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Watching porn is often suggested as a way to pique the woman's curiosity (or plainly make her horny) during the pre-hotwife stage. This has come up again in a thread in the Hotties. My hypothesis is that most wives watched porn before becoming a hotwife, but I may be wrong.

When answering, any kind of porn viewing counts (by herself, with the husband, even initiated by the husband but she watches it with him). If she watched both kinds but had a strong preference for one, select the preferred one.

Thanks!

I’m not clear on if you are asking what we preferred or what we had actually experienced. I had seen both professional and homemade but that doesn’t tell my preference.

hwsassysouth wrote: ↑

Fri May 08, 2020 2:52 pm

I’m not clear on if you are asking what we preferred or what we had actually experienced. I had seen both professional and homemade but that doesn’t tell my preference.

Thanks for pointing this out. If she had a strong preference, it would be better to select the kind she preferred. I have clarified that above now.

il2sw wrote: ↑

Fri May 08, 2020 3:04 pm

hwsassysouth wrote: ↑

Fri May 08, 2020 2:52 pm

I’m not clear on if you are asking what we preferred or what we had actually experienced. I had seen both professional and homemade but that doesn’t tell my preference.

Thanks for pointing this out. If she had a strong preference, it would be better to select the kind she preferred. I have clarified that above now.

Happy to help!

We got into it before video on the internet was a thing, so . . .

We watched gangbang porn and she loved it.
Started swinging and did many orgies and it progressed to Hotwife.
So I can see where the porn planted the seed.

Still in pre-hotwife stage. Wife has never been interested in porn of any kind. Maybe that’s why she is still not a hotwife despite being offered the opportunity.

In essence, perhaps a willingness to watch porn has a direct bearing on likelihood of becoming a hotwife?

Still in pre-hotwife stage. Wife has never been interested in porn of any kind. Maybe that’s why she is still not a hotwife despite being offered the opportunity.

In essence, perhaps a willingness to watch porn has a direct bearing on likelihood of becoming a hotwife?

Having good information on that would assist with the dozens who show up here wondering about the chance their wives would be interested.

I wanted my wife to be my favorite porn star

My g/f and I are at the pre-discussion stage i.e. just in my head , and will be watching some porn next time we’re in bed (which will prob be Sunday night i reckon). She has mentioned she’d consider an erotic massage to happy ending, so I have a couple of vids lined up good to go - see what her reaction is.

PlayboyFan wrote: ↑

Fri May 08, 2020 9:06 pm

Still in pre-hotwife stage. Wife has never been interested in porn of any kind. Maybe that’s why she is still not a hotwife despite being offered the opportunity.

In essence, perhaps a willingness to watch porn has a direct bearing on likelihood of becoming a hotwife?

I believe it’s just going to depend on each individual wife on whether they enjoy watching porn which would lead them down the hotwife path.

My wife has been a hotwife (or swinging) for 20+ years. She has never been interested in watching porn. But she’s also probably one of the few who doesn’t watch any videos of herself or look at any of the pictures taken of her unless they were specifically taken to show potential partners.

Her opinion is that she doesn’t need to see any pics or vids of herself because she was there when they were taken. I have 2 other friends who’s wives are hotwives. One likes to view the pics as soon as she can while they are still in the camera so she can delete what she doesn’t like and the other takes spells where she will look at them and then other times she won’t care. When it comes to porn one is like my wife while the other will watch porn if she’s playing at the time but won’t watch it just to be watching porn. Long story short, it all just depends on the wife’s tastes. Each is different.

Personally I wish my wife loved to watch amateur porn. Keep the pro stuff, don’t care for it.

Until her first experience of having an affair with a coworker, she wouldn't watch porn at all. We eventually watched porn films with friends and she enjoyed those. She now watches porn clips when some men wish to watch with her.

Interesting fact, I watched more porn before becoming a hotwife than I do now. It just isn't that interesting anymore. I still read erotica however

I don't think watching porn has anything to do with whether or not you will be willing to live something out in your real life. I never once lived out something I saw in a porn movie

I don't allow nude pics to be taken of me and no video ever.

2inUPMichigan wrote: ↑

Sat May 09, 2020 11:34 am

Interesting fact, I watched more porn before becoming a hotwife than I do now. It just isn't that interesting anymore. I still read erotica however

I don't think watching porn has anything to do with whether or not you will be willing to live something out in your real life. I never once lived out something I saw in a porn movie

I don't allow nude pics to be taken of me and no video ever.

Sorry to be Off Topic, but where do you find the erotica you read? I love reading erotica like Penthouse forum- my longtime female lover and I used to read it to each other, but I don’t know if The Forum even exists anymore.

hwsassysouth wrote: ↑

Sat May 09, 2020 11:44 am

2inUPMichigan wrote: ↑

Sat May 09, 2020 11:34 am

Interesting fact, I watched more porn before becoming a hotwife than I do now. It just isn't that interesting anymore. I still read erotica however

I don't think watching porn has anything to do with whether or not you will be willing to live something out in your real life. I never once lived out something I saw in a porn movie

I don't allow nude pics to be taken of me and no video ever.

Sorry to be Off Topic, but where do you find the erotica you read? I love reading erotica like Penthouse forum- my longtime female lover and I used to read it to each other, but I don’t know if The Forum even exists anymore.

Amazon kindle is a goldmine
And I happen to be a published erotica author there too!

The wife and I loved watching porn, it always got us going, the sex was always hot and heavy . I know she loved the big cocks of the actors

My wife was a late starter having never seen porn till shortly after I took her verginity at 28. So she was very chocked and supprised by it. But with out dought help her over come her shyness over time and let her witness the opportunitys that sex offered. In later life she became very interested in IR and BDSM porn. I enjoyed 1980 porn from France and Italy but was more content with reading than seeing porn.

adamgunnauthor wrote: ↑

Fri May 08, 2020 6:12 pm

We got into it before video on the internet was a thing, so . . .

Same here. She enjoyed looking through ads in a local swinger magazine called "West Coast Swingers" but I don't consider that porn really. But it did help her realize she was not alone in wishing for ethical non monagamy.

My wife has never been too big on porn. I think she tolerates it for me, but not a big fan at all. I’ve tried to start picking more amateur porn so that it’s not all glitz and glam. The funny thing is that we’ll put something on and watch for about a minute or two and then tune it out while we get busy. Always turned into more background noise for us. I always kept trying to pick hotwife or wife sharing porn or cuckold porn without being too obvious. As of late we’ve not been watching it at all and I’ve not watched it by myself either. Our dirty fantasy talk together has pretty much ruined it for me. If I could voice record our session and just play it while I jerked the ole gherkin, I’d be happy. That was probably oversharing there a little, but you get the drift. I think I would like to see what she would pick out now as far as search terms since we’ve made a few steps into the lifestyle and sharing.

Probably husband jerking off while watching wife get pleasured!

Or caged cock!

Professional porn helped our pillow talk on the way to a cuckold relationship. I've always joked to a couple of people that Peter North was more than a little bit responsible for me becoming a cuckold. After we watched Peter in action one night, she started riding me and said "I'd like to fuck that buffed guy with the big dick."

We didn't watch porn, but enjoyed reading my top shelf magazines. Not long after we married four or five of us couples got together to watch some videos. The couple who organised it at their house got into it and started making out in front of us all, but I think we all felt embarrassed.

We tried some French sexy videos, but they were really boring.

Over the years we have realised that Ann gets turned on by romantic stories, with possibly hinted sex rather than explicit.