Expanding Opportunities

[Tank Turner]

Merry Christmas to All Members,

We have missed potential opportunities due to our nonnegotiable requirement of anonymity and undesired contact. We have taken every precaution possible to prevent our kids from finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

What is the most secure cellphone apt for untraceable calling and texting? My wife has never given her cellphone number to any man. She has always taken their numbers. We could expand potential opportunities using an apt will an untraceable voice calling and texting number. For members who use a "burner" number, which apt has been successful for you?

[Hotwife_57]

When we get comfortable enough to the point of taking things offline, we exchange phone numbers and we always give them my husbands. We usually both get on the line for an initial phone call to setup an in person meet and greet but my husband always handles everything for us. I call him my Agent lol. We do select potential playmates together although. So far we have had no problems at all. We ask for as much info as we can because we want to know a lot about you before we ever meet. This is very important to us. Is your worry about the kids getting into your phone or your wife's anonymity?

[2inUPMichigan]

I never give out my real phone number, last name, or address. Safety is a top priority for us. Play time is play time and home time is home time. I do not want someone showing up at my home.

I have been using a Google Voice number since I started and have it routed to my cell phone. It assigns you a regular phone number that you can give out (and it's free). You call make calls or text just like a regular phone.

I was using kik a lot in the past for texting but it has changed a lot since it changed ownership.

[Tank Turner]

Merry Christmas Hotwife_57,

It always good to have an agent ;-)

My wife has always selected men she wanted to have sex with. She has asked me to surprise her with men, but I haven't. I've been afraid because if I were to bring a man home as a surprise, she might not to have sex with him. She has always asked me whether I was good with men she has chosen. So far, she's been perfect. She does have an elaborate vetting process.

We do not want a phone number traced to us for fear our kids will find out that their angelic mom is a bedroom porn star, and it's possible that our lifestyle might result in termination of her management contract.

[Tank Turner]

Merry Christmas 2upinMichigan,

I completely agree with you about not providing anyone with identifying information.

My wife is most comfortable doing MFM sex in our bedroom. It's an environment we can control. She has believable plausible deniability scripted should she needed it. So far, she hasn't. Except for a close friend, we never go to men's homes because we would not know whether he has hidden recording devices and because of safety concerns.

When men have asked for her number, she has refused and countered with asking for their numbers.

I've been exposed to mixed reviews about Google Voice, most problematic is Google retaining users' personal info. We want no records retained.

Our kids are old enough to not need a sitter and old enough to get into trouble if they're not monitored. Worse, it would be entirely possible for one or both to come home unannounced and catch their angelic mom porn starring in MFM sex.

We know that we'll have to do hotel rooms and communicate with men using an untraceable phone number.

[SilverStag]

We don't give out Cecil's contact info until we have both vetted, met and she has approved of the guy (up to that point he has only my number for contact). Once that decision has been reached, the rule is text only (no voice calls) and we are both looped in on the text thread to ensure transparency.

You can always block a guy from contacting you if he proves problematic. You can use a burner phone if you want, but we have not run into any guys who were problematic since we began operating this way. (If you can't trust them to take "no" for an answer, why in the world would you allow them to have sex with your wife?)

Next, we never play at our home. Hotels are a great way to ensure no one has "home field advantage" or finds out personal details you don't choose to divulge, and they are relatively inexpensive (especially during mid-week). On that note, we require the guy to pay half of the hotel cost just to keep it even. Using a hotel means no one knows or accidentally walks in, and you don't have to worry about cleaning up the place afterwards (just ensure you tip housekeeping)

[SilverStag]

Just a side rant...We recently met a candidate who, throughout our initial meeting kept referring to what a "High Profile" career he has (we know his employer...it isn't that sensitive a position, nor that picky an employer) and how he really needs to be discrete and was overly concerned about being "outed". Like we go around posting our stuff on billboards or something. He contacted us on the same swinger site that we use, so he's already got a digital footprint connecting him to the LS> We have as much skin in the game as he does, yet he approached us asking to have sex with Cecil but continually mentioning how worried he is about being found out by his employer.

If you aren't willing to take reasonable risks, this isn't the game for you.

We told him to not contact us again.

[Tank Turner]

Hi SilverStag,

I agree with you that vetting is extremely important. My wife usually does most of the vetting. Sometimes I'll ask a clarifying question. My wife and I will talk in confidence before she'll invite a guy to join us. If we don't talk in confidence, she has already eliminated him.

There is risk in everything we do in life. The crucial aspect of our lifestyle is to identify potential risks and attempt to mitigate them.

[Tank Turner]

So far, it looks like the Burner app seems to be the best option.

[Thenokidclub]

Could create an SLS account and message on there. Signal is the most secure app, but requires a phone number. Kik does not. Telegram asks for a phone number, but you can set it so that your phone won’t be disclosed to others.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Thenokidclub,

Ideally, we'd like to contact men in distant cities. We can't post our photos on websites for fear our kids will find out that their angelic mom is a bedroom porn star.

For now, because our kids are becoming aware and intuitive adolescents, we cannot rely on our bedroom. If we meet men with potential, we'd like a way to contact them later to set up a meeting. So far, it looks like an untraceable second line app is the most suitable for us.