Poll: Who gets the most out of it

[UK-Stag]

So hotwifing, on the face of it you'd say the most fun is had by the hotwife as she gets to fuck whoever she likes, but for some reason I seem to get the most out of it as a supportive husband. I can't get get enough of the reclamation and anticipation sex.

So what do you think?

[UK-Stag]

Apologies for posting this twice

[SSQ]

It shouldn't be like that. Why do we need to pull it apart? I tell my nine year old that life isn't a competition

As long as everyone is happy and getting their needs met, who cares?

[UK_Hotwife]

I'd say you as the stag get the most out of our own life style. But every Stag and Hotwife are different as we all have different paths we take in the lifestyle. You certainly get everything out of your Stag position before, during and after my meets lol

[Her number1]

For Farmgirl and I, it just isn't an either/or. We both love it.

[UK-Stag]

It shouldn't be like that. Why do we need to pull it apart? I tell my nine year old that life isn't a competition

As long as everyone is happy and getting their needs met, who cares?

I think you hotwives just let us think that we have the most fun.
I know it's not a competition lol, I was just making conversation.

[SSQ]

It shouldn't be like that. Why do we need to pull it apart? I tell my nine year old that life isn't a competition

As long as everyone is happy and getting their needs met, who cares?

I think you hotwives just let us think that we have the most fun.
I know it's not a competition lol, I was just making conversation.

My husband is happy because I'm happy. It's a circle of good things, not a comparison And I hope that my partners are also enjoying our connection; otherwise, what's the point?

[UK-Stag]

It shouldn't be like that. Why do we need to pull it apart? I tell my nine year old that life isn't a competition

As long as everyone is happy and getting their needs met, who cares?

I think you hotwives just let us think that we have the most fun.
I know it's not a competition lol, I was just making conversation.

My husband is happy because I'm happy. It's a circle of good things, not a comparison And I hope that my partners are also enjoying our connection; otherwise, what's the point?

Agreed, everyone gets lots out of it. I'm surprised marriage counsellors don't recommend it.

[VictorCharlie]

We are very "couple-centric" about non-monogamy and our MFM fun definitely is a great addition to our sex life for both us. That being said, while it started as something I wanted us to try, she unequivocally enjoys it and looks forward to it more than me now.

[SSQ]

It shouldn't be like that. Why do we need to pull it apart? I tell my nine year old that life isn't a competition

As long as everyone is happy and getting their needs met, who cares?

I think you hotwives just let us think that we have the most fun.
I know it's not a competition lol, I was just making conversation.

My husband is happy because I'm happy. It's a circle of good things, not a comparison And I hope that my partners are also enjoying our connection; otherwise, what's the point?

Agreed, everyone gets lots out of it. I'm surprised marriage counsellors don't recommend it.

I gotta ask, really? Because if this is legitimately true, I think that you're wearing blinders. I see people ask the same silly question as to why a wife wouldn't want to do this, for example, and it just blows my mind. Asking that I think demonstrates a significant lack of understanding of the lack of universality of human beings.

[UK-Stag]

OK then...

[2inUPMichigan]

I think the answer will be different for ever single meeting, play date ..... it is a constantly changing and evolving dynamic for most couples.
And it's hard to measure the different benefits too.
I guess that wasn't an answer....oops!

[UK-Stag]

I think the answer will be different for ever single meeting, play date ..... it is a constantly changing and evolving dynamic for most couples.
And it's hard to measure the different benefits too.
I guess that wasn't an answer....oops!

LOL it was definitely an answer. I'm just suspicious that my HW just lets me think I get the most out of it even though she's loving all the BBC right now

[Sparkstar]

I think the answer will be different for ever single meeting, play date ..... it is a constantly changing and evolving dynamic for most couples.
And it's hard to measure the different benefits too.
I guess that wasn't an answer....oops!

This is exactly how I think of it too. So I've not voted.

Basically:
The hotwife is able to see other men. If the tables were switched then what man wouldn't want that sort of "hall pass" from his wife lol.
The cuck/stag/male partner is turned on by it.
The bull is able to fuck another mans wife. I'm sure a LOT of studs love the idea of that.

[2inUPMichigan]

Not only that, but some play dates the cuck/stag might get turned on but the third is just not doing it for the hotwife and so her enjoyment is so not on the same level - it can happen.

[EddieM]

Everybody... The cuck gets off on his fantasy watching his wife with another man, the bull... and the hotwife gets a good fucking.

[tractorman2]

I agree who gets the most out if it? my wife wouldn't fuck other men if she didn't want to or enjoy it, hell I cant get her to cook a particular tea for me if she doesn't want to, I wouldn't allow her or certainly not within our marriage her to have lovers if I didn't like her doing it. Most of the men friends we have are more than one offs so I take it they like it too!

A poll I cant vote on.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

For Farmgirl and I, it just isn't an either/or. We both love it.

Mr GILF

[Cumcpl]

Not really sure... My wife is getting a lot of orgasms and her primary turn on is that I'm so turned on by it..

The bull and me maybe..

[mfm4bnc]

We are super selective, and she only fucks bulls who are REALLY into her... Under those circumstances, I think she probably gets the most... On the other hand, it is a seven day a week fantasy for me, and she tends to think about it in the few days before ovulation... So I get more days of thrills.

[ronfoks]

I don't see the need for this question. Everyone should get what he wants out of it. If not, you are doing it wrong!

[daddydadom]

imma have to say the bull from my perspective..i get to manhandle your pretty lil wifey and use all her holes to unload my sperm in all while not even having to deal with the relationship..its the fuckin best..

[DedicatedHubby2013]

I am enjoying her being a hotwife, but she is definitely having more fun.

[PANTIES]

She has the fun, I get anxiety but I live with it as I’m the one who started our lifestyle.

Pauline

[Shadnaster]

I can't really answer. We both get something out of it. She gets attention and a lot of great sex. I get something out of it which is much harder to define.