Our Hotwives

Last night at a party, we spotted another Hotwife in the wild!

Birthday party at a local spot, music, a nice crowd, but one person in particular caught my HW’s eye. She mentioned her to me, how she seemed to have the vibe, and that’s when I mentioned my HW should have worn her anklet, too.

She looked down, and there indeed it was. Right ankle, jangly fun.

MadamH went up to get a refill on her drink, mentioned how much she loved the anklet…and the recognition, the double take at the two of us and her smile was a whole lot of fun.

Check that off our bingo card!!

Isn't it funny how hotwives can spot each other once they've been in the game for a while. Many men look at a woman and think maybe she's a hotwife. More often than not it's just wishful thinking on the part of the man. Women on the other hand just know.

Let me clarify. It's not just hot wives. This includes swingers and or cheaters. Women just seem to have a knack for picking up on women who color outside the lines. A few years ago my wife and I were at a sex shop picking up some toys.

A woman my wife had noticed earlier came over to my wife and started the conversation with, "please don't take this the wrong way and if I'm wrong I'm sorry." My wife laughed and said, "I'm not offended and yes we are." The woman hadn't even used the word swingers but my wife knew what she was going to say before she said it. That's happened to her a number of times. The woman who spoke to her in the sex shop was new to the city and she and her husband had been unable to make new contacts. My wife provided her with a few numbers and told the lady to mention her name.

It works the other way too. Many times my wife has pointed out women and couples we see here and there about town and says they're in the lifestyle. Sure enough, a few weeks to a few months later they would show up at a party we attended

I can’t wait for this to happen with my wife.

Swinging is a woman's sport.

zorro wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 30, 2024 4:33 pm

Swinging is a woman's sport.

Interesting that you say that. When we started many years ago it was a given that the husband wanted to share his wife so he could get a new pussy. As I never initiated the swinging (my wife did) that wasn't my motivation; also being offered the chance to fuck another hot woman was an incentive. But in most of the couples we knew in the life style, it was the man who talked his wife into it.

Oh, yes, I agree that the husband is usually the initiator of lifestyle. But time and again I've seen how once a woman gets past the initial immersion, she's the one who loves experiencing multiple men. There's an old saying in the swinging world, "Women have to be dragged into swinging and dragged out of it."
And my experience has been that the best way to couple with another couple was for my wife to talk to the wife about it. The women seemed to cut the deal.

Sometimes, i think women are more sexual than men -- except for initiating contact. They can have more partners, keep sexing longer, orgasm more, have more kinds of orgasms, and come away invigorated. After a few rounds, most men need to stop. But some women just want more the more they have.

All personal stereotypes built up over 20 years of swinging/HW. Anyone's mileage may vary.

zorro wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 30, 2024 7:10 pm

Oh, yes, I agree that the husband is usually the initiator of lifestyle. But time and again I've seen how once a woman gets past the initial immersion, she's the one who loves experiencing multiple men. There's an old saying in the swinging world, "Women have to be dragged into swinging and dragged out of it."
And my experience has been that the best way to couple with another couple was for my wife to talk to the wife about it. The women seemed to cut the deal.

Sometimes, i think women are more sexual than men -- except for initiating contact. They can have more partners, keep sexing longer, orgasm more, have more kinds of orgasms, and come away invigorated. After a few rounds, most men need to stop. But some women just want more the more they have.

All personal stereotypes built up over 20 years of swinging/HW. Anyone's mileage may vary.

I don't disagree. I sometimes wonder if there is something in my personality that women I'm in relationship pick up on, but every woman I've been in a relationship has eventually become a hotwife. It wasn't that she and I weren't fucking a lot. She just eventually wanted some variety, and taking on another man after she was warmed up.

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 01, 2024 8:53 am

I don't disagree. I sometimes wonder if there is something in my personality that women I'm in relationship pick up on, but every woman I've been in a relationship has eventually become a hotwife. It wasn't that she and I weren't fucking a lot. She just eventually wanted some variety, and taking on another man after she was warmed up.

Actually, a fascinating and provocative observation. Did any of them have HW/swinging experiences before you? And if you are the common denominator, what do you think is in your personality that conduced them in this happy direction?

Finally, can you bottle and sell it?

zorro wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 01, 2024 2:33 pm

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 01, 2024 8:53 am

I don't disagree. I sometimes wonder if there is something in my personality that women I'm in relationship pick up on, but every woman I've been in a relationship has eventually become a hotwife. It wasn't that she and I weren't fucking a lot. She just eventually wanted some variety, and taking on another man after she was warmed up.

Actually, a fascinating and provocative observation. Did any of them have HW/swinging experiences before you? And if you are the common denominator, what do you think is in your personality that conduced them in this happy direction?

Finally, can you bottle and sell it?

No, none of them had hotwife experiences before me. However, both my girlfriends (between my marriages) were married when we started. In each case, after I started fucking them, they left their husbands and became my girlfriend. One of the husbands knew about it, and one did not. Perhaps I awakened something in them. They both later became a hot girlfriend.

My first wife may have cheated on me before we started swapping, and then her hotwifing. My second wife also may have been having sex while on business trips, which she often had. She only confessed to kissing a man in her hotel room. Was that to test my reaction before she told me she wanted to date other men for sex?

I guess that I project I will still be there for them if they have sex with other men; without me trying to push them in that direction.

áe more intercommisural fibers between the left and right sides of the brain. So, they may understand us even better than we do. And act on it accordingly.

Or, more simply, these women knew firsthand when you had an affair with them that you were comfortable sharing their pussy with other men. It may not have taken much imagination once you entered a relationship for them to figure out you were good with sharing them. And, voilá, they became HWs or at least hot GFs.

Or, you are just a lucky guy!