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Hi all, Ive been thinking of getting my fiancée an anklet to wear to let those who are in the know, know that she is approachable for potential extra curricular activities. Or at the very least I think it would look good on her.

Has anyone gained more prospective bulls and or gained more attention by wearing one. I would really love to read what anyone has to say on the topic.

I bought my wife an anklet, she wore it for a few months. At swing clubs and house parties it was a topic of discussion, but no one ever commented or approached her out in the wild.

None hot wives wear anklets all the time.

No, nobody says anything. She has worn it to Playalinda nude beach various times and we expected guys we conversed with to maybe pick up on it. Actually she is approached when she’s not wearing it.

We’ve had some luck. The only place where she’s ever been approached about it was in Vegas.

My wife wears one when we go out for the purpose of subliminally putting it out there, but she has never been approached because of it. Alot of women wear them, and I think they are just generally a hot piece of jewelry to wear.

Non HW women wear them with the same frequency. So its not really an indication.
Now her eyes will send the clear message. More than one of my wife's lovers has observed that her eyes say it all. She can be dresses as a nun, but the sparkle in her eyes, her looks contain 95% of the message

My wife wears them. I bought her several different ones. She likes the gold ones and the one with the H W and a FOX head between the letters. With her long legs, it stands out. Guys notice.

I miss the choices
1 No, but she would like it
2 No, not necessary.

dressed in a short black mini, thigh highs and and heels, I took Ctwifey to one of our casinos wearing a gold glittery ankle bracelet. from the first guy that almost walked into the elevator door looking at her and catching guys glancing at her throughout the evening,she knew it was a turn on for me as well. it was a blast..!

Those look nice, occasionally noticed by some when we are out as an attractive piece of jewelry but never as symbols of their intent. The "hot wife" engraving with the classic two-men-one-woman symbol can't be read or seen by others in the distance from where they're standing or sitting near her. Perhaps some symbols might work, like a black ace of spades, but my wife's doesn't have that sort of symbol. Anklets are not generally recognized as pick-up signals by most. She doesn't wear that particular anklet any place we might be likely to encounter anyone we know but enjoys wearing it when she has the opportunity.

When out of town or on vacation, she has worn either of two hotwife tee shirts and those are certainly noticed.

calicolombia69 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 7:05 am

Non HW women wear them with the same frequency. So its not really an indication.
Now her eyes will send the clear message. More than one of my wife's lovers has observed that her eyes say it all. She can be dresses as a nun, but the sparkle in her eyes, her looks contain 95% of the message

Also just being flirty/bold. My wife went to the doctors office a couple days ago. She got out of her car (a red convertible) and a couple of guys getting out of another car said "good looking lady, good looking car". Now a hotwife would've used the opportunity to get something started, flirted etc. and may end up with a meeting later.

My wife my just smiled and said "thanks".

Des 31 wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:13 am

Those look nice, occasionally noticed by some when we are out as an attractive piece of jewelry but never as symbols of their intent. The "hot wife" engraving with the classic two-men-one-woman symbol can't be read or seen by others in the distance from where they're standing or sitting near her. Perhaps some symbols might work, like a black ace of spades, but my wife's doesn't have that sort of symbol. Anklets are not generally recognized as pick-up signals by most. She doesn't wear that particular anklet any place we might be likely to encounter anyone we know but enjoys wearing it when she has the opportunity.

When out of town or on vacation, she has worn either of two hotwife tee shirts and those are certainly noticed.

Any particular action develop from the hotwife T shirt? Did guys hit on her?

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:34 am

calicolombia69 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 7:05 am

Non HW women wear them with the same frequency. So its not really an indication.
Now her eyes will send the clear message. More than one of my wife's lovers has observed that her eyes say it all. She can be dresses as a nun, but the sparkle in her eyes, her looks contain 95% of the message

Also just being flirty/bold. My wife went to the doctors office a couple days ago. She got out of her car (a red convertible) and a couple of guys getting out of another car said "good looking lady, good looking car". Now a hotwife would've used the opportunity to get something started, flirted etc. and may end up with a meeting later.

My wife my just smiled and said "thanks".

Mine will still just say "thanks" but the tone of her voice and her eyes would be saying the rest, thereby inviting them to continue with their solicitation...

Just recently, she was followed around one of the discount clothing stores. She didnt chat, but her expression conveyed the message that it was OK for him to make an approach and state his case. 2 weeks later he had her in his bed...

MY HW doesn't have an anklet, but she does have HotWife necklace as well as the black ring.

The effect isn't on those who may see them, the effect is on my HW. Because when she wears them, it means she has a mindset about playing, therefore she dresses and behaves in a more seductive and playful way, and that attracts more potential playmates.

As has often been said, the sexiest part of a woman is her attitude.

No one seems to have noticed yet. Her anklet has 2 male symbols, one stem bigger than the other, and one female symbol. The male symbols are a way for her to advertise that she wants size.

She also has a t-shirt that has the same three symbols with one male symbol being substantially bigger. And, she has another t-shirt that says Bigger is Better. She’s worn all three at Hedo but at Hedo, it’s not like anyone notices much other than naked bodies everywhere.

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 4:09 am

None hot wives wear anklets all the time.

Au contraire, I wear one all of the time. I own several and am not without one on except when changing to another.

The real reason I wear one isn't that I expect guys to hit on me because they see it. It is because of how it makes me feel! Wearing one, I know what I am proclaiming about myself and it doesn't matter if others know what it 'means'. I know what it means, it is a show of my confidence in who and what I am.
Don't underestimate the effect it can have on the mindset of the wife wearing it and upon the mindset of her husband. It is that mindset, that confidence, and that attitude that catches the attention of men. I can have the same confidence and attitude with out wearing one but, it is more fun proclaiming who I am by wearing one!

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:34 am

calicolombia69 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 7:05 am

Non HW women wear them with the same frequency. So its not really an indication.
Now her eyes will send the clear message. More than one of my wife's lovers has observed that her eyes say it all. She can be dresses as a nun, but the sparkle in her eyes, her looks contain 95% of the message

Also just being flirty/bold. My wife went to the doctors office a couple days ago. She got out of her car (a red convertible) and a couple of guys getting out of another car said "good looking lady, good looking car". Now a hotwife would've used the opportunity to get something started, flirted etc. and may end up with a meeting later.

My wife my just smiled and said "thanks".

I too say, Thanks. But, it is all in how you say thanks.

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:37 pm

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 4:09 am

None hot wives wear anklets all the time.

Au contraire, I wear one all of the time. I own several and am not without one on except when changing to another.

The real reason I wear one isn't that I expect guys to hit on me because they see it. It is because of how it makes me feel! Wearing one, I know what I am proclaiming about myself and it doesn't matter if others know what it 'means'. I know what it means, it is a show of my confidence in who and what I am.
Don't underestimate the effect it can have on the mindset of the wife wearing it and upon the mindset of her husband. It is that mindset, that confidence, and that attitude that catches the attention of men. I can have the same confidence and attitude with out wearing one but, it is more fun proclaiming who I am by wearing one!

My wife liked wearing them even before she knew what a hotwife was. I think before she liked it as a piece of jewelry, but now it's kind of like what you say. I think it does give her confidence.

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:41 pm

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:34 am

calicolombia69 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 7:05 am

Non HW women wear them with the same frequency. So its not really an indication.
Now her eyes will send the clear message. More than one of my wife's lovers has observed that her eyes say it all. She can be dresses as a nun, but the sparkle in her eyes, her looks contain 95% of the message

Also just being flirty/bold. My wife went to the doctors office a couple days ago. She got out of her car (a red convertible) and a couple of guys getting out of another car said "good looking lady, good looking car". Now a hotwife would've used the opportunity to get something started, flirted etc. and may end up with a meeting later.

My wife my just smiled and said "thanks".

I too say, Thanks. But, it is all in how you say thanks.

Farmgirl,

Any tips for my wife? She tells me at least once a week of some random guy complementing her. Heck, maybe these random guys are seeing her anklet, but I think she's attractive.

What do you do to take the next step?

My wife wears an anklet with two male symbols and a female symbol between the two. In certain situations it has stirred some conversation. A barista noticed the anklet and recognized the symbols as MFM. That turned into some fun teasing and flirting every time she stopped for coffee. After a few visits, he wrote a little note on her coffee cup asking if she wanted to fuck. She gladly accepted and had a wild night.

I answered yes but it was only one time someone noticed at the mall in a shoe store of all places. He followed my wife around but was too afraid to say anything to her. I watched from a distance but nothing happened. She has worn an HW anklet several times in bars in Las Vegas and not one person seemed to notice. I think my wife wears it more for me than anything else. IMO for getting more attention from wearing a anklet I don't think she has.

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 6:22 pm

Farmgirl wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:41 pm

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:34 am

calicolombia69 wrote: ↑

Thu Apr 09, 2020 7:05 am

Non HW women wear them with the same frequency. So its not really an indication.
Now her eyes will send the clear message. More than one of my wife's lovers has observed that her eyes say it all. She can be dresses as a nun, but the sparkle in her eyes, her looks contain 95% of the message

Also just being flirty/bold. My wife went to the doctors office a couple days ago. She got out of her car (a red convertible) and a couple of guys getting out of another car said "good looking lady, good looking car". Now a hotwife would've used the opportunity to get something started, flirted etc. and may end up with a meeting later.

My wife my just smiled and said "thanks".

I too say, Thanks. But, it is all in how you say thanks.

Farmgirl,

Any tips for my wife? She tells me at least once a week of some random guy complementing her. Heck, maybe these random guys are seeing her anklet, but I think she's attractive.

What do you do to take the next step?

Who are these guys? These details may should be elaborated in your journal.

SteelRidge wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 7:37 am

Des 31 wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:13 am

Those look nice, occasionally noticed by some when we are out as an attractive piece of jewelry but never as symbols of their intent. The "hot wife" engraving with the classic two-men-one-woman symbol can't be read or seen by others in the distance from where they're standing or sitting near her. Perhaps some symbols might work, like a black ace of spades, but my wife's doesn't have that sort of symbol. Anklets are not generally recognized as pick-up signals by most. She doesn't wear that particular anklet any place we might be likely to encounter anyone we know but enjoys wearing it when she has the opportunity.

When out of town or on vacation, she has worn either of two hotwife tee shirts and those are certainly noticed.

Any particular action develop from the hotwife T shirt? Did guys hit on her?

Oh yeah. That was particularly true during a Florida vacation and I wrote about that in our ongoing thread. She is now involved with three regular fuckbuddies and is becoming less interested in meeting new guys, so that isn't her reason for wearing either of those tees now. She has worn one when dropping by the apartment of two young guys who are student roommates or when any one of her three rgular friends are at our home. That's more for a laugh, something like when she once hung a door hanger I had bought for her online on our bedroom door when a guy was staying overnight. The door hanger looks like something you might see on a hotel door. It reads, "Do not disturb. Your wife is fucking." Cartoon symbols of a couple fucking is shown just below those words. Her overnight guest thought it was funny - and I didn't "disturb" them.

She has worn one of the shirts when we have been at a couple of lounges in a smaller town south of us and has received comments from some guys who flirted with her but she wasn't interested in bringing any of those home with her at those times.

afagehi7 wrote: ↑

Sat Apr 11, 2020 12:22 am

Who are these guys? These details may should be elaborated in your journal.

Not much to say as it's random guys. Last week it was some guy in the grocery store parking lot saying "hey beautiful, here you go" when handing her a shopping cart. This week is was the two guys in telling her "beautiful lady, beautiful car" when going to the doctor's office. I remember another one from the week before last because Daphne said he was good looking (I thought he looked average) but I don't recall the details.