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Hi all,

Long time lurker. My wife (31) and I (37) are from NY and very curious about her experiencing something new and exciting. We're both nervous about this process but think it can be spectacular for her. How does one seek a potential bull for her for something sensual, romantic, yet riveting and maybe long term? Is there a specific space for those kinds of discussions and potential meetups?

There are personals on here, don't know how effective they are.

There are all kinds of dating sites, from Tinder to Adult Friend Finder (AFF) and countless others. I think Tinder and AFF are more for quick hook-ups. As an older couple working on rekindling the hotwife experience, we have found Ashley Madison to be very good. They cater to married people and it seems the men responding on there generally are more mature, less pushy and looking for longer term.

You two are at a wonderful age to start, I think most couples start a little older. I wish you the very best and good luck in pursuing your desires...

At that age (30s), my wife was at her least active in any edgy behavior. Stripper in her 20s and stripper/hooker in her 40s and 50s.

Why? Kids. She felt she had to play it straight until the kids were at least in middle school.

When the family go to that point, she told me things about herself I had no idea of (stripper) and what her plans were really since high school (becoming an escort).

What a ride.