Our Hotwives

I'm always curious if hotwifing is trending up or down in today's society. What do you think?

I would be interested in seeing a well researched study on the topic, with a careful discussion of the methodology and how it was constructed.

My impression from a variety of sources is that it's gaining popularity, as is open marriage generally, of which hotwifing is a distinct subset. It remains taboo, however, a fringe behavior, which in some ways is a good thing because that adds to the kink.

I voted “about the same”. My opinion, for what it is worth, is that people now know more of the intricacies of what it means to be in an Open Relationship, and more people are familiar with the concepts of Hotwifing, Cuckolding, and Stag/Vixen but that doesn’t translate it a growing number of couples that enter and stay active in the lifestyle.

I’ve noticed more references to Poly relationships in popular TV shows and I believe that is leading to a better, more accepting world but I don’t think that has (yet) resulted in more couples entering the playing field.

It will be interesting to see what happens when the Covid situation is largely behind us. There is a lot of pent-up sexual energy out there and as bars open back up, and restaurant and movie houses start luring people back, I suspect at lot of that energy will end up being fulfilled; however, I also suspect that as things level back to normalcy, the heightened desire to “play”, whatever that means to a given couple, will also return to normal.

Open Relationships are still fewer than vanilla relationships and I just don’t see that changing drastically during my lifetime. I wish it would, but...

Parsifal wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 07, 2020 8:18 am

I would be interested in seeing a well researched study on the topic, with a careful discussion of the methodology and how it was constructed.

My impression from a variety of sources is that it's gaining popularity, as is open marriage generally, of which hotwifing is a distinct subset. It remains taboo, however, a fringe behavior, which in some ways is a good thing because that adds to the kink.

a recent crime tv serial had the main woman in an open relationship. It's that sort of thing being normalised that is happening.

wannabecUKold wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 07, 2020 11:55 am

a recent crime tv serial had the main woman in an open relationship. It's that sort of thing being normalised that is happening.

Netflix should do a miniseries with character development and not some superficial comedy (Hall Pass) or moralistic hit piece (Indecent Proposal).

You’re right. That is what is needed but Netflix is too prudish to do this. A European channel would be more likely to handle it. The BBC recently showed a couple of 21 year olds in full frontal nudity as it portrayed their developing relationship in Normal People.
One difficulty is deciding how the plot would end. Do they all live happily ever after in their open marriage or threesome household or does it all come to grief to suit current sensibilities?
In the meantime let’s hope for more accepting references without the usual belly laughs.

The series “Succession” has an open relationship situation insisted upon and dictated by the wife who seems to take the most advantage of it.

I think during the pandemic it's been trending down. Not because people are not interested in hotwifing but because people are being careful

We have been on a societal curve that ethical non-monogamy has been slowly growing since the 1960s. Hotwifing is part of that curve. I expect the expanding curve to continue, and sometime in the last quarter of this century (yeah, that's our kids and grandkids) a couple that practices ENM will be the standard, not the exception as it is today.

I have had this fetish for at least 20 years. And I've noticed a considerably more content on the internet.

Have also noticed it becoming more mainstream in the media. Few years back ABC News did a story about it. Psychology today. I'm cock old becoming popular in slang. Is it growing or just coming out of the closet

I believe that this lifestyle and all lifestyles/fetishes have always been in the minds off our ancestors. As a mindful openness, travel and especially the internet has evolved, it has opened all up to many more. Over the past several years, couples have been able to research and discuss thoughts and feelings on topics such as what has brought us here together.

To proposition a neighbours wife 100 years ago would have been incredibly risky, 50 years later one could travel out of town and increased possibilities. Today we have so many methods of contact and the world of travel has become accessible and affordable.

We then have porn readily available on all devices, it can be accessed instantly and freely.

With all this in mind, I believe that the numbers of people in our/all communities have grew tremendously.

Parsifal wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 07, 2020 12:02 pm

wannabecUKold wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 07, 2020 11:55 am

a recent crime tv serial had the main woman in an open relationship. It's that sort of thing being normalised that is happening.

Netflix should do a miniseries with character development and not some superficial comedy (Hall Pass) or moralistic hit piece (Indecent Proposal).

Parsifal,

Funny you would mention “Indecent Proposal”. I loved that movie for several reasons.

One, Demi Moore was smoking hot back then!

Two, It was among the most thought provoking for me as I was acutely aware how absolutely certain I would have been in encouraging my wife to sleep with the billionaire.
So much so, that I had to temper my discussions with other people lest they realize that my interest wasn’t just financial.

Hell, I realized I would have told her to do it just for fun, regardless of the money. That may have been one of the first true realizations that I had a kink.

Too bad it depicted such strife and bad results. They should remake it now and all works out nicely. Ha

PBF

I answered growing a little bit simply by the large number of young couples joining a Facebook page that we are on. I’m sure most of them are more into swinging as a couple but a few are mature enough to enjoy the hot wife lifestyle whether cuckold or not. I consider my wife to be a very hot wife although we only play when we are together and I can always join in pleasuring her whether at parties or the occasional single gentleman that we invite for a enjoyable tryst.

You're right on both counts. Demi played such a hot hotwife! And yes, why make it a tragedy? Why must the Cosmos punish a couple who takes that path? What's the point of that lesson? That happily ever after only happens if you stay monogamous? Of course....