journey of discovering, a lovely journey."

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by vmb69 » Tue Sep 17, 2019 1:32 pm

My wife rather I watch so she doesnt have to tell me about it later. But she also rather be alone, her favorite would be to do it alone and not talk about it, unless she feels like it. Either I still love it.

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Unread post by Kays cuck » Wed Sep 18, 2019 11:59 am

I've known that my wife doesn't want to play with others on her own. She's mentioned it before but I've never really asked her why in much detail. So after seeing this poll question yesterday I decided to ask her why she wanted me to watch her and not play on her own. She replied "I like that it's something special we share. I like watching you and knowing how good it makes you feel. And seeing the way you look at me makes me feel really special and beautiful." So I answered 4 for her. It's more than she just likes me to watch. It's and important part of the cuckolding to her. I answered 6 for myself because I just love watching her have sex. The sights and sounds, the way she looks at me, seeing her work her hips into his, not just taking it passively. Kissing, flirting, having fun. Me being naked stroking my cuck penis in their presence while she orgasms with another man. I love the entire thing, so much.

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Unread post by Bull2cuck » Wed Sep 18, 2019 12:12 pm

I was not sure which one to pick. She like me to watch, but does not want me there so for almost the past year I have only watch via webcam
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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by new2hotshubby » Wed Sep 18, 2019 3:12 pm

N2H enjoys me watching, and won’t play unless I’m present. Once she gets started, I’m pretty sure she's oblivious to my presence, which is what I prefer.

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by Irani_stag » Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:01 am

I wish she let me watch

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Unread post by texans_at_play » Thu Sep 19, 2019 8:31 am

Depends on her mood. Sometimes she wants me to watch and/or participate, other times she wants me in the next room where I can hear but not see, other times she goes solo.
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Unread post by Hungry4IT » Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:24 pm

4 and 6 for BlueGoddess and I. I of course love to Fuckn watch but she was suprised to find how much she enjoys watching me and my reactions to her games and pleasure. She wants us to do everything together and loves when I participate.
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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by verkitwme » Sat Sep 21, 2019 6:59 am

95% of the time my hubby is there, who else would clean up ?????????????????????????????????

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by ErikaPeter » Sat Sep 21, 2019 10:16 am

Although my husband does like to watch, and has done so in the past, I find sex much more intimate without an audience. I have been playing solo for years.
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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by lovingher » Fri Oct 04, 2019 10:34 pm

My wife and I agreed that I would watch each and
every time. But this has turned into that I
sometimes do not watch. Apparently some
of her lovers, in fact each lover, has wanted me
not to be present each time. And she goes
along with this in spite of our agreement. She
says that being alone with her, allows them to
be a more expressive lover; and, that, therefore,
she has better pleasure. I think that they want
to extend the boundary, because, they feel as if
they are taking my wife from me and causing me
to deal with an inner conflict and struggle. And
I think that they want to create a conflict between
my wife and I, knowing that I am submissive to
her. They feel powerful knowing they have
caused me even more jealousy and humiliation.
Additionally my wife has let her lovers know that
I feel envy for their large cock and balls. And that
not allowing me to be present each time,
generates even more envy within me for their
better cock and better and younger looks.

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Re: How does your wife feel about you watching.

Unread post by 2wheel » Sat Oct 05, 2019 2:47 am

When we started she didn't want me present. Now she says she likes an audience and likes to perform for me and wants me to watch.

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