Frequency of Sexual Debauchery

[Tank Turner]

Do wives here go through periods when they can't get enough sex? I'm talking porn star sex for days.

A few times a year my wife's suppressed nymphomania surfaces. When she can no long deny her uninhibited sexual urges, she wants porn star sex for as long as three days. We recently did a San Diego resort with more her friend than mine, Brad. I watched as her uninhibited nymphomania was released. We have never engaged in degrading or dehumanizing sex. She could not get enough sex. After she rested she insisted that one of us fuck her.

My wife is always horny by nature and hyper-horny due to endocrine system abnormality. There are infrequent times when she amazes me at how unbelievably horny and insatiable she'll become. I should be luckly that we didn't 86'd from a world famous Coronado Island bar. If Brad and I didn't control her, she would have fucked us on a bar stool. She begged me to fuck her on the backroom sink counter. She has a lot of sink counter fucking from her college days. That was the night she wanted Brad to fuck her on the beach.

Are there times when accumulation of hormones turn your wives in to crazed nymphomaniacs?

[adamgunnauthor]

My wife was never a 'nymphomaniac', but there were cycles in her sexual proclivities.

She almost never turned down a sexual adventure when she had time, but if there was some reason not to - medical or social, she'd be patient. Then there were times when she had the freedom from outside pressures where she'd let herself loose.

When we got into the sport she was in early menopause, so hormones didn't really impact her.

[Tank Turner]

Hi adamgunnauthor,

Thank you for your reply.

Your wife sounds like the woman every dude wants for his wife. You're a very lucky man.

I was being facetious when I referred to my wife as a nymphomaniac. There is no medical or psychiatric condition of nymphomania. If there were, at times my wife would have it.

I met them at my wife's sister's home yesterday evening for dinner and drinks. After a prolonged sexual experience, I can see the change in my wife. She's far more relaxed.

My sister-in-law's fiancé complimented my wife on her scorching hot naked body. I'm not sure whether it came from him or my sister-in-law told him to compliment my wife. Either way, I didn't care. She's in her mid-40s and concerned that her scorching hot naked body is losing its appeal it had when she had a flawless, Playmate of the Year scorching hot body. She's as scorching hot now as she's ever been. She has told me many times recently than she's more horny now than she was when she was in college and couldn't get enough sex.

The fiancé and Brad are good friends. They work together. The fiancé knows that Brad is fucking my wife. The fiancé and my sister-in-law did wife swapping until they decided to try for a child. He asked her how they were getting along. She told him that they are very close friends, but she hoped he'd find a woman to marry.

One of the reasons my wife keeps Brad on a very long leash is because he reminds her of her youth when dudes used to crave fucking her and could fuck her five or more times. Brad is good for at least five money shots a day, and he knows how to sexually satisfy women.

My mother-in-law went into menopause in her mid-50s. My wife frequently discusses menopause. Her physician told her that menopause might correct her endocrine system abnormality. My wife loves and craves sex. She's concerned that menopause might affect her sexual desires.

When we got home late last night, my wife did her usual routine of showering and drying off in front of me so I could marvel at her naked body. She told me she was horny, which was no surprise. She's always horny. After my mouth, tongue, and fingers coaxed explosive orgasms out of her clit, she got in one of her favorite positions. She loves being bent over a bed. I fucked her senseless. After I came, she cuddled next to me. We kissed for a very long time before she rested her head on my chest and fell soundly asleep. She was exhausted. After she orgasms, she has boundless energy. Last night, she fell fast asleep.

[armyguyot1]

Menapause can be a sex drive killer or it can ba an awakening. My wife has always been horny and sexual but pretty tuff with kids and her having to be a Mommy. She said when the kids left she felt freed as she no longer needed to be a Mommy and menapause allow her to no longer have to worry about pregnancy. It seemed to either not have an affect on her sex drive or enhance it some. We are so busy that frequency isn't what it used to be but quality has come way up. We have to schedule fuckations to relieve it.

[Cdncuck]

Do wives here go through periods when they can't get enough sex? I'm talking porn star sex for days.

A few times a year my wife's suppressed nymphomania surfaces. When she can no long deny her uninhibited sexual urges, she wants porn star sex for as long as three days. We recently did a San Diego resort with more her friend than mine, Brad. I watched as her uninhibited nymphomania was released. We have never engaged in degrading or dehumanizing sex. She could not get enough sex. After she rested she insisted that one of us fuck her.

My wife is always horny by nature and hyper-horny due to endocrine system abnormality. There are infrequent times when she amazes me at how unbelievably horny and insatiable she'll become. I should be luckly that we didn't 86'd from a world famous Coronado Island bar. If Brad and I didn't control her, she would have fucked us on a bar stool. She begged me to fuck her on the backroom sink counter. She has a lot of sink counter fucking from her college days. That was the night she wanted Brad to fuck her on the beach.

Are there times when accumulation of hormones turn your wives in to crazed nymphomaniacs?

I don't know if nymphomaniac would apply. My wife certainly had swings as far as sexual activities went. Her sex drive was never what could be described as real low. She did go from very active to sexual warp drive over the course of a month.

There were other factors involved as well. She had several girlfriends who weren't monogamous. Some were swingers/hotwife, a few were cheaters and some were in open marriages.

I noticed over a period of years that when one of this group was on a hormonal down turn if some of the others were in an upswing, hanging around each other could change the mood. Those on the upswing were sometimes derailed if some of the others were on the downturn.


The reverse could also happen and the one slowing down could be jumpstarted into going back into an upswing. Exactly how it works eludes me but if you pay attention over the years you can see these things happen.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Cdncuck,

You're right. Women's hormone systems stimulate their libidos. When they're ovulating, they're more horny.

Puberty caused an abnormality in my wife's endocrine system which causes her body to infuse her system with testosterone overload which causes her libido to fly off the charts.

My wife is the most sexually enlightened woman I have ever met. During our booty calling phase she told me with complete confidence that sex was as normal and natural as any other human function. She loved sex and she had sex when she wanted to feel euphoria. Needless to say, she was extremely sexually active and experienced before I met her which was a huge benefit for me. She is naughty and kinky by curiosity which is an indicator of her elevated intelligence.

My wife cannot tell me why she gets in moods where she wants to be the object of men's sexual desires. She has told me that she loves being craved by men. It's a boost to her ego. She loves knowing that she can make men cum anytime she desires, another ego boost.

When she gets in her sexual debauchery moods, she's in her element. Her wanting Brad to fuck her on the beach was normal for her. Since I've dated her she has told me to fuck her in very risky places like in restaurant bathrooms. She once asked me if I'd fuck her on a bar if we could without consequences. One of her long ago boyfriends go her to do risky public sex. She's loved it since. I've fucked her in public places too many times to remember. It wasn't really risky. She knows where she can fuck in public with the possibility of being watched but without getting in trouble. That boyfriend she had told her to wear sundresses without underwear. Sundresses made it easy for him to fuck her. She said he always came within seconds. They point is when she's in her naughty and kinky sex mode, no one could predict what she'll do and where she'll do it. She has a being watched fantasy. She's never cared who watched her fucking her boyfriends as long as it wasn't her parents or cops.

My wife knows how to keep a marriage fun and exciting. She knows that routine, vanilla sex causes lost interest it sex which leads to other marital problems.

[Parsifal]

My wife's nymphomania is seasonal, generally a warm weather phenomenon, which for us on the Texas Gulf Coast lasts about eight months a year. It's at its peak July and August, as in now. We don't call it "debauchery," however, but rather naughty, and naughty with a mostly clear conscience. Also the ebb and flow of it for her isn't as extreme as the proclivites of some of the wives described in the foregoing comments. My wife seems to max out with maybe two dates a week, circulating among 4 to possibly 5 different somewhat regular lovers, excluding me, which means she's having sex 4 to 5 times weekly. It's fun during peak times like this to withhold my consent for a week, so that she'll literally beg me for a date during our foreplay or as we're engaged in sex. This is the best way I've learned to ease her into an uncontrollable orgasm.

[Tank Turner]

BTW, since my wife quit her job, she spends a lot of time at her sister's home. Like most sisters are, she's extremely close to her sister. She has grown extremely close to her sister's fiancé. She did a nude resort with them last April. Brad "graciously" agreed to be her plus one because I couldn't go. I was happy that he did accompany my wife. I was assured that the nude resort was completely safe. But I felt better knowing Brad was with her to protect her, and he would protect her. That dude is a complete stud. He's the prototypical firefighter. He's the dude you'd want to see if your home were on fire and you needed a stud to throw you over his shoulder and deliver you to safety. He has natural athletic ability. My wife loves him because he has the sexual stamina of a 20 year old dude.

My wife is completely comfortable being naked with the fiancé. She completely comfortable being naked anywhere and with anyone as long as there are no kids around. She has always believed that nudity is normal and natural. My wife would never consider fucking the fiancé. To her, he's family. We will not fuck family. My wife has gone skinny dipping with him and usually with me or her sister. I do not believe that have skinny dipped alone. I would not care of worry if they have.

Yesterday evening, after I finished reports that are due tomorrow morning, I met my wife at her sister's home. The fiancé was there. The fiancé is 10 years younger than my sister-in-law. Other than my wife and me, I know of no other couple who're more in love with each other than my sister-in-law and her fiancé. He dotes on her. Now that she's pregnant with his child, he does everything for her. He won't allow her to carry in groceries or lift anything heavy. Both of them want their baby.

They took the kids to the beach yesterday. When I arrived, the kids were sound asleep. They were exhausted from a long day at the beach in the sun.

My sister-in-law has stopped drinking because she's pregnant. Her fiancé hasn't. On hot days, my wife can do substantial damage to ice-cold margaritas. When I arrived, the three of them were in the den. I grabbed a cold beer and joined them. The fiancé wasn't feeling pain. My wife was close to the same status. Her sister and the fiancé were raking her over coals about her relationship with Brad. The sister is concerned for my wife. The fiancé and Brad are very close friends. They work at the same fire station. However, his loyalty has shifted from Brad to my wife. The fiancé has become part of my wife's family which is why she's completely comfortable getting naked with him although both know sex between them would never happen. The fiancé is totally devoted to my sister-in-law.

It was a hot evening in Southern California. My wife was in as revealing clothes as I ever saw her. She was wearing a pair of her sister's extremely short camel toe shorts without panties and a wife beater shirt with no bra. She might as well have been topless. Her tits were clearly visible though her shirt. The fiancé has seen my wife naked many times, so she's completely comfortable revealing her scorching hot body to him. He seems to be indifferent to my wife's naked body. She's probably just another naked woman to him except he has genuine concern for her.

They wanted to know what was going on between Brad and my wife. I was curious, too. I know as an absolute fact that while she's closer to Brad than any other dude she's fucked, there is nothing more important to my wife than our kids and her family. She wouldn't leave me for a rock star. We're best friends and in love with each other. We know the difference between sex for euphoric pleasure and sex as an expression of love and bonding.

Brad is 15 years younger than my wife. Her sister wanted to know what attracted her to Brad. My wife answered her honestly. He has the biggest dick she's ever had, he is excellent in bed, he can fuck her at least five times a day which reminds her of her youth, and they get along perfectly. She acknowledged that there was a finite life to their sexual adventures. He makes her feel youthful and vibrant. He's an excellent listener. He sincerely cares for her as a friend. He always compliments her. He never expects anything from her (blowjobs), yet he's grateful when she sexually gratifies him.

The fiancé was worried that Brad would hurt my wife by summarily dumping her. My wife quickly corrected him. She told him that Brad could never hurt her. She could end it tomorrow without regrets. The fiancé told my wife that he was a well-known player before he met his last girlfriend. My wife told him that she knows more about his sexual life than anyone. She doesn't care that he was a player. She added that he needs to find one good woman to marry, have kids, and build a life.

The sister-in-law queried my wife about what differentiated Brad from other dudes she's fuck. My wife was lit by that time. The first thing she said was, "His beautiful cock." When my wife says cock rather than dick, she's drunk and she's rarely drunk. She might get drunk at most twice a month. She loves margaritas. She'll often get buzzed. She'll rarely get drunk. My wife knows that alcohol causes women to lose all inhibitions resulting in them doing things they'd never consider when they're sober. My wife told me about drunken indiscretions she engaged it at college parties. It was a rite of passage for college kids. She gave blowjobs to guys without knowing their names. I'd guess most coeds have while drunk at college parties.

Finally my wife explained to her sister that sometimes she wants to let her hair down and engage in indiscriminate, wanton sex without constraints or regrets. Her sister said she knew exactly what my wife meant with the implication of her having done the same thing.

It was a sexual conversation with the intent of education and knowledge. Even my wife appeared to be curious about why she often wanted to submit her naked body for the sexual pleasure of men.

She told her sister and fiancé about our Coronado Island sexual retreat. She said it was the most erotic sensation of her life. She came a lot that trip, so it wasn't for only our pleasure. She said she felt freedom to do experience her latent sexual desires without guilt. If anything, she took advantage of us. She wanted us to use her for our sexual gratification, but it was mutual sexual gratification. She wanted to be a naughty and kinky porn star. She wanted to release her inner nymphomania. Again, her sister said she knew exactly what she was talking about. Apparently there are times when most if not all women want to release their sexual desires that they're forced to conceal from everyone including their husbands. My sister-in-law could never tell her ex-husband about her kinky and naughty sexual desires.

My wife glowed with ego and pride when she told her sister and the fiancé how intensively erotic it was for her for us to fuck her all over the hotel room. She seemed to convey that it made her feel like a complete, sexually enlighten, erotic, and sexually irresistible women. She was proud of herself for her ability to take Brad's huge cock balls deep in her ass. She could not have done it if she had't been shitfaced drunk, and at that it took him about ten long minutes of slowly penetrating her ass balls deep with his thick 8 1/2 cock. That was not a new revelation. The sisters know everything about each other's sex lives and, by extension, the fiancé knows everything about my wife's sex life. There are no secrets among them. Her sister never had anal sex with her ex-husband. She has and does with her fiancé. In fact, my wife talks sex with the fiancé like she does with me. After all, according to my wife, he's family. He's confided his sex life to my wife. They're as close as any brother-sister, yet there is a barrier that both know exists and they will never cross. They have done naked activities with each other at a nude resort and while skinny dipping, yet my wife has never seen him with a hard-on. My wife has never felt the slightest inclination to have sex with him. They could be naked on a deserted island for a month and never have sex. My wife views him as her brother. My impression is he views her as the protector of his future wife's sister. I do not know whether he loves her like a sister. She loves and trusts him like a brother.

My wife spent the night with our kids at her sister's home. I got home close to midnight. I never get a decent night's sleep anywhere but in our bed. When my wife gets home, assuming she comes home today which she probably will for rough, hard sex, she will be horny because she's always horny. She's in her sexual prime. That woman could have sex at least seven times a day. That is an absolute fact. I've seen her do it more than a few times.

So, do most if not all women pass through phases when they want to be kinky and naughty porn stars and fuck as many men as they can? My guess is they do. There is little that separates men and women's sexuality. Women respond differently to sexual stimuli. However, women have a biological sexual advantage that wes deprived to men. Women in their sexual primes seem to crave sex all the time. After money shots, men want to sleep. Orgasms give women energy. After my wife is temporarily done having orgasms, she wants a hard cock inside of her pussy and to be fucked like a porn star. Women can have unlimited orgasms. Men past their sexual primes are lucky to get three a day. When men are pushing 50, two a day and not every day is more realistic although if circumstances are right and I'm sober, I can get three a day, but that is more the exception.

Sexually enlightened and sexually liberated women in their sexual primes who have experienced mind-blowing orgasmic euphoria seem to crave sex more than men. Women in their sexual primes seem to be more sexual than men. That is merely empirical and based on what my wife has told me and observing my wife's sexuality. It is not scientific as the product of scientific methodology. But then again, my wife has told me it's a damned good assessment of men's and women's sexuality. Hit a horny woman in her sexual prime with stimuli that stimulates her hormonal system to incite a sexual response, and she's likely to transition to an insatiable nymphomaniac. Do you guys think that is off the mark? Do you guys think that women have a biological sexual advantage vis-á-vis men? According to my wife, women have an enviable sexual advantage over men. She said the biggest problem for men is many men lack knowledge about what stimulates a woman's sexual desires and stimuli that will produce a favorable sexual response. A naked cock will not get a woman in the mood for sex. Lightly massaging the small of her back, gently caressing her neck, whispering romance to her, fragrances she loves, holding hands, gazing into her eyes while listening to her, gently rubbing her inner thighs will almost always cause her to crave sex. Is that wrong? Did my wife give me bad info?

[Tank Turner]

I forgot an extremely important fact that pertains to my wife and me and husbands and wives who play together. It takes time, knowledge, and effort to stimulate women's hormones to respond to sexual stimuli. We have an enviable benefit. I can spend hours causing my wife to crawl walls begging for sex before we leave our home. It does require up to an hour to coax a woman's hormone system to release the love hormone, oxytocin.

Some women require an emotional attachment or connection before having sex. I am my wife's emotional connection and attachment. She does not want an emotional attachment to any other dude. That is an advantage for us.

It took us over two hours to get to Coronado Island. My wife sat in the middle. For most of the trip we showered her with affection and attention. Her body was flooded with oxytocin before we arrived. She was ready to be porn starred before I got to the room.

While we dated, we used to get each other horny and craving sex while dining at restaurants.

Probably the four dominant stimuli that will just about cause my wife to have sex anywhere including parking lots are a lot of affection, romantic and often erotic whispers, touch (neck, small of her back, inner thighs), and the clincher: passionate kissing.

The point is my wife is usually pussy-drenched horny before she prowls for dudes to fuck.

Dudes can get horny merely thinking about fucking a chick. Women require tender loving attention and affection over a period of maybe an hour before they'll get naked.

[Parsifal]

I forgot an extremely important fact that pertains to my wife and me and husbands and wives who play together. It takes time, knowledge, and effort to stimulate women's hormones to respond to sexual stimuli. We have an enviable benefit. I can spend hours causing my wife to crawl walls begging for sex before we leave our home. It does require up to an hour to coax a woman's hormone system to release the love hormone, oxytocin.

Some women require an emotional attachment or connection before having sex. I am my wife's emotional connection and attachment. She does not want an emotional attachment to any other dude. That is an advantage for us.

It took us over two hours to get to Coronado Island. My wife sat in the middle. For most of the trip we showered her with affection and attention. Her body was flooded with oxytocin before we arrived. She was ready to be porn starred before I got to the room.

While we dated, we used to get each other horny and craving sex while dining at restaurants.

Probably the four dominant stimuli that will just about cause my wife to have sex anywhere including parking lots are a lot of affection, romantic and often erotic whispers, touch (neck, small of her back, inner thighs), and the clincher: passionate kissing.

The point is my wife is usually pussy-drenched horny before she prowls for dudes to fuck.

Dudes can get horny merely thinking about fucking a chick. Women require tender loving attention and affection over a period of maybe an hour before they'll get naked.

It's perfect when a wife has a natural proclivity to works with how you also want for her to express her sexuality on the outside. I appreciate how you and she fit together.

[Parsifal]

One of the absolute joys of being a compersive husband is finding that space in which we can see our wives' nymphomania from the inside out, so as to develop a species of phenomenology of our wives' unique aphrodisia. How hot it is to feel with them that intense surge of lust they feel for that next interaction.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Parsifal,

Excellent analysis. Only men who've experienced what you've written would understand it.

My wife has what I'd swear is a golden glow on her face after she's experienced prolonged sexual euphoria. She was adorably serene and relaxed after getting worked like porn star. She was exceptionally gorgeous. One of my favorite photos of my wife is of her completely naked sitting cross legged on a bed with her tits and pussy completely exposed to us. It's one of my favorite photos of her. She learned at a young age that men want to look and naked women. She's always been willing to accommodate them. Anyway, after a couple hours with a young stud and me, with a few rest breaks, she sat up and asked me to pour her a glass of wine. She was drunk when we started. We fucked her sober. She sipped it while talking to us with concentration on the young stud. He seemed intimidated by her. She asked him in what position he wanted to fuck her. After what seemed like a minute of silence, she told him that most women loved to be fucked doggie. She calmly and serenely sipped her wine while making sure the young stud had unobstructed views of her naturally large tits and her pussy. After her final sip of wine, she grabbed his had and led him to the side of the bed. She bent over it. She told him to bring his dick closer to her. She reached between her legs, grabbed his dick, and slid it inside of her drenched pussy. She told him to hold onto her waist and fuck her as hard as he could. He came in under a minute. She was in her element that evening. She was the essence of sexually confident, incredibly gorgeous, sexually playful, and absolutely adorable. I am most fortunate to have experienced it.