This is just a guess on my part but I would have to think that it's tough for you to find ways to keep your husband connected to your experiences. He didn't ask for pictures. You offered them I felt as a gesture to accommodate him in any way you could think of, almost as if it was a guess. This is all probably inference but, it's as if you realize how much joy you are experiencing from this segment of your shared lives and you want him to have that too and it hurts you that it's not with him. I know that you've said if your husband's physical issues were not there things would be different. I also know you've come to accept that he is truly happy himself for not denying the love of his life any pleasure she deserves. Like I said maybe I'm reading too much into this but, I feel like you will jealously and continually search for ways to give your husband something he cherishes too! You are exceptional!2inUPMichigan wrote:Wow! Hubby and I were talking tonight and he finally came out and made a request for a specific picture he would like to see! (Not sharing any details here yet on the specifics)
I have offered in the past - even if it makes me uncomfortable- but he declined. Now he is requesting this so I said "okay".
I sent a text and got an answer pretty quick from M "I can make that happen".
Wait a minute LMAO, reply coming in just now from H "can comply"
Looks like I have options!! Hubby might get two pictures for comparison.
I bet your not as reluctant for those photos knowing your husband wants it now!