Wife finally did it and now I'm jealous

[readyy2009]

I would love to hear a follow up on this to see if the Genie can be put back into the bottle and the fall out from that...I don't think I have ever read a discussion of that on here

[Blackjack4724]

Okay pal... I understand your jealousy. But let's break this down...

The thought of taking another guy probably never entered your lady's mind, it was you that brought up the subject. You probably banged on about it for years, eventually the lady's mind started to fantasise too. Thinking you were okay with it... and indeed it's what you wanted, to satisfy your desire the lovely girl agreed to fulfill your fantasy. What a wonderful wife you have.

Now the jealousy that came when you saw her with her buck is because your mindset wasn't right. Your lady doesn't love that guy, she loves you... that's why she was fucking him for you. She makes love to you... not her buck. She was using him to satisfy your desire to see her get fucked. It can't be denied that she loved his 9 inch cock pounding into her soft wet pussy but come on... what gal wouldn't?

Everything she did that night was for you... she thought it was what you wanted and she gifted you with the images and sounds you now hold in your head.

Your jealousy is miss placed my friend. That buck is jealous of you because she's your lady and you can have her as much as she'll let you. He was just a hard cock to her. Embrace what you now have.

That’s a little deep. Well said

This is something we tell new couples all the time. Well put, and I must add that we can’t emphasize enough on communication. A lot of these feelings could have been avoided if you would have just talked to her prior to the encounter. Of course she fucked him, it’s what you wanted, but what you failed to do is be true to yourself and think how things would go if she actually followed thru with it.
Since you guys didn’t talk thru every possible scenario, she just thought you wanted to watch her fuck another guy. Well it happened and as everyone has stated here, you got what you wished for. Now you’re realizing oops, you guys should have had a lot of discussion before hand.
It’s too bad you feel this way but the best thing you can do is have some real conversations and set rules and guidelines that work for you both. I wish you well.

[Mysexywife900]

OP hasn't been back in a couple of months, maybe he let his jealousy get the better of him.

I hope not and he will return soon.

Hopefully, they work it out. And, he did give us a good topic to discuss - the jealousy that can arise when the fantasy finally comes to life.

No I'm here me and wife are good she has mentioned him again so I'm waiting for her to tell me she wants to set another date

[Tank Turner]

I would recommend at least blurring her face unless you are somewhere you don't care if people find out.

^^^That is extremely wise advice^^^

Hunter Biden could easily cut 'n' paste a naked pic of your wive and add it to his Pornhub account ;-)

[DaveS]

OP hasn't been back in a couple of months, maybe he let his jealousy get the better of him.

I hope not and he will return soon.

Hopefully, they work it out. And, he did give us a good topic to discuss - the jealousy that can arise when the fantasy finally comes to life.

No I'm here me and wife are good she has mentioned him again so I'm waiting for her to tell me she wants to set another date

Good to hear! We will look forward to your next report.

[blackmann33]

No I'm here me and wife are good she has mentioned him again so I'm waiting for her to tell me she wants to set another date

Dude, you're human. Cut yourself a break for making a mistake and save your marriage if needed. A good fuck is not worth sacrificing the happines of your marriage.

[DCaftermath]

Well, you had us wondering about you in your absence. This lack of “speak” can be part of the problem. You have to talk this stuff out.

I have some experience but probably quite a novice compared to others. I’ve done it a hand full of times but to be honest each time was pretty good and I came away just tickled, and a couple of them were very endowed.

But there was one time, the last time in fact, that I got an eye full. He too was 9” but to be honest one of the prior ones was a lot bigger. But he was very much a gentleman, used a ton of lube and went good and easy. However back to the 9” guy and the most recent. He was much more virile, and his stamina, well he gave her a run for her money. It was incredible to watch and when he finished she was a messy, sweaty, flush mess and she was quite impressed and said so right in front of both of us.

I was running a high from the occasion and didn’t think much of it until probably a couple days later. I’ll be honest I got caught up in some inadequate feelings. Here’s where I’ve got some advice for you. Sit her down and talk to her. Ask her how it was for her and what she liked about it. Tell her the truth how it made you feel both the good and the bad. Listen to every damned word she says. I don’t know her but if she sees that you struggled and how you want to be good with it, she may talk you down off that ledge. In fact in my opinion she’s the only one that can. But she’s got to feel your vulnerabilities.

It’s already been said, but you will want this again. Not likely to go away. You’ll need to do some re-wiring in your brain but chances are you can get to a place where you can see her get railed and love it. I know I can but it takes some contemplation and soul searching.

[Mysexywife900]

I'm here. Everything is fine she's seen him a few more time with me there

[readyy2009]

How did you get to be OK with it? What were the discussiions with your wife like?

[BallSpanking]

I'm here. Everything is fine she's seen him a few more time with me there

What does that mean?

They had sex and you watched?
Or, they went on dates and you chaperoned?

[Shiphead]

There is so much missing information in this story. I read at the beginning of this post that there were pictures posted and taken down. Not sure if I missed some prior post so with that in mind, I have a comment.
Many of you were being extremely hard on OP IMO. How does that help him? He also didn't say he wanted to be a cuck. He may not have wanted all that comes with being a cuck. Maybe he wanted a Vixen type relationship. The problem comes when the wife wants a real relationship with the new cock. That seems like a dangerous way to start this hobby. Seems like most guys head into this without all the work that needs to happen between the married couple. As everyone says, communication is the first most important step.
Maybe we need to put together a short checklist for the guys.
Damn. Getting long.
When my ex and I decided the LS might be interesting, we were both happily monogamous.. I just thought and shared that it would be amazing to add something different that we could share together. We decided a stunt cock would be the easiest first step. With me watching or joining. No other choice. That is what I needed in exchange for adding another man and it was my idea and desire.
We decided to try it once. Then we would talk about it and see how each of us felt before planning anything further. It's that simple. The guy would only have my contact info and we would meet at a place distant from our real lives. I also knew we were both in love and that a cock wouldn't come between us. Enough from me.