My Hot NYC Wife

[ManhattanCurious]

We are a couple in our 40s with young children. Our life is good but our sex life has really tanked over the years. The only thing that gets her (and me) excited is fantasy talk about sharing her with another guy. Lately she has taken to pointing out hot guys who are eyeing her up, which always gets me excited too. Would love to take this to the next level somehow.

[RI_Couple]

I would suggest taking out dancing some where and let her dance with other guys.
Have her get dressed up and feeling sexy.
It's a small step but it also is a lot of fun. Mine got felt up on the dance floor in front of me He tried to get into herpanties .she said she even felt his cock getting hard. We went home and she was soaked.

[respectabullinma]

So it's sounds like you are ready to have "the talk". If you are serious about wanting this, be prepared to not only say that you're interested in going from fantasy to reality, but to be able to explain the details - WHY you want this, WHAT you'll get from her playing. Those are the important things most wives need to hear from you before taking the suggestion seriously. Good luck!

[lanceHarden25]

40s with young children will tank even the best of sex lives. She wants to know she’s still desirable. I’m with the guy who suggested going out dancing with her hottest clothes on. With you or some female friends, another man’s hands on her waist or ass will have her feeling hot again. Then let her sit on your face when she gets home after she ditches her panties. Happy, happy wife and she’ll have some memories for whatever women call their ‘spank bank’

[s3xual_int3lectual]

I am in the NYC area and experienced. If you’re interested in someone to work with you at your pace, feel free connect and we can see if there is mutual attraction.

[54321]

Lately she has taken to pointing out hot guys who are eyeing her up, which always gets me excited too.

Sounds like you are going in the right direction.

54321

[ManhattanCurious]

Thanks for all the helpful comments. Dancing would be ideal, it’s just hard to get a night free from the kids. As for the open talk, we’ve pretty much discussed it all, including our openness to trying it, but always during sex, which serves the double purpose of getting us both horny. Really i guess we need to try to just make ourselves free in the evening.

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks for all the helpful comments. Dancing would be ideal, it’s just hard to get a night free from the kids. As for the open talk, we’ve pretty much discussed it all, including our openness to trying it, but always during sex, which serves the double purpose of getting us both horny. Really i guess we need to try to just make ourselves free in the evening.

MC - All well and good for "in the moment", but if you are going to seriously attempt HWing, in whatever form you envision, then a more 'sober' clothes on sit down would probably be a good idea.