Young Wife May Start Again

[DLD]

First and foremost, you are right- family comes first. In hope everything worked out well in the end with your family emergency. I wouldn’t worry too much about the bulls thinking you flaked, because most people will understand if there’s an emergency. I know, it’s not the best first imprsssjon, but I’m sure you and Brandi will arrange something to make it up to them and connect.

Regarding Brandi’s past, at this point does it matter? I’m sure her past has influenced who she is today, just like everything you have done in the past year together has influenced who she is today. That’s human nature. The bottom line is that you are on the journey together and communicate and stay on the same page. You’ve alluded to it, saying she’s your best friend, but I think the best term is soulmates. You love her enough to realize that sexually she needs more and you give it to her through the lifestyle, and she loves you for giving that to her, that she saves the most intimate part of her only for you. Yes, there will be certain bulls that she has a spark or deeper connection with, like Tre or Sam, that she gives a little more of her heart to/ cares deeply about, but sometimes that’s part of how this lifestyle is. There’s no need for jealousy when you’re her soulmate.

With the strangers, I think that’s a good compromise. My question to you is what do you get out of it? If this is something you’re supposed to be doing together, and she’s doing that alone, does that strengthen your relationship or not? For you and her, it might strengthen your relationship and be fine. What I’ve learned is that you two have a great communication for being younger and are willing to constantly renegotiate the boundaries to meet the other person’s needs. As long as you keep doing that you guys are going to be on a beautiful journey together!

I’m curious to see how things went with James. If I remember, he was very dominant and talk things to a different level. Hopefully all went well and you all had a fun time!

[gwwkjt]

Brandy might get pregnant from a bull, but in this case she will make an abortion. There is very little chance that Brandi will put in danger her current lifestyle. Pregnancy (even an advance one) itself would not put an end to hotwifing (it might even enhance the experience with a kink of fucking a visibly pregnant wife and there is no downtime due to periods), but having a baby really will put an end to it for a few years.

There will be a zero chance of all this affecting MJ career (Brandi's career prospects also unless she gets a baby). There was a story of Navy Seal's wife doing porn without any troubles until the hubby himself started to appear in videos. I think even in this case he was let go just because military does not allow side gigs, not because of porn.

There is a very remote chance that Brandy will get children within 5-10 years. Temptation to keep the good thing going will trump it all

[DLD]

I don’t know where you got that from, but, since MJ has been home and COVID, Brandi and MJ have been open and honest with each other. She has repeatedly said she doesn’t want a baby right now, and when she does she wants it with MJ.

Who knows how it’s going to end? I can imagine it’s not ending anytime soon. Brandi has her steady bulls- Tre, Sam, Martin, and D- and from what MJ has told us, Brandi has a bond, not a husband and wife bond, but at least sexually and even on some level emotionally, with Sam and Tre, to the point where they have a unique sexual relationship with her (MJ called it a “spark”) compared to the other bulls. The way I read/understand it, is that Tre and Sam have a unique bond with Brandi and are an undeniable part of the relationship and likely in it for the long term.

While she does get good new bulls from Martin and D, it’s possible that Brandi and MJ will get into a steady groove in a year or two like so many others on here have done. MJ has said there’s an ebb and flow to it, and I take him at his word. Additionally, MJ has said he and Brandi are best friends and are in this together. They communicate openly and honestly. They seem to be on very solid ground. They have navigated their entry into the LS better than a lot of people that are on here. That is why I think you’re way off base with your assessment.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

I don’t know where you got that from, but, since MJ has been home and COVID, Brandi and MJ have been open and honest with each other. She has repeatedly said she doesn’t want a baby right now, and when she does she wants it with MJ.

Who knows how it’s going to end? I can imagine it’s not ending anytime soon. Brandi has her steady bulls- Tre, Sam, Martin, and D- and from what MJ has told us, Brandi has a bond, not a husband and wife bond, but at least sexually and even on some level emotionally, with Sam and Tre, to the point where they have a unique sexual relationship with her (MJ called it a “spark”) compared to the other bulls. The way I read/understand it, is that Tre and Sam have a unique bond with Brandi and are an undeniable part of the relationship and likely in it for the long term.

While she does good new bulls from Martin and D, it’s possible that Brandi and MJ will get into a steady groove in a year or two like so many others on here have done. MJ has said there’s an ebb and flow to it, and I take him at his word. Additionally, MJ has said he and Brandi are best friends and are in this together. They communicate openly and honestly. They seem to be on very sold ground. They have navigated their entry into the LS better than a lot of people that are on here. That is why I think you’re way off base with your assessment.

Thanks DLD for posting exactly what I was thinking.


Mr GILF

[DLD]

That is an interesting perspective. I know MJ brought it up early on as a possibility of sex addiction, but he really hasn’t said anything since. I do think their level of communication and trust was not where it needed to be at the beginning, but from what I read they are completely open and honest with each other now. They’ve taken a few breaks, and I think that’s good. I always try to keep in mind that Brandi is 25. What 25 year old doesn’t love sex? I also try to keep in mind Brandi’s past, which MJ recently discussed may impact why she is the way she is in her attitude towards sex.

So you definitely make some valid points, I think with predicting an outcome is where you lost me. Nobody knows how this is going to end, or even if it’s going to end. To me, being in a relationship is about accepting the person you love for who they are. Also, let’s not lose sight of the fact that MJ has been encouraging and promoting this almost the entire time, so he is on board. Yes, there are times when he felt it went to far or where jealousy crept in because of the time/ attention/ spark with certain bulls, but importantly they worked through all of those issues and came out stronger on the other side.

[gwwkjt]

It is not just sex addiction, I think, otherwise Martin and Sam would be enough. I think she is also addicted to attention and thrill.

I wonder also if MJ is still having fun with all that is going on

[Msn75]

After awhile, anything can seem “normal” and there is a thrill in chasing and achieving something even wilder, crazier. Pushing the envelope. Where does this end for these two? Do they settle into a new normal or keep pushing the boundaries? How far can this be pushed?

[dukerenocl]

While I'd certainly enjoy seeing pics of Brandi more, I'm more curious about seeing pics of Sam and Martin's dicks. These guys sound like they blow away any dick I've ever seen in porn. Sounds like most women would need an epidural to fuck them.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum dukerenocl. Feel free to break the ice in the Newbie forum and tell us about yourself, your other to get a good start.

[DLD]

After awhile, anything can seem “normal” and there is a thrill in chasing and achieving something even wilder, crazier. Pushing the envelope. Where does this end for these two? Do they settle into a new normal or keep pushing the boundaries? How far can this be pushed?

That’s an interesting question. I remember early on MJ saying when you’re at D then L seems so far away, but then you have more experiences and all of a sudden you’re at i or J and then L doesn’t seem that wild or crazy anymore.

In reading through the forums, there are several constant things that come up- communication, doing this lifestyle because you both want to and that it should strengthen your relationship as a couple, and having agreed upon rules.

Yes, the rules have been bent and broken and shifted and renegotiated over the past year, but I take that as a sign of the strength of their bond and commitment to the lifestyle and to each other.

Regarding is this for the sex, or the thrill, I think it’s both for them. Brandi’s attitude towards sex is very wide open (no pun intended) but it seems to excite MJ just as much as she enjoys it. Remember, MJ is the one who pushed her and encouraged her to have multiple partners and gangbangs. I’m sure she wanted them as well, but it was mutually agreed upon. MJ’s biggest concern is Brandie developing an emotional attachment or getting too close to her bulls. When she did with Sam with him sleeping over half the week and going on dates, MJ told her and they worked it out to a max or two nights a week and no one on one dates with any of the bulls.
Like a drug, sex releases endorphins. There may be some addiction there between both of them, but it’s not like they are missing work for sex or have abandoned all of their vanilla friends for sex. It’s undoubtedly a part of their life and probably will be for sometime, but with no children and being young, if there was ever a time to be all in, this would be it.

[Orson2]

DLD: YES.

[DLD]

Over a month with no posts from MJ. I hope it’s due to the lifestyle becoming “normal” and not worth reporting anything and not anything bad. Merry Christmas MJ and Brandi. Thanks for allowing us to follow your journey.

[Orson2]

I think MJs last post from November tells me what I want - and what most of us want - out of this lifestyle:

"Brandi and I love and trust each other, and are best friends. I know and have accepted she could never go back to just me sexually, and I would not ask that of her, but I knew this may happen when we started out. I know I don't have the equipment to satisfy Brandi, but I can still satisfy her other ways. I actually feel blessed. She is so damn sexy and amazing to play with and watch. I have my own personal porn star and I'm the lucky bastard that gets to be with her through all of the adventures."

I call this a mature, well-adjusted perspective. This enhances pleasures well shared, and requires exceptional relationship skills.

Anyone want to gainsay my estimate? Sure. Ups and downs are inevitable. Hurdles? What life relationship lacks all those (a dull one, perhaps).

This year long adventure has, I believe, built a platform of experiences for this couple to draw upon, I think.

Perhaps an update may come around News Years play time fun! Or in the weeks thereafter.

[Royce_smyth]

So you all are doing this in the middle of a pandemic? No health concerns?

these are mostly kids in their 20's, covid does not touch them. I would rather be concerned about genital herpes. Any idea if it is included in std testing that is done for you? And while you are at it, could you list which diseases are included is std tests that Brandi, Martin etc take?

Three "kids in their 20's" all with NO underlying conditions, family friends and acquaintances, have died relatively quickly. Covid does touch some of them. Hopefully you will not experience this 1st hand.

[gwwkjt]

I hope MJ continues to write the updates here. This thread has been quiet for a while, but not for the lack of interest in your story

[Triggershy]

Missing my favorite bad girl Brandi.

I know all is well with you you two are hitting your stride just missing hearing how bad she has been.

Thanks for sharing your journey with us mere mortals.

[Terrycart79]

Happy New Year MJ and Brandi. I hope everything is going well. We miss you guys dearly on this forum. I can't speak for others when I say this, but I enjoy not only hearing about all the sex you guys are having, but I also appreciate just reading what you have to say, and hearing your perspective and opening up your feelings with us. It's like we're all friends here but not really? Anyways, take care of yourself and your beautiful wife.

[DLD]

It’s been 11 weeks with no update. I don’t think he’s coming back anytime soon.

[brandiandme]

I know its been a few months.  Not intentional, but life happens.  Documenting this has lost some of the original luster it had when all new.  

I need to address the cock size comment.  Yes, Brandi seeks out and pretty much only sleeps with guys with very big cocks.  To put it into perspective though, she has a giant dildo that is 12 inches long, 10 of which are insertable, with 8.5 inches in girth.  We have yet to come across a real cock that matches this.  And while some guys are very close and could absolutely be in porn, the mythical 12 or 14 inch cock doesn't exist from what we've seen.  Most guys exaggerate cock size. If they say 10 it usually closer to 8 and so forth.  

We had a lot of family stuff going on since the last post.  My father was sick (not Covid), and that meant spending a lot more time there and not home playing fucked up sex games on the weekends.  Brandi really quieted down with her bulls over the Holiday period.  She did start seeing a new guy James regularly.  For those who don't remember, Brandi met James at the sex party we went to months ago.  He is huge, both in the cock and body department.  He's tall, dark skinned, and super muscular (body builder type).  He is very much into the hotwife thing and loves fucking her, and being vocal about it, in front of me.  When we were sitting and talking after their first session, the conversation turned to the sex party when they first met  This was the party where Brandi fucked every guy there.  James said he was supposed to attend one that upcoming weekend after Thanksgiving but it was cancelled.  He knew some of the guys that were planning to go and they would be looking for something to do.  He had already seen Brandi in action with a bunch of guys and guessed we'd be down for it.  He was right.   Of course being all horned up already, I was game for this idea.  That next Saturday James showed up with 3 guys which was one more than I had expected.  Then, 2 more showed up shortly after.  2 of the guys were from the last sex party, but 3 were new.  So, what we had expected to be 3 guys turned into 6.  The guys were all supposed to be at the cancelled sex party and were thankful that we were hosting.  It was less of a party and more of a private gangbang.  So, Brandi spent Saturday night into early Sunday morning fucking 6 guys.  By the time I fucked her Sunday morning, she was very stretched out and full of cum, but satisfied.  Only tested guys bareback of course. 4 were.  So loose and silky smooth.  Damn, how I love it.  That was her last gangbang.

Since then, she has been selective about when and who she plays with, and has only had sex with Tre, Brandon, Martin, D, Chris, Sam, and James, and one other new guy who happens to be one of my fathers friends, which has been an interesting story and development, if not a risky one.  She did get pretty active with James at first (new toy syndrome) and fucked him a lot over the first month.  Tre and Brandon almost always seem to be a 2 for 1 thing.  They usually fuck her together.  They are best friends and basically do everything together.  The more interesting development is the relationship with my father's friend.  We met him at my parents house.  We have been spending a lot of time there since they needed the help.  Of course there have been other friends and family around to help and visiting more than usual.  One of my Dad's golf friends, Alan, is a mid 50's black guy.  Big, stocky, and muscular.  The first time we met him Brandi was looking him up and down and I thought, "Oh boy, here we go."  I was right.  Brandi was crushing on him big time.  I'm still trying to figure out her attraction to older guys, but they are her kryptonite for sure.  

Alan had been coming around to help out around the house quite a bit.  Makes me wonder if he's fucked my mom.  That's a strange thing to wonder, but a big capable black guy hanging around the house when my father was laid up made we wonder.  I don't think so, but I know for a fact he has fucked my wife.  The first time we me Alan it was innocent enough.  A few weeks later which was actually the weekend after the gangbang with James and company, we saw him again.  We offered to buy him dinner for helping out.  Given the Covid restrictions we got takeout and the 5 of us had dinner.  We had some drinks and got to know him.  He was flirting with Brandi, and she back, in a relatively innocent way my parents found cute.  Little did they know what I did.  Which was these two were courting and there was a likely chance they were going to take it further.  My parents still think Brandi is a nice innocent girl and have no idea she's a slut who spreads her legs regularly for other men.  She dresses conservatively around them and has worn nothing but baggy sweaters and sweatshirts near them since she had boobs done.  They have no idea.  
As the night progressed my Dad was tired so my Mom saw him off to bed.  I went to check in and go to the bathroom leaving Brandi and Alan alone.  Brandi told me she gave Alan a kiss on cheek and thanked him.  He jumped at the opportunity and said something to the fact that he might be crazy but he felt a connection between them.  Brandi confirmed this and told him she thought he was sexy.  She kissed him and felt his cock for a minute, before she heard me coming back down the stairs from my parents room.  My Mom joined us shortly after and Brandi pulled me to the bathroom and told me what had happened.  She flat out told me she wanted to fuck Alan.  I just told her to go for it, rekindling my fantasy of her fucking my Dads friends.  Shortly after we called it a night and Brandi offered to walk Alan out to his car.  I knew what she was up to.  My naïve Mom actually said something like, "It seems like Alan has a fancy for Brandi, you better watch out."  She said this jokingly as if Alan had absolutely no chance with Brandi and it was somehow cute.  A thought zipped across my mind about saying, "Actually Mom, one of Brandi's boyfriends reminds me a lot of Alan."  Can you imagine?  I kept it to myself.  

Later that night Brandi informed me she kissed Alan goodnight and they exchanged numbers.  She texted him the next morning to see when he was free.  He lived with his wife but he said that she was going out with some friends in the afternoon.  While we had planned on going home before then, we changed plans so Brandi could rendezvous with Alan.  So, at 1:00 that afternoon, Brandi took my car and said she was running to the mall for a few things while I watched football with my Dad.  My Mom offered to come but Brandi insisted she was gong to take her time and did not want to bore my Mom.  Brandi would return 2 hours later.  She winked at me when she came back in the door and of course did not have any new clothes with her.  She made up a story about being indecisive at the mall and deciding to get nothing when questioned by my Mom.  We left shortly after as Brandi sat in the passenger seat next to me with her latest conquests cum still dripping from her pussy.  As soon as we got home I pulled her pants down and told her what a naughty slut she was as she recapped her session with Alan and I added my load to her pussy.  Martin came over later that night and fucked her too.

Since then she has fucked Alan 3 more times, actually making the drive all the way to his house each time, and he thinks she's a cheating wife and he has hit the jackpot with this young sultry brunette.  She even clued him in on her tattoo meaning after their 3rd romp, and told him she has a thing for black guys, but no one can ever know.  After that I think he figured out that Brandi does this quite often, as she said the next time they had sex he treated her very slutty and called her names, which is the way she likes it.  She has since seen pictures of Alan's sons and commented about them.  One is just out of college and the other is in college.  I told her it would be hot as fuck if she could somehow get the chance to fuck one of them someday.  I realize this is playing with fire as I don't know how close Alan and my Dad are and if Alan will ever tell him that he fucked his daughter in law.  That would be really bad but the risk and excitement are a turn on.  

That's the latest update.  I'll try to check in more often but we've been kind of boring, by our standards anyway, lately.  

[afagehi7]

Sounds like a good family friend.

[brudan13]

It is nice to see more posts about Brandi, I do not think you are boring. It would be risky but so hot if Brandi fucked Alan and sons at the same time.

[path22]

You are no Boeing. YouTube life is intestino and exiting

[elina]

Thanks for coming back and posting,
Don't feel bad about not being able to do it often, everybody has a life to live and these days it can sometimes be more challenging for a lot of us than in "normal times".

Sincerely
elina

[Terrycart79]

Thanks for the update. This is a great new development and I hope more is to come. It's very hot that she fucked your dad's friend. It's not as weird as you think that your hot wife likes to fuck older attractive guys. Ever since I was in my early 20s, I've had a thing for attractive older women (MILFs, cougars, whatever you want to call them). There's just something hot about them. I'm 37 now and sadly I'll never get a chance to live out that fantasy, except my wife is also getting older, so I do have that. Lol

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Thank You for checking back. We always enjoy hearing what (and who) Brandi has been up to.

Mr GILF