Very wise decision. I've found that the more control she has the better the experience as well as the happier the lady!EliMySexyWife wrote: ↑Sat Dec 30, 2023 9:19 pmWe are just back from a mini vacation. She continued to be in touch with her friend during the vacation and exchange a couple of IM every day. She told him that she is going to meet him at his place this Monday. Monday is a holiday and she will be there right after the lunch and have more time to enjoy!
Last night she said still she does not want-to-do/ready-for some certain things yet. I told her it is absolutely OK however it would be better if she take control of the things she want to do and enjoy them. She agreed. I am continuously support her without any push or restriction. She feels comfortable sharing her thoughts with me as it makes it better to pass the hard concrete walls of shyness/other-judgements/social-norms/social-constructs/upbringing
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Happy New Year to you and your Eli, hope everything goes just the way she wants it to go when she goes to his house and into his bedroom.
Looking forward to your next update, hopefully with only positive outcomes!
Looking forward to your next update, hopefully with only positive outcomes!
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So today was the first day of 2024 and she started it with some improvement! She went to him and ended up in his bedroom and there was a full topless show of a lover and a vixen hotwife for 4 hours!
When at home, she told me that she is afraid of herself as the biggest danger? I asked "why?". She was amazed how wild she could become. She was worried this could end up in intercourse and she thinks she is not ready for it and wants to do it in a nice hotel suite!
When at home, she told me that she is afraid of herself as the biggest danger? I asked "why?". She was amazed how wild she could become. She was worried this could end up in intercourse and she thinks she is not ready for it and wants to do it in a nice hotel suite!
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Did she only let him play with her boobs for 4 hours, did she not let him explore the rest of her body, did she not give him a BJ or Hand job, he must be a saint
Did he strip down to play as well, did she get to experience his skin, how did this make her feel
It has taken time, see seems to be completely comfortable now
So when are you arranging the hotel
Did he strip down to play as well, did she get to experience his skin, how did this make her feel
It has taken time, see seems to be completely comfortable now
So when are you arranging the hotel
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I keep feeling like I should sound a note of caution, here. Of course we'd all love for Eli to join the hotwife club, but at the same time, no one wants to see things go wrong for you two. If you're sure I'm wrong, then just ignore me .
She is warning you about something, and I think you should listen to what is (maybe) not being said out loud. The fact that she's taking an extraordinarily long time to become physical with this guy suggests to me that she is not separating sex from love, and not viewing this as a fun sexual adventure. It seems more like she is building a strong romantic connection, and that each cautious physical progression perhaps signals an emotional one as well.
While I'm sure she's enjoying this, is she also kind of worried/torn, waving the "somebody stop me" flag, knowing that she's going down a dangerous path?
I don't want to be a downer or try to ruin anyone's fun, but something doesn't feel right from my curious onlooker's perspective. It's ... unusual.
She is warning you about something, and I think you should listen to what is (maybe) not being said out loud. The fact that she's taking an extraordinarily long time to become physical with this guy suggests to me that she is not separating sex from love, and not viewing this as a fun sexual adventure. It seems more like she is building a strong romantic connection, and that each cautious physical progression perhaps signals an emotional one as well.
While I'm sure she's enjoying this, is she also kind of worried/torn, waving the "somebody stop me" flag, knowing that she's going down a dangerous path?
I don't want to be a downer or try to ruin anyone's fun, but something doesn't feel right from my curious onlooker's perspective. It's ... unusual.
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Well, as a thoughtful husband, it seems you should start preparing for that eventuality, and begin researching a charming "Honeymoon Suite", where your wife can lose her HW cherry in complete privacy, so she can give herself with reckless abandon. That outcome she is so afraid of, is the exact path she needs to explore.
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Thanks for expressing your concern. I appreciate it.
What you said is very valid and I have talked about it to my wife and she has also told the lover that this is just occasional FWB and no status change is in the forecast. The fact is my wife cannot become a hotwife right-away. She is enjoying this but she could never have sex in the 2nd meeting. This is moving toward polyamory and we need to take care of it.
What you said is very valid and I have talked about it to my wife and she has also told the lover that this is just occasional FWB and no status change is in the forecast. The fact is my wife cannot become a hotwife right-away. She is enjoying this but she could never have sex in the 2nd meeting. This is moving toward polyamory and we need to take care of it.
leggysman wrote: ↑Tue Jan 02, 2024 2:04 amI keep feeling like I should sound a note of caution, here. Of course we'd all love for Eli to join the hotwife club, but at the same time, no one wants to see things go wrong for you two. If you're sure I'm wrong, then just ignore me .
She is warning you about something, and I think you should listen to what is (maybe) not being said out loud. The fact that she's taking an extraordinarily long time to become physical with this guy suggests to me that she is not separating sex from love, and not viewing this as a fun sexual adventure. It seems more like she is building a strong romantic connection, and that each cautious physical progression perhaps signals an emotional one as well.
While I'm sure she's enjoying this, is she also kind of worried/torn, waving the "somebody stop me" flag, knowing that she's going down a dangerous path?
I don't want to be a downer or try to ruin anyone's fun, but something doesn't feel right from my curious onlooker's perspective. It's ... unusual.
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Actually I have selected a nice hotel for 1-2 nights however although my wife likes it, she still believes she is not ready for the full act.BallSpanking wrote: ↑Tue Jan 02, 2024 8:01 amWell, as a thoughtful husband, it seems you should start preparing for that eventuality, and begin researching a charming "Honeymoon Suite", where your wife can lose her HW cherry in complete privacy, so she can give herself with reckless abandon. That outcome she is so afraid of, is the exact path she needs to explore.
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Yes, he is either a saint or he does not have a dick! My wife is worried about the 2nd!!! Seriously, this time she went over him and she then complained that she could not feel anything between her legs! I told her maybe he was not erect at the time or the pants was blocking it!skoot1958 wrote: ↑Mon Jan 01, 2024 11:22 pmDid she only let him play with her boobs for 4 hours, did she not let him explore the rest of her body, did she not give him a BJ or Hand job, he must be a saint
Did he strip down to play as well, did she get to experience his skin, how did this make her feel
It has taken time, see seems to be completely comfortable now
So when are you arranging the hotel
Yes, he was topless also and my wife enjoyed his hairless skin and was happy about it (I am a gorilla!). She expected more muscles though! She like muscular men!
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Does he keep his clothes on?
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Seem like it may be time to have a good rummage to see what equipment he has and if her can get it hard, size etc, maybe she is wasting her time with him
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In the Monday afternoon date at his place, my wife showed some wild agency that even shocked herself. She jumped over him and started to kiss him from lips to belly button. This was the time she felt she is enjoying it a lot! She was at the same time proud and shy of what she did but I assured her that this is the path to go!
Anyway, she is going to be there again today in a few hours to resume the act!
Anyway, she is going to be there again today in a few hours to resume the act!
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This time I think she need to free the beast to see what her has, I look forward to an update
She needs to own this for herself and only for herself
Tell her to enjoy herself by 20 again, life is to short
She needs to own this for herself and only for herself
Tell her to enjoy herself by 20 again, life is to short
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A bump for beautiful Eli ...
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She came back after a 5.5-hour date last night. The last 30 minutes were really hard for me, as I was worried something might have happened.
Her location was still shown at his place, but I couldn't call her because her phone goes on Do Not Disturb after 8 pm. Anyway, she was home at 10:10 pm, and she told me they did everything except for explicit things like intercourse (non-porn level of activities). They took of everything except for her panties and his boxers.
This time, I could rarely see any signs of guilt or shyness in her. She mentioned that she is enjoying it. She even let him take two photos of her in bed on her phone.
She is getting herself ready for the final act!
Her location was still shown at his place, but I couldn't call her because her phone goes on Do Not Disturb after 8 pm. Anyway, she was home at 10:10 pm, and she told me they did everything except for explicit things like intercourse (non-porn level of activities). They took of everything except for her panties and his boxers.
This time, I could rarely see any signs of guilt or shyness in her. She mentioned that she is enjoying it. She even let him take two photos of her in bed on her phone.
She is getting herself ready for the final act!
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Ok so before she share the photo make sure no face
So she did they actually get up to, she has moved a long way, did he give him a HJ or BJ, did he get hands in her clit or in her ?
Progress must be time to book that hotel for the HW cherry popping
So she did they actually get up to, she has moved a long way, did he give him a HJ or BJ, did he get hands in her clit or in her ?
Progress must be time to book that hotel for the HW cherry popping
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Eli may soon become a HotWife ...!
Fingers crossed!
Fingers crossed!
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Do you mean sharing the photo here on line?
No BJ or HJ or PL as the panties and boxer was always on.
Yes, I can hear the pop sound!
No BJ or HJ or PL as the panties and boxer was always on.
Yes, I can hear the pop sound!
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I hope she surrenders herself fully and bareback to her lover. The poor guy deserves a medal for the longest running blue-balls on record!
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If the photo was Eil gift to your that’s fine, if she wants to share with her BF no face, as he may be a BF today then nothing in 6 month's, I assume your icon is Eil nice looking woman
My wife loves me going down on her with her panties still on she live the rub of the material on her clit, I am sure these where very nice sexy panties, my dick would have been popping out of the top of my boxers
Was your reclaim all you expected, was she wild for you
She is ready, not sure how she will hold back next time they have a date
My wife loves me going down on her with her panties still on she live the rub of the material on her clit, I am sure these where very nice sexy panties, my dick would have been popping out of the top of my boxers
Was your reclaim all you expected, was she wild for you
She is ready, not sure how she will hold back next time they have a date
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The photo on my profile is not hers. It is a porn actress with a similar face structure.
your words are wise. I will show it to her.
your words are wise. I will show it to her.
skoot1958 wrote: ↑Fri Jan 05, 2024 11:46 pmIf the photo was Eil gift to your that’s fine, if she wants to share with her BF no face, as he may be a BF today then nothing in 6 month's, I assume your icon is Eil nice looking woman
My wife loves me going down on her with her panties still on she live the rub of the material on her clit, I am sure these where very nice sexy panties, my dick would have been popping out of the top of my boxers
Was your reclaim all you expected, was she wild for you
She is ready, not sure how she will hold back next time they have a date
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She is going to be there again today, weather permitting. She did not have any plan to go this week but he insisted and she simply accepted!
He asked her to bring another outfit for some reason she still don't know why.
The previous time he asked for another panty, she took it there and he asked to keep the one. So she forced him out of the bedroom, changed to the clean set and gave him to messy one! He still holds it.
He asked her to bring another outfit for some reason she still don't know why.
The previous time he asked for another panty, she took it there and he asked to keep the one. So she forced him out of the bedroom, changed to the clean set and gave him to messy one! He still holds it.
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How did the date go yesterday? Everyone's on pins and needles!
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She had a great time with him, spending a total of 5 hours together, with 3 hours in bed. They both undressed completely but remained under the linen. My wife got adventurous a few times, engaging in passionate activities without genital contact or exposure, going over him and kissing him extensively. He reciprocated similarly.
He kissed almost every part of her body, excluding her genitalia. Surprisingly, she allowed him to kiss her above the vulva.
She is avoiding intercourse, and he respects her boundaries, although they seem to be expanding each time.
The crucial point is that she feels very happy, liberated, and without any sense of shame, regret, or feeling dirty. When she returns home, she can make full eye contact with me. Previously, she felt guilty, despite my reassurances millions of times!
She also requested him to undergo an STD test, as I had asked. He wondered, "Is that why you're not letting me make love to you?" She replied, "No, the decision for no full sex is mine. My husband has asked us to do this as it will give us peace of mind and we can skip using condoms!"
Back at home, she made passionate love to me.
There are many amusing aspects to their encounter. She has transformed into a new woman. She even worried, "This man may not have such a big toolbox! I couldn't feel anything over the linens!" This is the same woman who couldn't even look at profiles with private parts on dating apps!
She expressed a desire to spend one night in a hotel with him. I insist that one night may not be enough, but she disagrees.
She even asked me, "Don't you want us to reach our 25th anniversary before I do this??!?! (that would be early April)." I asked, "If you like, but why? Is your pussy synchronized like a solar system comet that appears every 25 years to welcome a new dick?" She laughed!
It's a significant improvement from her previous statements. This is a
- before accepting to try a date: "I will suicide if I do this. Do you like to lose me forever?"
- before the first date: "I may suicide right after this. Do you want to take such a risk?"
- "I will have my first date, but I know I will not be able to continue. This is not me."
- "The date was okay, but why should we do this?"
- "I really enjoyed it, but shouldn't we just have a similar date ourselves instead? Why do we need a third person?"
- "I am okay with going naked; it is fun, but I can never have intercourse!"
- "I'd like to have intercourse with this guy, but shouldn't we complete our 25th year first?"
He kissed almost every part of her body, excluding her genitalia. Surprisingly, she allowed him to kiss her above the vulva.
She is avoiding intercourse, and he respects her boundaries, although they seem to be expanding each time.
The crucial point is that she feels very happy, liberated, and without any sense of shame, regret, or feeling dirty. When she returns home, she can make full eye contact with me. Previously, she felt guilty, despite my reassurances millions of times!
She also requested him to undergo an STD test, as I had asked. He wondered, "Is that why you're not letting me make love to you?" She replied, "No, the decision for no full sex is mine. My husband has asked us to do this as it will give us peace of mind and we can skip using condoms!"
Back at home, she made passionate love to me.
There are many amusing aspects to their encounter. She has transformed into a new woman. She even worried, "This man may not have such a big toolbox! I couldn't feel anything over the linens!" This is the same woman who couldn't even look at profiles with private parts on dating apps!
She expressed a desire to spend one night in a hotel with him. I insist that one night may not be enough, but she disagrees.
She even asked me, "Don't you want us to reach our 25th anniversary before I do this??!?! (that would be early April)." I asked, "If you like, but why? Is your pussy synchronized like a solar system comet that appears every 25 years to welcome a new dick?" She laughed!
It's a significant improvement from her previous statements. This is a
- before accepting to try a date: "I will suicide if I do this. Do you like to lose me forever?"
- before the first date: "I may suicide right after this. Do you want to take such a risk?"
- "I will have my first date, but I know I will not be able to continue. This is not me."
- "The date was okay, but why should we do this?"
- "I really enjoyed it, but shouldn't we just have a similar date ourselves instead? Why do we need a third person?"
- "I am okay with going naked; it is fun, but I can never have intercourse!"
- "I'd like to have intercourse with this guy, but shouldn't we complete our 25th year first?"
Greg_N_Shelley wrote: ↑Thu Jan 11, 2024 7:12 pmHow did the date go yesterday? Everyone's on pins and needles!
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This is great progress, first let’s hope he has the tools and skills to make this a memorable night, was he ok with the SDT screening, it is a responsible thing that new couples should do
April is along time to wait, what about next week
April is along time to wait, what about next week