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FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 10:13 am
by Anonymousrob
Well, Rachel just left for her first solo date, and she has another scheduled for tomorrow. This will be the first time that she has ever gone out without me to meet someone. My stomach’s in knots. She isn’t playing today but there’s good chance that tomorrow she will. She was super nervous so I spanked the nerves out of her.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 1:39 pm
by Bridget_Joshua
Relax, she will do fine. She has experience, this time it just you not being around. As per our arrangement Bri keeps me updated through texts & sometimes pictures too. Be excited for tomorrow & do share what happened.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 1:42 pm
by Anonymousrob
Bridget_Joshua wrote:
Thu Jun 20, 2024 1:39 pm
Relax, she will do fine. She has experience, this time it just you not being around. As per our arrangement Bri keeps me updated through texts & sometimes pictures too. Be excited for tomorrow & do share what happened.
From what she told me over the phone (she’s on her way home), she made out with him and he fingered her. She said he was super nice and she really enjoyed herself.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 2:02 pm
by Johnann2227
Anonymousrob wrote:
Thu Jun 20, 2024 1:42 pm
Bridget_Joshua wrote:
Thu Jun 20, 2024 1:39 pm
Relax, she will do fine. She has experience, this time it just you not being around. As per our arrangement Bri keeps me updated through texts & sometimes pictures too. Be excited for tomorrow & do share what happened.
From what she told me over the phone (she’s on her way home), she made out with him and he fingered her. She said he was super nice and she really enjoyed herself.
Congratulations! It sounds like Rachel had a wonderful night and enjoyed herself. She obviously felt a connection as she got fingered but stayed in control (unfortunately!) by not fucking her date. Remember this lifestyle is all about Rachel's pleasure. If she wants you to be there that is a bonus. But watching her leave to go on a date is a special feeling you will learn to enjoy and thrive on.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 2:21 pm
by BrunetteLover
You would get way more out of the experience if you were nearby.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 3:34 pm
by snoogaloo82
Johnann2227 wrote:
Thu Jun 20, 2024 2:02 pm

Congratulations! It sounds like Rachel had a wonderful night and enjoyed herself. She obviously felt a connection as she got fingered but stayed in control (unfortunately!) by not fucking her date. Remember this lifestyle is all about Rachel's pleasure. If she wants you to be there that is a bonus. But watching her leave to go on a date is a special feeling you will learn to enjoy and thrive on.
Congratulations are definitely in order! Its wonderful that she got a pleasant experience! Like Johnann said this is all about Rachel's pleasure, so if she wants to include you that's a bonus for you, but if she's not comfortable then you have to abide by her wishes so that she can enjoy herself comfortably.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2024 5:02 pm
by Anonymousrob
snoogaloo82 wrote:
Thu Jun 20, 2024 3:34 pm
Johnann2227 wrote:
Thu Jun 20, 2024 2:02 pm

Congratulations! It sounds like Rachel had a wonderful night and enjoyed herself. She obviously felt a connection as she got fingered but stayed in control (unfortunately!) by not fucking her date. Remember this lifestyle is all about Rachel's pleasure. If she wants you to be there that is a bonus. But watching her leave to go on a date is a special feeling you will learn to enjoy and thrive on.
Congratulations are definitely in order! Its wonderful that she got a pleasant experience! Like Johnann said this is all about Rachel's pleasure, so if she wants to include you that's a bonus for you, but if she's not comfortable then you have to abide by her wishes so that she can enjoy herself comfortably.
Absolutely!

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 11:33 am
by Anonymousrob
Day #2 and this is a big one. I dropped her off at her Airbnb. Stomach in knots. Heart in throat. Supposedly he will be only the second guy to go bareback, and he wants me to clean her out after. She seems really into the idea with his direction. What should I do for the next four hours?! lol.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 1:19 pm
by Anonymousrob
Just got an update. It said:
Fucked once.
Came twice.

That’s big for her. She is rarely able to get off with anyone but me. In fact, it’s only happened once before. I’m glad she’s doing well. God damn, I want to see! Lol

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 1:42 pm
by 54321
Congratulations!

54321

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 2:03 pm
by Anonymousrob
54321 wrote:
Fri Jun 21, 2024 1:42 pm
Congratulations!

54321
Thanks’

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 2:18 pm
by Lookingforadventure
Congratulations. How are you both feeling afterwards? Does she want to see him again? Any highlights for her about the experience?

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 2:23 pm
by isinlarsa
We need an after action report. Did you go back and clean her up? Did the stud watch?

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 2:59 pm
by Anonymousrob
She’s still with him. I’ve heard from her twice in 3 hours. Last one said “sorry. Still going. It’s amazing”.

So she’s having a great time lol. I’m struggling but it’s probably just because it’s the first time.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 4:02 pm
by bbarnsworth
The nerves will come down :) Not this time, but in the future they will calm down :) It was like that for me my first time. Total bag of nerves. But, it was awesome :)

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 5:25 pm
by Anonymousrob
Well everyone, it was pretty good and she really had a great time. She says she will be here later to post about it. I’ll try and get her to post it on this thread but if not, I’ll post the link.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 8:48 pm
by Fearlesspain
Anonymousrob wrote:
Fri Jun 21, 2024 5:25 pm
Well everyone, it was pretty good and she really had a great time. She says she will be here later to post about it. I’ll try and get her to post it on this thread but if not, I’ll post the link.
I can't wait!!! Thanks for sharing with us!

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2024 9:05 pm
by Anonymousrob
Fearlesspain wrote:
Fri Jun 21, 2024 8:48 pm
Anonymousrob wrote:
Fri Jun 21, 2024 5:25 pm
Well everyone, it was pretty good and she really had a great time. She says she will be here later to post about it. I’ll try and get her to post it on this thread but if not, I’ll post the link.
I can't wait!!! Thanks for sharing with us!
Thanks for putting up with my freaking out lol

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sat Jun 22, 2024 1:36 am
by Magellanic29
Great thread. I can't wait to hear more from you. They sure went at it for a long time.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2024 4:54 am
by Bridget_Joshua
So its going great. Make sure when she comes back you make her feel loved, appreciate her. Give her a warm & tight hug, a deep kiss. Make her feel the special one in your life It only strengthens the bond.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2024 5:11 am
by ProfessorH
The communication and openness between you two is the glue that’s making this possible. Great job listening to and honoring each other through these steps. Three cheers!!

As far as the solo nervous anxiety…and how! Next time she’s away, I highly recommend laundry. No sharp corners. Low probability of injury. Built in timer. And everyone likes fluffy towels. :)

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2024 6:04 am
by Anonymousrob
ProfessorH wrote:
Sun Jun 23, 2024 5:11 am
The communication and openness between you two is the glue that’s making this possible. Great job listening to and honoring each other through these steps. Three cheers!!

As far as the solo nervous anxiety…and how! Next time she’s away, I highly recommend laundry. No sharp corners. Low probability of injury. Built in timer. And everyone likes fluffy towels. :)
Absolutely! lol!!

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2024 7:24 am
by Wantsomefunto
How was it when she came home?

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2024 10:40 am
by Anonymousrob
Wantsomefunto wrote:
Sun Jun 23, 2024 7:24 am
How was it when she came home?
I actually went to the AirBnB. She called me and begged me to show up while he was still there. I walked in, they were in bed together, and she kissed me deeply, then told me firmly that I had some cleanup to do if I wanted to fuck her. So I did. Then he left, we fucked for like an hour, had great dinner and conversation, drove back to our house, went out on the town, and then went home and fucked again for another hour. Still all lovey to this day.

Re: FREAKING OUT A BIT, for her First solo dates lol

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2024 11:12 am
by Long Lurker 34
Anonymousrob wrote:
Sun Jun 23, 2024 6:04 am
ProfessorH wrote:
Sun Jun 23, 2024 5:11 am
The communication and openness between you two is the glue that’s making this possible. Great job listening to and honoring each other through these steps. Three cheers!!

As far as the solo nervous anxiety…and how! Next time she’s away, I highly recommend laundry. No sharp corners. Low probability of injury. Built in timer. And everyone likes fluffy towels. :)
Absolutely! lol!!
AR - And NO bleach and NO ironing! :shock: :lol: