Figuring it out

[regular3]

Maybe G could join in the fun with A and Sir. You could tick some goals off your bucket list.

[Seekingmore12]

Lfa is far too precious to me…..while I wholeheartedly support lfa/adventures quest to “ figure it out “, I love what we have and this particular type of play is not my scene….this being said, I love kinky play and even more so lately being the “ only “ one to cum deeply inside LFA….i am equally glad that adventurer got to hear it live and cherish LFA when she returned :-).

G

[Fox]

Lfa is far too precious to me…..while I wholeheartedly support lfa/adventures quest to “ figure it out “, I love what we have and this particular type of play is not my scene….this being said, I love kinky play and even more so lately being the “ only “ one to cum deeply inside LFA….i am equally glad that adventurer got to hear it live and cherish LFA when she returned :-).

G

Sure sounds to me like LFA has figured it out at this point. The dynamic the 3 of you have is fantastic. Love reading her accounts of all of her adventures.

[Farmgirl]

How do you distill a 24 hour date down into a post? I am stumped with that at the moment. Maybe I'll try to shape it around feelings.

The first feeling was giddy anticipation and I've already described that.

The next feeling was kind of a joy and contentedness. I loved kissing G in the airport, and holding his hand as we walked outside to find a cab. I enjoyed hearing about his Florida trip, and filling him in on what he'd missed in my life. (Although that wasn't much because we texted every day). That sense of being happy just being together lasted for me for the whole time.

The third feeling was definitely lust. Poor G. He bore the brunt of me being denied orgasms for a week I was pretty good in the cab. G rested his hand just above my knee and the touch went straight to all my arousal zones. He was perfectly well behaved (well, mostly) and didn't do anything in the car, but my desire for him was strong. We checked into the hotel and the desk clerk asked about the purpose of our visit. I wanted to say, "to fuck his brains out" but instead I said, "just because" with a blush and a smile. I'm pretty sure she thought we were a married couple having a bit of a reconnection vacation. But the lust may have peaked in the elevator on our ride to the 14th floor. It was just the two of us, and G kissed me. He pushed me back against the elevator wall and I could feel his hardness pressed against me. His kiss was passionate and my hands pulled him in tighter. He was groping me, I was groping him...if the ride had been longer, I would have stripped him naked in the elevator...but we arrived at the 14th floor, so we straightened up and went to unlock our room.

Lust was soon replaced with deep, sexual satisfaction. It is hard to describe, but sex with G is always amazing. His kisses, his touches, him going down on me, me going down on him, and the feel of his cock massaging me inside. All of it is just top tier, "should win awards" good. In this instance, I came quickly and often. He was trying to make himself last, and I laughed whenever he'd get a certain look of concentration on his face because I knew he was really close to the edge. But he did manage it. After an amazingly long time (an hour? I'm not sure. But the eclipse came and went while we were distracted), he suggested that I pull out my phone and call my husband.

So I did. Adventurer answered. I asked if he was busy with work or if our daughter was around (She had the day off). He said no on both counts. Then I asked if he wanted to listen to my boyfriend filled me with cum. He gave a very enthusiastic answer. I held the phone near me as G slid back inside. He filled me deeply and I moaned. Despite his earlier marathon, he still lasted awhile fucking me quite hard. I came loudly. Then G asked if I was ready for his cum. I said I was. He asked where I wanted it and I said, "In my pussy. You are the only one who gets to cum there". He groaned in response and pumped me full. I could feel him pulsing inside me for minutes afterwards. I wrapped my legs around him and told him not to leave. He said he wasn't going anywhere.

Then, I picked up my phone and told my husband that I was going to go now and that I loved him.

There is so much about this that made me smile !!

[Farmgirl]

My friend, Adventurer, and Seekingmore12. I just caught up on your April adventures..........Wow !!

[Lookingforadventure]

Lfa is far too precious to me…..while I wholeheartedly support lfa/adventures quest to “ figure it out “, I love what we have and this particular type of play is not my scene….this being said, I love kinky play and even more so lately being the “ only “ one to cum deeply inside LFA….i am equally glad that adventurer got to hear it live and cherish LFA when she returned :-).

G

XOXO

And I love what we have too. I know that bdsm play isn't your type of thing and appreciate your lack of judgment.

[Lookingforadventure]

My friend, Adventurer, and Seekingmore12. I just caught up on your April adventures..........Wow !!

Thanks Farmgirl. It was so much fun. I mentioned to G this morning that we should do it again....soon.

[Lookingforadventure]

Summer is coming, and I'm working on my hot wife summer checklist.

- I want an overnight with G
- G and Adventurer have agreed to tag team ravage me
- I want a hotel date with Adventurer (not hot wife related, but there will definitely be fun sex)
- I'm thinking about trying a nude beach, just because

Anyone else planning anything fun?

[regular3]

Nude beach, nude beach, nude beach, nude beach.....yay

[Seekingmore12]

A picnic ?

G

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Looking into my crystal ball, I'm seeing something in a parking lot sometime this summer.

[Lookingforadventure]

Nude beach, nude beach, nude beach, nude beach.....yay

Lol. But I'm excited too.

[Lookingforadventure]

A picnic ?

G

Are you what's for lunch?

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Looking into my crystal ball, I'm seeing something in a parking lot sometime this summer.

Funny you should mention it, I met G in a parking lot yesterday! Some cops were parked nearby having coffee, so we had to settle for a long kiss. It made me want more.

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Looking into my crystal ball, I'm seeing something in a parking lot sometime this summer.

Funny you should mention it, I met G in a parking lot yesterday! Some cops were parked nearby having coffee, so we had to settle for a long kiss. It made me want more.

LFA - Workin' those Tim Bits no doubt.
- Drats foiled again.

[handcannon540]

I only started and have a long way to go, but thanks for sharing your guys stories. Hoping to catch up before the end of the month lol.

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Workin' those Tim Bits no doubt.
- Drats foiled again.

Funny you should mention that...this parking lot was across the street from a Tim Horton's, and I'm pretty sure the cops were sipping coffee and eating donuts

[Lookingforadventure]

I only started and have a long way to go, but thanks for sharing your guys stories. Hoping to catch up before the end of the month lol.

Welcome to our thread Handcannon. I'm glad you are enjoying the story. We've enjoyed living it. There have been some bumps along the way, but mostly a lot of joy. Happy reading.

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Workin' those Tim Bits no doubt.
- Drats foiled again.

Funny you should mention that...this parking lot was across the street from a Tim Horton's, and I'm pretty sure the cops were sipping coffee and eating donuts

LFA - This is why the TPS said a few months ago their call response is 22 minutes. Unless it involves coffee and donuts. Oh well lower maintenance costs when the cars aren't moving.

[Lookingforadventure]

I have a play date with Sir and Adventurer tomorrow. I'm kind of nervous. It has been a really long time since we've had a BDSM play time.

Adventurer is really excited about it. I love seeing him planning ideas with a devious smile on his face. He's been denying me orgasms for a week or so with the thought that "a horny LFA may be eager to please her sirs." LOL. I'm not sure I needed horniness to do that.

Last time we played with Sir, about 7 or 8 months ago, I had a really good time, but it was also intense. I froze a bit when I was on the spanking bench and Adventurer was paddling me while Sir attached clamps to my nipples. I didn't tap out, but it was intense, and the guys noticed that I needed a break and called a halt to it. Later, I tapped out during estim play because my body had just reached its limits (this was the last activity of our 4 hour session).

My goal for tomorrow is to not tap out at all. We will see if I can do it. Communication is so important to BDSM play, and the sub needs to be honest about how it is going, but I really don't want to disappoint anyone. I think that's where my nervousness lies. I want to be an excellent sub, and am worried I won't live up to expectations.

When I can get my mind past that hurdle, I'm quite excited about playing with suspension again. I look forward to face fucking and being the center of attention for two men. I expect lots of anal play, which I always enjoy. I also anticipate being stretched (either with toys or Sir's hand since fisting is one of my goals but we've never managed it). So many fun possibilities could transpire.

I guess nervous-excited is how I'm feeling. Wish me luck!

[ugcp]

I'm excited for all 3 of you .

Instead of making your goal (and perhaps focus) on not tapping out, it might be more effective to make your goal about enjoying yourself, or even about keeping connected with your partners. Sometimes, focusing directly on the thing we don't want to do takes us in that exact direction (like target fixation... a motorcycle thing ). Besides, how much fun can something be if you're just thinking "I need to endure this!", rather than trying to enjoy it for what it is?

I've been extremely impressed by your capacity and capabilities as a sub, based on what I've read here (and seen in those more visual forums :p), and I don't think anyone could possibly think otherwise. Try not to worry about not doing enough. Yes, easier said than done, but I know you'll do great.

I imagine you will perform your best, and experience the most, if you focus more on communication, including non-verbal, and maintaining a connected sense and energy. Granted, I've never needed to try that in such a scenario with 3 people lol. But if you can manage it, that may help keep anxieties low, and allow you to go deeper and experience more.

It may be a good idea if your tormentors also use that connection to determine when you may need breaks, and to provide them sooner than you might otherwise expect. The scenes that go deepest often have the sub thinking at the end that they could have handled much, much more - though they really probably couldn't have and also realize this themselves when reflecting back on it (or being reminded). Pacing has its benefits.

BTW, I'm not sure on the specific dynamics of your play sessions, but when I speak of being connected, that would include a flow in both directions. I'm sure them telling you how sexy you look in your torment, or how much they are enjoying themselves thanks to you would help energize and motivate you? Depending on protocols you guys use, it may be permissible for you to prompt them in moments where you could use that type of encouragement, if it is absent.

All that said, if I had a choice between a sub that handles everything I can give her, but stresses and spends the whole time focused most on performing and enduring, vs a sub that has an abslute blast with me but taps out on the 2nd act, I'm going to chose the latter every time. It just means we'd need another session as soon as possible!

Have fun!