Wife wants to try a gangbang.

[Mlmlml120000]

Hello
My wife and I have enjoyed the lifestyle for about 2 years. Mostly her getting a sensual massage that progresses depending on chemistry. Her ultimate fantasy is some type of gangbang where I watch. She loves the idea of coning
Into a house or establishment where 4-5 guys are playing poker and it progresses from there. Any of you have ideas or feedback on how to make something like this happen. She is 47, 5’3” beautiful brunette, green eyes, awesome
Figure with nice tits/ass, incredible smile, and smoothest skin. It seems like pulling this off would be a logistical nightmare….

[SilverStag]

You can either set it up and vet the prospective players ahead of time by posting a profile on a swinger site and doing intro meetings, or just go to a swing club that allows single males (although that is really a crap-shoot as far as quality guys go). Take a listen to one of the early episodes of The Front Porch Swingers podcasts, they had an episode where the husband describes the process and difficulties he had setting up a GB for his wife. Hint: it's like planning a kid's birthday party, plan on no shows so invite more than you need to have the number you desire.

[Mlmlml120000]

Thanks for the tips and funny about kid’s bday. Just seems like a 1 in a million chance of pulling something off that works out good

[SilverStag]

It Takes planning and if you can find an existing group of guys who already know how to work together it can be great. But remember the old "shrinkage when another dick is in the room" issue with guys who worry about homophobia.

[Cdncuck]

The logistics are challenging. If you can get it all together the results are worth the effort

[Tank Turner]

Hi Mimimi120000,

Gang bang is a far more common women's fantasy than I imagined. My wife has a gang bang fantasy. My wife and I dirty talked gang bangs for years during sex. She told me that many women have that fantasy. After reading everything I could find about it, she was right.

My wife has a stranger sex fantasy, another normal and common female fantasy which accounts for one night stands. She loves fuck my wife porn because of stranger sex. Her gang bang fantasy involves 6 men, me included. We tried to make it work. Extraneous circumstances were impossible to overcome. We are diligent about preventing our kids from finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star. We couldn't risk five men in our proximity saying the same thing. My wife has plausible deniability should one man brag about fucking her.

I've never done a gang bang. Neither has my wife. Our concern was it becoming difficult to control. Five men running on testosterone could become unmanageable.

Five mature, respectful European men whom we do not know would work. Younger, inexperienced men who are running on testosterone and precluded from thought could present a danger.

BTW, during dirty talk sex, I asked my wife if she could keep six men in ecstasy. She said she could. I asked her how many men would be her limit. She didn't know.

I told my wife that I'd participate. It would be fun if it went perfectly. However, my highest concern is my wife's safety and euphoria. I'm not sure if I could enjoy a gang bang if I have to assure she's safe and treated respectfully. MFM sex requires paying attention to my wife and what another man is doing to her, so I do not interfere with their enjoyment. Paying attention to what five other men are doing would be difficult.

Gang bang will probably remain a fantasy for us.

My advice is to think it through. If you can pull it off, have an escape plan that would get your wife to safety. Vet men whom you want to participate. I'd suggest that you're always aware of what your wife is doing. Her safety should be your highest concern.

[HWJRJ18]

Go for it.
Vet the men and make sure they are comfortable being naked and performing in front of other men.
Set any limits beforehand (like no anal).
Film it if legal in your State.
Consider her being blindfolded for extra sensation.
86 anyone who doesn't play by the rules or doesn't listen.
You'll find most men are considerate in these situations, and want her to really enjoy herself.
Definitely add Black men to the mix or go all black.
Provide condoms, lube, and plenty of water.
Have porn and good lighting.
I used a combination of SLS, AFF, DL, and regulars to find men.

[mmcnx2]

Find a swingers house party, spend some time meeting folks and establish a trusted group. Then just ask the couples to help you out. I think you'll find they are more than willing to take care of her. We did this and the other wives actually provided fluffer services.

[SammySigns]

My wife wants one too, though making them happen organically is tough. Most she had was two at a time.

[Tank Turner]

Mimiml120000,

If you know a woman who's done gang bangs and if she's willing to talk with you about her gang bangs, ask her for advice.

My wife is friends with two women who've done gang bangs. One's married & the other is divorced. They told my wife that they loved gang bangs. Both told my wife that she should do at least one gang bang. Please keep in mind that that was a population size of two women. I'm sure many women have had less that pleasurable experiences with gang bangs.

[BrunetteLover]

As a man who is married to a woman who gets paid to have sex, twenty, thirty, forty times a year, this.... this is my fantasy. She has been with two men at a time, and several in a row, but never a true gang bang.

I just don't see it happening, as she sees men one at a time and never in groups anymore.

Caution, that we gave up party dance, in which she would pair-off with a guy or two later on, for safety reasons. Men in groups can be assholes.

[sw6]

I dated a gal who was in an open swinging relationship. She admitted to me and asked me to set up a deal where guys met with us in a hotel bar and she chose who got to come upstairs. Her thought was 10 for BJs and 5 stay for sex. Her husband was all for it but didn't care to join which is where it fell apart, she couldn't understand why he wouldn't.
Famously she said she could easily take care of 5 guys simultaneously = mouth, pussy, ass and two hands!
I still have all the emails I accumulated for this kind of thing - guys chatted with that suggested they experienced or were interested in GBs. I wonder how many I have on that list?
My understanding is to invite twice as many as you want to show.
My way of finding men was in various chat forums or messaging encounters (here even!)
There was one fellow who was with my wife regularly and would join me with others
Try it you'll like it - I especially like the serving for the poker game scenario
I had one gal I dated that I was so close to get to come to do that. She said add another guy add another guy to our romps and finally said ok to a girl

[jw_kk]

Gang-bangs are my wife’s favorite sort of encounter. KK’s first experiences were in college; a frat party bang where she pulled a train, later a dog-pile event during a bachelor party.

We’ve been doing this for more than twenty years now, in so many variations I’ve lost track.

The logistics of a gang-bang, for the organizer can be challenging. As many have suggested, you have to over-invite, juggle schedules, figure out a venue, provide for safety and comfort of the center, and so on. A lot of work, sometimes for little reward or an undesired outcome.

Lower inertia routes for gang-banging, from my experience:

- lifestyle clubs or house parties, where the men will already be present: the downside is you don’t necessarily pick the bangers

- if you travel, particularly to places like the U.K., there are clubs that regularly host “greedy girl parties,” designed to allow women to experience group/gang-bang sex: same as the first option, you don’t get to pick the men

- gang-bang groups (FetLife can be a source for these), with possibly more influence on the male attendees

- more rarely these days, adult book stores/theaters, or certain cruising spots: this is a riskier, more sketchy approach, but in some aspects the risky sex adds an additional dimension to the eroticism, same as all the other low-effort approaches you don’t get to pick the men

[Pixunine]

My wife and I really enjoy the idea of a gangbang. She has flirted with a few men who are all in the same area but unfortunately too far away from us to meet and greet with each of them individually.

Eventually we may want to schedule a weekend trip to that area and meet them all at once

[jesseejames29]

We've never done it but she's fantasized about it during sex so as a loving husband I checked into how to best set one up. To keep things short, the best way is to find people who have actually done it before to avoid a logistical nightmare. Chances are there is a Lifestyle Club near you, ask them if they can point you in the right direction. We are on SLS and on the group page I found an Interracial Group(sorry if this isn't your thing), I emailed them and they told me they could set one up for us. We are in a break at the moment but hopefully someday we can work towards this.

[jw_kk]

In our experience, one of the double-edged swords, so to speak, of club or on-premise gang-bang events relates to the males (bangers to use the culture's terminology).

Some club environments vet male bangers on a number of criteria, as well as charging a moderate to substantial fee. They try to weed out men that will be less desirable attendees through their vetting process. Other venues are basically all-cummers (sorry for the pun) - they will take any dude that can pay the door fee.

The less vetting by the venue operator there is, the more likely:

- the bangers will be a mixed bag, some under-endowed, some unattractive, etc.
- there are often more gay/bi/voyeurs in lesser-screened events, out mostly to have sex with other guys, or watch and jack off, instead of participate
- the center (women) gets put in the position, sometimes uncomfortable, of deciding on the fly who will get to penetrate her, and how, as well as outright rejecting those she finds unattractive or otherwise unsuitable

Probably our best experience was with a bar owner who's main gig was running said bar, with the side gig of closing to the public one night a month for an organized gang-bang event. He and his pals organized the event, including screening the bangers, STD testing, running the venue, etc. All KK and I had to do was show up. The men were all reasonably attractive, endowed, and able to perform, all active participants, and cognizant of the rules.

The worst experience was at a strip club that had 'amateur nights' - we traveled to engage in this opportunity, which was pretty much random horny men from the audience intent on doing whatever they wanted to KK. We called an early exit on that encounter.

Also, many on-prem venues will have their own rules, ranging from requiring condom use, to what sort of contact is permissible (often ruling out any bi action among the bangers).

[Cookiescream]

I’d recommend taking your wife to a sex club so she can watch one or two or three gangbangs and see if she likes it. Maybe you’ll meet some good prospects there too. Setting one up outside a club must be difficult unless you’re in the scene.

[BT2]

Both my wife (a hotwife) and I have had various fantasies over the years, including a gangbang fantasy. We never tried it because our circle was never near large enough to try to arrange it. Then one evening she was with a guy , the first time they were together. He suggested, and his wife a few days later invited my wife for, a gang bang. We thought "here is a chance to try it". We were had. The other men "couldn't turn up". There was only this couple and another guy. Then it turned out the other wife would not permit her husband to fuck anybody in front of her. The other guy and my wife had intercourse, it was o.k., she never wanted to see the original husband again, and she never had her gangbang.

From reading this thread, it appears that a gang bang fantasy is not entirely unusual, and it is near impossible to arrange.