Time for an update on leggysandy's search for Prince Charming; things have continued to be stoppy-starty, unfortunately.
I deliberately avoided telling you all very much about the new guy, because I had a feeling they'd have a fight and break up before ever meeting. He was a bit of a "drama queen" (he'd already broken it off and blocked her once) and had a tendency to send 'downer' messages first thing in the morning. She finally told him he was being a bit too much work, and he blocked her again and deleted their chats. It's a shame because when things were going well, it all seemed very promising. He was great on paper: tall, black, muscular, hung, handsome, and kinky. And his surgical specialty ... well let's just say it's the one that people use as a metaphor for 'smart'.
That same evening was her Friday dinner date with Marvin the surgeon. After dinner, while he was walking her back to her car -- whoops, they ended up naked in his hotel room. Nothing much happened besides kissing and fingering. They almost had sex, but he decided he wanted to wear a condom, then said that he has a bad reaction to them, so ... so much for that. Why he doesn't try a different type of condom, I don't know. And why these medical professionals seem to know less about sexual health than we do, I don't know either.
But here's the thing about Marvin: apparently he has a serious breeding kink. When S described their first bareback encounter in the park, she said that he asked whether she could get pregnant, and she replied that she had a coil (IUD). What she didn't hear was him muttering under his breath "that's a shame".
He seemed to have no grasp of reality. Never mind that he's afraid to have any bareback sex until he gets his blood test - he couldn't seem to hear that my wife was not willing to bear his children. He's terrified of his wife finding out he's cheating, but wants to father children as if they would exist in some other, fantasy world. He was dead serious. He wanted to come over, so he could start to become part of our family (I don't mind her having a
boyfriend, but ... no). He was feeling around inside her, and talked about how pulling out her coil would be easy. In short, he creeped us out. Even
I felt she needed to throw that fish back in the sea, despite the very promising start.
Which brings us to tonight. She's on a social date with another new guy. He has a good approach, and things have gotten fairly spicy in their chats. They've been sharing risque pics. Last night, she told him we were heading to the bedroom, and he asked whether I would take a snap of her "used pussy". Of course, I was all too happy to oblige. I said I hope he can return the favour someday soon
It was a sexy evening - that sort of thing is pretty hot. This morning, she said she thought that all 3 of us had fun doing that. He's very enthusiastic about my wife, and seems to be up for anything - does he maybe even have a bit of a sharing kink himself? That could be a lot of fun.
The date seems to be going well. Her last message said she wasn't sure at first, but that she's warming to him. "Fun and very likeable". Fingers crossed!
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But also, we met with the intention of something long term, so perhaps this was idea anyway. He did start panicking a bit that night over being reckless, but I put his mind at ease. 
maybe someday
