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Can any more experienced members here tell me if there is a meaning when a woman wears an anklet and toe ring combo? In the case I am thinking of, she is wearing one on each foot. I think it is also called a bare sandal. Is this just a decoration or is there some lifestyle meaning? Looking online I have seen both yes and no, so am hoping some of you can clear it up.

Unless the anklet says "HotWife" or something else suggestive, it is just decoration. Same thing as the black ring on the right hand...just a legend.

A playmate of mine many years ago enjoyed her "transformation" from the prim and proper businesswoman into a fantasy persona that was often, in part, an "odalisque". Among the elements that she included many times was this same sort of ankle and toe ring "barefoot sandal" as you describe. There was *great* meaning to her, as even putting those on were a part of her shedding the day to day life and shifting into her role, her arousal an intended consequence of going barefoot or nearly so. In private the costumery could be more elaborate and erotic but in public there were rarely any other outwardly visible changes, the others safely secretly under her clothes.

Wearing those barefoot sandals was not intended to send messages to anyone else though others did notice them and a very few (I think only the women) might make a comment. Any more than that was an unwanted distraction from her internalized enjoyment of her secret self.

So, no, those are not an invitation, but as SilverStag points out only decoration. Enjoy the view and make no assumptions.

Prof Wood

frank12 wrote: ↑

Tue May 21, 2024 3:10 am

A playmate of mine many years ago enjoyed her "transformation" from the prim and proper businesswoman into a fantasy persona that was often, in part, an "odalisque". Among the elements that she included many times was this same sort of ankle and toe ring "barefoot sandal" as you describe. There was *great* meaning to her, as even putting those on were a part of her shedding the day to day life and shifting into her role, her arousal an intended consequence of going barefoot or nearly so. In private the costumery could be more elaborate and erotic but in public there were rarely any other outwardly visible changes, the others safely secretly under her clothes.

Wearing those barefoot sandals was not intended to send messages to anyone else though others did notice them and a very few (I think only the women) might make a comment. Any more than that was an unwanted distraction from her internalized enjoyment of her secret self.

So, no, those are not an invitation, but as SilverStag points out only decoration. Enjoy the view and make no assumptions.

Prof Wood

F12 - This is one of those 'things' I have often pondered, where the woman makes this shift mentally and sometimes physically. Much like an actor getting into a role and assuming the character they are to portray.
- After you parted ways, did you ever learn anymore of her?

The effect is more on the wearer, signaling to herself that she is in a particular mood. Hard to interpret from someone else's perspective. For some it is like "suiting up" prior to an athletic event, it is a ritual known only to them.

I can't comment on the anklet toe ring combination, but there have been posts on this Forum in the past on whether or not a woman wearing an anklet was a hotwife. The consensus was that it was simply a decoration some women wore and had nothing to do with whether or not she was signaling that she was a hotwife.

Wearing such means as much as an active hotwife not wearing those items.

Nothing.

Suze wears an anklet and knows many consider it an indication of a hotwife and that’s why she wears one. She likes that she is potentially sending a naughty signal but can easily say she just likes it and had no idea in the event she is ever asked. And in her words, “ I sincerely doubt anyone will ever ask m about it and I question whether most people even notice them”. “But I like the idea of it possibly happening”.

My wife Ann has worn an anklet and toe rings since her early 20s. Back then she wasn't a hotwife but we were swingers. She wore it because she liked it and we both found the extra bling sexy. For the last 15 years she has had 2 types of anklets, one for everyday wear and one for playtime. Her everyday anklet is gold (she only wears gold jewellery) with a small heart charm on it. She wears this daily to work (she is a teacher), shopping, to the gym, at family gatherings etc. Her other anklet is also gold but she has various charms that she adds depending on her mood. She has a number of male symbol charms, spade symbols, and the letters for "hotwife", "swinger", "slut" and "BBC". She puts these on if we are going to swinger parties or date nights where we are open to meeting potential playmates. Her "play" anklet has attracted comments and has led to us meeting new playmates. The only time Ann has not worn an anklet was when she was heavily pregnant and her ankles had swollen.
When she is wearing stockings and a short skirt she wears her anklet on the outside of the stockings. She does this as in the past when she has worn it under the stockings it has sometimes caught and put a run in her stockings. We have read that an anklet worn on top of stockings means the hotwife will take cock bareback but that is not our meaning.

Johnann2227 wrote: ↑

Thu May 23, 2024 1:39 pm

My wife Ann has worn an anklet and toe rings since her early 20s. Back then she wasn't a hotwife but we were swingers. She wore it because she liked it and we both found the extra bling sexy. For the last 15 years she has had 2 types of anklets, one for everyday wear and one for playtime. Her everyday anklet is gold (she only wears gold jewellery) with a small heart charm on it. She wears this daily to work (she is a teacher), shopping, to the gym, at family gatherings etc. Her other anklet is also gold but she has various charms that she adds depending on her mood. She has a number of male symbol charms, spade symbols, and the letters for "hotwife", "swinger", "slut" and "BBC". She puts these on if we are going to swinger parties or date nights where we are open to meeting potential playmates. Her "play" anklet has attracted comments and has led to us meeting new playmates. The only time Ann has not worn an anklet was when she was heavily pregnant and her ankles had swollen.
When she is wearing stockings and a short skirt she wears her anklet on the outside of the stockings. She does this as in the past when she has worn it under the stockings it has sometimes caught and put a run in her stockings. We have read that an anklet worn on top of stockings means the hotwife will take cock bareback but that is not our meaning.

I wear an ankle bracelet every day, a diamond tennis style. I don't wear stockings or hose, but I only do bareback .

On both feet is a fashion or cultural thing. Ladies in this lifestyle generally wear it only on left and under the stocking means protected sex whereas over the stockings means she wants it bareback.

Curious do these signs work? I don’t want my wife wearing openly saying hotwife ….but a sign that ppl in this lifestyle know it’s Hotwife and it gives her chance to pick up someone she could have missed ..lol

The idea of sign turns me on, I’m sure my wife would wear it…long as it’s not openly saying hotwife …

Can anyone share their experience

Desiplayer wrote: ↑

Fri Jul 12, 2024 12:30 pm

Curious do these signs work? I don’t want my wife wearing openly saying hotwife ….but a sign that ppl in this lifestyle know it’s Hotwife and it gives her chance to pick up someone she could have missed ..lol

The idea of sign turns me on, I’m sure my wife would wear it…long as it’s not openly saying hotwife …

Can anyone share their experience

DP - Even if your Wife is a HW and somebody asks about the "sign" or if she a HW, there is nothing preventing her from denying any and everything. As the good Sgt. Schullies used to say, "I know nothing."