Busy weekend, for us with the kids and for my wife’s “friends” so not much has occurred. She hasn’t texted with “Korean bbq” since the other day when she proposed meeting sometime. I asked a couple of days ago if she was going to get back together with him and she simply said, “at some point”. But, it’s kind of been their M.O. where they’ll text, exchange pics of naughty thoughts then radio silence for a month. He’s traveling the week after thanksgiving, so, if they do hook up, it’ll be in December.
She does have a lunch date with “J” set for Wednesday. After not texting for almost a week he reached out. She immediately responded and then he went silent again. She told me she felt frustrated but also it makes her want him more and she thinks he does it on purpose. She didn’t tell me when, but he clearly didn’t wait too long to text as they texted back and forth over the weekend and now have lunch plans on Wednesday. She thinks because it’s lunch during the day and she’s driving over to his neck of the woods that it’ll be a G rated lunch. I know well enough that while that may be the case and I’m not counting on anything happening, I also wouldn’t put it last either of them to figure out a way to have some fun. They haven’t seen each other in 3 1/2 weeks (who’s counting. Haha) though they did have phone sex a couple of weeks ago. Either way, they seem to be back to normal. I think maybe she’s likes this sort of drama in some way. We have no drama in our normal lives, maybe she enjoys the back and forth and while I know she likes being chased, perhaps she enjoys being the chaser a bit more than she’s like to admit.
Finally, for anyone that recalls, her old high school boyfriend and her were texting Saturday night. She asked me if I’d have him over again because he’s ‘entreating’ and when I said I didn’t remind she asked him. He asked, “threesome?” When she said no, he asked, “just the two of us?” Another no. She explained his family and ours.. with the kids. He was clearly disappointed and had a lot of questions about why she wouldn’t get with him again. As you may recall, they flirted pretty heavy, exchanged some pics, reminisced about sexy times and were pretty much on track to reconnect until he came over one night and she realized he’s nothing like how she recalled and that middle aged ex high school boyfriend did nothing for her. Unfortunately, he hasn’t quite taken the hint and has been trying to seduce her ever since. She keeps saying she doesn’t play around anymore and he just doesn’t understand. I suggested she compromise and tell him that while she won’t have sex with him, she’ll go braless when he’s here and give him some spank material, but she didn’t appreciate my attempt at humor.
She, in no uncertain terms, made it clear that she is never going to be with him again as she doesn’t find him attractive in the slightest. It’s a shame really as he is the only current person that probably would be fine with me watching so it feels somewhat like a missed opportunity. But, as she said, she has zero interest and the thought actually turns her off. She’s prefer to remember sex with him as the 19yr old former swimmer she dated than the middle-aged, balding, dad bod heavy drinker he’s turned into. Can’t say I blame her for that. She’s already got a middle-aged, dad bod drinker at home.
but you wanted me to have extra curricular “
